Need advice on Sour marriage life..

[Cerberus]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Braddah, if she indeed has a BF or is on the verge of finding one, by all means you should make it difficult for her and have her and him pay you. Why you want to pay the bitch and some jerk so they can spend your money monthly and fuck like rabbits while you work hard to pay them? They should pay you if she wants to be free. Its time you fight back. Divorce is inevitable so go out find yourself a GF or FB and enjoy yourself. But above all and regardless if you choose to enjoy yourself or not dont pay so easily. Braddah, what you nuts?

Sg Males are pwned by the stupid Women's Charter.....
Cannot fight back....

[Top Dog]

Hi TS,

I have just come across your thread. I am sorry to hear of your plight.

Do take note of the following facts:
1) the woman's charter is going to work against you as our current system is no longer 'fault based' as it used to be. Therefore, it would not make much legal sense for you to prove or disprove your wife's infidelity;
2) if she is filing for divorce, are you going to challenge it? If you are, then, you must show whatever ground she is relying on is untrue;
3) if she files for divorce, you can also raise a counterclaim against her. If you plan to take this course of action, then, you can go ahead and try and prove her infidelity etc besides also dragging her partner into the court action. Dragging her new bf into the court action could be used by you as leverage against her if you play your cards right. However, this would be a more costly option and you should do it only if you have the spare cash to throw;
4) don't worry too much about the 25k she chalked up on your credit cards. This sum can be offset from the final sum due to her if you raise it during the ancillary hearing which would follow the main divorce hearing. Make sure that you keep the records showing the alleged purchases/spending;
5) make sure that your wife does not have access to your financial statements etc. change your mailing address with the banks etc that you have accounts with forthwith. A lot of guys overlook this simple rule and almost without fail the women will exhibit them in the supporting affidavits;
6) start preparing for your case by gathering all the evidence of financial contributions of yours and your wife, as in, who paid for what etc. this would enable you to plan your arguments subsequently when it comes to addressing the division of matrimonial issues;
7) make sure you play an active part in the lives of your children so that the judge would not give your wife sole custody care and control of your children;
8) be prepared to see a lot of allegations being hurled at you in the writ of summons;
9) face the reality, she is going for divorce. You can choose to accept that and forget about day-dreaming about reconciliation etc. the only issue for you to address is, how are you going to make sure that you don't get screwed over royally.

Kindly do excuse me if my response hereinabove is a wee bit too long. I just wanted you to have a better understanding of what is to be expected herein after so that you can be better prepared.

Cheers and all the best.

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by ricrain29

Sigh....when a woman change her heart, they will become a heartless bitch with no feelings at all. Their perspective will be so one sided (to their side) of course, and they will be all out to defend themselve and to destroy you in certain case (TS case included). Sigh..... reminds me of my ex..... when we part the last word i remember was "What have you done for me?" My heart really broke into small pieces..... what does she mean? She has no more memory is it? Or she has selective memory, erase the good times only remember the bad times? Up till now I still cant find myself a closing to what she said to me. As Bob Marley once sung "No woman no cry" Cheers!!!!

She confessed on the phone that she has an affair with an ang mo from australia...the guy is a divorcee too. She has found a new love after so many years of marriage. She cruely told me that I am not the kind of man she wants. Anyway I am waiting for the lawyer letter before I contest.

[shctaw]

So sad.

I will probably get a few bros to hammer this ang moh. I cannot stand green hat even if my wife do not like me.

I will tell my wife : "You can do anything you want after divorce. Before that you are still my legal wife."

Another way is to get PD to take all their photos. And when she ask for alimony I will throw all those photos to the judge to decide whether $0.01 is enough.


I cannot imagine giving my wife monthly alimony so Ang Moh can screw her in luxury hotel using my money.

Sorry bro; when love dies; hatred take over. There is nothing in between.

Originally Posted by topcook1

She confessed on the phone that she has an affair with an ang mo from australia...the guy is a divorcee too. She has found a new love after so many years of marriage. She cruely told me that I am not the kind of man she wants. Anyway I am waiting for the lawyer letter before I contest.

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by shctaw

So sad.

I will probably get a few bros to hammer this ang moh. I cannot stand green hat even if my wife do not like me.

I will tell my wife : "You can do anything you want after divorce. Before that you are still my legal wife."

Another way is to get PD to take all their photos. And when she ask for alimony I will throw all those photos to the judge to decide whether $0.01 is enough.


I cannot imagine giving my wife monthly alimony so Ang Moh can screw her in luxury hotel using my money.

Sorry bro; when love dies; hatred take over. There is nothing in between.

What so great about ang mo??Just only bigger dick and romantic..

[RealEstateGuy]

Braddah it makes my puke to read Ang Moh stealing your wife like that. Suppose it takes two but both are rubbish. Fight for your money to the last dollar braddah. Ang Moh will be punished by karma.

[Cerberus]

Originally Posted by topcook1

What so great about ang mo??Just only bigger dick and romantic..

I think you should focused your hatred n time on how to fight the case.

I bet that angmo just want a free f**k with your wife.....after he gets tired.....he will dump her.
I suggest you find ways to drag that angmo into the picture.

If he is not serious about your wife, he will drop her like a hot potato.

I'm not suggesting you reconcile with your wife after that.
She is a goner.
Any wife that sleeps with other man cannot be forgiven...unless you are a wimp.

Unfortunately this is Sg....in other countries, I would slap her until she goes silly.

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Braddah it makes my puke to read Ang Moh stealing your wife like that. Suppose it takes two but both are rubbish. Fight for your money to the last dollar braddah. Ang Moh will be punished by karma.

Hope my wife will be punished by karma too.. she is cruel to her loving hubby..

[S.B.Y.1]

Originally Posted by topcook1

Hope my wife will be punished by karma too.. she is cruel to her loving hubby..

bRuR topcook1 - do not allow your emotions to cloud your mental judgement

As mentioned in Pak's PM to you - Stay fokus on your case and about karma stuff there is a Supreme Being to oversee this stuff

If it's not meant to be - so be it, cover your ba$e$ and soldier on to have a more brighter future for its only your to dictate

[XiaoGe2011]

tink properly else you will regret big time hor

[mrham]

Bro,

I am sorry that things have developed to this. Anyway, since we don't really know 100% the story (maybe be know 90%... but the 10% may be impt,as the devil is in the details) my advise here you should take with a pinch of salt. Not that they are wrong or what but it might be different circumstances and it might not apply to you.

Best get legal help from a lawyer. Got any lobang can ask for a favour, nowadays lawyers kanna do pro bono work, they may be willing to help, esp if you are someone they know.

Other option is to go for legal aid. Unless you have no other option, then you can find a lawyer, but it can cost you. Pay also no guarantee can help you if the lawyer is just out for your $$.

All the best bro.

[littlepiglet]

bro, have u sit down n think, dun just assume u are rite she is wrong, for someone like u who is n noes sammyboy forum, u also is a jerk , n she mau have found out your wrong doings thus giving u the cold shoulder . why cant u just be more broad hearted n accept it or better make it up to her. yes nodoubt u pay to fuck around but did u consider her feelings when u do it...i had it b4 so i understand women , u can f around but she cant....grow up man...she also can pay to get f ...just like u...

[RealEstateGuy]

Braddahs, personally I would want to slash Ang Mohs face with a pair of boxcutters then castrate the SOB. Wife deserves the same with face and tits cut off only with pussy torched. But but its best to let karma take care of it. Braddahs, that is best way despite any anger in my opinion because you need to focus on your future.

[sgjoey]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Braddahs, personally I would want to slash Ang Mohs face with a pair of boxcutters then castrate the SOB. Wife deserves the same with face and tits cut off only with pussy torched. But but its best to let karma take care of it. Braddahs, that is best way despite any anger in my opinion because you need to focus on your future.

For one who is so anxious to improve the morals of Singapore society, I suggest that you should first take a real good look at your values.

You are a racist with violent tendencies. Hardly the model citizen, eh?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by topcook1

What so great about ang mo??Just only bigger dick and romantic..

Nothing great about these red hair devils cheapos and sons of no good motherless cows. Don't believe in all these myths and urban legends of them being bigger and romantic.

Originally Posted by topcook1

Hope my wife will be punished by karma too.. she is cruel to her loving hubby..

Yes, let Karma takes its due course. Just focus to sort out and protect what is rightfully yours asap Remember: No violence against anybody cos using violence not only will backfire on you but it will lose the whole war