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Long story, I got married a few years ago, considered quite early compared to my peers, to long time gf, kind of like highschool sweetheart. She is the typical sheltered sinkie girl type, so she don't believe in sex before marriage. After like 4 years of relationship still no sex but I told myself ok, respect women mah. But that year I was damn du lan because every year Christmas she go holiday with her family and I am alone, that year her family go holiday from my bday to past Christmas as my bday is near christmas and she forgot. Suddenly in camp my friend one day open up sbf forum on his tablet that he smuggled in and started telling us how easy to book fl, so that week in anger I created my account an booked a FL from dome 1. That started my chionging life. But I always stayed at booking fl or go RLD so as not to complicate things, never let myself be kc.
But we had a sudden marriage before I was financially ready, just because she demanded she wanted to move out. So what she wanted I tried my best to give her. She has always had bad temper and mood swings, especially when she doesn't get what she wants. But when she is happy she is like the sweetest girl in the world. Even her father told me seriously that he hopes I can tahan her when I asked for permission to marry his daughter. And ever since our wedding I have kind of emotionally checked out, as she was a bridezilla, despite spending my entire savings on the wedding. Now I am just focused on working hard to earn more money and improve my career. But after a high profile divorce settlement case in international news, I have recognized all the things she did to me throughout the years, all the emotional manipulation and sometimes even physical abuse when she hits me "for fun", and I realize all these years I was a simp for her, after that our relationship has been very cold and I stopped giving in to her demands resulting in her always getting angry.
The past year I started going bar to drink with hostesses, and no joke I am being kc-ed now, even though I don't spend big money or give big tips, don't ask to dabao and touch them all over, I really just wanted to drink and play game with pretty ladies forget my problems. But now got 2 ladies kc game damn big, always cook for me when they know I coming, sweet talk me, past few months always ask me go visit them in their room on off day or before/after their work but I brush it off.
A few weeks ago had a big argument with wife and I thought that's it, we are going to separate, so relented for one of the hostess that I really like, and went she let me up her, then she cooked a huge meal for me. Shiok the last time a woman cooked a nice meal for me was when my grandmother was still alive. Even my own mother never cooked and neither did my wife. But then wife suddenly came crying and saying sorry and how much she loves me and to give our relationship another chance and I couldn't bear to see her cry so I said ok. So now I am in a bit of a pickle, thinking of how to end things with hostess 1 who now says I'm her bf, hostess 2 who now asks me when I'm going to visit her room and eat her food since she knows what happened with hostess 1, and a wife who wants to continue marriage.
Long story, I got married a few years ago, considered quite early compared to my peers, to long time gf, kind of like highschool sweetheart. She is the typical sheltered sinkie girl type, so she don't believe in sex before marriage. After like 4 years of relationship still no sex but I told myself ok, respect women mah. But that year I was damn du lan because every year Christmas she go holiday with her family and I am alone, that year her family go holiday from my bday to past Christmas as my bday is near christmas and she forgot. Suddenly in camp my friend one day open up sbf forum on his tablet that he smuggled in and started telling us how easy to book fl, so that week in anger I created my account an booked a FL from dome 1. That started my chionging life. But I always stayed at booking fl or go RLD so as not to complicate things, never let myself be kc.
But we had a sudden marriage before I was financially ready, just because she demanded she wanted to move out. So what she wanted I tried my best to give her. She has always had bad temper and mood swings, especially when she doesn't get what she wants. But when she is happy she is like the sweetest girl in the world. Even her father told me seriously that he hopes I can tahan her when I asked for permission to marry his daughter. And ever since our wedding I have kind of emotionally checked out, as she was a bridezilla, despite spending my entire savings on the wedding. Now I am just focused on working hard to earn more money and improve my career. But after a high profile divorce settlement case in international news, I have recognized all the things she did to me throughout the years, all the emotional manipulation and sometimes even physical abuse when she hits me "for fun", and I realize all these years I was a simp for her, after that our relationship has been very cold and I stopped giving in to her demands resulting in her always getting angry.
The past year I started going bar to drink with hostesses, and no joke I am being kc-ed now, even though I don't spend big money or give big tips, don't ask to dabao and touch them all over, I really just wanted to drink and play game with pretty ladies forget my problems. But now got 2 ladies kc game damn big, always cook for me when they know I coming, sweet talk me, past few months always ask me go visit them in their room on off day or before/after their work but I brush it off.
A few weeks ago had a big argument with wife and I thought that's it, we are going to separate, so relented for one of the hostess that I really like, and went she let me up her, then she cooked a huge meal for me. Shiok the last time a woman cooked a nice meal for me was when my grandmother was still alive. Even my own mother never cooked and neither did my wife. But then wife suddenly came crying and saying sorry and how much she loves me and to give our relationship another chance and I couldn't bear to see her cry so I said ok. So now I am in a bit of a pickle, thinking of how to end things with hostess 1 who now says I'm her bf, hostess 2 who now asks me when I'm going to visit her room and eat her food since she knows what happened with hostess 1, and a wife who wants to continue marriage.
Long story, I got married a few years ago, considered quite early compared to my peers, to long time gf, kind of like highschool sweetheart. She is the typical sheltered sinkie girl type, so she don't believe in sex before marriage. After like 4 years of relationship still no sex but I told myself ok, respect women mah. But that year I was damn du lan because every year Christmas she go holiday with her family and I am alone, that year her family go holiday from my bday to past Christmas as my bday is near christmas and she forgot. Suddenly in camp my friend one day open up sbf forum on his tablet that he smuggled in and started telling us how easy to book fl, so that week in anger I created my account an booked a FL from dome 1. That started my chionging life. But I always stayed at booking fl or go RLD so as not to complicate things, never let myself be kc.
But we had a sudden marriage before I was financially ready, just because she demanded she wanted to move out. So what she wanted I tried my best to give her. She has always had bad temper and mood swings, especially when she doesn't get what she wants. But when she is happy she is like the sweetest girl in the world. Even her father told me seriously that he hopes I can tahan her when I asked for permission to marry his daughter. And ever since our wedding I have kind of emotionally checked out, as she was a bridezilla, despite spending my entire savings on the wedding. Now I am just focused on working hard to earn more money and improve my career. But after a high profile divorce settlement case in international news, I have recognized all the things she did to me throughout the years, all the emotional manipulation and sometimes even physical abuse when she hits me "for fun", and I realize all these years I was a simp for her, after that our relationship has been very cold and I stopped giving in to her demands resulting in her always getting angry.
The past year I started going bar to drink with hostesses, and no joke I am being kc-ed now, even though I don't spend big money or give big tips, don't ask to dabao and touch them all over, I really just wanted to drink and play game with pretty ladies forget my problems. But now got 2 ladies kc game damn big, always cook for me when they know I coming, sweet talk me, past few months always ask me go visit them in their room on off day or before/after their work but I brush it off.
A few weeks ago had a big argument with wife and I thought that's it, we are going to separate, so relented for one of the hostess that I really like, and went she let me up her, then she cooked a huge meal for me. Shiok the last time a woman cooked a nice meal for me was when my grandmother was still alive. Even my own mother never cooked and neither did my wife. But then wife suddenly came crying and saying sorry and how much she loves me and to give our relationship another chance and I couldn't bear to see her cry so I said ok. So now I am in a bit of a pickle, thinking of how to end things with hostess 1 who now says I'm her bf, hostess 2 who now asks me when I'm going to visit her room and eat her food since she knows what happened with hostess 1, and a wife who wants to continue marriage.
I can't relate exactly lah, but I've heard a few friends going through this.. esp after they have a good relationship with the siam diu girl then she fly back alr, he always visit her.. end up bf/gf + he's married. The expenses are really high and ninja + pretend to love wife for the peace and everything is very tiring as well. You gotta choose which life you want bah .. If you know this hostess is temporary playing with you and it will end up the same way if you cannot tank her standard moodswings and expectations.. you'll end up going Siao again. like what one the bros said here .. "You can drink the milk but don’t bring the cow home. Always pay for the milk. Nobody cares what reason you have in wanting to drink outside milk. Frankly the cows don’t give a damn and either do we."
i cheat because i want to have sex with different women
Same goes for me, I have a great gf whose decent looking with a decent figure, loves sex, probably way more than me and also takes good care of me. Would want to fuck everyday if she could. Despite all this I still cheat simply because no matter how delicious one dish is, if you eat the same dish every meal for the rest of your life, you're gonna get sick of it eventually.
Same goes for me, I have a great gf whose decent looking with a decent figure, loves sex, probably way more than me and also takes good care of me. Would want to fuck everyday if she could. Despite all this I still cheat simply because no matter how delicious one dish is, if you eat the same dish every meal for the rest of your life, you're gonna get sick of it eventually.
yes this one is true. my ex gf also looks better than some of the FL and sex also good, but just want to try other girls
With the wisdom of hindsight, married men should encourage their wives to deliver via caesarian instead of natural birth. The difference in tightness is very big. Many ladies that give birth via caesarian are tight like virgin.
That is 1 reason why men cheat. Wife isn't tight anymore after natural birth.
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A few weeks ago had a big argument with wife and I thought that's it, we are going to separate, so relented for one of the hostess that I really like, and went she let me up her, then she cooked a huge meal for me. Shiok the last time a woman cooked a nice meal for me was when my grandmother was still alive. Even my own mother never cooked and neither did my wife. But then wife suddenly came crying and saying sorry and how much she loves me and to give our relationship another chance and I couldn't bear to see her cry so I said ok. So now I am in a bit of a pickle, thinking of how to end things with hostess 1 who now says I'm her bf, hostess 2 who now asks me when I'm going to visit her room and eat her food since she knows what happened with hostess 1, and a wife who wants to continue marriage.
Wah, technically u have 1 wife, 1 GF and 1 GF wannabe. Keep the wife so u siam alimony and all that shit, now u know her weakness u can play on that to your advantage. The other 2 GFs just pay them what u think they deserve, if u ever promote any of the GF to be wife status means u kana KC liao, pls turn back before they ask for allowance....
Wah, technically u have 1 wife, 1 GF and 1 GF wannabe. Keep the wife so u siam alimony and all that shit, now u know her weakness u can play on that to your advantage. The other 2 GFs just pay them what u think they deserve, if u ever promote any of the GF to be wife status means u kana KC liao, pls turn back before they ask for allowance....
yes this is true. the 2 extra girls. please do not tio kc, stay in control. u lose control gone u will lose all money lose all 3 girls become nothing.
17-11-2022, 05:06 PM
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