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My experience finding a girlfriend after five years of only visiting FLs & WLs weekly
As a result of how difficult my first divorce was, I never wanted to date again. Since then, it's only been escorts, happy endings, brothels and etc etc. Although I had a great time, I couldn't help but miss having an emotional connection with someone else.
I signed up for many dating apps and started looking. There was no need to be pushy or push to get the cunt since within a week I was going out on dates with matches and I was mostly focused on relationships rather than sex (I was still fucking prostitutes). I grew intrigued in one particular woman, and we had sex after the third date. To be honest, her sex was terrible, dead fish style. We've been having sex/seeing each other for about three weeks. I'd estimate she's 6 or 7, and I'm used to fucking 8+ prostitutes, but while the dates and communication are enjoyable, the sex is generally underwhelming. I've tried to be courteous and encouraging, but she seemed to believe that laying on her back and spreading her legs is all there is to sex. I've had sex with over 300 women in my life and I simply don't believe I'll be able to find relationships enjoyable any more. As I hinted at previously spending time with her is enjoyable outside of the bedroom, and it's great to banter every day, but for me, having sex with a suitable partner is a lot of pleasure. I believe that because I have experienced so many excellent prostitutes, a typical civilised lady would never catch up or be able to compete. I believe that for me, visiting prostitutes is the road to finding fulfillment in life. The everyday duties of having to connect with the gf are growing irksome and might seem overpowering at times. Anyone had come to this understanding?
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Is like either you get good sex but not much connection feeling to it. Or you got someone who can talk with you everything under the sun, but the sex is just average or cmi. For me now is to slowly find what i really want and continue from there. If this lady does not give what i want, maybe i continue hunting while holding onto her first. Once there’s someone better, drop the current one. That’s what i feel now. Btw it’s up to every individuals. |
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It's hard to find another person perfectly compatible indeed.
Perhaps some people have too much love to give to, or too many needs to get from any one single person. Maybe you could try initiating something kinky with her? From FLs you are used to a certain 'level of service', but maybe she's capable of more if you push the right buttons? Maybe she could be the best 'slut' you've ever had? I believe we have made enough mistakes with our marriages to be able to avoid repeating it. If it's a deal breaker it's a deal breaker. No ifs or buts. |
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Two different leagues we are talking about here: experienced professionals vs everyday people.
If your gf/wife is intimately familiar with various karmasutra positions, you’d need to consider how she got that good. Makes her more risky in terms of fidelity don’t you think? Unless you are some godly porn stud or you can lick your eyebrows, then you are on the level playing field. Takes time , luck & effort to be able to find your compatible match. And compatibility does not mean perfection. Perfection is an ideal and even perfection over a long period is gonna end up in boredom. You can only be happy if you understand gratitude. |
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I have probably fucked many hundreds of women over the last 20 years or so. But having sex with a woman who loves me, cares for me and wants to make me happy is more fulfilling than any whore, no matter how skillful. Yes she will not have the perfect body and face and youth that you can buy with whores. But emotional connection with sex is a huge turn on. Have you talked with your GF about your sexual desires and is she willing to do more in bed? Have you done more to turn her on as well? If the rest of the relationship works, you should at least try to work on the sex part. Yes, in the end, yes good sex with your partner is necessary for a good relationship. But dont compare her with whores who are just paid to play a role.
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life usually sucks as there is seldom a perfect scenario. e.g a job that pays well with a lousy boss or vice versa.
the thing about chonging too much is, when come to plain jane girl for r/s, the expectation about sex is totally screwed up, seldom will a normal girl give services like bbbj, cim, AR, etc whatever. but at the same time one is not willing to totally give up on the girl as outside the bedroom the r/s is great. in summary, want a wife that cares for you and at same time great in bed, yes its possible but not easy, in most cases have to settle for either one, my one cent of salt, esp if you are only a avg joe. |
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I have a somewhat reverse experience. After many years of visiting freelancers, I met my current girlfriend 8 years ago. As some of you guys said, having sex with someone you have feelings for and who also has feelings for you is totally different from fucking a whore who, at best, is only acting. My gf and I had super hot sex most times, and she has a killer toned, tanned body with long legs to die for. Sex and cuddling afterwards was super fulfilling. Then she enters peri menopause and everything changes. She no longer wants sex no matter how much I persuaded her. The feelings are still there but her sex drive is down to zero and she doesn’t like to be touched intimately any more. So now I’m back to finding sexual satisfaction from freelancers for release though I still love the one at home. It’s depressing.
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In most areas of expertise, the professional beats the amateur hands down. I guess this may also be true for many when it comes to sex.
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Of course la bro, why u think we all visiting FLs/MLs if our partner damn good in bed? Sometimes I feel we should have 2nd chance to relive our lives, after knowing what we go through i might have taken a non committal path. Just saying....
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My experience finding a girlfriend after five years of only visiting FLs & WLs we
Interesting point of view. According to an acquaintance of mine, single women typically excel at sex or struggle mightily. Some of them remained single because they enjoy having many of partners, while others dated less until they became uninteresting.
To contrast us with prostitutes who exist just to please men, however, would be unfair. Since the purpose of sexual activity is to make each other feel good, you can try something interesting |
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For example, sex with your significant other, has the purpose of pleasuring both parties. You have to enjoy it, and you have to make sure she enjoys it too. There is some aspect of pressure, especially if she's not as "horny" as you. So, you'd need to work harder, be more attentive. To a WL, you don't need to because it's their job to pleasure you. I know, some will work hard to make sure they pleasure the WL too. The difference is, the WL will say or act like it's working, she'll give u the reaction she thinks you want. A significant other or partner may be more honest, and that honesty might not be what the guy likes. |
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I had very little experience with sex when I first started, but I have really improved. It is an attitude issue. If you want your spouse to have fun, you should continue to learn and attempt new things. A few things I tried. 1 attempt is to give him a blowjob to get him up in the morning. Another is surprising him in the shower by giving him a blowjob, scrubbing his back, then having sex with him. (3) Making preparations for a vacation in Thailand. bringing my spouse to those naughty massage places in Bangkok to tease him every now and again. All dull auntie tricks. Young girls can do better |
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Got an ex from NTU. Same shit. Apparently education doesn't provide that woman the common sense to improve on her skills. Just lay there like a dead fish as well. I slept with tons of prostitutes, should be in the 300-400 range. Nationalities that are usually under performing in terms of skills are PRCs, Vietnamese, Koreans. Thais (most consistent), Polish, Japanese, Malaysian Chinese are usually the better performers. And yes, there're all prostitutes. Never dated another Singaporean millennial from majority racial grp. Heard some good things from those under 30 grp, but I am too old already (43). True, there should be life outside of bedrm. But no bedrm skills is a big no-no for me. Unless, you're a man with extremely low self esteem and libido. Yes, the former may suit you better. |
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