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How much you earn and how much you lost?
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I heard of a case.... wife initiated divorce. Hubby also shock suddenly happened (bo dai bo ji kana such thing). Think the couple got communication problems. But basically guy takes care of family.. doesn't anyhow outside.
Wife ask for these: 1. Sell hdb flat and proceeds she take. So guy stay where? 2. 2 kids...each monthly 1800. Hubby take home 3600. Wife working and earn decent pay to get by each day. (Basically the guy no need to eat liao) 3. Savings all surrender to wife. 4. Only certain timings then can see kids. And must have approvals. 5. Go overseas must inform. These kinda stuffs lawyer also help the wife write in letter. Cannot even advise the wife that it's too much liao. That's why lawyers have no heart... only money counts. May God bless the pitiful guy. |
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Do not confuse love with indulging a loved one’s flaws/ bad decisions. If say you have a wife who earns 2500 but wants to drive a car, indulging that would mean saying yes to an overleveraged lifestyle. Instead of helping her buy a car, help her obtain the means of buying a car. It could be a switch of occupation or enforced savings by sacrificing other luxuries. Many times we blame the other party for a decisions we ourselves supported unwittingly. Always reflect on ourselves first, that will help to improve our choices in the future.
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since that guy has been providing for the family i doubt she gets what she wants. 1) sell house proceed she gets? hahaha. no such thing. what he contribute he gets back. the profit i believe sure in percentage split. unless can prove he doesnt give the family money den she can claim all the years he owe the family. but nevertheless wont get all. 2) he take hime 3.6k and she wants all? dat one or sure cannot lah.unless he gt side income or business ah. if normal worker sure cannot. if can hope he can share it here. never hear cases lkke dat b4. 3) savings? his personal she can claim n he gt to fight. joint accnt as well. don think will get all. gt to prove who contribute to the savings and whose money. fight n fight. seem the wife is another fucker. 4 and 5) care ad control usually the wife will get but custody joint. now they wanna get the father to be more involved with the kids. joint custody. propose a fair visitation rights with overnight access. unless the father is abusive or cant commit on weekends. lawyer is like dat.she engage lawyer they will write all sort of things. like scare you. if u agree don need to fight in court, save u the hassle of getting a lawyer and also ur time. my advice is to fight. your lawyer will also do the same. find receipts, any evidenece , watsapp, pictures to show you are a gd husband. and present. whatever she say in her afidavit explain and show prove shes lying or exaggerating. so the court knws shes a liar n her claim is bullshit. dats wat i did. waste few thousand for lawyers rather then give her money and she enjoy with a new guy and u suffer |
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Anyone in their 42 and restarting?
I'm restarting with a bad heart condition due to Gerd. Now cock is willing but heart dare not raise about 140 bpm. So I think sex is out so not sure about getting a gf or partner. But I'm pretty fit and I can sprint but cannot prolong hitt. Divorced. One sided lawyer. No children. Fark care about alimony because she makes me wear green beret. Got picture. But no sex pic. |
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WC indeed high time for overhauling. Level the playing field. Nowadays pussies can be far more itchy than cocks, regardless of marriage vows. as long is wife is pretty, sure to have glib tongue well regarded alpha males preying to violate the pussy... Unless paternal instincts too strong, else better forgo marriage and have max freeplay without accountability. |
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simple reason is...most prob u marry a gal around ur age. Imagine when u r in 40s, will u feel nothing when seeing SYTs out there? and worst of all is not only cant piak outside, but having a demanding wife that 40ish and wont look into the mirror and lower her expectations cos got upper hand (WC). The poor guy's life is really farked from his 40s till his last breath. |
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damage already done, just try to control the damage. he got access to the kids one day a week. other days he also no time so sometimes its not all curse but some blessing. Imagine divorced dad all the free time being used on the kids. No more own life also. No time find new gf, no time go out with old friends. Then eventually lost all the friends 1 by 1. Now he found a nice local gf (not chio but very nice person the gf). She's much higher income than him (i would say at least double his monthly income), doesnt mind him being a divorcee with kids, doesnt mind him being piled with debts to pay either. She doesnt expect him to provide her anything financially. Yes he got sucked dry dry by ex wife before divorce. But at least he can still stand up with feet again given a few years to clear his debt, rather than travel down the bottomless pit path with the ex wife. |
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Guy never give wife money but contribute more to the family. Means for example, for every dollar wife contribute, he contributes double. And yes... must fight back. But hard leh..with WC on her side. |
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he must be clever to like make d expenses look alot.so his ex wife cant get much.them he will put a suggested amnt for the maintenance. all dis bring to judge , judge will also agree cannot be all his pay utilise for the kids maintenance. his wife is sure a vampire. wanna suck dry. |
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I suspect wife wan hubby to fight back...waste legal fees...until hubby dry up and suffer. If hubby don't fight.. have to agree with her terms. Both ways are financially dead-end. Quite evil actually. Last edited by ahgore; 16-09-2020 at 05:56 PM. Reason: Add on paragraphs |
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