Married men come in

[superkk]

Originally Posted by mikestc

My wife not local la but sg pr..
I do read here that many local sg wife/gf not really intrested in sex..despite them beautiful or good looking.. wasted la..

its the local environment.

porn is banned and everyday you see newspaper and news of ppl who have zero sex appeal talking cock.

do you feel like fucking when everyday liangpopo or PCK appear in your social media in the form of intrusive ads? or some fat ugly dude trying to sell you investment tips/schemes?

when i am in other countries, their local ads keep me interested. when i am in sg, i stay off local media because its all a bloody turn off.

[BoxerBoy]

Originally Posted by Redmys

Maybe once a year during wedding anniversary. We in our late 30s and married for almost 10yrs.

Wife claimed that she doesn’t achieve orgasm during sex and don’t like painting. Made me blame my skills in bed and I have to admit I excel in many things, but sex isn’t really one of it. Any advice from the bros and sis here?

Bro, can try some med like blue wiz kind on your wife, follow by sex toy. For yourself, you can also try Vigred and delay spray. They work perfectly. Can pm me to share my experiences on these product. Lol

[itguy2008]

Originally Posted by tsar666

tryout whateva she’s into bud, hopefully she’ll be reciprocal..there onward she’d be more appreciative of your efforts, by then…UNLEASH KRAKEN

It is ok. Marriage is over. Divorced. No point torturing her and myself.

[itguy2008]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Is it ???...u miss me ahh ?? ... didn't know that I hv been a clown to u all, all this while ..wat reward would I get for entertaining u guys ???

We market your hardness to the ladies. I mean we market you harder to the ladies.

[itguy2008]

Originally Posted by curious11

haha we haven’t reach that stage yet. but i’m sure your story story will be helpful in the future lol

I hope you will never come to this stage.

[Redmys]

Originally Posted by superkk

its the local environment.

porn is banned and everyday you see newspaper and news of ppl who have zero sex appeal talking cock.

do you feel like fucking when everyday liangpopo or PCK appear in your social media in the form of intrusive ads? or some fat ugly dude trying to sell you investment tips/schemes?

when i am in other countries, their local ads keep me interested. when i am in sg, i stay off local media because its all a bloody turn off.

Haha you are right bro! I stayed away from local media a long time ago.. we have internet now, should be able to watch the things we want and not kana psycho by main stream media.

[Redmys]

Originally Posted by BoxerBoy

Bro, can try some med like blue wiz kind on your wife, follow by sex toy. For yourself, you can also try Vigred and delay spray. They work perfectly. Can pm me to share my experiences on these product. Lol

Do you have other suggestions without taking external medicine? It’s sad that both of us does not initiate sex and our daily topics always revolve around work and how to make more money. I wonder whether we are a normal couple or not. Does your wives/gf initiate sex with you?

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Redmys

Do you have other suggestions without taking external medicine? It’s sad that both of us does not initiate sex and our daily topics always revolve around work and how to make more money. I wonder whether we are a normal couple or not. Does your wives/gf initiate sex with you?

Yes bro, u r like a normal conservative mainstream couple who r just bogged down by work n almost nothing else n also very concerned with making money for themselves n their families so as to enable them to enjoy a better quality of life...but there r quite a lot of couples with HSD who will go all out to find ways n means to spice up n enjoy their sex lives... taking out the stress from work n raising a family n having a work life balance can help improve a couple's sex lives..e.g like going on a vacation just the 2 of them on a cruise ship or in a romantic island away from the hustle n bustle of life

[Funlover]

Originally Posted by mikestc

Hi,
Married man..just want to know how often do you have sex with your spouse? For me i have it 2 times in a week... so far satisfied la... wife also ok with the frequency since we both busy at work and kids

It depends on how tired we r from work. If we r not shag, once every 2 days but recently I started to "eat" outside as I'm always the one initiated the love making, I wanna purposely not make my move on her for a period and let her feel horny and initiate the intimacy..

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Funlover

It depends on how tired we r from work. If we r not shag, once every 2 days but recently I started to "eat" outside as I'm always the one initiated the love making, I wanna purposely not make my move on her for a period and let her feel horny and initiate the intimacy..

bro, u r so horny...having such HSD n needing a lot of sex n intimacy...does she resist yr advances or give excuses not to ??...it's a good idea u hv ..keep us posted if yr experiment succeeds or not if u can...thanks

[Redmys]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Yes bro, u r like a normal conservative mainstream couple who r just bogged down by work n almost nothing else n also very concerned with making money for themselves n their families so as to enable them to enjoy a better quality of life...but there r quite a lot of couples with HSD who will go all out to find ways n means to spice up n enjoy their sex lives... taking out the stress from work n raising a family n having a work life balance can help improve a couple's sex lives..e.g like going on a vacation just the 2 of them on a cruise ship or in a romantic island away from the hustle n bustle of life

Thanks for the advice bro.. I think you are right, Covid didn’t make it better as well and stuck in Singapore for too long really can drive people crazy..

[iluvbreast]

Originally Posted by Redmys

Do you have other suggestions without taking external medicine? It’s sad that both of us does not initiate sex and our daily topics always revolve around work and how to make more money. I wonder whether we are a normal couple or not. Does your wives/gf initiate sex with you?

If you don't mind me asking, how did your situation evolved to what it is today? I mean was it like this during courtship? or the sex actually decreased gradually over the years or did something triggered it, for instance child birth?

Your wife claim she cannot climax while sex with you, no offense, does it mean that she never climax during sex (I understand some women are like that) or it is because she can't while doing it with you.

Sorry I don't mean to belittle your sexual abilities, there are many reasons to the problem, sometimes it is because the man is too rough, not enough or wrong kind of foreplay or the duration is short etc.

Your first post asked for friendly advice, I prefer not to suggest blindly.

To answer your latest question, yes for me, my mrs still initiate sex or ask for sex, especially after her menses.

[Funlover]

Originally Posted by Rickey

bro, u r so horny...having such HSD n needing a lot of sex n intimacy...does she resist yr advances or give excuses not to ??...it's a good idea u hv ..keep us posted if yr experiment succeeds or not if u can...thanks

Normally she wont resist unless is really tired after a long day or work. Just that I would wish that she initiate abit more..

[Redmys]

Originally Posted by iluvbreast

If you don't mind me asking, how did your situation evolved to what it is today? I mean was it like this during courtship? or the sex actually decreased gradually over the years or did something triggered it, for instance child birth?

Your wife claim she cannot climax while sex with you, no offense, does it mean that she never climax during sex (I understand some women are like that) or it is because she can't while doing it with you.

Sorry I don't mean to belittle your sexual abilities, there are many reasons to the problem, sometimes it is because the man is too rough, not enough or wrong kind of foreplay or the duration is short etc.

Your first post asked for friendly advice, I prefer not to suggest blindly.

To answer your latest question, yes for me, my mrs still initiate sex or ask for sex, especially after her menses.

Courtship was ok, like most couples normally do, she will initiate BJ at times and will do naughty things like blowing me while I was driving or suggest sex in public places. It was a time where we don’t get much privacy because none of our parent’s houses are friendly towards hanky panky, there are usually people at home. You know it’s when you can’t have it then you will think about it more and then builds the desire to initiate sex?

At one point she got pregnant and went through an abortion, I started to cut back on the times to have sex due to guilt. Sex dropped greatly after that and I don’t do very well with condoms as I get soft easily after it’s put on, I really wonder how some guys can be so horny and stay hard. And bro thanks for being sensitive about my sexual performance, I have to admit I’m not the kind who can bang long and hard for 20-30mins. I spent most of my teens and early adult working and studying, I don’t go clubbing or try and pick up girls. I have many female friends but I always try to do the right thing and make sure things remain as friends and don’t escalate to FWB or more. With utmost honesty here, there are really girls who are attracted to me and I also had thought about it, I just didn’t want to make things weird to take any actions.

After married for so many years, really don’t feel that kind of desire anymore, especially when wife walks around naked at home and witnessing each other’s bathroom habits. Sometimes we just fart in front of each other, if you know what I mean? Felt like roommates / flat mates instead of lovers and most of the things we talk about are either money or work related.

I am not sure whether she’s lying about not achieving orgasm with me only or never encounter one at all in her life. She doesn’t like getting licked down south or nipples sucked. The impressions I got is that she doesn’t have any spots that are sensitive. Had tried to talk about it a few times in the past, she kept saying none, only suggested she like to be forced (what does this mean? For exp bros and sis if you can enlighten me). And a big clue I got was my wife’s ex is ang moh who fucks alot with her (and with other girls). He was her colleague at work, different dept and higher rank than her, and many occasions they will have 2-3hrs lunch to fuck in that guy’s rented condo (since he is an expatriate). Maybe she like big tool males and don’t dare to tell me and hurt my ego?

She was my 3rd girlfriend before becoming my wife, my past relationship are mostly long term and lost my V to 2nd girlfriend. We are not sexually active also. I am a normal guy who gets turn on sexy girls and watching porn, only thing is I really don’t know how to satisfy girls and be a good lover in the bedroom.

I engaged in paid services yesterday thinking I will have a great time, but end up it was the same thing as how I have sex at home. The only difference is the FL is committed to making me feel good while with wife it should be mutual. I paid for 2 shots but couldn’t finish the 2nd shot. 1st shot lasted 1min after penetration.

I really envy couples that can live together and still engage in intimacy.

[kryptoz]

Originally Posted by Redmys

Courtship was ok, like most couples normally do, she will initiate BJ at times and will do naughty things like blowing me while I was driving or suggest sex in public places. It was a time where we don’t get much privacy because none of our parent’s houses are friendly towards hanky panky, there are usually people at home. You know it’s when you can’t have it then you will think about it more and then builds the desire to initiate sex?

At one point she got pregnant and went through an abortion, I started to cut back on the times to have sex due to guilt. Sex dropped greatly after that and I don’t do very well with condoms as I get soft easily after it’s put on, I really wonder how some guys can be so horny and stay hard. And bro thanks for being sensitive about my sexual performance, I have to admit I’m not the kind who can bang long and hard for 20-30mins. I spent most of my teens and early adult working and studying, I don’t go clubbing or try and pick up girls. I have many female friends but I always try to do the right thing and make sure things remain as friends and don’t escalate to FWB or more. With utmost honesty here, there are really girls who are attracted to me and I also had thought about it, I just didn’t want to make things weird to take any actions.

After married for so many years, really don’t feel that kind of desire anymore, especially when wife walks around naked at home and witnessing each other’s bathroom habits. Sometimes we just fart in front of each other, if you know what I mean? Felt like roommates / flat mates instead of lovers and most of the things we talk about are either money or work related.

I am not sure whether she’s lying about not achieving orgasm with me only or never encounter one at all in her life. She doesn’t like getting licked down south or nipples sucked. The impressions I got is that she doesn’t have any spots that are sensitive. Had tried to talk about it a few times in the past, she kept saying none, only suggested she like to be forced (what does this mean? For exp bros and sis if you can enlighten me). And a big clue I got was my wife’s ex is ang moh who fucks alot with her (and with other girls). He was her colleague at work, different dept and higher rank than her, and many occasions they will have 2-3hrs lunch to fuck in that guy’s rented condo (since he is an expatriate). Maybe she like big tool males and don’t dare to tell me and hurt my ego?

She was my 3rd girlfriend before becoming my wife, my past relationship are mostly long term and lost my V to 2nd girlfriend. We are not sexually active also. I am a normal guy who gets turn on sexy girls and watching porn, only thing is I really don’t know how to satisfy girls and be a good lover in the bedroom.

I engaged in paid services yesterday thinking I will have a great time, but end up it was the same thing as how I have sex at home. The only difference is the FL is committed to making me feel good while with wife it should be mutual. I paid for 2 shots but couldn’t finish the 2nd shot. 1st shot lasted 1min after penetration.

I really envy couples that can live together and still engage in intimacy.

like what bro iluvbreast said, some women dont get orgasm from sex but can get it from grinding, fingering or toys.

question on the pregnancy, was it an abortion or miscarriage? as for condoms, it may be possible that they are too tight. try using ones that are >55mm.

since you mentioned she likes to be forced, it sounds like she likes you to be take more control, be more in control, take her. my partner used to say she doesnt like to be licked but after getting eaten a few times(sometimes i just ignore her attempts to push my head away), now she just let me go down on her without rejecting.

if she wears loose clothes when sleeping, you can try to give her a massage to warm her up, occasionally along the inner thighs to get her aroused. have her lie on her stomach, continue to massage to relax her before entering her(prone bone).

try to build up the mood by going for dinner, followed by some alcohol. the women that i've been, tend to be more relaxed and open after having some alcohol, wetter and wilder too.