cannot cum... any bro have same issue?

[abchinese]

lately during FJ, i find difficulty in cumming, hence many a time = need to extend 1-2 more session with the WLs/FLs in order to cum.

I'm in my mid 30's, in average health...

any bro have same issue? some bro mentioned may b PCC too much, but nowsadays seldom - only in my younger days and in my younger days, i nvr have problem cumming during FJ.

any bro got advice?

[dromedary]

Not exciting enough. I have the same problem. But not when the girl is gorgeous or the session is exciting.

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Could be not tight enuff?

[peanut123]

Does your dick feel good ? If she's too dry or too loose, your dick may not be getting the stimulation it needs to remain hard and shoot. Some WLs don't like to apply lube as they find it messy, so you have to help youself. Apply some lube and get going.

Of course the mental state also matters. If the girl is ugly, poor attitude or very rush, you might feel sian and cannot even get hard.

Originally Posted by abchinese

lately during FJ, i find difficulty in cumming, hence many a time = need to extend 1-2 more session with the WLs/FLs in order to cum.

I'm in my mid 30's, in average health...

any bro have same issue? some bro mentioned may b PCC too much, but nowsadays seldom - only in my younger days and in my younger days, i nvr have problem cumming during FJ.

any bro got advice?

[IIVI]

Maybe a month of total sexual abstinence can help ?

[abchinese]

Originally Posted by dromedary

Not exciting enough. I have the same problem. But not when the girl is gorgeous or the session is exciting.

thanks, maybe so, cos FLs/WLs rather SOP not enough s-excitment. young that time, new to cheonging, so still get excited easily. now older = old bird, same-old SOP service = no excitment enough.

[alvin36]

Originally Posted by abchinese

lately during FJ, i find difficulty in cumming, hence many a time = need to extend 1-2 more session with the WLs/FLs in order to cum.

I'm in my mid 30's, in average health...

any bro have same issue? some bro mentioned may b PCC too much, but nowsadays seldom - only in my younger days and in my younger days, i nvr have problem cumming during FJ.

any bro got advice?

cannot cum ?
is your dick still hard or went dead ?

if your dick went dead during pumping.. definitely is not healthy. If happen too often, better consult doctor.

On the other hand, if you continue pumping for says.. 20-30minutes, and you lost the urge and patience, but dick still hard , but just cannot shoot.... you have to first ask yourself, do you still enjoy the session ? or you totally lost interest ?

both situation... are not healthy. The 2nd situation may happen to more elderly men usually, they will get hard, but cannot shoot. and lost the urge and patience after legs get tired.

anyway, the ultimate question. is whether you still enjoy it.

[niteragester]

Think your 2IC maybe lost interest, maybe upgrade into role play may help :P

[randomF]

jialat leh i young but dunno why go fl/wl ok fl more time normally handjob myself or by her cum out but fj totally cannot ... wl dun need say 30 min everytime come out maciam like kana caught adultery the speaker always come out come out!!!... what is my prob man... erm ur hard is how??? i like can steam but kind of no feeling must wash den can revival...

[arizona]

Can be a few causes:

a) under medication

b) work/social/money-stress

c) mind blogging other stuff while hving sex

does looking or peeping at lingerie turns u on?

stop having sex and pcc for 2-3 months.100% will do the trick.
most probably your dick have lost the sensation that is needed to make you cum.It might be too much hj and pcc in the past that have cause this current situation that you have.

I'm like you.no sex for about 1 month.fuck my wife after 1 month,i cum within 20min.have sex everyday,i take 1.5 hrs to cum.

[freezetheDB]

i think its more of in the mind
maybe a short period of abstinence will recharge your bonking soul

[Achates]

Originally Posted by abchinese

thanks, maybe so, cos FLs/WLs rather SOP not enough s-excitment. young that time, new to cheonging, so still get excited easily. now older = old bird, same-old SOP service = no excitment enough.

Me too. Sometimes when the FL is so so, I ram until give up. But when she's like a movie star, I can shoot on command.

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by Achates

Me too. Sometimes when the FL is so so, I ram until give up. But when she's like a movie star, I can shoot on command.

sex, besides physical act, its also needs u to be mentally prepared and excited