Gers Are Still Gers

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by easybaby

Personally, i do not believe in spending all my guy's money and not even forking out a single bit la. i'll feel bad making him pay for everything.

Well, that is nice of you then but not all, in fact many gals will simply brush it off especially when it is the guy who date the gal.

Originally Posted by easybaby

Anyway, some guys out there are equality guilty of taking their girl's efforts for granted.. I know of some guys who leech off their girlfriends too.. jobless, gaming at home everyday, use sweet talk to ask for money from their girl.

This goes both way though, if the girl is willing then there is nothing much we can do. Likewise, if a guy willing to splurge on the gal and run into debts, still this is his call.

Originally Posted by easybaby

Some guys are just as hard to please... too sticky and they say there's no personal space.. too independent and they doubt that the girl loves him.. sometimes it's not so easy for girls to strike a balance between the two, you know..

True enough, but more than often this happen on the girl side.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by easybaby

Personally, i do not believe in spending all my guy's money and not even forking out a single bit la. i'll feel bad making him pay for everything.

Anyway, some guys out there are equality guilty of taking their girl's efforts for granted.. I know of some guys who leech off their girlfriends too.. jobless, gaming at home everyday, use sweet talk to ask for money from their girl.

Some guys are just as hard to please... too sticky and they say there's no personal space.. too independent and they doubt that the girl loves him.. sometimes it's not so easy for girls to strike a balance between the two, you know..

i guess we're all constantly puzzled by the common query "when is enough, enough?"... both parties r sometimes at fault for not trying hard enough, while sometimes also faulted for trying too hard. every individual have different threshold for pain or fulfilment, wat works for 1, may nt be applicable for another too.

reference to you example cited, leaves me to wonder y would any1 in the right mind be wanting a bummer for a partner? as if the situation in sg is not already tough enough to make ends meet (for some), or materialize wedding plans (for some others), or make babies (for another lot)... etc. if he's nt even trying enough to be self-sufficient? then y does it warrant burden to be bourne by the partner?

guy/gal demanding TLC & attention from the partner, expecting hourly updates, sprinkled with lotsa paranoia... etc. seems to me is just how ppl try very hard to mimic drama series.

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

guy/gal demanding TLC & attention from the partner, expecting hourly updates, sprinkled with lotsa paranoia... etc. seems to me is just how ppl try very hard to mimic drama series.

You will be surprise….like many says “Love Is Blind.” And indeed many are “Blinded” by so many facts and truths which they choose and yes they choose to ignore and overlook.

[sexhorny]

i have seen my male friend asking their gf for money.

[Deep Blue]

Originally Posted by sexhorny

i have seen my male friend asking their gf for money.

Yes. And ask money for??

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

You will be surprise….like many says “Love Is Blind.” And indeed many are “Blinded” by so many facts and truths which they choose and yes they choose to ignore and overlook.

ya, indeed quite alarming. i mean, if he/she is your's... then is your's lor. no need to fret so much on their hourly itinerary.

for those who insist on such updates, then its better off tagging the partner/spouse with GPS tracking device. as n when need an update, can perhaps over-write NASA satellite to get 1:100 scale aerial view on his/her movements.

[JWNY]

this seems to be a hot topic these days

2008 June archive -- Just Jean

JWNY

[pfingo]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

ya, indeed quite alarming. i mean, if he/she is your's... then is your's lor. no need to fret so much on their hourly itinerary.

for those who insist on such updates, then its better off tagging the partner/spouse with GPS tracking device. as n when need an update, can perhaps over-write NASA satellite to get 1:100 scale aerial view on his/her movements.

better not bro never watch crying game meh?

[tomvoyeur]

Leeching is always bad - male or female period! But society seems to take a sterner view on that if the culprit is male.

[undermyarms]

if gf is really (xiao qi) in chinese or easily get angry how to make her easily please

[tetsuo]

my real life issues i deal with.

THE PICKUP THING
wife: dear, can pick me up?
me: we havent bought a car yet besides I am still rushing for deadline.
wife: but i'm carrying alot of things
me: let me know how much is taxi, will refund you later
LATER
wife: "comes back with long face"
wife: why you dont want to help me carry?
me: you hardly exercise, it's good for you.




HER NOTHINGNESS
me: what's wrong?
wife: nothing.
me: you sure?
wife: "silent"
me: you very sure?
wife: nothing.
me: if you want to say something, say now.
wife: "silent"
10 MINS LATER
wife: aaa (before she says finish the first word)
me: not interested in hearing anymore.



FOOD/DINNER
me: any preferences?
wife: er...
me: meepok?
wife: I wearing white shirt
me: chicken rice?
wife: dont like the chicken
me: duck rice?
wife dont like the duck, too oily
me: fried rice?
wife: too plain
me: go buy yourself.


SEX
wife: i'm very tired dear
2nd night
wife: i'm very tired dear
~~~~~
1 month later,
wife: i'm very tired dear
~~~~~
2 months later
me: not tonight dear, i already did myself.
**we have sex like 10 times a year seriously.



NAG
wife: nag nag nag nag nag nag
me: if you want to say something, dont mumble.
wife: nag nag nag
me: what?
wife: nag nag nag
me: what?
wife: "shuts up."



BOYS WILL BE BOYS
wife: see! boys wont grow up
me: if boys dont grow up, then how we imagine the impossible and make it possible, like nasa?
wife: boys will always have their toys.
me: but not as many as girls with their bags and shoes. boys may choose not to grow up but girls never grew.
wife: "shuts up"





SHOPPING
wife: dear, this bag very nice.
me: this looks similar to something you have @ home
wife: it's different, somemore very cheap. (smiles and winks @ me)
me: be right back, i go smoke.





NEW HANDPHONE( just happened a few days ago.)
me: dear, i got touch pro2 for you.
wife: really? "opens box" quite nice leh.
me: you like it?
wife: but it's not really what i want.
me: so you dont like it?
wife: i like it, but my phone is still working
me: ok then i use it for myself "walks away with the phone"


DINING TABLE
wife: dear, i want to change dining table
me: to what?
wife: i want bar top like style
me: (goes out to buy one)

1 month later
wife: dear, table not my style, too high for me. not the same height as normal bar top
me: it's the same height lah, i measured it.

me: (goes out to modify the legs shorter)
wife: dear, the table too low, very uncomfortable
me: i only reduce it by 10cm!!! it's only 95cm now
wife: nags nags nags nags
me: what?
wife: (shuts up)

next month,
goes with her to choose her table.
wife: wah this so nice, i want this!
me: (waves to get attention from sales rep)
me: please send to this address

1 week later
wife: er dear ah, the table dont fit the interior
me: dont make me throw out the table, it's either you make do with this table or no table.
wife: nag nag nag nag
me: what?
wife: nag nag nag
me : huh?
wife: you just dont get it huh?
me: (throws out a table that is less than 1 week old)
wife: silent

wife: dear the dining hall really empty.
me: go buy yourself. and oh, carry it yourself too.
wife: (shuts up and eat the humble pie)


*i'm not the type to tolerate indecisiveness.

[seawater]

NINE WORDS WOMEN USE

1) FINE: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

2) FIVE MINUTES: If she is getting dressed, this mean a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if u have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3) NOTHING: This is the calm before the storm. This means something , and u should be on ur toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in FINE.

4) GO AHEAD: This is a dare, Not permission. Dont do It !!!!

5) LOUD SIGH: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with u about nothing. ( Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing)

6) THAT'S OKAY: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's Okay mean she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7) THANKS: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. ( I want to add in a clause here- This is true, unless she say "Thanks a lot" - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say "you're welcome" . That will bring on a "whatever").

8) WHATEVER: Is a woman's way of saying F**K YOU !

9) DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT, I GOT IT: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking "What's Wrong?" For the woman 's response refer to #3.

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[fabiann]

this is my experience wif my gal..
happen abt 2 days ago only



Me: Dear today wanna go where?
She: Anywhere lo u choose ba, SG also very sian no where to go..
Me: Arbo we head over to malaysia to walk walk and see see lo..
She: Dun want la.. go there need to sit bus, sit until very tired.
ME: Ok lo.. we go out walk walk, go town area to walk and have our dinner lo.
She: Dun want la.. go town area expensive..
ME: Okay! We dont go town area then go like Vivo or Amk hub lo
She: Dun want la.. very far..
Me: Wa lan.. arbo u tell me where u wanna go ba..
She: Dunno lei u choose lo..
Me: Since go out waste money then we stay home watch our drama series lo
She: HUH! But i am eyeing on the bag in a store for quite sometime liao leh
Me: Then juz now i say go out walk walk u say u dun want then how to buy??
She: i want u to go to that shop and buy for me as a surprise ma..


Walked off speechless.. dunno wat to do or say... girls are difficult sometimes...

[sleaguepunter]

bro fabiann, your post give me a good laugh. give u 3 apples.

[fabiann]

Originally Posted by sleaguepunter

bro fabiann, your post give me a good laugh. give u 3 apples.

ty bro for ur apples )))))