Wife having Affairs

[Fastfwd]

to those bros thinking of having affairs with married woman. THINK again. I will share my past experience. when my bro wife was caught red-handed at HOME with another man by me and my family, they were video taped sleeping in bed and naked at about 4am. His 2 kids and maid was sleeping in the next room. Wah sie. The man lan lan kena hit on the head and pull his didi, he also about to be married and in the end understand he did not. My bro divorce his wife in the end. There are photos and video which were taken and the Best part is his wife contest the divorce and waste quite a bit of money fighting her. From that day till now she has not seen or try to see her kids. Sorry solong winded but real true life story don't fool around with others wife not only bad but break up other people's family. Honestly if man don't seduce the woman will not be tempted.

[SuperSexyboy]

nowaday got so many such cases.

i have a girlfriend who found out that the boyfriend is 2 timing her. despite all advise she still hope to be with him. cannot understand her, worst thing is the guy told her to give him time to let him CHOSE!

[SuperSexyboy]

yes bro. i agree with this sentence to a ccetain extend, but sometime we guys really dick itcy one la, see 1 like 1, see another more prettier 1, change target. haiz.

Originally Posted by Fastfwd

Honestly if man don't seduce the woman will not be tempted.

[asdfghjkl]

the GF siao kia sia.. must be in love too much liao!

[blackeagle10]

Friends grew up together. Study together. These friends also go drinking together with you. But after some problems with yr wife, you found out later your 'best friend' screwed yr wife.

How can he be yr friend?? At best he can only be called a traitor.

From personal experience, the risk becomes higher if your wife is beautiful but naive and simple minded. Due to scarcity of pretty gals in Singapore, these problems are more pronounced as yr own friends could be targetting yr galfriend or wife without you knowing. They are just waiting like a
'buaya' for you or yr wife to make a mistake..

Once they have done the dirty deed, some of them even boast of their conquest in the internet without any regard to their friend's marriage or welfare.

So guys be careful, the very friends you invite for your wedding could be screwing your wife months down the road if you are too trusting and not careful with yr 'best friends'.

[Dickster]

well after reading the whole story i believe actual stuff does happens in singapore. I personnally have experience it with one of my ex gf. while she only allows bj with me, while she is screwwing with other guys around. wat to do? I personnally believe that some mistake can be made while others cannot. I believe the mistake of being faithfulness cannot be made. Thus my advice to the threat starter, give up the relationship, wat cannot kills u , will make u stronger and open ur eyes wide when come to friends .

[ee_jack]

Better to get rid of her. She is not worth a single cent. Trust me. My gf bang my friends too and when I found out, I shamed her at a kopitiam and left her there. Never heard from her from then. As for my so called friends, they do not even dare to call me anymore.

Originally Posted by eugene8tan

Look like your partner and mine have the same concept. Either raw or dont do it at all.....

That's why, I told myself not to do her anymore until I'm sure. But difficult lah. I don't think I can forgive her. Rather look fro another one.

[dionysusex]

Originally Posted by BangBalls

Haiz...... really v.sian wan... cant slp cant eat cant work
the thought of it reali make me very angry.. i sincerely hope
it doesnt happen to any bros out there.. lost my GF lost my frends..

.. nw reali reali v.v.sad.. any advice bro??

The only advice I can give is to live a better life than you had with her. One day when she realise, she'd bang her wall against the wall. Even if she cannot see, so what? Bottom line is you are happier and you know it yourself.

Time will dilute your bitterness. In the meantime, keep yourself busy.

The same thing happened to me when I had problems with my family. So essentially my then gf and my best friends were the only family I had. When I found out that they were fooling around behind my back, my world was in million bits and pieces. No family, no love, no friendship/brotherhood. Furthermore, this so-called best friend was the outcast of the people around us and even amongst his family and despite his wrongs, I stood by him only to have him stab me in the back. I was so dejected and so lost that I even begged for my ex-gf to come back to me and claimed that I'd forgive her and try to forget the whole episode!

I endured more than a year of bitterness before I decided to move on. Now, I look back at what happened and laugh at my own folly. How on earth did I get accquainted with such a scumbag for a "best" friend? Like bro eugenetan, my ex-gf adored this "best" friend for his punkish, wannabe-gangster attitude.

The lesson I learnt from this episode is to keep your girl and your friends seperate (or at least not so close). Go out once in a while can, not go out cheong or party all the time. In a way, they sorta think that you are encouraging them. All the garang talk about friends being limbs and women being clothes are bulls**t. Unless you don't love your gal, they are never really your clothes to discard because in the first place, your limbs not supposed to stab yourself in the back too.

If your friend really buddy buddy and so good that you will share your underwear with him but unfortunately he hasn't been very lucky with girls and both of you no $$ for WL. Will you offer your gf to help him release/relief his sexual frustration?

Remember hor... WL is one thing. Gf or wife is another thing.

[BangBalls]

Originally Posted by dionysusex

The only advice I can give is to live a better life than you had with her. One day when she realise, she'd bang her wall against the wall. Even if she cannot see, so what? Bottom line is you are happier and you know it yourself.

Time will dilute your bitterness. In the meantime, keep yourself busy.

The same thing happened to me when I had problems with my family. So essentially my then gf and my best friends were the only family I had. When I found out that they were fooling around behind my back, my world was in million bits and pieces. No family, no love, no friendship/brotherhood. Furthermore, this so-called best friend was the outcast of the people around us and even amongst his family and despite his wrongs, I stood by him only to have him stab me in the back. I was so dejected and so lost that I even begged for my ex-gf to come back to me and claimed that I'd forgive her and try to forget the whole episode!

I endured more than a year of bitterness before I decided to move on. Now, I look back at what happened and laugh at my own folly. How on earth did I get accquainted with such a scumbag for a "best" friend? Like bro eugenetan, my ex-gf adored this "best" friend for his punkish, wannabe-gangster attitude.

The lesson I learnt from this episode is to keep your girl and your friends seperate (or at least not so close). Go out once in a while can, not go out cheong or party all the time. In a way, they sorta think that you are encouraging them. All the garang talk about friends being limbs and women being clothes are bulls**t. Unless you don't love your gal, they are never really your clothes to discard because in the first place, your limbs not supposed to stab yourself in the back too.

If your friend really buddy buddy and so good that you will share your underwear with him but unfortunately he hasn't been very lucky with girls and both of you no $$ for WL. Will you offer your gf to help him release/relief his sexual frustration?

Remember hor... WL is one thing. Gf or wife is another thing.

ya you r quite rite bro... my 'best frend' was a bastard... watever he did wrg n no matter wat he did i stood by him.. whenever he find trouble at pubs i nv left him alone n the best part is when he find trouble my gf thinks its OK but gt 1 time i merely swear at another guy for at the pub for creating trouble my gf juz got up n left.. reali v.sick of tis shit.. kena stsb in the back dispite bein i can honestly swear a v.v. gd frend to others.. worst nw is no one thinks their wrg.. wat the hell man.. really agony for me... nw my world reali in pieces.. my gf used up most of my time n money nw gt yons of credit card bill but yet she is no where to stick ard wif me... this is reali sucky... u can imagine hw many slpless nite n hw many more to come... my 'BROTHER' gt tons of gals n always slp wif diff wan but y can he juz leave the woman i wanted to marry alone... Y?

[Clonie]

some guys just cant keep their dicks in their pants and stay away from restricted areas..such ppl are worse then beasts..

[BangBalls]

i reali dun knw wat to say anymore.. reali.. yest i when to my bro place & waited outside his terrace house when they cum out cant see me but i cant see them. i gt tis feeling they r tog coz sat nit sure go chiong tog. juz as i expected i saw them coming out ard 3 plus. he walk my ex to the main road to let her take cab hm. CB.. sianz.. last time when ever i wan to make love wif her she always say here pain there pain or headache.. then do tis shit to me.. same as the other bro im d 1 payin for her pills. wtf man.. u noe hw it feels? nw im reali gettin angry.. i oso pay notice to them on msn.. they always cum on same time during working days n log off same time.. bros u might think im sensitive but im nt ... i think u guys shld noe wat i mean.. reali nw being to hate all this sluts n bitches n so call BROTHER... i hope they will get wat they deserved..

[BangBalls]

i reali dun knw wat to say anymore.. reali.. yest i when to my bro place & waited outside his terrace house when they cum out cant see me but i cant see them. i gt tis feeling they r tog coz sat nit sure go chiong tog. juz as i expected i saw them coming out ard 3 plus. he walk my ex to the main road to let her take cab hm. CB.. sianz.. last time when ever i wan to make love wif her she always say here pain there pain or headache.. then do tis shit to me.. same as the other bro im d 1 payin for her pills. wtf man.. u noe hw it feels? nw im reali gettin angry.. i oso pay notice to them on msn.. they always cum on same time during working days n log off same time.. bros u might think im sensitive but im nt ... i think u guys shld noe wat i mean.. reali nw being to hate all this sluts n bitches n so call BROTHER... i hope they will get wat they deserved..

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Bro Eugene, a simple thing that has to be done whether you decide to move on with or without your wife.
You will never forget, but you must forgive.
If not, there will always be an unclosed chapter in your life that will come back sometime in the future to haunt you.
Continue with her and be prepared to even hear of things not penned in her dairy but remember, you have forgiven, so it's all in the past.
If you leave her, well, it's quite straight forward so no need to elaborate.

Sad thing is, men will be men.
Get too close to a woman, after sometime, if kaki kaki, potential for something to happen is very high.

For your wife, I'm not a shrink, but the slut word may not be apprpriate. Think she's having an illness. I have come across this when i was overseas where some people are actually diagnosed as sex addicts.

Just my 2cts worth of opinion.

Take care, be strong, focused and god will give you strength on your decision.

[hoho99]

For the ppl who are still burdern with hate & anger....
an extract from the Delphi forums


From: air39 10-Aug 21:38
To: ALL 6 of 117
114223.6 in reply to 114223.3

My case actually tells me that there are many people in this world and especially Singapore, who are indeed heartless and will do anything and I mean anything, to get someone into jail.

They are willing to manipulate statements, change statements, tell lies, etc just to get people into jail.

Now I have evidence that the girl has lied big time in court, I still forgive her. I dint want to pursue further and make things big. I am willing to serve out my sentence dutifully even though it was clear that I did not commit any offence with objective evidence. I was bitter initially, who wouldnt?

One day, I was woken by someone calling me. " Love Thy Enemies and you shall be a happy man forever" I believe that person is God himself. I am not a Christian by the way and I believe in all Gods of major religions. I respect every race and religion and perceive them as equal.

LOVE YOUR ENEMIES. You dint hear it wrongly. I decided to give it a try when I woke up. I tried not to think about the case and my miscarriage of justice. I started blessing the girl who had told lies in court to get me into jail. I started blessing everyone around me, including the IO and the prosecution and the judge of course although deep down in my heart, I know that they themselves know what wrong they have done. I started to ask God to forgive them and leave their families alone.

I started sending out blessings and prayers to them.. slowly... gradually.. for the next 30 minutes... and suddenly, I become open, positive and happy. In life, we accuse people. We are falsely accused. Everything happens for a reason.

I have been to IMH for medications and still receiving medication from the good doctor there. I have accepted the fact that I was inflicted with a deadly illness and I cant do without medication. I have to live with medication. God has helped me. God is kind towards me although I was jailed innocently and obviously. God has endowed me with wonderful brains which I would compare it to a supercomputer which breaks down at times.

Gentlemen, there are times in your life when you will feel very depressed. Your wife may commit adultery. Your wife may demand much more allowance from u. Your kids may get bad grades. Your parents may be ill. Your boss may shout at you for 101 reasons. Life is short. Why worry so much over material beings? Care more for your families. A job is just a job. 99% of the time, it is a stressful job. No one likes working. But we have to accept the fact that we have to work like 60% of our life? Treasure your life.

Remember: Love your enemies. Even if the man were to commit adultery with your wife, love him. That is the best one can get.

After being happy for a while, this morning at dawn, I received a call from a university in Boston. I have wanted to change to another ivy university to boston and was told that they are seriously considering my application, despite the fact that I have narrated everything to them factually. Of course, being logical people of high calibre, they insist that I am innocent in their eyes. I told them to perceive my application fairly with other applicants even though my admission tests grades were much higher than average.

After being happy for a while, after falsely jailed and stint in IMH, I may well be fulfilling a dream so desperately yearned by many top students around the world. I believe God is helping me. I believe God is watching me. I believe that God is trading my jail time with my childhood dream of studying in the most prestigious university in the world. My life is like a Roller-coaster. Full of events. Exciting.

Have you loved your enemies yet?