Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China? - Page 11

DegenerationX · #**151** 15-05-2008, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by azzaro23

Haha been there there done that, was told off by her instead

Sad...

well, i foresee that coming.

MichaelWinn · #**152** 15-05-2008, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Looksee

they will never admit tat they have husbands....even their kids become their nephews and nieces.....

it is normal for chinamen to allow their wives to go to singapore to earn money esp. those from the countryside,it is part of their culture,so their husbands become their''brothers'' or ''cousins'' when you visit them over there

MichaelWinn · #**153** 15-05-2008, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Its true..some had 5~6 bfs in S'pore & they always said they got no bf & still single

the more bfs they have ,the more sources of income they will have,all they have to do is arrange each bf to their timetable

Xena · #**154** 15-05-2008, 03:04 PM

Maybe they have family for hire there where PRC gers bring BFs to visit and then let you see sick parents and all so can ask you for $ ....

On another pt, bro, how much can you give her a month for her not to work ... to tell you the truth, alot of these PRcs rather work and eran alot then get a little money from their BFs.

azzaro23 · #**155** 15-05-2008, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Xena

Maybe they have family for hire there where PRC gers bring BFs to visit and then let you see sick parents and all so can ask you for $ ....

On another pt, bro, how much can you give her a month for her not to work ... to tell you the truth, alot of these PRcs rather work and eran alot then get a little money from their BFs.

Ya so very true if one is a on a budget like me. Anyway mentally very tired thinking about all unknown factors.

Kind of suck when you are not in control of relationship only can sit there be the passive one due to limitations.

aczeta76 · #**156** 15-05-2008, 04:22 PM

enuff said...gd luck

otur · #**157** 15-05-2008, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by azzaro23

Ya so very true if one is a on a budget like me. Anyway mentally very tired thinking about all unknown factors.

Kind of suck when you are not in control of relationship only can sit there be the passive one due to limitations.

thats why i ask u, what initially u try to find out. to support a prc woman living in china is not ex. u need onli 500-600sgd which is 2500-3000rmb. with this money she alone can lead a normal comfotable life liao. but here 2 things to consider. is this just what she wanted? n remember she has to stay alone in china where u still have to stay here n work n remit the money to her. why so cheap, cos of exchange rate. so by doing so maybe every 2-3mth u can fly over n visit her. is this good enough for u? i mean even if she is bluffing u, be asured that she will put up an act n give u real good surface value. why bother so much about the truth? we just spend money to buy feelings.....

aczeta76 · #**158** 15-05-2008, 04:31 PM

ya bro otur

500 sing more than enuff 4 sheng huo fei... ie rental,utilities , food etc

tt wat my gf tell me... but she din ask frm me... at least nt yet

see how it goes in june lah

ts,when u going huh?

azzaro23 · #**159** 15-05-2008, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by aczeta76

ya bro otur

500 sing more than enuff 4 sheng huo fei... ie rental,utilities , food etc

tt wat my gf tell me... but she din ask frm me... at least nt yet

see how it goes in june lah

ts,when u going huh?

Bro I am flying over on June 19th coming back on the 25th...

Plan is like that hope there will be no unexpected changes.

otur · #**160** 15-05-2008, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by azzaro23

Bro I am flying over on June 19th coming back on the 25th...

Plan is like that hope there will be no unexpected changes.

good luck to u bro. just take it as a short tour with open heart.

azzaro23 · #**161** 15-05-2008, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by otur

good luck to u bro. just take it as a short tour with open heart.

Thanks Bro for yr concern.

Hope my mentality and emotions now can tahan me till June b4 i go siao 1st.

aczeta76 · #**162** 15-05-2008, 09:00 PM

My advice is not to think about it from now till your trip

Juz get on with life normally..else u will burn out b4 trip

Heart Break Kid · #**163** 15-05-2008, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by MichaelWinn

the more bfs they have ,the more sources of income they will have,all they have to do is arrange each bf to their timetable

PRC KTV girls' time management is very good.. always rushing here & there.

Short times in Hotel 81 less than 1 hour is done

then quickly they hurried run to meet another bf.

To conclude all these PRC KTV girls is short term ..single bros should invest in long term relationship with other girls
(earning decent living)

azzaro23 · #**164** 15-05-2008, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by aczeta76

My advice is not to think about it from now till your trip

Juz get on with life normally..else u will burn out b4 trip

Bro I am burning out at both ends... Damm jialat everyday I like zombie..

A jealous zombie which have no right to be jealous...

lurpsexx · #**165** 16-05-2008, 02:21 AM

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Originally Posted by azzaro23

Bro I am flying over on June 19th coming back on the 25th...

Sorry ah.. I lo soh a bit here la.. I read all bros comments liao n think i see a pattern.. bear with me a while k?

Actually wat TS n all bros say liao is common for all WLs from all nationalities la.. its how good they are in the Tirak Trap. China gals more materialistic = kan cheong, n wan to make more money fast fast; thats why they say work as waitress or factory gal earn $$ slow ma.. also true la.. they pay loads of $$ come here find BF meh.. tat said, their 1st priority here is $$$.. PERIOD.

As for BF or watever shit, of course if they can hook a loser who can give them unlimited $$$ then of course they will put up a good show for you while they milk u dry la.. n when u dry liao, hee hee u get thrown out with the trash lo.. Me also got Chinese MM as GF before too n she also street walker like TS GF ma... so i know a bit of everything la,incl the Tirak traps...

Wat i wan to say is the PRC gal SEEMS like concerned abt u, but u must tell her wat u DUN have then see how she reacts lo.. if she willing to spend time with u (like ON) n forgoing earning $$ on the streets, maybe she likes u la.. but for u to be a BF (I did not say Husband ah...) material, u need to be much more for her lo.. so dun fall head over heels so early n think u are hubby to her liao.. YOU ARE NOT!! You need to go thru much more & longer with her, n be fit for her lifestyle before she even considers u as a BF.. Yet u only knew her for 3 weeks!!! Hahaha.. premature liao la...

As for ur trip to China, bring 2K SGD la.. but keep 1K in your socks.. tell her u only got enuf (1k SGD) for the flight n food. Ask her if u can sleep over at her place, take the same tpt as her n interact more with her family.. be part of her life lo... see how she will react.. if she give excuses like her house old la, many people la, not enuf room la, u wont like their street food la, u wun like their buses la blah blah blah, then u better watch out.. she got things to hide liao.. yup, some bros are correct to say that the "brother" is actually her BF or husband la, n her whole family may also be in the act too!!

same shit happening to bros with Thai GFs too ma.. its in their culture..(yes, I got Thai GF before too..

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So, dun be too upset when bros say negative things.. they are just sharing their life stories... treat this as a short holiday and try to discover what she is all abt.. but this 7 days "fact finding" mission of yours is really too short la!!!; more days better as she cannot hide so much for too long ma and u can see her for who she really is. Then u can decide if she is worth all the words n anguish u are feeling now...

Sorry ah! too lo soh liao.. just my $5 worth.. kekeke...