The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[CeiResident]

Nice thread. Good to see comments coming it. My all time favourite. Good work Bro JWNY...

[SA23]

Originally Posted by fenwick

I agree with you bro ! And most of the time " The one you loved most , hurt you the most "

i fully agree with this statement but come to think of it we only had ourselve to blame for loving a gal too much.

if happen that we dun lover her that much then i believe we wont be much sometime not even hurt at all.

[keano]

Originally Posted by SA23

i fully agree with this statement but come to think of it we only had ourselve to blame for loving a gal too much.

if happen that we dun lover her that much then i believe we wont be much sometime not even hurt at all.

how not to..love that girl that much? if after all...managed to have a past with her, all the sweet stuffs, e sex and emotional..

[minitoons]

I fell into a situation where by I'm already engaged but a girl whom I met 4 yrs back wants me very badly and I also fell for her after what she had done for me. She really drop her pride and dignity to be with me despite the fact that I'm attached and engaged.

Not sure if its a tactic she use to get me back. She wants me to marry her instead of my fiancee after 1 year of pursue. I'm confused if I really love her or my fiancee.

[cmelater]

Sigh, those who have their SO got worries. Those who don't have also got worries.

I just came back from GL. Saw many other bros lurking in the streets looking at the street walkers of the different nationalities. A lot of the bros were walking alone or sitting somewhere drinking quietly. Those in the company of friends also were looking around.

Though it is prob the most congested part of sg after nite fall, its also the place where I think loneliness seems to be everywhere. Money can buy many things. But, somehow... amidst our country's economic progress, we are like a bigger population of emotionally hollow people.

Walking down gl was entertaining, as usual. Pretty street walkers here and there parading and waiting to be seen and "taken". Somewhere, there is something missing in our country today. Its that home sweet home feeling, where you have a wife and you look forward to going home everyday. I look forward to settling down, but everywhere we see are the ever higher expectations of sg men.

We should really thank the garment of SG. Without GL, Singapore would truly be a terribly boring country.

[~iOOi~]

Anyone watch last nite program? A woman say was true. Loveship between couple can only maintain for the first few years. Later it's about companionship, responsibility and taking care each other. Which I think quite true from heart

[Chanelfingers]

well, i did something to the one i love most and i never regretted.

I told him "I may not marry the person i love the most but i want to give my vriginity to the one i love the most"

Till this date, I still love him, and i did give it to him--- although sibei painful...
One day, if he ever comes back, i will accept him (provided i am not married with kids)
but i noe it will not happen. We can be best friends, Best FB but not livelong partners. I too clever, cus I know he will eat out.

[AmericanExpress]

Originally Posted by Chanelfingers

well, i did something to the one i love most and i never regretted.

I told him "I may not marry the person i love the most but i want to give my vriginity to the one i love the most"

Till this date, I still love him, and i did give it to him--- although sibei painful...
One day, if he ever comes back, i will accept him (provided i am not married with kids)
but i noe it will not happen. We can be best friends, Best FB but not livelong partners. I too clever, cus I know he will eat out.

i'm sure every man eats out

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by AmericanExpress

i'm sure every man eats out

Snacking, finger food, side dish... with entree at home?

[airbrush]

Originally Posted by AmericanExpress

i'm sure every man eats out

not only men eat out now many women also eat out and women eat out until the men don't know because when a women eat out the dish is simple without strong flavour and garnishing but when men eat out they also bring back the flavour home that why women know whether a men eat out..haha

[3m3m3m]

Originally Posted by airbrush

not only men eat out now many women also eat out and women eat out until the men don't know because when a women eat out the dish is simple without strong flavour and garnishing but when men eat out they also bring back the flavour home that why women know whether a men eat out..haha

haha..tats true bro..always bring back the smell..

[Er Lang]

Originally Posted by vesfreq2

Absolutely man... If only, can tahan to that stage. A lot of divorced cases I heard of is because the companionship part dun work out. Tragic siah.... after doing everything and going through good and bad times.

it ain't easy to live together. Will be holding my customary soon but sometimes i do wonder is married life a right move for me. ...forseen for argument and stresses to come

[cmelater]

Dun fret Er Lang,

After get married, then worry. No one really knows what they want, until things happen. Always just hope for the best.

Try and make things work, when things go wrong. I guess thats what you can do to keep things together. Worry when the day comes.

[pfingo]

Originally Posted by yinyang

Snacking, finger food, side dish... with entree at home?

home one sour liao

[comancheblitz]

I married the one that I first had a crush on, but think about the one I first loved. While I am fortunate to marry the one I love most, the scar (or memories) from first love never fades.

Just my thoughts.