Wife having Affairs

[SomeGuy_sg]

Originally Posted by blackeagle10

Bro,

Do not be afraid to act like a man-in-charged though you must be hurting deep inside.

1. Send her back to her mum for 2 weeks or( permanently). If her mum ask you, tell her exactly what had happen. Also keep your own parents informed as they will support you shld you chose to divorce her.
2. Call the wives / GFs of all those men that have slept with her. I think guys who can do this to you are despicable bastards, you are better off without their friendship. If the wives/Gfs tried to be funny with you, tell them that yr wife may have an STD. That would ensure some heated discussion in their home.
3. Keep the diary,is the only evidence of her infidelity. You have 6 months from today to file a divorce.
4. Refrain from having sex with her, this will only cloud yr judgement.
5. Get a good lawyer, you can pay her minimally in a divorce as this is not yr fault.
6. See a marriage counselor on yr own first for an assessment. If they think there is no hope then file a divorce.
7. There is no need to shout at her, what has happen had happen. Act like a gentleman but don't let her take control of yr life ever again. If you reconcile with her, set new terms and parameters for her, if she ever breach them, tell her that she will be gone permanently from yr life.

It is important that her mum knows about this, she may disappoint you again but with her mum in the picture she will think twice before she screws around again.

Good luck and Take care.

I agree with you man Do number 2 first.
Lose the bitch and move on.... That is what say. But as always, it is easy say things than to do them.

[mldue]

Let's not forget it's his wife, not gf. Wouldn't be that easy to just move on... Bro, before you take any action, make sure you know what you really want 1st. What you need now is for her to be away from you so that you can think.

[eugene8tan]

Thanks to all the advice. Really appreciate very much.

Had made the 1st move by sleeping separately now since the confrontation. She is now trying all means to win me back by cooking, as she knows I love home cook meals. Thanks but no thanks.

Now, every of my move is observed by her and she is trying to compensate her mistakes. She even tried having sex with me, and when she started giving me a blowjob, my mind began to think of the guys that she had been bonking around. Pushed her aside, wore my clothes and went out of the house.

Told her that it is better that we separate for the time being and asked her to go back to her mum's place till I have cool down.

[SomeGuy_sg]

Mm....I hate to see it happen but it should happen if there is no other course. I hope that whatever you decide, will be the right choice for you.

Take Care Bro

[eugene8tan]

Btw, this is another chapter of her 'life story'.

Very busy at work today. At 3.15pm, Eddy called me and said he is around my office building and asked me if I could come down for coffee. Said I will be there in 5 min. Told my manager that Im having an upset tummy and rushed to meet him. While having coffee, he told me he missed me. That words really made me warm. As I was very busy, I told him I could not stay too long. He accompanied me to the elevator and when reached my floor, he said he had the urge. Told him there is not a good place and he suggested the toilet. He assured me he will be fast. Not wanting to disappoint him, I agreed.

Checked the ladies and when there are no one around, we went into one of the cubicle. Started frenching and he whispered to me that he wanted me naked. He stripped me and licked my breast. Sat on the toilet bowl and gave him a deep throat. Start banging and had to put my hand on my mouth to avoid noises. Ended with doggie.

Although leg still shivering after my fantastic round with Eddy, my motivation to work increased. What a wonderful day as first time experienced sex in the toilet. hehehe.....

[SomeGuy_sg]

What a fucking bitch....
Sorry to say that , eugenetan

[giggz83]

well bro eugene, after reading all these advice from fellow samsters.. i think you should have come up with your decision.
though its painful, but i frankly think, there should be a fullstop to end this already.

[Wins88]

Bro Eugene, my blood boiling when I read the diary entries... too bloody much!
Better take action n see a lawyer NOW! Time to divorce her ... get her out of ur life - u dun need this type of aggravation!

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by Wins88

Bro Eugene, my blood boiling when I read the diary entries... too bloody much!
Better take action n see a lawyer NOW! Time to divorce her ... get her out of ur life - u dun need this type of aggravation!

bro take it easy, i dont think the so called diary is for real la.

[onion_rings]

Originally Posted by SomeGuy_sg

What a fucking bitch....
Sorry to say that , eugenetan

Bro dun be sorry lah...Cos indeed she is one with no moral or maybe we shld just call her a "fxxking damn bitch"...

[bhoven]

Originally Posted by Castrol

bro take it easy, i dont think the so called diary is for real la.

Yah...thats also my feeling. I think this is just a story. Entertaining but bros shouldn't be taken in and get worked up.....

[yang punk]

Originally Posted by Castrol

bro take it easy, i dont think the so called diary is for real la.

....spot on!....

[Purgatory]

Got pple post about his own wife having affair one meh? seriously I read liao but feel if he's posting it as a story then he abit sick leh... no lah I think it's real... we should jus treat it as real anyway... if he has no other outlets but here then god noes what he'd do rite?

[hoho99]

Originally Posted by eugene8tan

Had made the 1st move by sleeping separately now since the confrontation. She is now trying all means to win me back by cooking, as she knows I love home cook meals. Thanks but no thanks.

Told her that it is better that we separate for the time being and asked her to go back to her mum's place till I have cool down.

Frankly speaking, if anyone of us here face the same suitation as u r, i doubt we could take it as well as u did.

Well as much as i like to condem your wife, i also hope u understand that if ur the one making the mistake of getting a couple of flings and got caught, would u hope to have her forgiveness and move on with ur life?

i agree that once a relationship is stain it will never be pure again, heart broken will always leaves a scar, love betrayed will always create doubt. But what make a human different from a beast is LOVE. love heals everythings. A man's love for his hearing imparied wife created telephone that almost everyone ard the world use.

So hopefully u will take some time to look into your relationship with ur wife. If u believe u would can still carry on lives together i sincerly hope u forgive her. But in case u really like her back, i also hope u will do something to safeguard urself on your ends. i.e set a will in front of her that u will leave everything in your name to ur children when u have one or ur parents and not a single cent to her. Sees how her reaction so u may decided further.

just my 2 cents worth

[sxzx4u]

Originally Posted by eugene8tan

Thanks to all the advice. Really appreciate very much.

Had made the 1st move by sleeping separately now since the confrontation. She is now trying all means to win me back by cooking, as she knows I love home cook meals. Thanks but no thanks.

Now, every of my move is observed by her and she is trying to compensate her mistakes. She even tried having sex with me, and when she started giving me a blowjob, my mind began to think of the guys that she had been bonking around. Pushed her aside, wore my clothes and went out of the house.

Told her that it is better that we separate for the time being and asked her to go back to her mum's place till I have cool down.

Well done! I think is the right move. Is hurt but it always better to let go early.

I ever ended in the same situation like you. At that moment, it is really hurt to let go. I'm trying myself to cool down and hope she can change. BUT trust me. Is just like man, once you try outside meal, you will always wanted to eat out again. Same things goes with woman, cause we are all human.

I believe even if you forgive her, inside your heart you will always remember it and is forever! Divorse her and move on. You will find better girl again.

Regards.