Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by John0721

99% $$$$ can make dream come true

While $$$$ can unlock many MLs, you can't do that to some. And those are very valuable if you ever get it.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by deathnitez

yes the feeling. chemistry yeah. There is always the one which still sticks to you even when you got others.

While many MLs are there for $ or something else, if you found these rare MLs, you are actually breaking someone's heart for a relationship that you can't commit. These MLs are the rare few who really just want to work here and live. They are like the normal girls you date outside.

After meeting so many girls, I really didn't expect this kind of thing to happen. Tbh, I feel very guilty. Now I feel very bad, it feels worse than the breakup with my ex-gfs. Even though I can still meet her, I can feel the hurt in her.

That next guy who is trying to start a relationship with her will need to work really hard (he was a once in a while regular before me). She don't even let him make advances at her even though she still allows me to console, kiss her and more.

Actually, my mind still runs wild when seeing that guy around, somehow I don't like to see someone going after her. So I somewhat demonstrated our feelings we still had for each other in his presence. I think he must be fuming mad. I don't want to hurt her more, otherwise I would go cip her right there. And now she plans to leave, good luck to him, he got to date her in VN LDR. The odds are not very good, I had 4x failed LDR and now doing a 5th one.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by deathnitez

Bro just spend within your means. my friend also just give the girl he like credit card....they got cash to burn so I dont care.

I too spend within my means. if the girls is worth the investment spend but just make sure dont be carrot and burn big hole until bankrupt or whatever. But usually girl which expect gifts like the example you give to me is consider a red flag i will jump to the next target or unless i really want to bed her then after bed liao i go next target.

honestly, when I met the fb at a Pub in sembawang and later found out she works at Orchard towers, I was a dumb ass who did not know anything about dating this class of women.

Sure I had ONS, and flings in UNI but I never needed to pay for a woman.

this fb was branded head to toe. she also pawned alot of stuff to the pawn shops because of her gambling habit

She asked for jewellery, and boasted her ex bf, some ah beng, spend 5k walked into a shop and got her a bag. Straight away they had sex after. He knew the secret code to get her to open he legs.
So very clearly, this trade is all about the remuneration.
I still get a feeling, even after so long, she is a girl with the right price. you offer the right price, she will open her legs, you give her money for casino, she will love you with all the love you want. A very practical mindset

she was even an escort, and she had a jap man who come in and book her whole weekend, and fuck so much never leave the room. At first she claim he was a bf, and they were together, later it was revealed she was an escort and he was a client, who enjoyed her time.

Asking her to go into the relationship put effort, put us first etc...is a painful thing and after much suffering, at times you get a sliver of the affection you want. Always remembering that they are different. They went into a different trade, and that changed them permanently.

Question is, why would a normal girl not go and find a proper job to do, earn money the average way? Why choose a shortcut that they know, will haunt them later? They know later, these clients will recognise them. (mine quit because her son was getting older, and she didn't dare to let him know she was a prostitute)

I believe that a woman who does this trade, has a certain mindset, and it doesn't change much after they quit. That's my POV.

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by Newsasap

A lot of guys don't knows how to handle prc, in real they need something very badly, the Chinese guys are not romantic at all.
They just dropped pants and screw. We can have a lot of ways to do something better. Prc actually likes Singapore men. Their high maintenance is carry over from their hometown chinese men. We need to correct them. 1 word from me.. ah tiong don't know how to make love. Why i know this? Pm me to find out.

While most of the ATK may not know how to show the ATB what is TLC, the rich ones can well afford to spend tons of money to get the ladies to go naked in split second.
Of course the ATB want TLC, but also want money. So, unless you can show them the money, just TLC alone ain't good enough.
No money no honey. Unless you are so young and yandao the ATB will pay to bed you.

[MichaelWinn]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

honestly, when I met the fb at a Pub in sembawang and later found out she works at Orchard towers, I was a dumb ass who did not know anything about dating this class of women.

Sure I had ONS, and flings in UNI but I never needed to pay for a woman.

this fb was branded head to toe. she also pawned alot of stuff to the pawn shops because of her gambling habit

She asked for jewellery, and boasted her ex bf, some ah beng, spend 5k walked into a shop and got her a bag. Straight away they had sex after. He knew the secret code to get her to open he legs.
So very clearly, this trade is all about the remuneration.
I still get a feeling, even after so long, she is a girl with the right price. you offer the right price, she will open her legs, you give her money for casino, she will love you with all the love you want. A very practical mindset

she was even an escort, and she had a jap man who come in and book her whole weekend, and fuck so much never leave the room. At first she claim he was a bf, and they were together, later it was revealed she was an escort and he was a client, who enjoyed her time.

Asking her to go into the relationship put effort, put us first etc...is a painful thing and after much suffering, at times you get a sliver of the affection you want. Always remembering that they are different. They went into a different trade, and that changed them permanently.

Question is, why would a normal girl not go and find a proper job to do, earn money the average way? Why choose a shortcut that they know, will haunt them later? They know later, these clients will recognise them. (mine quit because her son was getting older, and she didn't dare to let him know she was a prostitute)

I believe that a woman who does this trade, has a certain mindset, and it doesn't change much after they quit. That's my POV.

Most of the ex mls still retain old customers number..handy when they need cash...just check in hotel with old customer can get some fast cash rather than do full time Fl...that why some old women still ply this trade lol

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by MichaelWinn

Most of the ex mls still retain old customers number..handy when they need cash...just check in hotel with old customer can get some fast cash rather than do full time Fl...that why some old women still ply this trade lol

that's on point

even though my FB out of the trade for 14 years, she still shows the signs of being one in the trade

Old clients numbers. And even new clients numbers, guess she is FL(free lance) still, even though she does retail now. So she flirts and gets hit on by guys from her shops. I know one guy bought her an iphone, and there are probably more gifts I don't know about. She confessed she had sex with at least 1 of them, amongst the 5 I know of that she went out with. (of course there are many I don't know about). Actually through the years, I questioned my endurance and ability to accept her past, and then she refreshes it with more current incidents, which become past again.

But don't get me wrong, these women they have feelings too. they will chase men they like, ask them out for dinner, movies, flirt with them, and maybe not for money but for romance, love, or sex.

there were many times she gambled and ended up in A&E, and I wondered how could she have money for so many days, some days 3-4 days she just lived there. I think she must have hooked up with some clients, or new clients from there, did the deed, got paid and continued her trade and her gambling.

Well, just 6 months ago, she was diagnosed with HPV, CIN2, so something she had to do surgery for. That's the price to pay for a life in this line. They are normally quite reckless, careless and not very educated, and that can be challenging.

Doubt she learnt her lesson, (and do they ever?) because as I allured to, she had a recent 3 week fling with some guy from the casino, having a good time at countdown.

Damn must ask her to get checked if she's clean.

[lonelyfish]

Damn, I'm really 犯贱。 I couldn't take my mind off my ML, I went down to the spa just to keep her company, listen to her sing songs, chat with her and eat snacks ... Saw a guy approaching, took her for a session, stayed with her after the session and 吃 her 豆腐 until past dinner time ... Spent over 6 hrs in there spending just $50. Wth did I do ... And now I'm causing more damage to myself by listening to her favourite songs on YouTube ...

Tbh, I'm not the only guy who did this. I saw a guy at another spa nearby did a similar thing to his regular ML. Not sure if he fucked that ML or not, but that one is not easy to unlock.

[Newsasap]

Lately a lot of new intake ladies but they are not appealing
and unattractive be it licensed or freelancer. The standard had dropped badly over the years or sex worker not getting enough here so preferred to trade elsewhere. I got a lot of text from mls asking for support. We had people here keep posting for big boob lao charbo that may be the reason the suppliers keep releasing lousy goods to our shore.

[singmarine]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

Damn, I'm really 犯贱。 I couldn't take my mind off my ML, I went down to the spa just to keep her company, listen to her sing songs, chat with her and eat snacks ... Saw a guy approaching, took her for a session, stayed with her after the session and 吃 her 豆腐 until past dinner time ... Spent over 6 hrs in there spending just $50. Wth did I do ... And now I'm causing more damage to myself by listening to her favourite songs on YouTube ...

Tbh, I'm not the only guy who did this. I saw a guy at another spa nearby did a similar thing to his regular ML. Not sure if he fucked that ML or not, but that one is not easy to unlock.

Which ML not easy to unlock?

[Taiwanese]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

This is possible because my last Viet ML is like this. And it is NOT because of price tag. We start a relationship after about 3 months of visit, treat her good to finally start to get it. Totally no transaction at all.

If your ML needs feeling with you to do it and you visited her for a year yet still not in a relationship with her, I don't know what you been doing all this time. My PRC MLs also need relationship, also after about 3 months of visiting. But they were more transactional. If your ML is about the price tag, you probably need to negotiate and pay to get it.

Also, please don't ask me for my Viet ML contact anymore because when we ended the relationship, she now hates this job and decided to quit. Not offering any specials at all from now until she sort it out and leave. I respect her decision and don't want to hurt her anymore.

I feel that she has some feelings for me but I asked if she already has someone but she denied.
I saw them together before but I just cannot get over until I bed her ….
Any good suggestion ?

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by singmarine

Which ML not easy to unlock?

A ML at a TCM. That one RTC alr.

[wongqy1359]

Originally Posted by Taiwanese

I feel that she has some feelings for me but I asked if she already has someone but she denied.
I saw them together before but I just cannot get over until I bed her ….
Any good suggestion ?

How far have you went with your ML?

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Taiwanese

I feel that she has some feelings for me but I asked if she already has someone but she denied.
I saw them together before but I just cannot get over until I bed her ….
Any good suggestion ?

This kind of thing very difficult to suggest anything leh. For these kind of ML, you need to somehow get her to develop better feelings with you. Maybe you are not regular enough? How far have you gotten with her? Can you DFK or full roaming? If you can do these frequently, it adds up a lot of feeling, can get her addicted as well. How much time did you spend with her? If your ML is transactional, did you give her anything? Where do you wanna bed her? At the spa or outside, capped or raw? Unless the ML is die die don't fuck at all, they usually give in about 3 months of effort. Some MLs are kept or have relationship, the chance of you getting into the picture will become less likely.

I spent almost everyday or every 2 days with my ML if possible. It takes quite a lot of effort for the kind of targets I picked. Need to get her to get used to me. Take up her available time as much as I can doing things that don't cost $. Frequent communication in text and video when not there.

I used to visit my PRC MLs 2 times a week at the TCM, after made progress with advancing, get her to meet after work for casual meetup almost daily, sometimes with a little intimacy like DFK and roaming, increasing it every time. My Viet ML was 2 - 3 times a week, made advances at the massage shop. Then went there whenever when I got time to keep her company, listen to her sing songs, share snacks etc. Start a relationship, it lasted for several months. I remained with each ML until they left, I don't have so much time to maintain several MLs at the same time.

Also a tip: Don't share away especially the one you have relationship with.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by wongqy1359

How far have you went with your ML?

It maybe possible that the other guy already got relationship or keeping her. These are the best ways to get priority and have your way with almost everything with the ML.

Just being there sometimes as a regular like once weekly or less won't get you anything. That 60 min of time / week is not enough to develop anything. Even today, I was with my ML for over 6 hrs of time. Even though the relationship can't advance further, we enjoyed our time together. I can still have my way with her more than that guy who stated his intention to date her. Talk is cheap, show up.

[Shadow_warrior]

No one mentioned this, so let me be the devil's advocate

Will anyone have issues about the girl's history after you "get" her to be emotional with you?

You falling in love. Okay. She falls in love with you. Great. After that, will you have issues of going out with her, and fear her clients, lovers bumping into you and her?