Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by Singkieu

http://afamily.vn/tinh-yeu-hon-nhan/...n-yeu-4986.chn

Article is titled: Sao trai Việt nhiều tính xấu mà gái Việt vẫn lấy, vẫn yêu?
Translation: Why do Vietnamese Women still Marry, still Love Vietnamese Men, Despite Their Many Bad Qualities?

Thank you for sharing. Very meaningful.

[stillgottheblue]

Can anyone translate it? Google translation is unable to translate meaningfully.

[banana81sg]

tks all bros for comments and opinion

Actually she ask me to marry and i tried to drag........but just as she rush for marriage, now she suddenly say lets take its slow.......relief but got a weird feeling...........not sure wat change her thoughts though

lately she been asking abt my financial, how much earn, tax etc.......basically just tell her take home 900+

As for testing her, i still thinking abt how to do it.....

Bros, i got a qustion.....enerytime i go viet and outing with her, it seem everything i pay. I know ( who ask u ownself auto, stupid)........but not even once did she even offer to pay things, i mean if u dont pay i ok, but at least open mouth n offer it......well i guss my question is, is it all viet girl expect guys to pay things on dates?

tks again all

[numbercruncher]

nice thread

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by banana81sg

tks all bros for comments and opinion

Actually she ask me to marry and i tried to drag........but just as she rush for marriage, now she suddenly say lets take its slow.......relief but got a weird feeling...........not sure wat change her thoughts though

lately she been asking abt my financial, how much earn, tax etc.......basically just tell her take home 900+

As for testing her, i still thinking abt how to do it.....

Bros, i got a qustion.....enerytime i go viet and outing with her, it seem everything i pay. I know ( who ask u ownself auto, stupid)........but not even once did she even offer to pay things, i mean if u dont pay i ok, but at least open mouth n offer it......well i guss my question is, is it all viet girl expect guys to pay things on dates?

tks again all

I may be one of the `stupid' fellow. Since my first viet trip to my few years of stay till now, i have been the person paying for viet gals. No viet gal offered to pay... lol. You should be glad if you are just paying for the meals, after marrying her, you will be paying for her whole family's expenses as we are `foreigner' and are deemed to be rich. They always say that no matter how poor is a foreigner, he is still richer than a viet as he can take loan from banks. hihihi. They think we no need to pay back the loan. As for those samsters that keep claiming their gal paid everything for them, i am seriously skeptical. Its either the VB is aiming for something bigger or the samster is simply not telling the truth. Its like some VB that my bx and i know, the husband will keep telling us how good his bx and her family is, never ask for anything . But the bx tell a different story totally.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by SingViet

No viet gal offered to pay... lol. You should be glad if you are just paying for the meals, after marrying her, you will be paying for her whole family's expenses as we are `foreigner' and are deemed to be rich.

Me too have met not met gal who offered to pay.

[carmeo88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I may be one of the `stupid' fellow. Since my first viet trip to my few years of stay till now, i have been the person paying for viet gals. No viet gal offered to pay... lol. You should be glad if you are just paying for the meals, after marrying her, you will be paying for her whole family's expenses as we are `foreigner' and are deemed to be rich. They always say that no matter how poor is a foreigner, he is still richer than a viet as he can take loan from banks. hihihi. They think we no need to pay back the loan. As for those samsters that keep claiming their gal paid everything for them, i am seriously skeptical. Its either the VB is aiming for something bigger or the samster is simply not telling the truth. Its like some VB that my bx and i know, the husband will keep telling us how good his bx and her family is, never ask for anything . But the bx tell a different story totally.

It is true and believe happening to most of our bros here!

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

As for those samsters that keep claiming their gal paid everything for them, i am seriously skeptical.

Partly because of ego, pride and also they left out the details

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SureScore

Me too have met not met gal who offered to pay.

i have met a few vbs who offer to pay

1) $20 for fetching them to bugis/work
2) buying groceries to celebrate some occasions
3) buying finger food for everyone to eat

4) a vb working as sales supervisor in sillypore whom i helped her with her luggage when checking in in hcmc. i meet her for dinner on one of the evening and she paid for my dinner... no follow up after that..

[Kalv]

Very interesting and informative thread.

Thanks to all helpful/experience seniors in giving good advice.

Keep Up the good work. Cheers

Wishing All

A

Happy & Prosperous Chinese Snake Year

























2013

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by SureScore

Me too have met not met gal who offered to pay.

i have met girls who pay....but it was either scaam or maybe i pay for meals she pay for bike parking....

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

i have met a few vbs who offer to pay

1) $20 for fetching them to bugis/work
2) buying groceries to celebrate some occasions
3) buying finger food for everyone to eat

4) a vb working as sales supervisor in sillypore whom i helped her with her luggage when checking in in hcmc. i meet her for dinner on one of the evening and she paid for my dinner... no follow up after that..

You are very lucky guy but your reputation was enormous.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by mutantchicken

i have met girls who pay....but it was either scaam or maybe i pay for meals she pay for bike parking....

This was the usual case. Use my money to pay or treat me.

[jackbl]

Very quiet here. Where are you guys?

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Very quiet here. Where are you guys?

All had graduated from this college of Vietnam Babe. No more experiences to share. Plenty of cases which are written here.

I noticed one common scenario.

In this uncertain times in Singapore, many men will not want to get married even with foreigner wife. The income is down and many unsure what will happens. So marriage is down.

The above is just my opinion.