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#1546
20-05-2009, 02:50 AM
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Very complicated leh. Wishing you all the best. I have my own complicated life too, though not as complicated as yours. Take care
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#1547
05-07-2009, 12:36 AM
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Its not that life has become more challenging for us. Really... I think its the people around. They grown more difficult...
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#1548
09-08-2009, 03:07 PM
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 y choose to marry the wrong person?
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#1549
09-08-2009, 03:33 PM
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hm.... my POV
love only comes once a lifetime.. out of so many Bfs/gfs .. only one you will be deeply hurt I had a 10 years r/s broke off.. but i am not sad at all... but my current bf of 1 year can make me give up lots of things for him.......so i guess if we dont work out.. i will never be able to love as deep again because it god damn fking tiring.... hahaha
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#1550
09-08-2009, 03:35 PM
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#1551
10-08-2009, 01:20 AM
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 There are many nice people who are potentially right people. Strange is that the heart always pick wrong one. Lost a lot of faith in the gal. Things go wrong because we choose not to allow the trust to develop and not respecting the other half's wishes. For the guys and gals here, don't be a fool thinking you are always right because being right sometimes means that you are going to be the fool in the end. I find it heartwrenching that many things are beyond us, though we know something not right... and cannot be changed. The game of love is very fair indeed. People can choose to believe in anything they want. You can have someone who thinks that everything she believes is right. End of the day, not about who is right or wrong, but who is going to live with the decision. Its very stupid that there are those who believe that fighting to be right is the way to go for relationship and marriage. It was really never about being right or justified in one's actions. One can debate until white become black. But, can he/she live with his/her conscience and the consequences of his/her choice? There are really no wrong people to marry, but people with wrong attitudes. Marrying one with the wrong attitude (as such) is the worst decision ever to be made. Pity that some never learn. But, is it a pity to them? Never. Its just heartwrenching to know... some never learn and we have to face the ugly fact that the perceived right can be a factually wrong option.
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There is no such thing as free. Its either pay upfront or pay later. And... how much. Last edited by cmelater; 10-08-2009 at 01:31 AM.
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10-08-2009, 03:11 AM
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Didnt manage to read the whole thread, but this topic actually reminds me of an article i read online about love.. Cut it short...
the person u love most is the person u gave he/her ur selfless, no string attach, no conditions attach love.. to make it most memorable, u lost or never get the love.... no one appreciate when u hold to it, but once u lose it, it will be too late to regret... Appreciate who is with you now... 珍惜眼前人。。。。
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总以为习惯了习惯 习惯就只是习惯 总以为平淡了平淡 平淡就只是平淡 总是不小心忘记了 习惯只是因为彼此依赖 总是不小心忘记了 平淡不只是因为简单 握紧手里的幸福 也许只有一个人能让你如此的习惯.
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#1553
10-08-2009, 01:00 PM
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I salute you. TS. Good luck and all the best.
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#1554
11-08-2009, 12:46 AM
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i too jus hook up wif a gal of the past.... 3 yrs back i was working in motorla when i get to noe her n my current gf.... but i choose my current gf. in the end i lost touch wif her...
back in dec last yr i manage to contact her again... i fell in love wif her n she too fell in love wif mi.... but we were both attached. we still tried hard to be with each other. we spend more time together den with our real partners. 1 sat afternoon she pop the Q. she sae... she feel like breaking wif her bf... n i kenna stunt for a while n sae think properly 1st..... regreted wat i sae... i have since broke off wif her n tell my gf the truth...i dunno i love her anot but i cried for her when she left mi i still miss her
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#1556
11-08-2009, 11:00 AM
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Hi bro,
I have gone through and camped here for a while, and like to put my two cents worth. There is Love, Lust, Responsibilities and Compatibilities. Lust is the easiest, as we could feel it right away, but it is also the one that fades the fastest. A great sex partner will always be great, but it will fade in time due to work, age and other reason. Compatibilities, is next because you do not want to be laugh at when you are out with your partner, everything counts she has to look presentable, be able to teach and bring up you kids and so on...........Can she live in your world. Responsibilities, there is something you might want to think twice. If she does everything that a good wife does do you have the heart to divorce her. To be more selfish, when you are sick and you will be in the future, would you like her to be there for you? Love is the combination of all the above, in different portions for different bros. That is what I think. My humble two cents.
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#1557
11-08-2009, 01:20 PM
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one thing I must agree, me too couldn't agree more rather than after experienced it myself, When u love a woman at highest league, you will unconditionally sacrifice for her without expecting anything except only 1 thing in life.... that is to see her had all the happiness in this world. Last edited by Big Sexy; 17-10-2009 at 10:16 AM.
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#1559
15-09-2009, 12:59 AM
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#1560
16-10-2009, 10:24 PM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
saw this thread but neva really read it until today..
so many sad love stories from everyone.. end of the day, we all know that not everyone end up marrying the one they love most. It might be true for you but might not be the case for your partner. Love is a fleeting emotions, a butterfly hopping from one flower to another. While it is there, It magnify the beauty of its surroundings and yet it will not stay long and permanent in one place. enjoy the beauty while it last. I may not love the current as much as I love the ex.. but no point holding on to someone who loves another more than you. Furthermore I believe strongly in Fate. Since Fate had bring my current and me together, I will put in all my efforts in making it work. As for the guy that I love most.. well I love him a lot dat is why Im letting him go to make his choices.. I will never tied someone by my side cos of Love cos it is just pure selfishness on your part. If having you by the side only mean hurting them more.. then I rather let go and give them my blessing. Each nite, you will look at the sky, knowing that they are somewhere out there looking at the same sky as you, and you will just be comforted knowing that they are happy wherever they are..
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