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Ways of convincing and trying
I've a story to share and would love to hear your thoughts on this.
I know this colleague who has had fun with another colleague of mine. Both are married but that fun time was years ago. I guess it's the excitement. She's quite pretty and recently i got close to her due to work projects. I hinted to her to go out on a date with me but she laughed it off and tried to ignore the topic but we are still very close and share jokes here and there and sometimes it's the flirty type. Asked her to go out on a date with me because now she's not married anymore. Her response was she finds me 'scary' and 'dangerous' and when i asked more of what she meant by that, she said dangerous in a way that i was charming and attractive so it was dangerous. Not sure what she meant by that but i guess she doesn't want to fall in love or anything like that? Tbh, I'm not looking for love too. Just companionship and maybe have a good time destressing and chilling with her. How do i try to convince her to try and go out with me and have a good time? |
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Disarm her with being candid, direct, but just a bit cheeky to tease her and show you are returning her flirtations. That's kind of how I upped my supervisor at work last time in my first job.
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Wow, you managed to get your supervisor! Sounds like something I’d be afraid to do especially when they decide your performance appraisal
But yes I agree too, I think come across as candid, direct and abit cheeky for the teasing part. But also let her get to know your reason and if she feels the same way and reciprocated, then it’s a win win for you both anyway. Perhaps you are also really charming and attractive and that can also be “scary”, because what if she devotes herself to you, and someone takes you away from her. Then all the effort she has put into being w you is lost and she’s going to go back to finding a guy who she thinks won’t scare her. Quote:
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Link below describes how things happened. Good thing she doesn't, and the company back then didn't have performance appraisals. Not the right industry for that sort of thing anyway, and the boss wasn't the kind to believe in performance appraisals either at least for non-sales staff. https://sbfsg.agency/showthread.php?p=1...=#post18927874 Sadly we didn't stay FWBs after I quit her company. We kind of drifted apart after that too due to personality differences that couldn't be papered over with sex (we fell out big time in the office in my last week at work, and the last fuck we did after my last day at work was the angry sex kind).
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Last edited by kryptonite1892; 23-07-2022 at 08:21 PM. |
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Of course drift apart, how a mature lady get along with a young kiddo?
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Alot of mature like young kiddo
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sometimes girls ignore or reject your request to date her out but from experience, these are just covering up what they are open to actually. i only interact with her during working hours as i tend not to msg her. Should i start msging her continuing the pursuit of spending time after work?
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If you don't drink because you're Halal and she is not, then nearly confirm plus chop you have zero chance of upping her. Even if you do, she will continue to drink and meet other guys in a social environment with alcohol - and what are you going to do then?? Drink coke? |
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and for after work chilling, maybe use events like concert, expo you want go see something ask her accompany u as friend, like this less direct less like a date defense down then progress to date after a few such outings this just my suggestion
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check with him ? |
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If you persist further, she may report you to the HR. It's the #metoo era now. It's a warning sign to back off. She already risked her career by having fun with a colleague. That affair is no longer a secret. If she shits where she eats again, how will it look on her resume or on future reference checks?
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i checked with him already. I think that time it was something of 'not getting enough attention by hubby' period that's why she was looking for something else. Now that they're not together anymore...
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