An Affair with an older married lady... and the aftermath... - Page 96

fwchong · #**1426** 05-10-2021, 08:13 PM

I think it take time to reflect on what you really want from this relationship.

Are you suitable between her for a longer relationship even though she is going through all these and do you want to support her by some other ways?

There are also advices from others to move on. Many old birds like us have been through long relationships and FwB and it didnt work out but once a while we will meet and have a go to fulfil our desire

BUT deep in our heart, we always long that if we can turn back the clock on one relationship, we would to try to make it work

the question for you if you want to work out with Jasmine ?

If not, let it go and you will find new love in some other ways.

You are still young at this age, no need to worry if parent are forcing you to marry, settle down and have kids, I think you are into that and if you are not into traditional marriage and relationship, then join the club here bro, many of us make life count with the next relationship...

You will know which relationship will be for you and one of it is that your heart and body will tell you...if you lose a relationship that you treasure a lot, you will cry so much out that your tears are all dried up or do stupid things because of guilt. If you dont treasure that level of relationship, maybe you should move on.

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Originally Posted by Shrouded

Ok. So Alicia came down earlier to meet me to collect back the access card.

Jasmine wants to work out her issues without any distractions or interference hence she decided to "ghost" me. As of now, she is not getting back with her husband and Alicia is still living with her.

Also according to Alicia, Jasmine appreciates all I have done for her in the past few months and doesn't wish for whatever decision she makes in the future to affect me.

Alicia cannot answer if I have a future with Jasmine or not, but same as with Ann, she told me not to waste my time.

fenton · #**1427** 06-10-2021, 03:00 AM

Very good story. Hope everything goes well for TS!

ouzo18 · #**1428** 06-10-2021, 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Shrouded

So Jasmine has resigned with immediate effect today.

And her line is busy/engaged. WhatsApp profile picture disappeared. Messages sent only 1 tick.

Guess I've been ghosted.

So out of sudden? Wonder how will your HR department think about you or the company gossip about it?

ahdee · #**1429** 06-10-2021, 10:12 AM

Not trying to give false hopes but I think sometimes woman needs to totally cut you off to realize how much she could be missing you when you’re not there at all. So perhaps give it some time and space.

But time has a limit.. I was in such position before, the woman eventually came back but I’ve already moved on.

fwchong · #**1430** 06-10-2021, 11:18 AM

hey bro,

For some of the old birds like us, we have been throught what you have been.

Some bro wrote that their story in Sammyboy that they break up with a girl and then accidentally met up again and start slow again after 10 years !!!!

So, if someone waited 10 years, dont worry, you dont have to wait that long as opportunities will give you a chance. If Jasmine is for you, and opportunity will give you a chance again in the future...

Jasmine has resigned from the company because she got too much to shoulder.

You too should not take all the blame yourself.

Give her some space and in the meantime, pick up your cycling again and who knows, what lies ahead for you...

Ckott44 · #**1431** 06-10-2021, 08:31 PM

Take care bro

Ckott44 · #**1432** 06-10-2021, 10:09 PM

Start a new life bro

wolfyboi · #**1433** 07-10-2021, 11:01 AM

Read through the whole thread in 5 days. Hope everything will turn out fine for everyone. All the best

etsys · #**1434** 08-10-2021, 10:05 AM

Just ask only lah..

Who is that no ball zap me not tell me why

Nevermind one. I don't sell or trade points but if you get bigger ball zap, congratulations

blacknight6 · #**1435** 08-10-2021, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by etsys

Just ask only lah..

Who is that no ball zap me not tell me why

Nevermind one. I don't sell or trade points but if you get bigger ball zap, congratulations

NVM, I up you with my points

diputs1269 · #**1436** 08-10-2021, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by blacknight6

NVM, I up you with my points

Upz for your good deed, cheers!

alwaysalone · #**1437** 09-10-2021, 12:13 AM

Here to show support.

Just focus on living a fruitful and enriched life for now.

Somethings are beyond ones control.

You can only believe in if it's yours, it's yours.

She could be going through her own pain to sort things out at this point in life.

Don't think too much and just keep yourself busy.

etsys · #**1438** 09-10-2021, 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by diputs1269

Upz for your good deed, cheers!

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Originally Posted by blacknight6

NVM, I up you with my points

Definitely no worries.. just curious why zap like childs

ajlover · #**1439** 09-10-2021, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by etsys

Definitely no worries.. just curious why zap like childs

Up you too. Ignore those balless kids

elementz · #**1440** 09-10-2021, 11:12 AM

Finally chance upon similar situation. The situation got so complicated. Imagine being a toyboy for this milf This milf is married but in an open relationship with her husband. Their marriage was alr falling apart but havent officially divorce cos the husband was very possessive and verbally abusive to her. She requested for divorce but the husband didnt allow and want to hold on to it. In the end the husband accuse the toyboy steal away the wife and a homewrecker when she is the one who initiated and their agreement was in an open relationship. So is it unfair the husband can date or fuck other woman but the wife cannot? Whats your thoughts?

After the husband managed to find a regular fb, he moved out leaving the wife and his child. She only managed to file in divorce after he moved out and gather funds cos the husband never supported the family financially and restricted her whereabouts... Even after 4 years + her status is still married to such man cos he doesnt want to initiate to the court... Because her husband is like that she got no friends... Or even if she have friends, they bootlick her husband. Everything she do the "friends" will report to the husband

Cos of such incident she got tired to get remarry or find a fb... It feels to me cos of such guys destroy the reputation especially if this milf is hot and smart. After the husband moved out she got back on her feet and gain her own success but she is still being chained to married status...One can only be the toyboy rather than having the chance to bonk her. Plus she no longer get the high from fucking maybe thats why she prefer toyboys to fulfill her other desires...