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I just came back from a 5 days / 4 night trip from BKK. I was surprised that many of the girls in the go go bars in Nana Plaza showed a black face when I tried to pick them due to the fact that I am an SG Indian. I am not the typical Indian, I am Westernized having spent most of my life living in Canada and I have always treated any gals that I book very well and they all are happy to have my company. Any bros can shed light on this? This was my maiden trip there I was thoroughly annoyed by the racist behavior shown towards me by the girls in the go go bars there. I know that they don’t like guys from India but I am 100% Singaporean and I am not lapsap, or stingy. Also, I am very hygienic and clean. But I did not have any issues at the soapy massage places. Only had issues at the go go bars in Nana Plaza, 8 girls from 3 different bars rejected me. Any advice or suggestions are welcome! Thanks in advance...
Oh dear oh dear oh dear....what an unfortunate post...
Bro, you go all out to characterise Thai hookers as racist but from your own statements, you claim that you are not the typical Indian because
(a) you are Westernised (as opposed to your typical Indian who doesn't know how to treat women)
(b) you are not stingy (as opposed to your typical Indian)
(c) you are hygienic and clean (as opposed to your typical Indian)
You come across as a worse racist than any of them. They are protecting themselves, if anything, probably because of prior experiences they have no choice but to engage in false generalisations.
You, on the other hand, merely across as a self-loathing Indian. I suggest you look in the mirror before you start picking on people for the very same reasons. Did your Western education not include philosophy?
There are far better arenas to be battling racist stereotypes and prejudice than in Soi Cowboy with a Thai hooker. They're not looking to debate philosophical fallacies, you know....
Lolx u caught me, apart the one I stay with the first wk. I Makan another two.
Got scolding from another two more for not meeting them up during this trip, sight.
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I just came back from a 5 days / 4 night trip from BKK. I was surprised that many of the girls in the go go bars in Nana Plaza showed a black face when I tried to pick them due to the fact that I am an SG Indian. I am not the typical Indian, I am Westernized having spent most of my life living in Canada and I have always treated any gals that I book very well and they all are happy to have my company. Any bros can shed light on this? This was my maiden trip there I was thoroughly annoyed by the racist behavior shown towards me by the girls in the go go bars there. I know that they don’t like guys from India but I am 100% Singaporean and I am not lapsap, or stingy. Also, I am very hygienic and clean. But I did not have any issues at the soapy massage places. Only had issues at the go go bars in Nana Plaza, 8 girls from 3 different bars rejected me. Any advice or suggestions are welcome! Thanks in advance...
Bro, I sympathize with you 'cause I'm an Indian like you & I've faced many similar situations before. Have been going to BKK since 10 years at least once a year. My visit will include Soi Cowboy, Nana Plaza, Patpong, Sutthisan, Discos e.g. RCA, Funky Villa , Caribbean, Massages e.g. Nataree, Amsterdam, Poseidon, Emanuelle etc. Besides BKK I've also traveled for pleasure to China, Indonesia, Malaysia, Vietnam, Philippines, Hong Kong, Macau ...the list is long. I fully agree with the reply you got from Pita123 which is accept it. Just accept the racism, accept the bias & try working around it, overcoming it. Here are some tips I've picked up over the years & use it to good success in getting the best girls not just to flirt with me in the bar/pub but also end up in bed with me:
1. Be tidy in dressing, appearance and mannerisms. Clean shaving a bushy mustache helps.
2. Go with a Chinese/Thai/local friend. After your friend has chosen his girl, greet and talk to his girl , cheers with her. Ask her to recommend you a friend. Upon recommendation normally the girls feel more comfortable & racism takes a back seat.
3. Make eye contact & smile to the girl you're keen on. If she smiles back signal to her to come to you. If it doesn't help look for a waitress/mamasan and tell them your wish. When you ask, have a backup number(2nd choice) in your mind every time. Just in case, if that girl rejects your offer to come to you, straight away ask for another number. Sit with the backup girl and after she's comfortable with you, tell her frankly that the first girl is really your heartthrob. At times the girl will actually convince her to come to you. After that you can carry on.
4. Stay in good hotels. A 21 year old slim pretty girl slightly was reluctant to leave with me from Rainbow II or Rainbow I (can't recall) & totally unwilling to french me inside the joint finally after a bit of talking got convinced enough to come over for 1 hour ST only, LT offer rejected. When she reached the hotel and finally to my deluxe suite in Sukhumvit 15 "Four Points By Sheraton", she dropped her bags and just started looking everywhere in the room with a bit of startle on her face. She frenched and licked me all over, showered , then super long BBBJ and ended up we made love thrice that night & she stayed the whole night and morning at 10:30 am I had to literally chase her out. Best part was she gave me her number to call her again & said I don't need to pay any barfine , just sms her and she'll come over. I still have her picture in my dropbox account that I peek to bring back fond memories.
5. Last but Most Important point is "Be Persistent" & Never give up. Never turn your evening sour just because a girl rejected you. Keep trying & you'll succeed. Cheonging is all about hits & misses. Think how boring cheonging will be if everytime you go to a certain place at a certain time , you'll get a damn good girl with damn good service. You'll eventually get stale & stop going there after a while. Real long lasting fun is in hitting & missing and occasionally striking big. Also if you face rejection, don't despair. Remember the famous saying...Never feel disappointed if you miss a bus, train or a GIRL !...One goes surely another will come
Cheers
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Oh dear oh dear oh dear....what an unfortunate post...
There are far better arenas to be battling racist stereotypes and prejudice than in Soi Cowboy with a Thai hooker. They're not looking to debate philosophical fallacies, you know....
You come across as a worse racist than any of them. They are protecting themselves, if anything, probably because of prior experiences they have no choice but to engage in false generalisations.
I don't think he is a self-hater. He is just trying to understand what he can do in order to get pussy easier. The fact is that these stereotypes exist. Regardless of whether you want to believe it. So he explains what he is doing and how he is differentiated and asking what else to do in order to not get poo pooed by the poying.
So I've been on TLL for nearly 4 years. Not just looking for pickup but for an actual gf if that happens to happen. Two years ago I chatted with this girl who was tall and thin. I'd asked her what she does for work and she said freelance but quickly backtracked and had some other story. Eventually we met up and she was cute. We went with some friends to a riverside restaurant and she was far too touchy for a proper Thai girl. The friends also picked up on her use of language and she seemed to know far to much about lower Sukhumvit. Anyway, that night, though she said it wouldn't happen, we had amazing sex. We saw each other one more time, good sex, then I kicked her out as I was meeting a friend for lunch. When I went out with my friend she was still in the lobby and I pretended that I didn't see her. The friend had his bargirl friend meet us for lunch and I felt bad that I hadn't suggested that she join us. I think and then she went off on me for not inviting her on MSN chat one day and that was the end of chatting. Bumped into her again a few months later in Bangkok Beat and that was that.
I've been in BKK for CNY and a few days ago got a message on TLL asking how I've been. How are you is one thing, but how I've been implies that she knows how I was previously. Looked at the pics and didn't quite know who this was. Nothing seemed familiar. She gave me her phone number and I gave her mine. She called me and the conversation sounded like she knew me already. She was upcountry and coming to BKK the next day. I asked what her full name is and when she told me it all made sense.
Anyway, she called me and asked if I wanted to hang out. Of course all I wanted to do was screw her brains out. She asked where we'd go and I suggested a few plances but she also mentioned she didn't have nice clothes, just a skirt and t-shirt. I was a bit unprepared for just how casual she would look, but never mind. Couldn't take her where I wanted and she said she liked the music in the lobby. So though I never sit in the lobby with a girl as I'm too well-known in the hotel, I did so. She mentioned that she came to BKK to look for some new product for her shop upcountry. I suggested that I could invest a bit in her new product. While drinking she mentioned that she'd like to stay with me but that it would drive me crazy. Might not be able to sleep. And she's having her period, so can't have sex. I told her that I'm certain that she could find another way to take care of things.
Up in the room, no period, just full on PSE. BBBJCIM multiple rounds. Again in the morning. As we are chatting in the morning she mentioned that she had to go buy something for her teeth and it costs 4000 baht. I told her not to worry I could help, but not pay for the full thing. So after she showered and we sat on the sofa, me in my robe, I gave her 2500 and she was grateful. We said our goodbyes and then she parted the robe to say goodbye to the little guy. That was a nice 20 min goodbye she and he had.
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I just came back from a 5 days / 4 night trip from BKK. I ...... Any advice or suggestions are welcome! Thanks in advance...
Hi Bro Jintu, glad you are seeking pleasures in BKK. There will always be some form of discrimination as long as bio-diversity exists in this world. Important thing is to move on. I have been discriminated in soapies, etc. for reasons which I do not know, but I do not let these episodes spoil my fun. I juz bring my biz elsewhere. Remember the saying: "he who pays the piper calls the tune" and not the other way round.