Successful stories with WLs

[Charmaine]

I don't know if mine will ever be considered a "success story", but in light of the fairly negative examples that we're seen too much in the forums these days, I just thought I'd share a little snippet of what's been going on with my life. Many regular Thai forummers would have been very familiar with my plight by now, so I'll try to summarise quickly for the benefit of those who's read it too many times before.

I met a Thai G-Club girl in Bangkok about two years ago and couldn't stop thinking about her. KC trapped, I went back to see her probably about a dozen times in the next 12 months. It was probably during the 6th or 7th trip that she let rip on a little secret that she's been dying to tell me since the first time we met - she's been waiting for a man, the father of her baby, to be released from jail but with no promise of taking care of her or her baby once he did. She's been with him for 6 years. Many courtship episodes later, we got together, she wrote to him to end everything and we've been in a committed relationship ever since. I've already been to her province, spoken to her parents at length and obtained their blessings, know all her friends and speak to her everyday either on the phone or through text messages. She's leaving the G-Club next month to get a regular job and will head down to Singapore in March to meet my parents. I've got a house ready for her here and we're planning to stay together for a couple of months before deciding when is the best time to get married.

Well, strictly speaking not an WL story, but you get the drift. Believe me - they're as wary as us as we are of them (her friends kept telling her at the beginning not to trust any man she meets at work and discouraged her from ever bringing me back to see her parents), but once you build that foundation of trust and respect (and this needs a lot of work), things can and will still happen. I've been extremely lucky because the girl I met is worldly, speaks excellent English, mature and not all about money, but girls by nature are all sensitive, emotional creatures driven by love, hope and dreams. Every girl's dream, WL or not, is to find someone who loves them unreservedly and to take care of them for life, financially or otherwise. It can happen. You just have to believe.

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Well, strictly speaking not an WL story, but you get the drift. Believe me - they're as wary as us as we are of them (her friends kept telling her at the beginning not to trust any man she meets at work and discouraged her from ever bringing me back to see her parents), but once you build that foundation of trust and respect (and this needs a lot of work), things can and will still happen. I've been extremely lucky because the girl I met is worldly, speaks excellent English, mature and not all about money, but girls by nature are all sensitive, emotional creatures driven by love, hope and dreams. Every girl's dream, WL or not, is to find someone who loves them unreservedly and to take care of them for life, financially or otherwise. It can happen. You just have to believe.

You have a short and sweet summary of their opinion of us and their love aspirations. Wl or not, i do hope you get your happiness!

Cheers!

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by ahyong

She is just finding excuses to come sillypore to work.

Can she adapt the lifestyle in Singapore? be prepare to buy Somtum for her every now and then

Wish You All the Best!

Dont be quick to generalize things and put people into spectical views though, just follow your heart and not the "advises" of posts here. More often than not, if you noticed, posts in this sections are often filled with skeptical views on TG/WL/BGs.

Just do what you think is best for you and ur girl and with some luck, you will look back few yrs later and not even regret what you did back then.

Being able to adapt or not to living in foreign land, does not depend on the nationality of a person, but the person herself.
What's with thais not able to adapt life outside? So many Singaporeans like ourselves head of to thailand with the thoughts of settling down there, so are we skeptically saying that Singaporeans are damn good at adapting to life outside singapore?

To be able to adapt or not, really depends on the person herself.

PS: No punt intended or directed at anyone

Nevertheless, to xiang8080:
Congrats to your wedding, bear in mind that at least both of you are able to be together in 1 common land, be it in SIN or BKK. Some of us bros here, are struggling just to be able to meet their other half every few months, not even close to being able to stay together.
So be thankful for that part

[ahyong]

Originally Posted by vmtech

Dont be quick to generalize things and put people into spectical views though, just follow your heart and not the "advises" of posts here. More often than not, if you noticed, posts in this sections are often filled with skeptical views on TG/WL/BGs.

Just do what you think is best for you and ur girl and with some luck, you will look back few yrs later and not even regret what you did back then.

Being able to adapt or not to living in foreign land, does not depend on the nationality of a person, but the person herself.
What's with thais not able to adapt life outside? So many Singaporeans like ourselves head of to thailand with the thoughts of settling down there, so are we skeptically saying that Singaporeans are damn good at adapting to life outside singapore?

To be able to adapt or not, really depends on the person herself.

PS: No punt intended or directed at anyone

Well said by ARCHAN Vmtech

[ahyong]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

She's leaving the G-Club next month to get a regular job and will head down to Singapore in March to meet my parents. I've got a house ready for her here and we're planning to stay together for a couple of months before deciding when is the best time to get married.

Bro glad that u have a happy ending

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by ahyong

Well said by ARCHAN Vmtech

alamak why u also kanna infected by ceiresident liao, archan here archan there lol

[yingge]

No see 1 yet.

[Longitude]

Congratulations.

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by yingge

No see 1 yet.

den u need to hang around longer.

[maka1900]

agree. good start doesn't mean a good end. no matter how sweet the dream is, we still have to wake up.

Originally Posted by KUNNI PHUNT

Hey fellas,

Am off to Holland tomorrow to join offshore vessel for 3 weeks so just thought would have a last chip in on forum b4 I go lol....

Success stories might happen at the start of a relationship but does it last or will that success last for a lifetime? At the start there is always that good feeling that she is the one....for the end check my other posts lol.

Take it easy,

KP

[muguamugua]

The story will begin 10 years later lah!

[Charmaine]

Originally Posted by ahyong

Bro glad that u have a happy ending

Thank you. She is now working as a car saleswoman and the commission is modest but she gets by. She is probably earning half of what she would get easily if she were selling whiskey a G-Club but she's enjoying her life right now and I'm still trying to get used to getting phone calls from her at 9 or 10 at night (a period where she would traditionally be working or getting groped every night).

We're at a point of the relationship where we're totally at ease with each other and the level of trust is at an unprecedented level. Just last night, she called me when I fell asleep on the couch watching TV after a hard day at work and I only returned her call a full 30 minutes later. No fuss, no frills. Whenever she failed to pick up her calls, I would call her closest friends or sister (I have all their numbers) and she would predictably be around one, some, or all of them every single time.

Simply put, I trust her and she trusts me now. If not at a hundred per cent, I'd say at least a 95. I've seen girls with normal jobs and in traditionally "normal" relationships earn less than that level of trust in Singapore, let alone Thailand.

Miracles do happen.

[Thai Rak Thai]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Simply put, I trust her and she trusts me now. If not at a hundred per cent, I'd say at least a 95. I've seen girls with normal jobs and in traditionally "normal" relationships earn less than that level of trust in Singapore, let alone Thailand.

Miracles do happen.

i wish u well

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by vmtech

Dont be quick to generalize things and put people into spectical views though, just follow your heart and not the "advises" of posts here. More often than not, if you noticed, posts in this sections are often filled with skeptical views on TG/WL/BGs.

Just do what you think is best for you and ur girl and with some luck, you will look back few yrs later and not even regret what you did back then.

Being able to adapt or not to living in foreign land, does not depend on the nationality of a person, but the person herself.
What's with thais not able to adapt life outside? So many Singaporeans like ourselves head of to thailand with the thoughts of settling down there, so are we skeptically saying that Singaporeans are damn good at adapting to life outside singapore?

To be able to adapt or not, really depends on the person herself.

PS: No punt intended or directed at anyone

Nevertheless, to xiang8080:
Congrats to your wedding, bear in mind that at least both of you are able to be together in 1 common land, be it in SIN or BKK. Some of us bros here, are struggling just to be able to meet their other half every few months, not even close to being able to stay together.
So be thankful for that part

U are back Aarchan vemtech...

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Thank you. She is now working as a car saleswoman and the commission is modest but she gets by. She is probably earning half of what she would get easily if she were selling whiskey a G-Club but she's enjoying her life right now and I'm still trying to get used to getting phone calls from her at 9 or 10 at night (a period where she would traditionally be working or getting groped every night).

We're at a point of the relationship where we're totally at ease with each other and the level of trust is at an unprecedented level. Just last night, she called me when I fell asleep on the couch watching TV after a hard day at work and I only returned her call a full 30 minutes later. No fuss, no frills. Whenever she failed to pick up her calls, I would call her closest friends or sister (I have all their numbers) and she would predictably be around one, some, or all of them every single time.

Simply put, I trust her and she trusts me now. If not at a hundred per cent, I'd say at least a 95. I've seen girls with normal jobs and in traditionally "normal" relationships earn less than that level of trust in Singapore, let alone Thailand.

Miracles do happen.

Sweet ending bro, no wonder no time to pick up my call these days.. All the best to u!