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I fell out with my family at 16 for a boy -- who eventually cheated on me

Posted on 17 May 2016

I thought my life was over at 16. I wrecked my entire damn existence for a boy who eventually cheated on me.

It began innocently enough. Reconnecting with a primary school classmate on Facebook, exchanging numbers and the process of unskilled flirting. Along the way, the texts became more suggestive, more daring and basically progressed to poor attempts at sexting. Embarrassing much?

On our first date at Pizza Hut, I distinctly remember being so nervous that everything tasted like ash. I should probably have taken that as a warning sign.

I don’t know who or even what to blame for what eventually went down. Was it the years of bullying and insecurity stemming from weight issues that made me latch on to any guy who showed me the slightest bit of attention? Was it the quintessential teenage angst? Was it the fact that I had been in an all-girls school?

At sixteen, I thought I was in love. Now I can safely say that I was actually in love with the idea of being in love.

We had been together for some time when my parents started to get suspicious. Our relationship was already rocky to begin with due to my teenage rebellion, and my skyrocketing phone bills, needless to say, did not help. However, I was fearless, and nothing could faze me because I was so hopelessly and impossibly infatuated.

I even snuck him over when my parents were out at work. On one occasion, I played truant and had him over, as I had done many times before. But then I heard the sound of the gate unlocking.

My mind went utterly blank and I panicked so badly, I almost had an anxiety attack. We were both on the bed and in the worst possible situation. Desperate, I hurriedly gestured for him to hide under the bed before anybody walked in.

My father walked in seconds later.

My heart stopped.

I was poised on the bed, pretending to read a book.

“Why are you not at school today?”

“Oh, our study break started already, I don’t need to go unless there’s remedial.”

He was so unusually calm. He strode over to the curtains and opened them.

“Have you cleaned the windows yet?”

“N-n-no, I’ll clean them now.”

I held my breath as he sauntered out of the room slowly. When I tiptoed after him, I saw that he returned to his room and was lying on the bed. Seizing the chance, I snuck my then-boyfriend out of the house, almost crying with relief. I immediately went about cleaning the windows.

Then, I heard my father’s footsteps approaching from behind me.

“Is our little visitor gone? His slippers aren’t there anymore.”

I’ll never forget that feeling of utter helplessness and betrayal. My father’s expression was one of smugness and latent anger.

Later that night, I was forced to reveal the existence of the boy that I had brought over. I was quite literally trembling with fear, and the fact that he was of another race didn’t help. My parents demanded that I stopped seeing him immediately and quoted my lack of maturity and poor grades as a few of the many reasons why I could not date at age sixteen.

The next few months were complete turmoil. I faced an endless tirade of scoldings and snark comments from a set of antagonistic parents, and not being able to hold my tongue, I lashed back at them just as frequently. It took a toll on the whole family. My parents would vent their frustration on my siblings, and the atmosphere at home was downright suffocating. But I thought that I was in love, and was even more determined to stick it out.

While things at home were horrible, my relationship was suffering too. He was jealous and possessive, turning verbally abusive whenever we quarrelled, and I was crying every week for some ridiculous reason or another. To make matters worse, my mother started monitoring my whereabouts, and I couldn’t meet up with him anymore. We were both sad and frustrated at not being able to meet, and he would shout and get angry if he called me and heard the voices of my male friends in the background. And yet, I still clung on.

Like I said, in love with the idea of love.

One fateful day, in a moment of utter insanity, I snuck out in the dead of the night to meet him in a nearby park.

I brought a mat and even my uniform, so I could use the excuse of going to school early to cover up my disappearance in the morning.

I got a call at 4.35 am. From my mother.

That was the last straw. She was absolutely livid, and slapped me hard when I got home, calling me cheap for spending the night outside with a boy. They dropped me at school and I was still in tears, but had to pretend that everything was fine. It was one of the worst days of my life.

My parents confiscated my phone, so I had absolutely no way of contacting him. Later at night, I tried to use my father’s laptop to contact him through facebook, but before I could do that, he caught me. Resentful and frustrated, I barged past him rudely and went back to my room. However, he did the unimaginable and used the cane on me.

Something inside me snapped. All the rage and fury from years of being controlled and beaten since I was a child erupted from within me. I picked up the books from the floor and hurled them at him. Then I fled from the room, because I knew he would not hesitate to hit me back. The commotion led to my mother joining the scene, and the three of us got into a scuffle.

I got thrown out moments later without my phone, wallet or even a bra on. I was just bruised, battered and hysterical. I didn’t know what I could do, who I could turn to and how I was going to contact anyone.

I hit my own parents, all for a boy who I thought I was in love with.

That was the turning point. In that one night, I lost all my defiance and fighting spirit, and instead became filled with self-loathing and horror.

After the madness of that night, I returned to the house as a stranger. I tried to rebuild my relationships with my parents, but it wasn’t something that could be achieved easily. And the best part was that a few months later, I discovered that my then boyfriend had been unfaithful. He confessed to a childhood crush that he once mentioned to me, and it really made me question my soul-crushing decision to give up my family for the love I thought I had with him.

It’s been a few years, but the relationship between my parents and I is still strained, and recounting this incident still fills me up with the same dread and self-loathing. I hope that the horror of my sixteenth year will serve as a warning to anyone blinded by the throes of teenage passion. A painfully strained relationship with my family and a broken heart was all that I got for giving everything up at sixteen, for a boy.

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Women employees tortured for 18 hours by boss from hell

KUALA LUMPUR, May 17 — Three women employees of an illegal online gambling website were assaulted, abused, electrocuted and beaten up by their boss, his female partner and six other men after the trio were accused of stealing money.

The three victims, in their 20s, endured 18 hours of horror in their office-cum-home in Fortune Avenue Condominium in Kepong on May 8.

The incident unfolded when one of the three victims, an administrator for the website, called the employer and told him to transfer a gambler’s winnings of RM18,000 to his account.

One of the victims, who wished to be known only as Lee, said the employer came to their makeshift office at 3am together with his partner and six other men along with another victim identified as Lim.

“On entering our unit, he started questioning us about the money which he claimed was missing. We explained we never got involved in any cash transactions as all payments were made online. But he continued accusing us of stealing the money,” Lee said.

“When we defended ourselves, he slapped, kicked and sexually attacked us.”

She said their boss took their mobile phones and wallets, and forced them to strip naked while his female partner took pictures of them.

“He then forced us to transfer whatever we had in our bank accounts to his account, which totalled RM1,000. We were then blindfolded and electrocuted as he continued to ask us about the money.

“Although I was blindfolded, I could hear them video recording us while they continued to beat us. He wanted us to confess we stole the money. We had no choice but to say yes as we could not bear the torture,” she said.

The attackers left after that, but a few hours later, the boss and his partner returned to release them. Before leaving, he warned them not to report the matter to police and threatened to circulate their nude pictures and video on the Internet if they did so.

Lee, however, lodged a report at the nearest police station.

MCA Public Service and Complaints Department head Datuk Seri Michael Chong urged police to track down the suspects.

“Pictures of their boss and his partner were taken off their Facebook accounts and police have his fingerprints as well,” he said.

Chong said the victims told him they were not the first to be abused as they had heard of other staff facing similar ordeal.

Sentul police chief ACP R. Munusamy said police were hunting the suspects and released photos of the employer, Nikkie Tan, and his partner, Brenda Tan.

“We urge them to come forward and assist us with investigations,” he said.

[ET]

wah lan eh just because i say take sexy pics and show me
like that also she got offended and block me

[marc169]

Originally Posted by Aaronphua86

it happen to me when i was at GL, it was also my first time, you know what i meant.

but instead of going to houses, i choose to do pick up along street.
here comes a PRC lady, with boobs like D cup size, steam when i sees her.
As it was my first time, i do not know how to, so i just stand near her, pretending i'm waiting for someone. And then she approached me, asking me if i want to have fun with her, so we decided on the price ($80), and she brought me to a mini hotel across the road.

when i was there, she ask me to pay $10 to the room, so i just paid. so when we are at the room, she just strip herself, and ask me to strip too, so i asked if i need to shower, she said no need, and she just lie on the bed spreading her legs, awaiting me to penetrate.

i was like, wha piang, havent warm up need to start liao, of course my dick is still not fully hard yet. and she ask me to hurry, cause she worry got people might come. after hearing that, i became a little worried, and without the right state of mind, my dick eventually became soft just after a few penetration.

she know i'm not able to continue, she said cannot liao, so she dressed up her clothes, and ask me to leave too.

my first experience ended like just 3 mins without cum.
when i leave, the counter uncle gave me a weird stare.... ya, indeed, i felt weird too.......

You should have asked her for a 50 % discount since u did not manage to release .

[GeniusLad]

Originally Posted by Eddie Tan

wah lan eh just because i say take sexy pics and show me
like that also she got offended and block me

Eddie, no head no tail.

Any girl will block you or give you a tight slap.

[GeniusLad]

Like this also can ha?

Originally Posted by SibueyJiaLat

Women employees tortured for 18 hours by boss from hell

[GeniusLad]

Many such cases just not reported.

This could had been a tragedy if she jumped from her block.

Originally Posted by SibueyJiaLat

I fell out with my family at 16 for a boy -- who eventually cheated on me

Posted on 17 May 2016

[GeniusLad]

Cars make Singaporean poor! Still many hoe to own.

In this case Hyundai Sonata taxi still plenty of problem if you ask any Comfort-Delgro drivers.

Originally Posted by SibueyJiaLat

LTA probes 'unintended acceleration' in Hyundai cars

[Congress]

Really pity you. Usually first time shoot fast. Less than 5 minute done.

Originally Posted by Aaronphua86

it happen to me when i was at GL, it was also my first time, you know what i meant.

but instead of going to houses, i choose to do pick up along street.
here comes a PRC lady, with boobs like D cup size, steam when i sees her.
As it was my first time, i do not know how to, so i just stand near her, pretending i'm waiting for someone. And then she approached me, asking me if i want to have fun with her, so we decided on the price ($80), and she brought me to a mini hotel across the road.

when i was there, she ask me to pay $10 to the room, so i just paid. so when we are at the room, she just strip herself, and ask me to strip too, so i asked if i need to shower, she said no need, and she just lie on the bed spreading her legs, awaiting me to penetrate.

i was like, wha piang, havent warm up need to start liao, of course my dick is still not fully hard yet. and she ask me to hurry, cause she worry got people might come. after hearing that, i became a little worried, and without the right state of mind, my dick eventually became soft just after a few penetration.

she know i'm not able to continue, she said cannot liao, so she dressed up her clothes, and ask me to leave too.

my first experience ended like just 3 mins without cum.
when i leave, the counter uncle gave me a weird stare.... ya, indeed, i felt weird too.......

[Congress]

Originally Posted by GeniusLad

Eddie, no head no tail.

Any girl will block you or give you a tight slap.

Why slap? What did he done?

[Congress]

Originally Posted by GeniusLad

Many such cases just not reported.

This could had been a tragedy if she jumped from her block.

Fully agreed with you. Then no coroner inquiry needed?

[Mito]

Originally Posted by skyleon

Recently the weather very hot mah .

Return you 9 points.

[SibueyJiaLat]

Good morning and thank you for your great support.

Hope more can come forward to post jialat stories here.

[SirLance]

Originally Posted by marc169

You should have asked her for a 50 % discount since u did not manage to release .

Correct, just throw the money to her and tell her take it or strip it.

[skyleon]

Originally Posted by 99099

Was hot in April 2016 but May cooler due to more rain.

What a person wear at home is really none of our business.

True what one does inside ones own home is his/hers business . But must make sure that outsiders cannot see what he/she is doing inside. This guy appears on the balcony to smoke. What the neighbours should have done :

1) Take pictures / videos of the man in thongs
2) Make a police report let the mata handle
3) feedback to MP

What they should not have done :
1) Confront the person in a group
2) Disturbing the peace

No wonder most disappear when the mata showed up . Really boji .