Regret Marrying A China Wife?

[Spud_Boy]

Originally Posted by sun814

haha i m one of those men u mentioned who is happily married to a ex-fl for more than 1 year now with a daughter (from her previous marriage). maybe my case is one of the few exceptions. don't blame u for having such thoughts.

well, there are 2 sides to a coin.. & in whatever profession, there are the gd 1s, the not-so-gd 1s & the bad 1s.. just dat in particular professions, the percentage of gd & bads differ..

bro, great dat u found a wife whom u r happy wif.. i think dat's the most impt..

[naughtynellies]

hey bro,

i've met 2 PRC girls .


one i picked up from GL who was on her way to meet her singaporean bf.
while we were f**king she kept assuring her bf on the phone she was on her way.

the other was a fl. she has a bf and going to get married... she told me proudly her bf doesn't know her activities.

i strongly advise you to cut this off.. i know sounds cold. but i think you'll look back and feel good about it.

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by naughtynellies

hey bro,

i've met 2 PRC girls .


one i picked up from GL who was on her way to meet her singaporean bf.
while we were f**king she kept assuring her bf on the phone she was on her way.

the other was a fl. she has a bf and going to get married... she told me proudly her bf doesn't know her activities.

i strongly advise you to cut this off.. i know sounds cold. but i think you'll look back and feel good about it.

Brothers, imagine how those two SG brothers feel if they were at the altar and discovered the truth. Just terrible. Brothers I know we all graduated from NUS or your parents sent you abroad for top flight education and we are successful in or chosen fields etc. Think we are smart but I assure you very few if none have the ability to handle these girls. You might think you are in world of pleasure but it is likely to end in a world of hurt on you and maybe even affect your future normal relationships. Take the advice of other brothers and heal yourself.

[pussyidol]

Originally Posted by naughtynellies

hey bro,

i've met 2 PRC girls .

.....
i strongly advise you to cut this off.. i know sounds cold. but i think you'll look back and feel good about it.

Sad sad, but there are always good ones and the bad ones. I will suggest only look for those with decent jobs, not street walkers or those on visiting pass - they are here for quick $$

[newbie23]

I't only 1 year++. Has she become Citizen already ?

Many PRC divorced their hubbies once they obtained Sg citizenship or exhausted every cent from their husbands

Originally Posted by sun814

haha i m one of those men u mentioned who is happily married to a ex-fl for more than 1 year now with a daughter (from her previous marriage). maybe my case is one of the few exceptions. don't blame u for having such thoughts.

[newbie23]

I think you're wrong here. If you married a PRC in China, you're still considered as married in Singapore. This means if you marry another in Singapore, you're breaching the law and could be jailed.

Likewise, if a PRC already married in China and marries you in Singapore, she is breaking the law too. Just that it's difficult to prove that unless ICA receives the tip-off

Originally Posted by casanovano

Bro apple:
ask urself 1st... you say there is no different from you having a local or prc wife due to ur travel business trip than ask urself this.. if u married with her where is she going to stay..??? in singapore ?? for what half of the time you are not here... yes married her please if u love her... AND TEACH U A CLEVER WAY MARRIED HER IN CHINA I.E register her there.. in this way, u save a lot of trouble... she live there... things there are cheaper guess what?? anything goes wrong their law seldom can reach and affect ur asset here... another plus point is even u both not togather u still have ur single status here.... hehehehe because she is already there, she will not be affected by our singapore thinking complain non stop.... instead you gave her a status back home... easier to manage things..

Disclaimer: i only see my bro do this and happen to work out well for him.. so if u do not work well please dun blame you bro here i am also trying to be nice and help...

[lacoruna69]

For GUYS in Sillypore, as long you don't get married. You will live longer and happier.
TRUST me.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by newbie23

I't only 1 year++. Has she become Citizen already ?

Many PRC divorced their hubbies once they obtained Sg citizenship or exhausted every cent from their husbands

if u don’t hv mutual trust, no matter where is she frm, then don’t get married.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by naughtynellies

hey bro,

i've met 2 PRC girls .


one i picked up from GL who was on her way to meet her singaporean bf.
while we were f**king she kept assuring her bf on the phone she was on her way.

the other was a fl. she has a bf and going to get married... she told me proudly her bf doesn't know her activities.

i strongly advise you to cut this off.. i know sounds cold. but i think you'll look back and feel good about it.

i also at least 3-4 such PRCs through my PRC wife, but that shouldn’t be an excuse that deters u from engaging them as partners/friends as most of them are not.

[RealEstateGuy]

"Many PRC divorced their hubbies once they obtained Sg citizenship or exhausted every cent from their husbands"

I know of a guy (Han Chinese) from the UK who bought an apt for a PRC gal in the name of "love" in her name and in preperation for "marriage." About 1.5 years after, she broke it off, sold the apt and used the proceeds to buy another. SG brothers, you don't have the smarts to deal with these gals. If you got KC out of gifts and just money, consider yourself lucky and a lesson learned.

[ahit1]

Dear TS

A piece of advice for you, if you really crazy over her and wan to marry her, register your marriage with her in china, instead of in singapore. And make plans to have your retirement over at china with her. Cause there is women chapter in singapore, and they will tend to abuse that women chapter to get something from you when things turn out nasty in future....Anyway china now is very modern already, no longer like that very 'jialat' living conditions in the past. So can consider settle there for retirement.

If you really want to marry her here, dun ever ever apply PR for them unless you are very very sure she is the one for you and she did not cheat you. Long term pass is enough already and the long term pass can be extended anyway, so what for apply pr for her to drive you nuts in future. Anyway you just want her by side rite?

I have a real-life experience happen to my frend who married a foreign wife. His wife treat him very nice at first but he realise that she is actually cheating on him behind his back all along, with her china bf working here. Her attidue towards my friend start change after my friend apply PR for her. Lucky the PR was not approved. Wife now start to question why the condo still haven't include her name. From there, very obvious you know what will happen next.

Also i not saying all PRC are bad, cause I know a couple whose wife also a PRC, still happily together so far, after 3 years of marriage.

My point is must always tik for yourself when marry foreigner as your wife, espcially PRC, as 90% are making use of us to get something out of us. They dun really want to settle down with you for lifetime. And dun tik that they dun know anything about singapore rules and regulations here. They probably already have frends over here for a long time to teach them what to do. Give them a year or 2, they probably know the laws by heart, faster than you study law in university and they will find loopholes to overcome them.

Look at Gong Li case can already... See what she did to her rich hubby after she got her citizen, end up still divorce. Very obvious she is making use of that singaporean hubby to get citizenship to get singapore passport to advance her shooting career. Cause she know china passport need alot paperwork to be submitted to any country when travelling around for filiming overseas. Singapore passport no need so troublesome. Probably now she is discussing with her bf how much she can get for maintenance from her ex-hubby.

Just be very careful with your decision. Be prepared to give up her if you find out someting not right about her in the near future.

All the best and hope things work out well for you!!!!

[Lone_Wolf]

Originally Posted by sun814

haha i m one of those men u mentioned who is happily married to a ex-fl for more than 1 year now with a daughter (from her previous marriage). maybe my case is one of the few exceptions. don't blame u for having such thoughts.

Married only 1 year is still too short to tell..... wait another few years then the fox tail will start to appear.

But I oso hope yours is really an exception to the norm..... good luck !

[Lone_Wolf]

Originally Posted by lacoruna69

For GUYS in Sillypore, as long you don't get married. You will live longer and happier.
TRUST me.

Veri true !!!

F*CK THE WOMENS CHARTER !!!

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by ahit1

Wife now start to question why the condo still haven't include her name. From there, very obvious you know what will happen next.

Warning: Based on my understanding of the Women's Charter, the matrimonial home can be split between the husband and the wife, even if the wife's name isn't in it or the house was bought before marriage. Better get your friend to consult a lawyer on this. Don't learn the hard way. Cos when she wants a divorce, she will engage a Singaporean lawyer who will then tell her she can get a share of the matrimonial home.

I've a friend who bought the house under his 70 year old father's name. The loan is in the father's name too. How to get a bank loan when the borrower is 70? Simple, the son signed an undertaking that he will be the guarantor of the father's loan. Then he got his father to write a will to will the house to him in the event of death. If his wife divorces him, she really gets nothing.

For this friend of yours, if worse come to worse, get him to rent out this current house. Take the rental from this current house to rent another house. The idea is to remove the existence of a matrimonial home. Or he can sell his current house and get his parents to buy a house under the parents's name. Complicated but worth it if you don't wish to get screwed by Women's Charter.

[joew2005]

Alot of Sg ppl r still thinking tat they r top notch on tis planet .....

u studied @ NUS or some top uni .... alot of ppl on tis planet r smarter & better than u.

U think u r successful in yr career,but u r still an employee only.
There r so many ppl in india & china tat r more well-off than alot of sg ppl.

Sg ppl think they r smart, but r they so smart like some co tat till date r still giving "donations" in overseas investments !!