Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

jio sai , you cannot come out on weekend one

No test no know mah

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

you in vietnam my friend .. how to jio

How you know he in vietnam?

[hongkeetong]

Just wanted to share my experience of having a VN partner. Was asked by H88 to do it here instead of HCM thread...off topic over there lah...hehehe

This was the thread
http://sbfsg.agency/showthread....69496&page=166 and i was saying "there are a lot of things to learn and adjust when you marry a VN partner. So guys who are looking for VN partners be prepared"

Married a VN gal a couple of year ago and it's been great. However, it is still a learning curve for both of us in terms of daily life.

1. Language. while we communicate in english (sorry, my viet tieng still non existence), it takes time to understand what we really meant. This adds to our frustration sometimes but it also makes us patient with each other.

2. Relatives. While in sg, we might meet and communicate with relatives once in a while. The vietnamese seems to be in constant communication with relatives including those that are very distant like grandfather's cousin's son blah blah. Always seems to get involved in something.

3. Offering help. The vietnamese love to offer help, to buy or carry things for their friends and relative especially when we travel back to vn. It is so often that i only buy one way baggage to vn. Oh, and they will squeeze every little space out of the bag and try their luck with hang baggage weight . Kena a couple of times because of that.

4. Food. I love viet food but sometimes when wife prepare our meals, i will remind her abt proper wash. I think most people who been to vn will noticed how they prepare their meals on the floor.

These are MY experience. So for guys looking for vn partner be prepared for some of these things and maybe more. Obviously there are people here who have experienced very different things but i guess it's what sharing is for especially trying to understanding your partner who is from a different cultural background

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Wah lao eh... Bo jio...

Originally Posted by jackbl

Bo jio me too

Originally Posted by KangTuo

How you know he in vietnam?

weekend cant jio KT , then jack in Vn..so left only me and Vlernar...:P
not dun want to jio but how to jio? :P

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by jf66312

weekend cant jio KT , then jack in Vn..so left only me and Vlernar...:P
not dun want to jio but how to jio? :P

Still got me

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

you cannot come out on weekend one

weekend i come out watch soccer match wan hor... sometime no watch but go HMB walk walk

Originally Posted by jf66312

weekend cant jio KT

your hp/whatsapp got restriction to jio me on weekend?

[V|ernar]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

No test no know mah

by the way , trang is back .

lucky you didnt come , i ate a 22 and 18 one .. lol

[V|ernar]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

How you know he in vietnam?

cause got inside info ma

[V|ernar]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Still got me

i thought you in vn also ?

[V|ernar]

amazing how they can gamble from day to night , dont go work also can .

start from a 2 dollar ( warm up ) to 1000 dollar per bet on those no skill game ... 3 kings .

those lose money one start to call their honey , lover , sugar daddy , so call husband for money .

instant delivery to house .. 20 vb can have close to 250k on the table at the end of the night .

if you want to find a wife material .. let them gamble first and you watch from behind . simi thought also will gone with the wind

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

by the way , trang is back .

lucky you didnt come , i ate a 22 and 18 one .. lol

Share share if good...
I always eat at HMB

[Blast88]

Originally Posted by hongkeetong

Just wanted to share my experience of having a VN partner. Was asked by H88 to do it here instead of HCM thread...off topic over there lah...hehehe

This was the thread
http://sbfsg.agency/showthread....69496&page=166 and i was saying "there are a lot of things to learn and adjust when you marry a VN partner. So guys who are looking for VN partners be prepared"

Married a VN gal a couple of year ago and it's been great. However, it is still a learning curve for both of us in terms of daily life.

1. Language. while we communicate in english (sorry, my viet tieng still non existence), it takes time to understand what we really meant. This adds to our frustration sometimes but it also makes us patient with each other.

2. Relatives. While in sg, we might meet and communicate with relatives once in a while. The vietnamese seems to be in constant communication with relatives including those that are very distant like grandfather's cousin's son blah blah. Always seems to get involved in something.

3. Offering help. The vietnamese love to offer help, to buy or carry things for their friends and relative especially when we travel back to vn. It is so often that i only buy one way baggage to vn. Oh, and they will squeeze every little space out of the bag and try their luck with hang baggage weight . Kena a couple of times because of that.

4. Food. I love viet food but sometimes when wife prepare our meals, i will remind her abt proper wash. I think most people who been to vn will noticed how they prepare their meals on the floor.

These are MY experience. So for guys looking for vn partner be prepared for some of these things and maybe more. Obviously there are people here who have experienced very different things but i guess it's what sharing is for especially trying to understanding your partner who is from a different cultural background

Everyone with viet bx have experiences of what you describe, but don't worry they will be localize after 4 -5 years stay in sillypore & even better if got baby, localize faster. Recommend her your sillyporean friends & their wife,
bit by bit educate her on sillypore culture, eventually when her social circle in sillypore widen, she will less contact on Vn friend & relative

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

by the way , trang is back .

lucky you didnt come , i ate a 22 and 18 one .. lol

Originally Posted by KangTuo

weekend i come out watch soccer match wan hor... sometime no watch but go HMB walk walk



your hp/whatsapp got restriction to jio me on weekend?

ok..next time I free I text you ok..?

Vlernar..FR ..good? :P

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Still got me

hmmm...number still the same?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

amazing how they can gamble from day to night , dont go work also can .

Sometime u can't blame the gers for gambling.... A lot of kum kum lan kias in oversea transferring money to them. These gers no education, lazy to work, so gamble to pass time.

Someone who dun work n live on others, to the society they are leeches. To the men, they are treasure.