Can we have a relationship with PRC after sleeping with them? Even in Mainland. - Page 12

Ashita · #**166** 18-04-2005, 10:47 PM

Agree 100% with the adivise of the bros here. Same play diff players.
Like a comic merry go round.
Proves somethings tho.... emotions get in the way. We all need and want to bonk. But some need emotional attachement more. Gals are gd at playing this game esp the WLs .
Money is the goal for these women. No need say WLs.... sporean women esp.
An icon of stability to people....

" why have the chicken salad, when u can have the whole menu"

Bros.... applause to all of u. Advise is top grade.

aaaaaa · #**167** 18-04-2005, 11:12 PM

Now she keep sms me to go over shanghai to look for her. She told me that she will cook for me and wash all my clothing. Most importantly she told me that she will not want me to pay her. Now i am in delima. Flying to shanghai i can get cheap air ticket like garuda and can stay in her house but i still continue like this??????

PuTonRen · #**168** 19-04-2005, 12:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Porschie1968

Brother aaaaaa....

had a similiar relationship in Beijing with a normal gal (looks and body of an actress) whom I met in a local disco.

Take my advice, no matter how poor you can be, you always have a choice in life. So don't get con and hurt yourself.

Bro Porschie,

I was in an extremely similar situation as you were. It was also in Beijing, when I was much younger in mid-nineties. She also picked me up at the airport whenever I went to Beijing, and I was there rather often at that time. I stayed in her apartment FOC at the begining and later got to pay for it. There was no Sammyboy Forum to teach me a lesson.

I would consider that you are luckier than me, as our relationship took a very bad turn in barely three months. I paid for the rent of an apartment in Beijing for her (which cost a lot), and bought her gifts, etc. Whenever I left Beijing, she would say "Lao Gong, how are you going to settle me?". Being younger and naive, I always gave her relatively large sum of money. Three months later, she told me that if I were to continue the relationship, I would need to maintain her by paying for the rent, and to give her RMB 10,000 a month. I told her that I would seriously consider about it. That was the moment she showed her true colour. It was also the last straw for me. I must admit that I was the willing partner, and a stupid one. Fortunately, one evening when having dinner with an old timer Singaporean, he woke me up by reasoning with me (just like many brothers here trying to reason with Bro aaaaa). I then made a decision to leave her. She gave me a lot of problems by creating scenes at her apartment. For example, throwing my clothings out from her door, etc..when I went back to collect my stuff in her apartment (that I paid for the rent).

I fall for her partly because she did the same thing as the girl friend of Bro aaaa did to him. I was naive and did not think about the consequence. Now that I am much older and supposely wiser, I would not fall into this kind of plot again.

So, brother aaaaa, if you are reading this, wise up and make your decision. You might wish to observe her further before you make your decision, just to be fair to your girl friend.

Enough said, the rest is up to Bro aaaaa.

My 2 cent worth.

PTR aka UFO_Man

aaaaaa · #**169** 24-04-2005, 12:51 AM

Thanks Brother for the advised.

But sometime i just can't forget her, she move into a new apartment and ask me to stay there without spending money for the hotel stay. Then she will prepare breakfast for me and cook for me in the afternoon.

During the night, we will go out dancing or drinking and have a good party time and go back to the apartment to sleep.

But i still don't know i should forget her now or continue with this kind of relationship?????

PuTonRen · #**170** 24-04-2005, 07:28 AM

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Originally Posted by aaaaaa

Thanks Brother for the advised.

But sometime i just can't forget her, she move into a new apartment and ask me to stay there without spending money for the hotel stay. Then she will prepare breakfast for me and cook for me in the afternoon.

But i still don't know i should forget her now or continue with this kind of relationship?????

Bro,

I think you are going around the circle again. If you cannot forget her, why you keep talking about it in the forum. You have a pre-set answer to many questions that you have in your mind concerning her.

My final advice to you is: "Do not be too emotionally involved, or one day, when she asks you a big sum of money, it will be very difficult for you to say no to her, and assuming that you cannot afford it, you may go into borrowing money to satisfy her, just like what one of my young friend did"

My 2 cent worth

Regards and Good Luck

Harrier24B · #**171** 24-04-2005, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by aaaaaa

Thanks Brother for the advised.

But sometime i just can't forget her, she move into a new apartment and ask me to stay there without spending money for the hotel stay. Then she will prepare breakfast for me and cook for me in the afternoon.

During the night, we will go out dancing or drinking and have a good party time and go back to the apartment to sleep.

But i still don't know i should forget her now or continue with this kind of relationship?????

Yo,

looks like you are really smitten by her.....

China girls, especially the WL's, have this thing about 'leave long line to catch big fish theory'.......

I have a VERY GOOD friend who works as a 'mummy' in one of the Shanghai niteclubs and has told me all about what the girls do.....about how they call the guys overseas, invite them over......then after a period of time....ask for small sums of $$.........slowly proceeding to bigger sums and then monthly maintenance.....

The worst thing will be that the guy won't feel anything and just feel is his duty to pay..........

However, there are some exceptions where the girls are truly nice........so it's up to you to judge and use your BIG HEAD to think carefully.....

Good luck.

zeus · #**172** 24-04-2005, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by aaaaaa

Thanks Brother for the advised.

But sometime i just can't forget her, she move into a new apartment and ask me to stay there without spending money for the hotel stay. Then she will prepare breakfast for me and cook for me in the afternoon.

During the night, we will go out dancing or drinking and have a good party time and go back to the apartment to sleep.

But i still don't know i should forget her now or continue with this kind of relationship?????

maybe u can refer to this link where i quote from Bro okoboko...

after reading, THEN u can decide to forget her or continue.

aaaaaa · #**173** 24-04-2005, 03:36 PM

To Brothers,

If you have encounter like someone (WL) who really treat you nice, ask you to stay in her house, prepare breakfast for you, wash yr clothing and cook for you. Then she even don't want you to pay her! How you feel???

Now i really feel difficult to forget her, maybe i need to tell her the truth as she works as a WL and too far apart.

ahpaul25 · #**174** 24-04-2005, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by aaaaaa

To Brothers,

If you have encounter like someone (WL) who really treat you nice, ask you to stay in her house, prepare breakfast for you, wash yr clothing and cook for you. Then she even don't want you to pay her! How you feel???

Now i really feel difficult to forget her, maybe i need to tell her the truth as she works as a WL and too far apart.

Bro, WL also human lah........i think u better don say sure things to that ger........she may feel disappoint.......you just say u got time, will go find her or company give u task job to work on...very busy 1...slowly she will forget u 1......that all......if u damage her love 4 u.......she will be same as other PRC ger, come to cheat guy $$ liao. Bcos u have hurt her......we don do sure damage to them. Try to think some ideas to shift away btwn u and her.

#**175** 25-04-2005, 03:55 AM

I've been reading the whole thread cos I'm in a similar situation with you right now. But in my case I've made it pretty clear that I will not be able to afford to keep her. I'm not a rich person. But she still maintain the friendship.

If you're really serious about her which I gather you really are, why don't you get someone to 'test' her out? Either one of the bro in this forum or get a trustworth friend. He must have a pleasant character (just like you) and must be rich (or at least pretent). Then see if he gets offered the same package as you. Then you'll know if she love you or love your $$.

The other way, next trip tell her your business is in deep trouble and you will loose everything you have. Your house, car and all possession in Singapore. Ask her if she willing to move into a cheap flat in China with you, she quit KTV and you find a 'decent' job... Or better still let her remain in KTV while you 'look' for a job. (Meaning you'll have to live off her and you spend her money instead of she spend your money!!!)

Well what ever way you choose, cannot heart soften and relent. Must test her all the way, once and for all. Good luck!

aaaaaa · #**176** 25-04-2005, 10:22 PM

My friend also tell me to test her but till now she had not ask me for any money yet. Everytime i meet her in china, i just pay her the amount she suppose to get if she works that day, normally i give her RMB 3000 and tha'ts it. she also never ask for more.

Sometimes she also push my money away and told me that she wants me to look for her on my next trip and don't ever treat her like WL no thought she is a WL. I also don't know how???

ahpaul25 · #**177** 25-04-2005, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by aaaaaa

Sometimes she also push my money away and told me that she wants me to look for her on my next trip and don't ever treat her like WL no thought she is a WL. I also don't know how???

Oh my..........your case is a confirm liao.........it all depend on u bro........hehe.....if the ger don wan any $$ from u, high chance u r going to get it..........if u r not serious with her, better don lay too close on her....or else she got the wrong ideas......hehehe

naemlo · #**178** 25-04-2005, 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by ahpaul25

Oh my..........your case is a confirm liao.........it all depend on u bro........hehe.....if the ger don wan any $$ from u, high chance u r going to get it..........if u r not serious with her, better don lay too close on her....or else she got the wrong ideas......hehehe

U still havn't give up on him??

ahpaul25 · #**179** 26-04-2005, 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

U still havn't give up on him??

Aaaaaaaaa.............bro....sorry lah.........bcos i know many zhuhai and macau gers.....there really some special case 1........I seem a guy in sg not long....knn....help a PRC alot....and in the end, they get together liao.....till now,that guy even buy hse under her name...haiz...love is blind.........hope for his case, it also a special 1...not those PRC who want $$$ only....

PuTonRen · #**180** 26-04-2005, 06:14 AM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

U still havn't give up on him??

Yes, Bro naemlo,

Your post wakes me up as well. This Bro aaaaa is going round and round a circle, keep asking for opinion, as if wants people to teach me how to let go, and then keep stating that he cannot forget her. Round and round without end. I start to wonder whether he is an attention seeker.

Got your hint, shall give up on him from now on! or he will never wakes up!!

Regards