How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[gigigagago]

Originally Posted by warbird

She stayed w/ a Jap gal (my S'pore fren's gal), another TWA stewardess, n my fren n I used to visit them. I either fxked her in her apt when her GF was out or in the backseat of my car. A sort of revenge? Two S'pore guys taking on the Axis power, hehehe.

Go out n bed a pretty German SYT n post ur FR here, hahaha.

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Cheers!

Bro WB

Haha in that case shouldn't I snag an Italian to close a hat-trick of Axis-ians?

[warbird]

Originally Posted by i12song

I wish I could BY-ing her...

Your time will come...

Originally Posted by vellamoose

WB, very good write ups and very educational. My humble respects to you

Bro, I'm humbled by ur flattering words.

IMHO, a truly dependable n trustworthy man is head n shoulders above all others, regardless of his current status n material possessions.

Originally Posted by jamezwit

Bro WB and other sifus have contributed a lot of knowledge and info here. Here is a brief sitrep of my BY experience.

After chionging KTVs, WLs from forums, and legal houses, I realised that I'm a know a person before sex (in fact, I prefer the term making love) type.............................................. So I posted a few ads, say some of my general terms and with preference for PRC students, and started on the journey to find exclusive baoyee GFs.

So far, I've had 5 baoyees, 1 from SG, 1 from MY, and 3 from PRCs. Interestingly, three of them are students (the SG, MY, and 1 PRC) while two are working professionals (really executive in real company that I pick up from their office more than a few times). All between 21-22 yo, except one.

During initial meet up to know each other sessions, I usually start with hand holding and short kisses first couple of times when go out for dinner or movie. I confirm the baoying by saying that they need to get their place so that we can meet discreetly. Even then, only heavy petting but no sex, and once they get more comfortable, after the first love making session, hug and don't let go and they won't let go as well if you really show that you care about them.

I'm direct with them as far as possible...............................

My BYs don't ask too much $$, some of them only ask to cover for lodging (a master room in a condo, although one had a common room but few other tenants and all work late so less people around the unit), others ask for room+allowance which I tell them upfront my limit of giving, they usually agree with it since they are not really desperate, or $$ is not the only reason. .......................................
always parted way amicably and usually because they finished their work permit stay or study.

Only thing is the relationship can be too deep, and they feel lonely and since the way I prefer is to have feelings, so they sticky a bit. But I get great love making after being didn't meet for a few days or a week or two. I think it's win-win in my BY experience so far. Only thing is got to filter a bit and it takes effort and time to read the girl's mind and to show concern. Sometimes just words and a hug they will cry on your shoulder. I'm no handsome man, so I've to double or triple on the attention and the small things............................................ ...sometimes just felt lonely and the way younger generation of PRC from city is more open, had sex early and some had relationship with older man already in PRC. It's eye opening talking to them (only after they are comfortable to open up about this part of their life).

Hi bro jamezwit,

Ths so much for sharing ur BY experiences w/ us.

You belong to the romantic n sensual type n u want to hv feelings n take ur time to court ur BAO-ees...n u make love to the them. You r the type preferred by most gals/women.

Unfortunately, I'm more like a beast, a predator n I want to fxk them asap. For me, feelings, if any, would come later...

I'll make a conscious effort to emulate ur method n go slow..

Cheers!

Originally Posted by gigigagago

[COLOR="Blue"]Hahaha 老大, your collection grew so much now I'm confused already. The SYT in China or the Jakarta one is the Dongbei girl? Your avatar is the Dongbei girl right? If my memory is still functional, it's this Dongbei chick whom you quite fancy under your parade of BY-ees, but eventually ended up in a rough relationship with a guy from her same hometown... Not quite sure if you know who I'm referring to. Hahaha. But from what I read you seem to quite like her a lot. Is she the one that's returning for your loving?[COLOR="Blue"]

Hi bro gigigagago,

I'm not a 老大, I'm a 老头子，hehe.

Yes, the tall gal in Jakarta is from Dongbei. She wants to meet me in Batam. The SYT in China is coming next month.

The gal in my avatar a SZ gal who fell in love w/ a fellow student from China. She is a pauper now n has very strained RS w/ her immature BF. She has made overtures...but I'm not sure if I want her again.

Actually, I hv another former mistress who just started work at 金沙 Jakarta! It's a posh joint. Has anyone been there before?

Cheers!

Originally Posted by gigigagago

Haha big bro, for others it may be "indequate self control", for you it's purely your confidence working ahead of you.

Oh, also, recently many countries are devaluing their currencies... Hope you're not affected, Bro WB. ..........

I need to rein in my didi to give the impression it's not a pure transaction. Many of them actually complain that 你一点感情都没有，你只要和我做爱 or worse, 你只要操我 (fxk me). I hv to learn to change my bad image...

So far the decline of the Greenback has not affected me much as I do hv assets in some Asian countries. It still hurts a bit.

Originally Posted by gigigagago

Nice! More and more Bao-ers appearing in this amazing thread! So happy, man. More and more esteemed masters to "leech" wisdom from. Hahaha. Big welcome to you Bro jamezwit!

Originally Posted by gigigagago

Haha in that case shouldn't I snag an Italian to close a hat-trick of Axis-ians?

Bro jamezwit is an experienced BAO-er n we hv much to learn from him. Hope that he will continue to share his wisdom n sexploits w/ us.

Yeah, all of us should keep a German, a Japanese n an Italian to complete the "Axis gals". They r very different, bro, hehehe.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[roamersg]

Originally Posted by jamezwit

So I started to look at those Woman Looking for Men type of ad posts, but these are few and far in between, either they give terms and conditions (who is the person who has the need and means har?) or they don't reply (I found out later that girls generally look at those Men Looking for Women ads rather than the other way around). So I posted a few ads, say some of my general terms and with preference for PRC students, and started on the journey to find exclusive baoyee GFs.

So far, I've had 5 baoyees, 1 from SG, 1 from MY, and 3 from PRCs. Interestingly, three of them are students (the SG, MY, and 1 PRC) while two are working professionals (really executive in real company that I pick up from their office more than a few times). All between 21-22 yo, except one.

Thanks for adding another tactic to our combat playbook . I probably don't have the patience for this approach, though. Even if more expensive, I like the window shopping in KTVs, at least can see many SYTs in short dresses

[Dragonkeep]

Originally Posted by jamezwit

During initial meet up to know each other sessions, I usually start with hand holding and short kisses first couple of times when go out for dinner or movie. I confirm the baoying by saying that they need to get their place so that we can meet discreetly. Even then, only heavy petting but no sex, and once they get more comfortable, after the first love making session, hug and don't let go and they won't let go as well if you really show that you care about them.

So far, I only dropped the MY BY real fast becos she was two-timing, she got another BF who is away from SG a lot but she keep sending the guy emails/sms so I found out and dropped her. The rest all quite ok and the relationship last for a while and always parted way amicably and usually because they finished their work permit stay or study.

Only thing is the relationship can be too deep, and they feel lonely and since the way I prefer is to have feelings, so they sticky a bit. But I get great love making after being didn't meet for a few days or a week or two. I think it's win-win in my BY experience so far. Only thing is got to filter a bit and it takes effort and time to read the girl's mind and to show concern. Sometimes just words and a hug they will cry on your shoulder. I'm no handsome man, so I've to double or triple on the attention and the small things, like they appreciate you bring them to good eating place (no need high end stuff) and treating them with respect, since the young BY that can come to study (for real, not the KTV gals) or work as executive are pampered at home from young (one family one child), although they know that they need to adjust living on their own and doing their own household chores, they sometimes just felt lonely and the way younger generation of PRC from city is more open, had sex early and some had relationship with older man already in PRC. It's eye opening talking to them (only after they are comfortable to open up about this part of their life).

Cheers.

Wah lou, quite the romantic, as our Raptor Bro WB observes!! Looks like your dick-restraint at the start paid off handsomely.

Actually, I get the impression the RS type baoees like to look back at some period of courtship. They still reflect on my apparent self control at the start when chasing them (basically because I was either still going heavy on WLs and FBs or doing a retrograde action with the previous RS baoee whom I was about to replace with her, and fxxking away all the ammo knowing that the last bang was imminent!!!), innocently commenting fondly that 这么多时间过了, 我们才发生关系 (such a long time passed before we screwed). Of coz, nowadays, after so many marathon sessions, the RS sometimes starts to wonder suspiciously how I cope without her in between seeing her!!

A current under probation baoee was even pestering me to get "our own place" and bang there instead of doing a H81, saying that she was looking for nice long RS as my concubine and not just a ST girl. Managed to manoeuvre her out of that pipedream via the usual remedy: some good faith downpayment $$ and a first night bang at a 5-star hotel after a posh dinner.

IMHO a good thing about having a "courtship" is that we can size up how loyal the baoee can be, as one of the ego puncturing and anger inducing things is to find out like Bro Jamezwit about getting Julius Caesared, ie. stabbed in the back by a betrayal. However, if we keep the relationship purely for fxxks and not let KC get too much in the way, then it does not matter too much about telling her to take a hike, although the sayang thing is the loss of too much investment when the situation calls for getting the baoee fired too soon after making a $$ downpayment on her.

I must say that all the collective wisdom on baoees is quite an eye-opener and a helluva good source of picking up battle tactics. Happy baoing!

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by Dragonkeep

Wah lou, quite the romantic, as our Raptor Bro WB observes!! Looks like your dick-restraint at the start paid off handsomely.

Actually, I get the impression the RS type baoees like to look back at some period of courtship. They still reflect on my apparent self control at the start when chasing them (basically because I was either still going heavy on WLs and FBs or doing a retrograde action with the previous RS baoee whom I was about to replace with her, and fxxking away all the ammo knowing that the last bang was imminent!!!), innocently commenting fondly that 这么多时间过了, 我们才发生关系 (such a long time passed before we screwed). Of coz, nowadays, after so many marathon sessions, the RS sometimes starts to wonder suspiciously how I cope without her in between seeing her!!

A current under probation baoee was even pestering me to get "our own place" and bang there instead of doing a H81, saying that she was looking for nice long RS as my concubine and not just a ST girl. Managed to manoeuvre her out of that pipedream via the usual remedy: some good faith downpayment $$ and a first night bang at a 5-star hotel after a posh dinner.

IMHO a good thing about having a "courtship" is that we can size up how loyal the baoee can be, as one of the ego puncturing and anger inducing things is to find out like Bro Jamezwit about getting Julius Caesared, ie. stabbed in the back by a betrayal. However, if we keep the relationship purely for fxxks and not let KC get too much in the way, then it does not matter too much about telling her to take a hike, although the sayang thing is the loss of too much investment when the situation calls for getting the baoee fired too soon after making a $$ downpayment on her.

I must say that all the collective wisdom on baoees is quite an eye-opener and a helluva good source of picking up battle tactics. Happy baoing!

I like his approach...money can do alot of things....but we should turn the tide and KC the girls to do things for us...I think it would be the ultimate if we can do a reverse KC... that would be the epitome of self mastery....getting bored of offering money to screw, but of course if the needs arise still can use money to solve....

Let's try to see if I can get girls to fall in love with me without spending too much...would try this experiment over the next few months as I have a list of ST/WLs for sexual needs already...but I doubt I will have much luck unless I put in a whole lot of effort...and if time is money...actually end up same...hahaha....

[MillerV]

Originally Posted by jamezwit

Bro WB and other sifus have contributed a lot of knowledge and info here. Here is a brief sitrep of my BY experience.

After chionging KTVs, WLs from forums, and legal houses, I realised that I'm a know a person before sex (in fact, I prefer the term making love) type.

So I started to look at those Woman Looking for Men type of ad posts, but these are few and far in between, either they give terms and conditions (who is the person who has the need and means har?) or they don't reply (I found out later that girls generally look at those Men Looking for Women ads rather than the other way around). So I posted a few ads, say some of my general terms and with preference for PRC students, and started on the journey to find exclusive baoyee GFs.

Cheers.

Bro Jameszwit, Great sharing. which website listings do you think are most effective?

[Dragonkeep]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

Let's try to see if I can get girls to fall in love with me without spending too much...would try this experiment over the next few months as I have a list of ST/WLs for sexual needs already...but I doubt I will have much luck unless I put in a whole lot of effort...and if time is money...actually end up same...hahaha....

Will be highly interested to see how it goes and pick up some more tips!

As shared earlier in this thread, looks like we are all kinda stuck with the problem that except for the Sean Connery types, we can usually get only 2 out of cheap, fast and good at one time - cheap, fast but not good (low cost straight to the action with a ST Queen), fast and good but not cheap ($$$ and the Ang Pai drops her skirts) or cheap and good, but not fast (patient courting and KC growing). You may be right, brudder about the time = money equation. The problem with the patient route is that we gotta be prepared for some cock-ache - but those of us with long reserve lists of FBs/WLs need not worry too much, heh heh.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by roamersg

Thanks for adding another tactic to our combat playbook. I probably don't have the patience for this approach, though. Even if more expensive, I like the window shopping in KTVs, at least can see many SYTs in short dresses

I'm in the same boat, but would be very patient if the gal is my dream gal.

Originally Posted by Dragonkeep

Wah lou, quite the romantic, as our Raptor Bro WB observes!! Looks like your dick-restraint at the start paid off handsomely.

Actually, I get the impression the RS type baoees like to look back at some period of courtship. They still reflect on my apparent self control at the start when chasing them (basically because I was either still going heavy on WLs and FBs..................Of coz, nowadays, after so many marathon sessions, the RS sometimes starts to wonder suspiciously how I cope without her in between seeing her!!

A current under probation baoee..............

IMHO a good thing about having a "courtship" is that we can size up how loyal the baoee can be, as one of the ego puncturing and anger inducing things is to find out like Bro Jamezwit about getting Julius Caesared, ie. stabbed in the back by a betrayal. However, if we keep the relationship purely for fxxks and not let KC get too much......................

I must say that all the collective wisdom on baoees is quite an eye-opener and a helluva good source of picking up battle tactics. Happy baoing!

Your own tactical moves r quite impressive!

There were times when I had a full-time BAO-ee n another coming soon n I still couldn't wait to bonk a certain SYT of my type. Wat to do?

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

I like his approach...money can do alot of things....but we should turn the tide and KC the girls to do things for us...I think it would be the ultimate if we can do a reverse KC... that would be the epitome of self mastery..........................................
Let's try to see if I can get girls to fall in love with me without spending too much.......................but I doubt I will have much luck unless I put in a whole lot of effort...and if time is money...actually end up same...hahaha....

Yes, u can do it!

Getting a pretty SYT, especially a WL, to fall in love w/ u would indeed be the ultimate test of ur self mastery. It's a challenge for all cheongsters.

BTW, being the only man ever to give her regular COS may or may not be enuff to make her fall for u. Every gal is different. Oftentimes, u also need the key to a hidden "emotional lock" which is specific to that particular gal, hehe.

Originally Posted by MillerV

Bro Jameszwit, Great sharing. which website listings do you think are most effective?

I like to know too.

Originally Posted by Dragonkeep

Will be highly interested to see how it goes and pick up some more tips!

As shared earlier in this thread, looks like we are all kinda stuck with the problem that except for the Sean Connery types..............................but those of us with long reserve lists of FBs/WLs need not worry too much, heh heh.

I like ur concept that most of us can only get of 2 out of 3 (Fast, Good n Cheap) in BY-ing. I hv experienced 2 other combinations.

1) Not Cheap, not Good n not Fast.

A good example is my saga w/ CD. I courted her in early Sep last yr. She agreed to all the BY-ing terms n then vanished! She was BY-ed by another man. I was quite upset for wks. Came back to work towards late Dec n I was alerted to this fact by bro LDH in Jan when I already had 2 full-time mistresses (KK n BB) n a part-time one (a singer from LV). To cut a long story short, CD n I were together for 1 wk during CNY when KK was back in China for the holidays.

Outwardly, she was a tall, chio SYT, etc (see my many posts on her). But I was most disappointed bcos her pussy was not pretty to me (big dark brown flaps) n it was loose. I was fortunate to hv her for a wk, otherwise I would still fantasize about how wonderful to make love to her, hehehe.

2) Cheap, Good n Fast.

I BY-ed a tall, pretty n sexy Hubei MILF (she was 27 ) part-time for 2 wks from TAM complex less than 3 months ago. She was the one w/ near perfect snow white figure n dimples of Venus. Also beautiful natural C boobs, pink, tight pussy n the best butt of any China gals I hv seen n long nice legs n slender arms. She was a great, great fxk n she squirted (see my posts). Sadly, she had to leave bcos her visitor's visa was expiring. She is still in China.

Once I brought her to DC n my young fren n others were eager to peek at her deep cleavage n boobs which she hid w/ a blouse. She was such a cock-tease! She reluctantly took it off for a few minutes when I told her to, hahaha. I really miss her n can only make do by looking at her explicit video clips...for now. I hv offered to BY her full-time should she return.

Separately, one of my gals in Jakarta just told me she could only come to SIN on a singer permit, the on-stage type as she couldn't get the non-working type according to her agent. I told her I wont keep her. When she comes I'll just do ST w/ her, hehe. Much, much lower pricing as she wont be exclusive to me.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[jamezwit]

Originally Posted by warbird

Your time will come...

Ths so much for sharing ur BY experiences w/ us.

You belong to the romantic n sensual type n u want to hv feelings n take ur time to court ur BAO-ees...n u make love to the them. You r the type preferred by most gals/women.

Unfortunately, I'm more like a beast, a predator n I want to fxk them asap. For me, feelings, if any, would come later...

I'll make a conscious effort to emulate ur method n go slow..

Bro WB

Bro Warbird, I guess each has their preference

I need to learn to be more hard hearted, especially when the r/s becomes sticky. So still in a learning mode to be soft/hard/soft (pun intended), hahaha.

I don't know about the preference, my MY Baoyee took advantage of my soft heardedness, thus I've learned to be a bit more inquisitive. I also learn from your earlier posts here that to be unannounced when turn up at the BY place, and I'll just say "我有空就来“， even though earlier I've already said I cannot make it. Like you shared and I paraphrase here and sorry if I got it wrong, a mind that controls both purse, mind and pussy will be powerful.

[warbird]

Good morning!!

A RS guru has written extensively on the subject of what is a real MAN n how to be a cool guy. He discussed a frequent challenge:

You want to be a cool guy, and you know cool guys
attract women. So what happens when someone does something to you that isn't so cool? How should you respond?

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HOW COOL GUYS RESPOND TO UNCOOL PEOPLE


Mr. Guru,

How does a cool person deal with "being hurt" by other people? I mean he loves people, he invests in them by making them feel better (not for the sake of seeking approval), then one of those people says or does something that really makes him mad.

It happened to me a couple of times and I feel like I need to flat out say something nasty back to them, otherwise I will feel hurt on the inside for a while.

For my own well-being it seems right to do so. But is this the
right thing to do?

Thanks,

Bro XX (Gotham City)



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Hello Bro XX:

Thanks for writing. What a great, great question.

The short answer is: Just let it go. Don't put yourself on anyone's level who you consider uncool...ever. To do so would be to sacrifice self-respect.

Usually the other person is behaving in that manner toward you either because they're embarrassed, jealous of your success in some way, or flat-out insecure.

Just like we talk about in our audio on the subject
, the truly cool guy indeed thrives on helping others around him look and feel cooler.

Only guys who have A LOT to work on in this department ever feel need to put others down to make themselves look good.

Think about it. Have you ever observed someone who is actively trying to make someone else look bad and thought to yourself what a cool guy he is? Of course not.

One differentiation I do want to make is between saying something to someone that is DIRECT versus something that is truly MEAN.

If you have a solid measure of self-respect you won't allow
manipulators to walk all over you. So when you sense someone is attempting to take advantage of you, calling them out on it is absolutely the right thing to do.

A similar principle holds true if you're a man with high ethical
standards and someone is doing something in your presence that you view as very wrong--especially if he or she is encouraging you to partake.

Note that when you're being DIRECT you're calling out an ACTION or BEHAVIOR, not the PERSON him or herself. What is said is honest, even if not exactly "pretty", but it's never an INSULT.

Generally speaking, although I personally say a lot of DIRECT
things when appropriate, I make it a point never to insult people with mean, ad hominem personal comments.

It's not uncommon to get mean comments IN RETURN having said something direct, however. In fact, deep down the fear of getting insulted is probably what keeps most of us from being direct when the situation calls for it, right?

Universally, however, receiving insults in response to directness is a sign that it's not a good idea to continue dealing with the person. Don't allow yourself to be drawn into that sort of melee. He or she is the problem, not you.

But man...I hear you. Sometimes it's REALLY tempting to put them in their place, especially if you've got the PERFECT comeback. I promise you, though...sleep on it and you'll be glad you kept your cool.

You know, I think there's even more to this subject of being a cool guy vis-à-vis interacting with others who aren't yet so advanced at keeping their own cool.

I actually once knew a guy who to this day I think of as one of the coolest guys I've ever met.

Amazingly, whenever someone around him said something bad about someone else, spoke in a coarse manner, started complaining about something and/or said anything else blatantly negative he'd do something incredibly powerful.

He'd look at the person briefly, pause about a full second, and
then casually change the subject.

It was abundantly clear that he would not partake in that which he didn't condone, but handled the situation as a natural leader would...all without disrespecting anyone.

The subtle message--that quiet exhortation to everyone around to "raise the bar" in the coolness department--was always received loud and clear, if silently.

That was an amazing example he set that I never forgot.

The only caveat I'd offer here is that if your manhood or personal integrity is being called out by another guy you're going to have to man up and stand up for yourself.

The best way to do this, of course, is by making a reasonable
verbal appeal to the guy that what he's saying is inappropriate and that it needs to stop.

Among friends or business associates I would presume that to be enough.

Indeed, even when you're interacting with a stranger you'll be
surprised how often being reasonably direct quenches the potential altercation.

If you're dealing with an unreasonable individual, though, you
won't be able to reason with him. That follows common logic.

At that point you've got to decide whether to walk away or risk the conversation degenerating into fisticuffs.

Note that I'm not going to publicly advocate getting into fights.You, however, can base your personal decision regarding how to proceed in such situations on how idiotic the other guy is already causing himself to look and/or what the legal ramifications of the altercation would be.

By the way, if a woman ever insults you publicly no real man is going to second guess your decision not to glorify her remarks in any way, shape or form. You have nothing to prove to her or to others around you in that situation. Remove yourself.

Every man--including you and I--encounters questions like the one we covered today. It's true.

And when they come up, we'll either face them boldly...or stick our heads in the sand.

Obviously, the latter isn't very attractive to anyone--be they
employers, teammates or ESPECIALLY women.

Knowing where you stand and how to defend your position when need be is important.

And it's JUST as important to know how to make others around you look cool, thereby coming off as a cooler guy yourself.

Being a man of integrity, knowing how to make decisions and having the ability to communicate effectively are also integral to being a REAL MAN.

You also have to be PASSIONATE about what's important to you, to the degree that you're motivated to make a difference with your life and have the ambition to do so.

It can all start to sound rather overwhelming, can't it?

Well it doesn't have to be.

You were actually BORN to be that guy. In fact, EVERY MAN is born with that innate design.

Yet, somewhere along the way "modern culture" has caused us to lose sight of what it means to be a man at times, hasn't it?

Well, you can forget any message that encourages you to
"marginalize" your manhood. Instead, get your hands on the
ultimate roadmap to recharging your identity as a real man............................................... ..................................

I'll be back again soon with another letter from a reader. We'll
cover the all-important question of what to do when you feel
OVERWHELMED on your journey from where you are today to where you want to be with women.

Don't touch that dial.


Be Good,

Your Guru

[warbird]

Originally Posted by jamezwit

Bro Warbird, I guess each has their preference

I need to learn to be more hard hearted, especially when the r/s becomes sticky. So still in a learning mode to be soft/hard/soft (pun intended), hahaha...........................
I also learn from your earlier posts here that to be unannounced when turn up at the BY place, and I'll just say "我有空就来“， even though earlier I've already said I cannot make it. Like you shared and I paraphrase here and sorry if I got it wrong, a mind that controls both purse, mind and pussy will be powerful.

Hi bro jamezwit,

Missed ur post earlier.

I may be a predator while hunting pretty SYTs, but often turn "soft-hearted" if the pussies r too tasty. That is my serious flaw.

I dun think I said that. I did say, in BY-ing, if a man can't control his heart n ego, he is in big trouble.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[AAdam]

Thanks for the information...

Apparently, it seems like all these baoing belongs to those people who have the financial power to have a go. It will be a tall order for normal working folks to participate in this game.

out of curiousity, how much does it cost to be in this game in Singapore & China?

Thank you....

[jamezwit]

Thank you to all Bros who up my points. My posting is slow because I still new and my post gets moderated.

One of my BY gave me a fright before, when she randomly pick a rental place that is next block to mine. Postive thing is convenience, when need to release stress, it's right next block, but think of the embarassment if she runs into me downstairs and call out to me or worse sticky sticky hold hand. Die on the spot if seen by neighbour or family. I quickly told her to reject that flat saying random reason that I know the area and it's not safe etc.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

If you have a BY, why u let her pick where to stay?
Shouldnt you just get her a place and say like.....NAH....U STAY HERE!
Guess you must be a ladies man.....u not in control dude!!!!!!!
Bad....BAD!

[MillerV]

Originally Posted by warbird

HOW COOL GUYS RESPOND TO UNCOOL PEOPLE
Just like we talk about in our audio on the subject
, the truly cool guy indeed thrives on helping others around him look and feel cooler.

Think about it. Have you ever observed someone who is actively trying to make someone else look bad and thought to yourself what a cool guy he is? Of course not.
I actually once knew a guy who to this day I think of as one of the coolest guys I've ever met.

Amazingly, whenever someone around him said something bad about someone else, spoke in a coarse manner, started complaining about something and/or said anything else blatantly negative he'd do something incredibly powerful.

Don't touch that dial.

Be Good,

Your Guru[/SIZE]

Great Post!!
Be Cool! Be a MAN, Do the RIGHT thing!!!
=) I like this post