The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[18level]

Yep, forget the past and look to the future ....
Things always have a way of turning out for the better, but we need to put some effort lah ...

[kiko]

By contrast, the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, and self-control.

[Jekyll and Hyde]

Originally Posted by johnnykk

At that point in time, I forsake the woman that love me most to be with the woman that I love more.

Now, the same woman that I love more (my wife) has grown to love me more while I am no longer in contact with that woman that loves me most.

The irony was the woman that once loves me most was only with me for less than an year compared to my then girlfriend of 4 years.

Looking back, I regretted hurting the woman that once love me most and felt I should have handled the breaking up much better instead of suddenly disappearing totally from her life. While I do still think of her even after 6 long years and did think of the “what if” scenario, I no longer wanted to contact her and enter her life for fear of hurting her again......

As a bro has said, I now trying my best to 珍惜眼前人 and devote my attention and love to the woman that I once love more and still continue to love as much……….

How do you know who love u the most ??? I know who I love. But dont we love new things more than old ones (the same goes for ppl unless we are antik collectors)

Sigh... my only answer to my predicament to booze and hope it comes to me in a blinding light of revealation (hope its not the headlights of oncoming traffic )

I am trying to handle separations and breakups better too, as i feel i owe them at least that.

[vesfreq]

Finally, its my turn to say I am going to be a good boy for good. Life happens once. Met that someone.

To the lonely bros out, be happy that life goes on and u have ur family at home. I feel very blessed. The year started very well for me. There are more reasons (for me) to be settled and responsible and to start to care for those around.

Be happy everyone that u r healthy and ur loved ones are around. If there is a gal u have been waiting to court, do it today. Dun say things u dun mean. Good gals come once. Bad gals everywhere. Some things happen for a reason. Cherish whatever we have. Best not to hurt any hearts because of eca. Dun let down those people who trust u, especially. N dun let regret catch up with u. Bye to all.

PS: Probably, my last post ever on this forum. I lost my password to this account. I won't be back. Cheers.

[wolverman]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

PS: Probably, my last post ever on this forum. I lost my password to this account. I won't be back. Cheers.

Good luck bro, be good to ur wife/children and dont ever look back here again.

[pfingo]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Finally, its my turn to say I am going to be a good boy for good. Life happens once. Met that someone.

PS: Probably, my last post ever on this forum. I lost my password to this account. I won't be back. Cheers.

happy 4 u bro

[silverblue]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Finally, its my turn to say I am going to be a good boy for good. Life happens once. Met that someone.

To the lonely bros out, be happy that life goes on and u have ur family at home. I feel very blessed. The year started very well for me. There are more reasons (for me) to be settled and responsible and to start to care for those around.

Be happy everyone that u r healthy and ur loved ones are around. If there is a gal u have been waiting to court, do it today. Dun say things u dun mean. Good gals come once. Bad gals everywhere. Some things happen for a reason. Cherish whatever we have. Best not to hurt any hearts because of eca. Dun let down those people who trust u, especially. N dun let regret catch up with u. Bye to all.

PS: Probably, my last post ever on this forum. I lost my password to this account. I won't be back. Cheers.

take care bro, may all the best thing in the world happen to you
what you wrote is so true, sometimes we don't appreciate what is in front of us cause we keep looking on the other side. till one day when we realize that the person on front of us no longer there and there is nothing actually on the other side. speaking fron experience

[Boliaoz]

Originally Posted by kiko

I feel that the one that u going to marry, should always be the one that u love most. if u dont love the gal, no point marry her. Why u want to marry the person, because u love her, and u want to take care of her for the rest of the love. if u dont love her, dont marry, marriage will suffer, break down , what for. To me sex is not that important in life, but love is really about trust , understanding and committment , no matter what happened, both of u will be there for each other.

What if the gal you love most is already married to another guy or might have left the country, so are you saying we should stay single forever? I think a person has engaged in a few relationships throughout his lifetime, so we are referring to the gal we love most.

[kiko]

The basic rule is find someone who is not marry or have boyfriend. Bros here with degree holders can join SDU or without degree can join SDS to find your MISS RIGHT!

[tanhockgin]

I must say that for a porn forum, we do get some very sound advice. Granted that we play a lot, at least when it comes to such predicament, we get a reality check from each other.

I was in the same boat as many here. As you can see from my earlier post. Somehow, as u get older, and you see the one lying next to you still loving you the same as she did earlier, you tend to appreciate her more.

[pfingo]

Originally Posted by kiko

The basic rule is find someone who is not marry or have boyfriend. Bros here with degree holders can join SDU or without degree can join SDS to find your MISS RIGHT!

dun reali belive in matchmake

[Boliaoz]

Originally Posted by kiko

The basic rule is find someone who is not marry or have boyfriend. Bros here with degree holders can join SDU or without degree can join SDS to find your MISS RIGHT!

I think if we are all looking for a serious relationship, we will find someone that is still single and avaliable, but in some circumstances one of you might part i.e death; migrate; posted overseas due to work.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by tanhockgin

I must say that for a porn forum, we do get some very sound advice. Granted that we play a lot, at least when it comes to such predicament, we get a reality check from each other.

From bros past/present experiences which they share here, this is sure one place where all broken-hearted soul could seek solace.

[Schweinehund]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

From bros past/present experiences which they share here, this is sure one place where all broken-hearted soul could seek solace.

Strongly agree! Nothing heals a broken heart like hot sex with a pretty girl. No hot sex nevermind can always get release by viewing all the nottie pics that the bros post here.

[WRX_STI]

Originally Posted by Schweinehund

Strongly agree! Nothing heals a broken heart like hot sex with a pretty girl. No hot sex nevermind can always get release by viewing all the nottie pics that the bros post here.

hot sex not had dat for awile