The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[JWNY]

You may have married

- a one night stand
- a fling
- a wife or girlfriend of a buddy / best friend
- childhood sweetheart
- your boss / colleague
- a cousin
- matchmaked
- etc, etc

.....but is that person the one you loved most?

who cares to share their thoughts? married / divorced / singles can participate.

JWNY

[beingunknown200]

reminds me of a song by Ronald Cheng - 最爱得人不是你 (If I remember the title correctly)...felt the lyrics can be so true sometimes...

[chick]

99% of the pple around me are so.....the person they married is not the person they loved most in their lifetime...

[superman]

You can't married the one you love, but you can married the one that loves you.

[asdfghjkl]

Do I know how hard it is to love someone who love you at the same time? Normally is I love her then she love me type..

[giggz83]

Originally Posted by superman

You can't married the one you love, but you can married the one that loves you.

then .. isnt she the luckiest lady? cos she married who she love.

poor us lucky her ...

[lao_teeko]

tend to agree...

how many of us end up doing what we wanted to do when we were young anyway?

we dont get it our way every time...

its a matter of timing. when you are ready to settle down..and this person who has been with you for this time...is automatically the 1st choice.

you may not love her as much as your previous gfs..but too bad that they broke up with you..or they have chosen someone else..

[Qimonda]

ANother case of marry someone who love me more than her, here

[The_Unrepentant]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

Do I know how hard it is to love someone who love you at the same time? Normally is I love her then she love me type..

not love him meh?

[Rw6828]

There's a saying, it's better to be loved than to loved.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by JWNY

You may have married

.....but is that person the one you loved most?

who cares to share their thoughts? married / divorced / singles can participate.
JWNY

Marriage is about 2 people being together, willing to undertake the responsibility to look after each other for life. We may not love the woman we married most but then again we aren’t stone cold heartless creatures, looking at the sacrifices and efforts made by her for the relationship, I believe we will learn to appreciate her and love her in the way that she deserve.

[desk13]

Very well said, love is not everything, got to look at the whole picture

[sam30sg]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

Marriage is about 2 people being together, willing to undertake the responsibility to look after each other for life. We may not love the woman we married most but then again we aren’t stone cold heartless creatures, looking at the sacrifices and efforts made by her for the relationship, I believe we will learn to appreciate her and love her in the way that she deserve.

Well said bro, I do agreed with you bro 5stone, my wife is not the one I love most but she is the one that supported me in what ever I do so I believe that as husband we should understand and love our wives over the years togerther, most importantly we should appreciate what she did and sacrifices that she did for us.

well I married whom I wanted to marry but then she turned into someone that I don't really want to marry. I now rather to be loved then to love someone more... hmm..

[curiosityz]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

Marriage is about 2 people being together, willing to undertake the responsibility to look after each other for life. We may not love the woman we married most but then again we aren’t stone cold heartless creatures, looking at the sacrifices and efforts made by her for the relationship, I believe we will learn to appreciate her and love her in the way that she deserve.

totally agree with what you have said, bro!!!