Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[V|ernar]

Originally Posted by jf66312

ok..next time I free I text you ok..?

Vlernar..FR ..good? :P

what more can you ask when it 18 year old and playful .

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

what more can you ask when it 18 year old and playful .

Have you prepared the handover/takeover form?

[V|ernar]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Have you prepared the handover/takeover form?

already go back liao , you also didnt contact me how to hand over to you .

you SEEM very busy with your facebook activity ... lol

you had change .. play more with your son than other girls .

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

what more can you ask when it 18 year old and playful .

looks like have to regular stay updated with you if not got gd stock also miss... :P

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

already go back liao , you also didnt contact me how to hand over to you .

you SEEM very busy with your facebook activity ... lol

you had change .. play more with your son than other girls .

Facebook is smokescreen
Lets go find stock tomorrow..... i contact you after my activity at 2:30pm

I got time till 10pm tomorrow

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

already go back liao , you also didnt contact me how to hand over to you .

you SEEM very busy with your facebook activity ... lol

you had change .. play more with your son than other girls .

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Facebook is smokescreen
Lets go find stock tomorrow..... i contact you after my activity at 2:30pm

I got time till 10pm tomorrow

V|ernar kor kor... Plan changed. MCBB tomorrow as bringing new love vong vong choi till 7pm then go "san bay" @ JC till 10pm.

[V|ernar]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

V|ernar kor kor... Plan changed. MCBB tomorrow as bringing new love vong vong choi till 7pm then go "san bay" @ JC till 10pm.

sigh , me gong gong wait for you in the office .

uncle jack when bring me go out play ?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

sigh , me gong gong wait for you in the office .

uncle jack when bring me go out play ?

You still waiting?
Uncle jack bring vb go up play only

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

sigh , me gong gong wait for you in the office .

uncle jack when bring me go out play ?

Originally Posted by KangTuo

You still waiting?
Uncle jack bring vb go up play only

lai lai lai..reunion time ... :P

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jf66312

lai lai lai..reunion time ... :P

You came so late...
Con gai dep kg?

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by Blast88

Everyone with viet bx have experiences of what you describe, but don't worry they will be localize after 4 -5 years stay in sillypore & even better if got baby, localize faster. Recommend her your sillyporean friends & their wife,
bit by bit educate her on sillypore culture, eventually when her social circle in sillypore widen, she will less contact on Vn friend & relative

...and then they picked up Sg women's habit & educated about the Women's Charter...

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I shall not comment too much as they are many bros here that are super pro-viet. I am not anti-viet but due to my 12 years of business dealings in VN and my long term stay in VN before, i am more wary of them than most bros here. What i can say is that most Singaporeans are simple and honest, compared to vietnamese. Do not assume that they are as simple as Singaporeans, they are surely not. Take precautions when dealing with them.

Well said,singviet,u are the man

[decent02]

bump ... bump ...

This thread like going dead.

Would like to bring out a topic for discussion.
Is regarding Birthday.
One HCMC gal I know attended her friend's birthday yesterday.
This friend of hers has a local vn boyfriend
I have seen the so call boyfriend...typical beng
The birthday celebration is in a private VIP room @seafood restaurant
After dinner, they proceeded to a karaoke.
The gal I know and her friends are in the range of 21 to 23 years old drawing a salary of around 5M. These dinners and after dinner parties will cost the birthday gal a few millions. These gals are from provinces and have been working in hcm for a couple of years.

Tonight the HCMC gal I know is going to another friend's birthday party.

Just a Topic for discussion :

1) Birthday celebration is really a big event for a Vietnamese. Why it is so ?
Is it because there are deprived of birthday celebrations when they are young ?
When I celebrated my 21 years old birthday party many donkey years roi, I dun think I spent that much. Or maybe I'm from another generation Even now during my bd, normally I just treat my friend to drinks and that's it. Not as elaborate as theirs.

2) How much roughly they give ang bao ?

3) These province gals should be working hard to save money and send back to support their families rather than spending unnecessary.

4) Based on their income, I think they are being exorbitant in their bd spending. Who on earth will spend twice their monthly salary in a one-time off bd celebration. Wonder whether they can recoup back with ang baos

[Golden question]

From what I know,vietnamese like 'Face'.Even poor also must show that they are 'can'.

Have how much,spend how much.Today finish,tomorrow then go find money,so basically they don't care.Their so call 'internal pride' is stronger than anything

Order food and drinks,dont care whether they can finish or not.Cannot finish then put there,while sit at roadside eat,'entertain by beggars,people selling their ware or street buskers.

Main thing for them is HAPPY.No money then go borrow,no money return,open leg or con here and there.

Not all is like this but too bad,majority is like that

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by decent02

1) Birthday celebration is really a big event for a Vietnamese. Why it is so ?
Is it because there are deprived of birthday celebrations when they are young ?

reason - ham vui ham choi. kg bit ngay la sao, hnay choixong moi dinh

In sillypore, many vb also celebrate whatever day that can be celebrated. they share money to buy stuff to eat drink and drunk.

As for birthday celebration, many vb will celebrate big by inviting sisters to eat drink and drunk. Most of the sisters will give ang bao $50.... i also give few times already as they invite my bx over

When my bx celebrate birthday, she only take it as an opportunity to earn money. She will prepare seafood steamboat (no beer and liquor) for the party which cost only $150max. All the sisters ang bao money is about $500.