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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
Love is a battlefield. How many of us can say we truly married the one
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#1982
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Very well said
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#1983
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#1984
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Quote for truth
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#1985
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thats why till now not married yet, as i cannot find one that i truly love
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#1986
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You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind Instead of slamming down the phone girl, for the hundredth time I got your number on my wall, but I ain't gonna make that call When divided we stand baby, united we fall Got the time got a chance gonna make it Got my hands on your heart gonna take it All I know I can't fight this flame You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind Cause I'm crazy 'bout you baby, time after time Without you One night alone Is like a year without you baby Do you have a heart of stone Without you Can't stop the hurt inside When love and hate collide I don't wanna fight no more, I don't know what we're fighting for When we treat each other baby, like an act of war I could tell a million lies and it would come as no surprise When the truth is like a stranger, hits you right between the eyes There's a time and a place and a reason And I know I got a love to believe in All I know got to win this time [Repeat Chorus] [SOLO] You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind Cause I'm crazy 'bout you baby...Crazy...Crazy Without you One night alone Is like a year without you baby Do you have a heart of stone Without you One night alone Is like a year without you baby If you have a heart at all Without you Can't stop the hurt inside When love and hate collide
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爱一生中不多不少,会有一次不得了,其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬,我陪你日夜颠倒,爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
a beauty; a blessing... a pauper; a curse... a beautiful impecunious; not sure if its a blessing or a curse |
#1987
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#1988
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I didn't marry the person I loved, I married the one I can live with
the one I loved, kept breaking my heart, cheating, lying, was selfish, self centred, but I felt the most for her, hurt the deepest for her, make me feel small, and that the whole relationship was about her and her needs. so I chose the one that I could live with and have some peace in my life life is not just about my feelings and what I want. there are other obligations I need to focus on too. My parents, my career, my loved ones who love me I love the one who didn't love me, but loved herself, so I married the one I could live with and still have my dignity and part of myself.
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The Best Way to overcome heart break is in the arms of another. You focus on making money, you get girls, you focus on your body, you get sex, you focus on the girl, you get NOTHING but heartache and disappointment |
#1989
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Most of us are these way too
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#1990
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Well said.
Loving someone doesn’t mean u must be tgt with her. Quote:
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#1991
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A question for all married couples here. What is the difference between work and marriage? In work, you make a commitment to learn, problem solve fast and get rewarded for it continuously (with bonus, new titles, etc). The rewards are tangible, you can see and feel them and you're adored by others if you're a good leader, teacher, etc. That's why we work 'smart' at work. Why doesn't a similar logic apply to love? Because if sex and love is the only rewards than you're missing the subtext of what makes relationships function better. As freeze already said, it requires you to shift your mind and not get lazy. Because similar to work if you get lazy - you get no rewards and indirectly you don't learn anything new to push yourself; which is indirectly bad not just for work, but for marriage. Romance is something that starts in the mind first, not in your pants (even if you're married). I'm not saying it's easy - but I'm suggesting why it's easier to look elsewhere and say 'this is how life is'. Bullshit, I don't believe that. You create your own circumstance, especially when there's a word called 'divorce' or you can quit from your job; regardless of what your responsibilties are. For your own sanity (and quite possibly for the sanity of your partner), if things don't work out, at least draw up the courage to leave and start a new - but please don't go through the same cycle as freeze mentioned. |
#1992
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#1993
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Used to think i married the love of my life. Now after uncovering some lies, I regret marrying him.
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#1994
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It's sad but true, many regret after marrying...not sure why tis shd be so....why can't things be known b4 signing on the dotted line ?...sigh
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#1995
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After marriage, lies and ugly truths come out. |
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