An Affair with an older married lady... and the aftermath...

[etsys]

Originally Posted by Shrouded

J: I got a text from Alan yesterday. New number. He said he would kill you if he saw you.

Me: Haha. What?

J: Yeah. I ignored it at first. Then you said you were injured. I was afraid he did something to you.

Me: Shouldn't I be dead if he did something to me? And if you cared enough, you'd have called me earlier. Hahaha.

My 2 cent says, she should instead tell Alan to kill her if he wants her,and take the response to lawyers.

[sexcision]

Mark, ask her out for dinner, see movie etc, get her out for a date. Go after her like normal couples. Just the 2 of u.

Both of you are taking a break from sex with each other. And she maintain that both remains as friends, not cut off from contact. Text her, flirt with her etc.

U do nothing, again she is saying it's hard. Make it not that hard for her pls.

[fwchong]

Jasmine is crying and feeling unsure...

agree with many bros that you should take the first step to woo her and help her overcome her fear...

sometimes taking the lead in this case may be important but do it with respect and concern and not as force

[pooren]

if he threatened to kill , can report police first.get him busy first.

[driedlemon3]

Originally Posted by sexcision

Mark, ask her out for dinner, see movie etc, get her out for a date. Go after her like normal couples. Just the 2 of u.

Both of you are taking a break from sex with each other. And she maintain that both remains as friends, not cut off from contact. Text her, flirt with her etc.

U do nothing, again she is saying it's hard. Make it not that hard for her pls.

This is such a great advice, going into a courtship creates happy moments that isn't just about sex and build a foundation for their long term relationship

[junior_cannibal]

The reason why you felt happy when J visited you but didn't have sex, cause for once you didn't feel like being used as a free dildo.
Ya, one of the bros mentioned you guys should date, go out for a movie, a dinner or just a walk, not just in the house, in the room, on the bed.
If Mark and Darren can combine as one person, the dick size and the endurance all add together, divide by 2, then the person will be a sex god that all the horny pussies will die for.

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

If Mark and Darren can combine as one person, the dick size and the endurance all add together, divide by 2, then the person will be a sex god that all the horny pussies will die for.

This type of person cannot exists. If there is, than all the men will be deprived of tight pussy! If there's any left lol

[diputs1269]

Originally Posted by sexcision

This type of person cannot exists. If there is, than all the men will be deprived of tight pussy! If there's any left lol

Right only exist in the ideal world, cheers!

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by sexcision

This type of person cannot exists. If there is, than all the men will be deprived of tight pussy! If there's any left lol

No lah, not all women are equally horny. There are some who can have zero sex for decades. For this type, they think they need to be convinced the guy is good enough as a bf or husband way before they will strip and have sex.
Also, there are those who think anything more than 10min is too long while the others want a good romp for at least an hour, exclude foreplay.
Pussies come in different shapes, colours and tightness.
No one size of penis fits all.

[Kenkenkenchan]

I still think Shirley is a better choice

[unsung80]

SG longest running drama, even Mediacorpse writers can't win your plot.

[bondage]

Originally Posted by sexcision

Mark, ask her out for dinner, see movie etc, get her out for a date. Go after her like normal couples. Just the 2 of u.

Both of you are taking a break from sex with each other. And she maintain that both remains as friends, not cut off from contact. Text her, flirt with her etc.

U do nothing, again she is saying it's hard. Make it not that hard for her pls.

A healthy intimate relationship is not always about sex. Above advice is great.

[Angelivy69]

Originally Posted by unsung80

SG longest running drama, even Mediacorpse writers can't win your plot.

Taiwan serial drama sure win, very long winded

[asean12345]

Originally Posted by sexcision

Mark, ask her out for dinner, see movie etc, get her out for a date. Go after her like normal couples. Just the 2 of u.

Both of you are taking a break from sex with each other. And she maintain that both remains as friends, not cut off from contact. Text her, flirt with her etc.

U do nothing, again she is saying it's hard. Make it not that hard for her pls.

I told Mark the same on earlier mail. If he really love J and wish to be together with her for real. He need to woo J. I don't know whether now she already fuck Darren or not. But it won't make any different if Mark really love J. To me, she felt insecure. She want to experience new thing which she miss out during marriage.

On the other hands, all the stuff she did till now. Involve Mark , directly or indirectly.

Darren was introduce by Mark
Alicia was introduce by Mark and he fucked her before
Felicia was introduce by Mark and he fucked ber before
Shirley was introduced to the group activities (cycling) because Mark fucked her
Natasha was introduced to the group (gym) and Mark fucked her too

From what I read here. J had make the first move a couple of time already which show that she do care for Mark.

She visited Ann after heard his story and weird lifestyle with the Ann's family
She the only visited Mark house but taking initiate to look into his residential address during CNY.

Earlier I was hoping Mark to pick up the option to focus entirely to woo/date J and stop messing around with all those pussy (its really not easy ---LoL). However, Mark had choose to F Natasha and follow up with Shirley and probably other girl too.

Till now, I still don't know Mark actually love J. He seems comfortable with her around but I didn't read any effort been done from his end.

I wonder, in coming week. Will you decided not to choose J because she finally Fuck Darren or any bro here that you recommended to her and the girls? While expecting J will still love you entirely even though you Fuck Shirley, Natasha, Alicia, Felicia or any other coming your way till her divorce finalize?

[Shrouded]

So I woke up just on time for the morning meeting. I guess the scent of Jasmine on my bed made me want to sleep longer.

After the morning meeting I was waiting for the vendor meeting when Rebecca texted me.

R: Kate's first day and you're on MC. Pretty good example you're setting.

Me: Sorry. I'm really unwell.

R: Exciting weekend huh?

Me: It's not what you think.

R: Right. I'll just show her the admin things. Do your job on Wednesday please.

Me: Will do.

I was somehow expecting her to be a bitch about it but she did not. Maybe she was changing.

Anyway a WhatsApp group chat was set up to coordinate Kate's onboarding.

Jasmine texted me the link for the vendor meeting and we managed to work out a solution within half an hour. She texted me later.

J: Eh. I just met your new exec.

Me: And?

J: She looks butch. Thank god.

Me: Why?

J: One less girl to compete with me.

Me: Very funny.

J: It's true.

Me: Fine.

J: Anyway, be careful if you go out to get food ok?

Me: I'll be fine. Can you stop worrying?

J: I can't. I didn't know he was so crazy.

Me: Doesn't matter.

J: Just take care.

Me: Ok.

I went about my day as usual, didn't see anyone out of the ordinary when I went out to get lunch. My back also seemed to be recovering. Perhaps Jasmine's massage really did work.

Everything else was really just normal.

Tuesday was the same, I WFH again.

I went back to work on Wednesday to find Kate already in the office at 730am even though I had taken my time to have a leisurely breakfast.

K: Hello.

Me: Hi Kate. How are you settling in?

K: It's fine. Haven't really been assigned much work yet. How's your injury?

Me: Recovering.

I wondered who spilled the beans on me. I hoped whoever it was didn't say anything else.

K: Ok. That's good.

I went about doing my own things while waiting for Rebecca to arrive.

We had our morning meeting first, then continued with an internal briefing.

Kate was still undergoing onboarding so she was with Rebecca most of the day. Oddly, both Jasmine and Shirlyn asked me for lunch. I probably should have rejected if I knew how awkward it was going to be.

S: How's your back?

J: How did you know it's his back?

I glanced at Shirlyn, she seemed a little lost for words.

Me: I told her.

S: Yeah.

J: Oh. It's just a bad sprain.

Me: Yeah.

J: I was telling him he probably needs to go to the gym again to build up his core. Don't know what heavy thing he carried that managed to sprain his back.

S: Yeah. He seems a little out of shape…

J: Shall we go cycling again?

S: Sure! But I might want to get my own bike. The one I rode the other day, where can I get one like it?

J: Just buy from him la. You already rode it. Then he can finally buy over my spare bike.

Me: I prefer a foldie. Easier to put in the boot.

J: Bring her to see the bikes then.

S: Good idea. Is there anything smaller actually? I don't really like bikes that are too big, hard to ride.

Maybe my mind was too dirty and somehow I kept comparing her bicycle analogy to cocks, or more specifically, mine and Darren's. And the conversation was just hilarious.

J: Bigger bikes are actually easier to ride. More fun.

S: I guess I need to get used to it.

J: Maybe Mark can bring you to see bikes.

S: On the weekend?

Me: Sure. Why not?

J: Good. Then I expect you to join us more often.

S: How often do you cycle?

J: We try to do it weekly, just to keep fit.

S: Every weekend?

J: Try to. Sometimes on weekdays. Really depends.

S: You're all so much fitter than me.

J: It takes time to build fitness. Go see bikes then join us.

S: Ok.

I wondered why Jasmine was including Shirlyn in their activities. Was she perhaps going to fish for information since she knew Shirlyn didn't mind being my FB? I probably should just come clean with her, since Natasha was definitely spilling the beans.

After lunch work continued as usual. Rebecca pulled me into Shirlyn's office just before we knocked off.

Me: What's going on?

R: I got something to feedback.

S: On?

Me: Me?

R: No. The new girl, Kate.

Me: Huh? How am I involved?

R: You're not. I just want to say I think she's lesbian.

Me: That's her choice right? What's it got to do with us?

R: Kept staring at me during lunch. Then she stroked my arm when I told her a joke.

I looked at Rebecca. She was dressed as she normally was, not too revealing, just the right amount of cleavage.

S: So you're reporting sexual harrassment?

R: Oh no la. Just saying. But I got goosebumps when she stroked my arm.

Me: So she's good with her fingers. So what?

R: What the fuck.

S: Ok. That was inappropriate.

R: Ok fine. I'm just gossipping.

Me: Right.

R: Well, you're the one who will work closely with her.

Me: And?

R: Nothing la. You also not interested in any of us except Jasmine.

Me: Erm.

S: That's enough.

R: Ok. Anyway I just wanted to say I'm handing her over to you.

Me: Already? I thought you have the whole week with her.

R: She's a fast learner. Where are you tomorrow?

Me: Here? But I have an onsite meeting.

R: Bring her along then.

Me: Ok.

R: Great! I'll just update her in the chat group.

I had dinner with Jasmine that night at that steak place in Joo Chiat before sending her back. She was still a little concerned about Alan coming after me but I got home safe anyway.

Thursday I reached the office a little later as I had already bought the day license to drive since I had to be onsite later on.

Kate, as usual, was already there when I entered the office.

K: Hey. What time are we leaving?

Me: Probably around 11?

K: Ok. I'm dressed appropriately right?

Me: It's better that you're in pants rather than a skirt or dress.

K: Yeah. I figured operations has quite a bit of groundwork. Especially site visits.

Me: Good choice.

K: Do we get to wear jeans?

Me: I've never tried. Better check with Rebecca.

K: She's funny and cute. Married right?

Me: Err… yeah?

K: What about you?

Me: I'm neither funny nor cute.

K: I mean are you married?

Me: Nope. It's complicated.

K: Gay?

Me: Lol. Nope.

K: Haha. You don't have to act coy.

Me: Even if I was gay, I doubt any guy would be interested in me.

K: I've been hearing things about you.

Fantastic. Not again. Wonder who it was this time.

Me: Wow. More gossip that I didn't know about.

K: Get used to it. You're the only other guy in this office.

Me: What did you hear?

K: You rejected a threesome with the finance and marketing girls.

Me: Hmmm.. interesting.

K: I don't really pay much attention to gossip. But that was juicy.

Me: Right.

K: Were you really asked for a threesome?

Me: Nope. Just gossip.

K: Something must have happened for that gossip to exist right.

Me: Not really. Nothing happened. I guess when ladies are bored they'll create fantasies?

K: Ah ha! Knew it. Something happened. Otherwise why would they even want to fantasize about you?

Me: That's not what I meant.

K: I should ask around more.

Me: Don't think you'll find out much.

K: Just kidding. Not interested in office gossip. Or politics. Or whatever that isn't related to work.

Me: That's good. Probably a good idea to take what others say with a pinch of salt.

We had the morning meeting as usual and I briefed Kate on the operational jobscope as best as I could. To be honest, a lot of things were adhoc and learnt on the job. There was very little prerequisite knowledge or qualifications necessary, just a keen eye for detail, adherence to deadlines and service level agreements, and of course good communication skills.

We headed out to the clients' site at 11am and reached in around half an hour. It was a new premise setup for one of our existing clients so we met with the boss and our vendors.

The meeting concluded faster than expected and we had lunch nearby.

K: That was easy.

Me: Existing client so we more or less understand their requirements.

K: How long have you been in this job?

Me: Over a year.

K: Wow. Just over a year and you're a manager?

Me: I guess I was lucky? I didn't screw up and my manager resigned suddenly.

K: Who did you sleep with to make this happen?

Me: Nobody?

K: Your progression is too fast. I've worked in SMEs before while studying, with a diploma you can be an exec for years before being promoted to senior exec.

Me: And?

K: I know of people who will sleep their way to the top.

Me: Doesn't happen here.

K: Maybe. Maybe not. The management level here is mostly girls. And I doubt sleeping with you is going to get me anywhere.

Me: It definitely wouldn't.

K: Not interested in guys anyway.

Me: Oh?

K: You really can't tell?

Me: I don't judge.

K: Neither do I. But a threesome with those two cute girls is something I wouldn't pass on if I was a guy.

Me: That's not something I would be interested in even if it really happened.

K: Yeah. Guess you're one of those good guys.

Me: I try to be.

K: What's the deal with you and AGM ah? You seem pretty close.

Me: Huh?

K: Like you're always talking to her and going for lunch.

Me: She was my direct manager ah. HR manager before this.

K: Oh.

Me: You're interested in her ah?

K: She's hot leh. Her boobs.

Me: I was kidding.

K: I wasn't. But probably better to stop gossiping about our colleagues.

Me: Yeah.

K: What about Jasmine? She looks pretty fuckable too.

Me: I thought you said to stop talking about our colleagues.

K: I'm just trying to figure everyone out.

Me: In my time here, I can safely tell you I've figured nobody out.

K: What? Are you that antisocial?

Me: Yeah.

K: Must have had some traumatic experience.

Me: Perhaps.

We finished our lunch and headed back to the office.

Rebecca told me she needed Kate on Friday as there was a new project and she wanted Kate and Karen to work together on it. I didn't have much to teach her for now anyway so I handed her over again.

Natasha had texted me to remind me that she wanted to see me on Friday night and I told her sure, but it would have to be a quick one. She was fine with that and told me to drop by after 11pm to her place.

Friday was mostly paperwork day. I had lunch with both Jasmine and Shirlyn and the topic of bicycles came up again. In the end I told Shirlyn I'd bring her to take a look on Saturday morning.