Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

What if it doesn't exist and one continues to believe in true love? Its like self-delusion, if it really doesn't exist. But, if it does exist, its just like finding a needle in a haystack and hoping that you get he needle soon, without having to find until hair turn grey.

what if is always humans think abt.we dont really have other choice,we cant choose who to meet and where to meet them,we have no ctrl over fate.if u dun believe,high chances are u may not even find them cos u didnt even try.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

What if it doesn't exist and one continues to believe in true love? Its like self-delusion, if it really doesn't exist. But, if it does exist, its just like finding a needle in a haystack and hoping that you get he needle soon, without having to find until hair turn grey.

what if is always humans think abt.we dont really have other choice,we cant choose who to meet and where to meet them,we have no ctrl over fate.if u dun believe,high chances are u may not even find them cos u didnt even try.

[no_faith]

if u believe true love still exist, you have to be patience, wait, fight, search, try again even u have failed in love for numberous times,
if u dun believe, no need to tink so much liao

wat is 'true love'?
i only noe making love.....

[no_faith]

if u believe true love still exist, you have to be patience, wait, fight, search, try again even u have failed in love for numberous times,
if u dun believe, no need to tink so much liao

wat is 'true love'?
i only noe making love.....

[Manggo]

Originally Posted by playboy82

Often, i hav tot alot abt this, especially when i am going to work and after work,
and i started to think back, during sch time, gf are hard to find cos not handsome enough, then some more that time no balls also, unlike now, can approach any gals, then when u enter poly, tats no pretty gals in ur same class and all ur friends are mostly guys, single, n of course,they also hav no gals to intro to u cos even they themself can't get gf. Then wat can we do, other than to surf net, msn, friendster to find gals, but all the gals are so "dao" if u can get a reply, can consider very lucky,but of course i do get a few ons n flings from this type of channel, but although every time i get into this kinda of " play play " affair,even though i know that this kinda relationship won't work but every time i will treat it like a serious relationship, maybe deep deep down inside my heart , i do longed for a fairy tale like ending.

Then when u stepped into the working society, u find that ur working area also got no gals, mostly all married old woman, so no chance to get to know suitable gals too.And after work, i would listen to sad love song, thinking how difficult is to fall in love. And when u alone at home, i would cry sometimes, seriously, no joking, when u notice that u are so alone in ur life that there's not even a single caring gal who will ask u something like how is ur work
today, tough? I mean such a simple gesture that i see from other couple is
such a normal simple everyday thing to them, but to me, is like striking toto.
When i am young, i use to hope to live life simple,like those Qin Mei Zhu Ma, to married the gal i like n live happily ever after, not when i grew older, i come to realise that it is something like " mission impossible".

So wat can i do, i cannot jus anyhow approach gal which i like in the street and ask them for a date right. So wat can i do, other then to go geylang, and surf sammyboy. Seriously this forum is like become the core to my life ord, addicted to it, and also i notice alot other samsters is also trying to find their fairy tale love life, but in vain, thats y we go geylang and so emphasis "GF" feeling when we visit lorong 18,we are so pathatic that we hav to turn to a pro for some time limiting and costly "GF" feeling.

And often , i longed for someone to hug when i am feeling down, but deep down, i also know that love can't be force, and preciesly becos i know this, i am feeling more sad, how i wish that Love can be bought, then it will make things less complicating for me, at less i know that if i got the $$, i can have love.Thats y so many ppl turn to china or viet for option to marry wife. But in reality, it is not like that , $$ can't buy love., Up till now, i still wonder how my life will be in future, but i have a strong feeling that that's it for me ord, nothing big turn or twist will happen to me, still i will visit geylang,go home after work, visit sammyboy, then when i am old, die lonely.


Anyone here share the same thoughts as me? Is this the meaning of life?

bro, i agree wif u
nowaday it is a hard to find a true love
and i feel regret about college life
should get one gal but all of them are suck
then it come to work area
still dont have a gf, call my self a loser
watching other couple in clubing with their gal make me
n my friend who dont have a gal feel jealous
but yes, we have a gal, its is just for ons only
not a gf, then when it a time to bring a gal to home and bonk
till morning its is a best part, sometime when i look at gal that laying
beside me, i wish she was my GF, but not, she just only a whore or ons
but seriously i really wish they are my GF.

[DenmarkDoll]

It is all karma keeping this world go round.That is why, earth is round.Plant a good karma and u shall get back a good one sooner or later.

Whether 'true love' exist is also beyond our control. Need not be BGR when we are talking about 'true love' . Our parents? Our sibilings? Our friends? Those are also love right? What we humans really understand about 'love'? It takes lessons after lessons in life to see thru what we really log for...

denmarkdoll.. why must state SBF Nick with MSN address when pming???

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by playboy82

So you all tell me, which gal will still eat cup noodle with us when times are hard. All of the gals will sure say they are not vain, not into car or handsome bf, i mean who will say that they are thief when they really are.
What i wanted to say are, most gals may NOT REALLY go for car and looks, but then when someone with car and looks come along, they will stand a better chance,, who will still care abt chemistry, feeling and the character of the guy who is poorer.

Like good character, good genes, high education etc, money is also an asset. Nevertheless, Money alone will not help you get the girl but it does help.

I admit, I do give expensive gifts and take them to nice restaurants to girls that I am after. However, from my experience a nice portrait painted of them (or anything meaningful made by yourself) or a home-cooked meal prepared specially for them is usually much more effective than diamonds and michelin-star restaurants.

I only do the latter for girls that I'm serious about. It's the effort that counts most of the time. Money just helps making the effort less laborious.

[allyyong]

I have been following tis post for a while and decided to give my two cents worth.

Love will naturally come to you...sometimes, you have to go and search for yourself. For me, true love do exists. I have done really crazy things in the past before I knew my hubby and yet he accepted it and married me. Things have been rough recently...and I guess he has taken me for granted and I probably has taken him for granted.

It takes more than true love to make a relationship works, money, communication, attentitiveness, affection, trust, and so on and so forth...it takes a lot of effort for both to make it work. True love alone will not make it work. Couples can fight over many issues, kids ( i dun have, dun intend to have), finance, work and relatives...they all plays a part....goddamn true love is not enough. Even true love will be overshadowed by these factors.

Did I marry for true love??? No... I married cos I know my hubby loves me more than I do, and I married cos well...hahahah other factors started coming in, like what if I am still single???? I told him the truth. Anyway, watever, for me, I take one step at a time, if the marriage does not work, I can go seperate ways and live the life I want to... maybe becos I am older now, I see things in a different perspective.

True, some guys said gals dun need all those expensive things, I agreed. As much as those will add a nice touch, being cuddly and kissing and being attentive are much better. Unless u getting a gal who wants u for ur money, why the fuck are u with her for???? She will never stick with u thru thick and thin...

[airbrush]

True love haha yes there is but put in a lot effort to find one. You can also choose to test true love in many ways. One of the way is going true lie detector test.

[DenmarkDoll]

Originally Posted by devileye

denmarkdoll.. why must state SBF Nick with MSN address when pming???

Erm... Don' like unknowns, annoymous, irritating freakos to add how add me mah... : )

If anyone wanna add me in msn then i will know who is who easier. Please dun go off thread... Let get back to "true love" .... : )

[tellmiwhy]

Originally Posted by airbrush

True love haha yes there is but put in a lot effort to find one. You can also choose to test true love in many ways. One of the way is going true lie detector test.

but alot of ppl always dun dare to do the test, bcoz they are afraid that the truth wil nt be wat they had anticipated. be it acknowledging the partner as their true love or being their partner's true love. Sometimes it is better to leave a small little grey area for everyone so tat "everything will be beautiful". alot of times, wat we want and wat we've gt is slightly different which will make the test even less accurate becoz it analyze wat u want. But like someone else had said, in love, its nt abt finding the perfect person, its abt luving the imperfect person perfectly.

cheers.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by DenmarkDoll

It is all karma keeping this world go round.That is why, earth is round.Plant a good karma and u shall get back a good one sooner or later.

Whether 'true love' exist is also beyond our control. Need not be BGR when we are talking about 'true love' . Our parents? Our sibilings? Our friends? Those are also love right? What we humans really understand about 'love'? It takes lessons after lessons in life to see thru what we really log for...

very well said.We need to go through it to knw how it really feels,it's a matter of u nv try,u nv know.

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by allyyong

It takes more than true love to make a relationship works, money, communication, attentitiveness, affection, trust, and so on and so forth...it takes a lot of effort for both to make it work. True love alone will not make it work. Couples can fight over many issues, kids ( i dun have, dun intend to have), finance, work and relatives...they all plays a part....goddamn true love is not enough. Even true love will be overshadowed by these factors.

Well said. True love is definitely not enough.

My mum once told me that you cannot live on love alone. We have to be realistic and look at other factors like finances, culture, etc.

[playboy82]

wow.. keep it up, keep it going, lets make it a 100 page thread.

True love ever exist? how u define true love? well at the very least, i have not teasted any.Actually i always wonder how those marriage couple cope with their life, imagine after work come back, so tired, still need to take care of children, cook, i think abt it also buay tahan ord.

i was thinking of single all the way, so carefree, no worried, when i have save enough $$, maybe i will stay in a far away land, and maybe adopt a child, to have someone to take care of me when i old... haha i must be crazy... haha