Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1402

damong777 · #**21016** 18-10-2014, 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Close but no cigars...better let d777 say himself or he wants to say at all...

Was impressed with him for understanding the WL culture so fast...experience always important...

Got good teacher ma...

And pays to read up 1,000 pages of forum here. Really open eyes.

Then go solo in vn twice. Going fourth time. Not staying hcm. Seeing places more fun and able to understand their culture more.

damong777 · #**21017** 18-10-2014, 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Then u can learn vietnamese from them too

Rather not.

Then can know what they talk in private in case of sticky situation e.g. Theft or variance in settlement.

Working and playing different ball games.

damong777 · #**21018** 18-10-2014, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Singapore only a few supermarkets. Not Fairprice, then its Giant or Cold Storage. Small ones maybe Isetan ? lol

Quota must check with my hr. I know got quota for malaysian, prc and pinos. Not sure for viets

damong777 · #**21019** 18-10-2014, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by devilcheong

Bro.. I think I don't want find vb gf anymore.. juz makes friends wif them only...

I better stick to my wife from now onwards...

Be careful bro. A lot of things start from being friend and helpful.

damong777 · #**21020** 18-10-2014, 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by devilcheong

Now I'm just worried that she might turned to be WL or FL if she could not find money doing decent job currently.. haizzzzz...

Bro. U need to move on. Worrying for her no use. Maybe she ady got plan b standby Liao. No point mopping over it. There are always the source to go too.

Vn prey on soft heart not meant for u if u cannot tame her.

Example after I break off with first vn, she still SMS me and say she miss me. I juz ignore her. And last I talk to her was after 2 months, I hang the phone when the topic start on $$$...not interested to hear. Yet she just can SMS me after that. No point to be gentleman 100% with them. They respect strength in character but prey on any weakness.

Another example my current vb in vn, teaching her budgeting skills. If you outspend, too bad I will not give u more. That is to prepare her mindset that yes I can provide for u to a limit but no I am not atm. And she is prepared to accept not going out. She had been staying at home watching tv and learning english for past 10 days. Got tracker in phone to check just in case.

damong777 · #**21021** 18-10-2014, 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Toastbox, icing house, breadtalk... All same mgmt right?
what i heard is they employ vb on some temp pass..

Yes same management group.

Temp pass?? Tough now as mom very strict on issuing wp/sp now. Worse is when time to renew...

damong777 · #**21022** 18-10-2014, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

can never get cheap on long weekends la...

U going next week deepavali? I take it

devilcheong · #**21023** 18-10-2014, 01:08 AM

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Originally Posted by damong777

Bro. U need to move on. Worrying for her no use. Maybe she ady got plan b standby Liao. No point mopping over it. There are always the source to go too.

Vn prey on soft heart not meant for u if u cannot tame her.

Example after I break off with first vn, she still SMS me and say she miss me. I juz ignore her. And last I talk to her was after 2 months, I hang the phone when the topic start on $$$...not interested to hear. Yet she just can SMS me after that. No point to be gentleman 100% with them. They respect strength in character but prey on any weakness.

Another example my current vb in vn, teaching her budgeting skills. If you outspend, too bad I will not give u more. That is to prepare her mindset that yes I can provide for u to a limit but no I am not atm. And she is prepared to accept not going out. She had been staying at home watching tv and learning english for past 10 days. Got tracker in phone to check just in case.

Bro D777... does your vb ask u to financially support her parents and needed u to provides her some pocket money too?
Guess I'm really too soft hearted... I do check on her these few days about her whereabouts and care for her daily life's but she replies me with very few msg compared to previously...
I do care for her as maybe I felt guilty of keeping her so long besides me and having to xxxx her so much too.. or I accidentally abit fall in love with her??? Anyway I'm still keeping my distance from her till now.. only exchanging msg in wechat nowadays but rarely she replies..

SingViet · #**21024** 18-10-2014, 05:48 AM

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Originally Posted by devilcheong

Bro D777... does your vb ask u to financially support her parents and needed u to provides her some pocket money too?
Guess I'm really too soft hearted... I do check on her these few days about her whereabouts and care for her daily life's but she replies me with very few msg compared to previously...
I do care for her as maybe I felt guilty of keeping her so long besides me and having to xxxx her so much too.. or I accidentally abit fall in love with her??? Anyway I'm still keeping my distance from her till now.. only exchanging msg in wechat nowadays but rarely she replies..

Why should she reply you when you are not giving her the money she wants? Most VBs are out for the money and seriously, how can they be true love without money? If you want to show concern and continue with her, the only way is to satisfy her demand for money.

SingViet · #**21025** 18-10-2014, 05:54 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Keep cheonging daily/weekly sure get bored
Since my son is born, i cut down drastically liao... Now about time to send him to school, i cut all my entertainment liao..

I am glad to hear that. Watching your son grow up and planning for his education is another source of joy. As your son progress through the years, more budget will be needed for his education. I only managed to guide my twin gals in their schoolwork till Primary 3. Their Primary 4 maths is confusing and totally different from our time. Just the budget for my gals' maths and chinese tuition per month comes up to around $800. Weekends afternoons are all reserved for my gals' tuition sessions. They are in their schools' Primary 4 first class and i want them to maintain their academic standard. Every 6 months when i go to their school for the Parents- Teachers' Conference, what i get are praises from the form teacher. This is so much better than me as my mother always get complains when she met my form teachers last time. hahahah

MIFAcafe · #**21026** 18-10-2014, 08:26 AM

Money is always involve with relationship with VB. Unless she has rich parent.

I am not asking guys to be stingy toward girl. Just give enough and let her settle her problem. And try to avoid those Vb that keep asking more and more .......

Hurricane88 · #**21027** 18-10-2014, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by damong777

U going next week deepavali? I take it

just came back la....how to go again...huhu....

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Originally Posted by damong777

Got good teacher ma...

I am humbled...

Hurricane88 · #**21028** 18-10-2014, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

I am glad to hear that. Watching your son grow up and planning for his education is another source of joy. As your son progress through the years, more budget will be needed for his education. I only managed to guide my twin gals in their schoolwork till Primary 3. Their

watching your own children grow up is priceless and magical....better dun miss the opportunity...becos the period is rather short...when they are secondary school there is really nothing much parents can do except provide the encouragement...

SingViet · #**21029** 18-10-2014, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

watching your own children grow up is priceless and magical....better dun miss the opportunity...becos the period is rather short...when they are secondary school there is really nothing much parents can do except provide the encouragement...

Yes, totally agree

damong777 · #**21030** 18-10-2014, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by devilcheong

Bro D777... does your vb ask u to financially support her parents and needed u to provides her some pocket money too?
Guess I'm really too soft hearted... I do check on her these few days about her whereabouts and care for her daily life's but she replies me with very few msg compared to previously...
I do care for her as maybe I felt guilty of keeping her so long besides me and having to xxxx her so much too.. or I accidentally abit fall in love with her??? Anyway I'm still keeping my distance from her till now.. only exchanging msg in wechat nowadays but rarely she replies..

That is all within the budget given to her. I do not believe is alot. Will not give her more. If not I become pap or atm.

Technically your gal ady write u off as bad debt once u say ko co tien. Just move and learn from it.