How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[Loving_Dickhead]

Originally Posted by sing11235813

Dear Bro Warbird,

I hope you don't mind me borrowing your thread for a little while. I hope to elicit some response from yourself, and bro DYBJ (since the 2 of you since the most experienced in what I'm about to ask). But of course, all other bros are most welcomed to pen their thoughts.

Quick background: I'm in my early 50's, with the usual trappings of OC, post-adolescent kids, etc. Started to eat out only recently (escort, some higher-end fl) but find it quite unsatisfying and unenjoyable, mainly because it feels a little cheap, unreal, and like I'm using a public toilet. So, am on the lookout for something more....

Constraint: Time. On most days, I need to be home after office hours, as my job doesn't require me to work post-office hours; would look real suspicious if I pull funny stunts especially after not doing it for 20+ years (big mistake!). Fortunately, during office hours, my timing is really flexible. My big boss is not even based in SG, so I pretty much run the trading desk like a local warlord!

Budget: Am willing to go up to 50K per month. More if it is really necessary and worth it.

Appeal: Need some ideas to get some really feel-good moments. I'm talking GFE, looks, body, yet with class and must be non-wl/fl/ktv. Wonder if it is at all possible. Off the top of my head, I'm thinking undergrads? OL? But, since all transactions must take place during office hours, it's kinda hard for me to go chasing after them in clubs/bars (besides those that go to these places to be picked up are probably not what I'm looking for anyway). Any and all ideas welcomed!

Bro,

With such a budget, even the A-list singers will be snapped up by you.
Have fun... But beware of the KC trap.

Cheers,
LDH

[ken li]

Originally Posted by sing11235813

Dear Bro Warbird,

....

Constraint: Time. ...

Budget: Am willing to go up to 50K per month. More if it is really necessary and worth it.

...!

I know I am not the intended receipient of your query. But I can't help myself replying: - You need a banker not a BYee! Hahaha... LOL...

BTW, I am not a banker. I really don't think 50k is necessary even with time constraints. Please don't be offended.

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by ken li

I know I am not the intended receipient of your query. But I can't help myself replying: - You need a banker not a BYee! Hahaha... LOL...

BTW, I am not a banker. I really don't think 50k is necessary even with time constraints. Please don't be offended.

I think Bro Sing is probably a banker himself trading for the bank...50k a mth is in the range of the chief treasurer...but 50k a month is certainly a good problem to have!

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by sing11235813

Dear Bro Warbird,

I hope you don't mind me borrowing your thread for a little while. I hope to elicit some response from yourself, and bro DYBJ (since the 2 of you since the most experienced in what I'm about to ask). But of course, all other bros are most welcomed to pen their thoughts.

Quick background: I'm in my early 50's, with the usual trappings of OC, post-adolescent kids, etc. Started to eat out only recently (escort, some higher-end fl) but find it quite unsatisfying and unenjoyable, mainly because it feels a little cheap, unreal, and like I'm using a public toilet. So, am on the lookout for something more....

Constraint: Time. On most days, I need to be home after office hours, as my job doesn't require me to work post-office hours; would look real suspicious if I pull funny stunts especially after not doing it for 20+ years (big mistake!). Fortunately, during office hours, my timing is really flexible. My big boss is not even based in SG, so I pretty much run the trading desk like a local warlord!

Budget: Am willing to go up to 50K per month. More if it is really necessary and worth it.

Appeal: Need some ideas to get some really feel-good moments. I'm talking GFE, looks, body, yet with class and must be non-wl/fl/ktv. Wonder if it is at all possible. Off the top of my head, I'm thinking undergrads? OL? But, since all transactions must take place during office hours, it's kinda hard for me to go chasing after them in clubs/bars (besides those that go to these places to be picked up are probably not what I'm looking for anyway). Any and all ideas welcomed!

In my humble opinion if you want classy...there are many beautiful and smart uni undergrads available out there in the market...do you consider these are non FL as they are just working as high class escorts for perhaps $600 an hour...perhaps you can consider some of those duxton/tanjong pagar pubs where you have pretty poly or uni undergrads working as waitresses or PR officers...you don't have to throw money in their face....a chanel 2.55 should do the trick...i never failed to see to a girl smile when I go Chanel to shop and see their husbands or bfs buying them a bag...of course if taka is too exposed for you and you may be recognized...I would not dare to bring other girls there as my gf shops there very often....you can go DFS at Royal Plaza and buy a LV...more discreet...hahahahaa

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by warbird

QUOTE=MoralEpitome;4932554]LOL Bro when I reach your level of success probably I can eat them all but I am still a young apprentice at this...so I will stick to one at a time...this is a very interesting thread...and your words of wisdom are enlightening...2 of my good frens's parent died and dying of career....life is fragile...and I have been enjoying it as much as I can the past few months!...feel like going ktv just go...feel like fucking just fuck....but feeling abit jaded also...need to find more meaning to life...thinking of re-igniting my forex trading after losing at the past 2 times...it is tricky and violatile and I been stopped out many times....but lucky made a little money from my other investments...enuff to BY a ger for 1 year or so...

Hi bro EP,

Wat level of success? I'm an elementary student of BY-ing...

Words of wisdom? I'm merely quoting the writings of the "wise men"...

I do know a bit more abt investing/trading. Be very careful w/ Forex trading as it's pure speculation.

You're doing great really, doing wat u like n going w/ the flow...being completely detached from the outcome.

Bro WB[/QUOTE]

Yeah are you an angel investor in NY?....I just find that having a day job will not enable to reach my goal in time.. that's why I believing in investing...I have my long term long strategies in equities doing dollar cost averaging...generally this has done pretty all right despite the volatility in the past few years...I have some fixed income in preferred stocks earning me 5.1% a year...not too bad...however I am thinking of trading some instructions for short term gains and passive income....this I had not done well and lost some money as trading is very dynamic and markets can move very fast...but I feel that if I can master this well I will be able to cover my fuck expenses every month and not be dependent on my job for financial security...do give some tips and advice on these too so us bros can have more money to enjoy life!

[S i l v i a]

Normally bros here do what for a living that can support a part-time wife outside? Heehee

For me, i'm doing my own small biz (legal one lah) generating about $10k profit per month. Deduct house,car,credit card,misc still got left about $4k. Sometimes save abit of the $4k, sometimes use all the $4k for screwing activities.

Right now also looking for other source of incomes,but stock markets now like very unstable. Hope there some bros here can give any advice on biz ideas or wat...

[basher69]

Sorry to intrude on this thread, am curious which escort agencies have undergrads? 50K a month is pretty high. Dont think it will cost more than 10k per month to maintain a mistress.... Bro, u must be extremely rich. I cant afford to throw 50K a month. Makes me feel so poor. I pay 15K a month in income tax, how I wish I was a pte ltd company, then can pay myself in dividends instead of being a salaried worker. Sigh, just rambling, wished I could afford 50K a month expenditure.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by sing11235813

Dear Bro Warbird,
.........................I hope to elicit some response from yourself, and bro DYBJ .....But of course, all other bros are most welcomed to pen their thoughts.

Quick background: I'm in my early 50's, with the usual trappings of OC, post-adolescent kids, etc. Started to eat out only recently (escort, some higher-end fl) but find it quite unsatisfying and unenjoyable.......So, am on the lookout for something more....

Constraint: Time. On most days, I need to be home after office hours........

Budget: Am willing to go up to 50K per month. More if it is really necessary and worth it.

Appeal: Need some ideas to get some really feel-good moments. I'm talking GFE, looks, body, yet with class and must be non-wl/fl/ktv............

Originally Posted by sing11235813

Dear Bro DYBJ,

Many thanks for your suggestion.....................................

I'm thinking of regular (student/OL) gal, ie. non-WL/FL/KTV, but of course with the usual paying-customer characteristics: no-strings, no-false promises, limited-duration. Sort of like indecent proposal BUT younger, hotter, wilder, cheaper (can't pay $1m per bonk!), and longer (perhaps 1 month).

Bro Warbird: looking forward to your response!

Hi bro sing11235813,

I sense that you're dissatisfied doing ST w/ FLs/escorts/models n want to experience more GFE n companionship...I suggest u BY a gal on a longer term basis, say from 1 to several months. With ur generous budget, u will be spoilt for choice. The difficulty is finding the right gal n the danger is KC trap. You hv to KC her w/o getting KC-ed!

To be honest, I hv had very limited experience in "eating out" as I BAO-ed my 1st gal just over a yr ago. Hv encountered many problems n failures, as detailed in this thread.

Time constraint is a severe handicap in BY-ing. I hv faced the same problem.
It's difficult to KC a gal if ur time is limited. If I dun spend enough time w/ a BAO-ee, such as eating meals together several times a wk, taking her to outings n staying at her place n eating her home cook dinner at least occasionally, etc., n only meeting her n fxking her in a hotel rm, she will complain that it's an outright transaction.

BTW, u must convince ur OC why u hv to go out at nite. Take up nighttime hobbies or join clubs such as Toastmasters...

My previous BYs hv lasted from 1 wk to 2 months, due partly to time constraint n partly to various unforeseen circumstances. Nowadays if I like a gal after 1 wk, I'll definitely move her to a flat close to my residence so that I can stay w/ her n get her to cook, etc. It's like a 2nd home, ya?

I suggest that u PM bro DUBJ n seek his advice. You will benefit greatly from his wisdom n vast experience in BY-ing. BTW, he is successful in many areas of life n nurturing multiple RS w/ high quality women is only his minor interest...

Cheers!

Bro WB

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Bro sing11235813, i think bro warbird would be a better person to advise you.
I am more of flexi time program whereas bro warbird is also limited wif time constraint.
But have you not heard of happy hour?
KTVs open at 3pm!!!!!!

Hi my esteemed Mr. Austin,

Bro sing11235813 certainly needs ur help, hehehe.

It was my honor to hv met u again recently. I'm most impressed w/ ur vision n ur zest for living...

Cheers!

Bro WB

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A few words abt multiple RS (w/ women).

BTW, bro DUBJ n his young associate hv successfully maintained multiple RS under one roof! They hv acheived wat most men only dream abt n hv left all those Ang Mo gurus in the dust.

Recently, I emailed a top Ang Mo guru:

Hi Mr. Guru,

I have learned a lot from you.

My mistress A will get jealous if I date other women. She doesn't know about my other mistress B n if she knows she may leave me. Whereas B knows about A and really doesn't mind. B actually wants to live w/ A to save money and to have threesome!

What should I do?

Thanks so much,

Bro WB

His reply:

Hey Bro WB,

Quality problem ;-)

From experience: Keep 'em seperate.

No other move here.

Mr. Guru

Ths for reading n hv a great day!

Bro WB

[warbird]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

Yeah are you an angel investor in NY?....I just find that having a day job will not enable to reach my goal in time......that's why I believing in investing...I have my long term long strategies in equities doing dollar cost averaging...generally this has done pretty all right..........however I am thinking of trading some instructions for short term gains and passive income....this I had not done well and lost some money as trading is very dynamic and markets can move very fast...but I feel that if I can master this well.........do give some tips and advice on these too so us bros can have more money to enjoy life!

Hi bro EP,

I think you must be doing really well...

No, I'm no angel, just a lao chi ko pek, hehehe.

Joking aside, investing in start up co is very speculative...I'm basically a value investor who enjoys swing trading for fun. My MO is to estimate the intrinsic value of a listed company w/ good potential n then wait patiently to buy at half price.

As for trading n speculative investing, you need to do it on a full time basis, or else dun do it.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[sing11235813]

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

Bro,

With such a budget, even the A-list singers will be snapped up by you.
Have fun... But beware of the KC trap.

Cheers,
LDH

Dear Bro LDH: Thanks for your suggestions, but as mentioned, I don't derive that much satisfaction in buying bonks from someone whose professional job is to sell bonks. Correct me if I am wrong, but singers are kinda in that category right? Besides timing-wise, it'll be rather difficult for me to go fishing for them in the middle of the night....

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

In my humble opinion if you want classy...there are many beautiful and smart uni undergrads available out there in the market...do you consider these are non FL as they are just working as high class escorts for perhaps $600 an hour...perhaps you can consider some of those duxton/tanjong pagar pubs where you have pretty poly or uni undergrads working as waitresses or PR officers...you don't have to throw money in their face....a chanel 2.55 should do the trick...i never failed to see to a girl smile when I go Chanel to shop and see their husbands or bfs buying them a bag...of course if taka is too exposed for you and you may be recognized...I would not dare to bring other girls there as my gf shops there very often....you can go DFS at Royal Plaza and buy a LV...more discreet...hahahahaa

Dear Bro ME: Thanks for your suggestion. Beautiful and smart undergrads who are not FL, but want to do just a simple short-term transaction would suit me quite well actually. So, if they are completely clean (never done commercial bonk) and are willing to be BY for a couple of months for me to enjoy (ravage ), such a deal is worth considering. I would imagine that the pricing should be commensurate with their "sacrifice" since, really, they are not FL, but ordinary gals-- really like indecent proposal!

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro sing11235813,

I sense that you're dissatisfied doing ST w/ FLs/escorts/models n want to experience more GFE n companionship...I suggest u BY a gal on a longer term basis, say from 1 to several months. With ur generous budget, u will be spoilt for choice. The difficulty is finding the right gal n the danger is KC trap. You hv to KC her w/o getting KC-ed!

To be honest, I hv had very limited experience in "eating out" as I BAO-ed my 1st gal just over a yr ago. Hv encountered many problems n failures, as detailed in this thread.

Time constraint is a severe handicap in BY-ing. I hv faced the same problem.
It's difficult to KC a gal if ur time is limited. If I dun spend enough time w/ a BAO-ee, such as eating meals together several times a wk, taking her to outings n staying at her place n eating her home cook dinner at least occasionally, etc., n only meeting her n fxking her in a hotel rm, she will complain that it's an outright transaction.

BTW, u must convince ur OC why u hv to go out at nite. Take up nighttime hobbies or join clubs such as Toastmasters...

My previous BYs hv lasted from 1 wk to 2 months, due partly to time constraint n partly to various unforeseen circumstances. Nowadays if I like a gal after 1 wk, I'll definitely move her to a flat close to my residence so that I can stay w/ her n get her to cook, etc. It's like a 2nd home, ya?

I suggest that u PM bro DUBJ n seek his advice. You will benefit greatly from his wisdom n vast experience in BY-ing. BTW, he is successful in many areas of life n nurturing multiple RS w/ high quality women is only his minor interest...

Dear Bro Warbird: The man I've been waiting for, to get his pearls of wisdom! You're reading my sentiments right about my dissatisfaction.

I've distilled my problem to the following: I want to buy service, but only from those who don't usually provide the service!

KC: I think, I hope, I wish that I won't fall for it. I don't usually screw up big time in such matters, but like some bros say, you won't know until it hits you. I don't think I am looking to KC a girl. If she provides good service, and does what I tell her to do, that's good enough for me. I have no big desire to hear sweet nothings from a SYT.

Going out at night: It'll be really quite wierd for me to join toastmasters, at this age and this stage of my career. Maybe I could think of "engineering" a belated mid-life crisis of some sort that would result in me spending more time out at wierd hours.

Arranging housing for BY near my place, eating her cooking, etc... At this point, it seems like a little too much trouble for me. I'm thinking more of just booking a nice room in a nice hotel as and when there is a need. Afterall, my BY-ee would probably have a regular life to lead-- her own home, school/job, etc. Also better coz I need to execute the whole project without the girl ever knowing my real identity.

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by basher69

Sorry to intrude on this thread, am curious which escort agencies have undergrads? 50K a month is pretty high. Dont think it will cost more than 10k per month to maintain a mistress.... Bro, u must be extremely rich. I cant afford to throw 50K a month. Makes me feel so poor. I pay 15K a month in income tax, how I wish I was a pte ltd company, then can pay myself in dividends instead of being a salaried worker. Sigh, just rambling, wished I could afford 50K a month expenditure.

wow...15k a month in income tax...i don't even earn 15k a month...lol....i must be the poorest guy in this thread...i am honoured to be in such esteemed company...lol....okay...i will stick to transactional until I reach 15k a mth in income tax....

[MoralEpitome]

Dear Bro ME: Thanks for your suggestion. Beautiful and smart undergrads who are not FL, but want to do just a simple short-term transaction would suit me quite well actually. So, if they are completely clean (never done commercial bonk) and are willing to be BY for a couple of months for me to enjoy (ravage ), such a deal is worth considering. I would imagine that the pricing should be commensurate with their "sacrifice" since, really, they are not FL, but ordinary gals-- really like indecent proposal!

I heard can pick up normal girls with a wild streak at shanghai dolly and luna....but all men are fan jian...we always want the forbidden fruit...alternatively velvet's members bar...

[Loving_Dickhead]

Originally Posted by sing11235813

Dear Bro LDH: Thanks for your suggestions, but as mentioned, I don't derive that much satisfaction in buying bonks from someone whose professional job is to sell bonks. Correct me if I am wrong, but singers are kinda in that category right? Besides timing-wise, it'll be rather difficult for me to go fishing for them in the middle of the night....

Good morning bro!

Not all singers are selling meat for bonks. Some are really decent but few and far in-between. Majority can be upped for a certain amount of monetary investment. Some are here to chop chop carrot heads, stashed and loaded with money thus looking for real love and companion, some are up-right decent while some are too innocent (1st timers) etc etc.

Bro DYBJ is the guru in sizing up singers and holding them within their "human" traits... do wait for his reply - I have personally benefitted from his past experiences.

For me: Singers are easier to control because of their working hours i.e. need to punch card in by certain time and out by certain time while requiring to work 7 days a week. I like their afternoon cos they are free and I can alway sneak out for a quickie. My night time are usually reserved for my wives & family.

Even for fresh grads out to make some moolah and willing to be kept by you - its still transactional. Who knows when you are away, they may be spending the money you gave them on their "unknown" boyfriends. There are angels amongst the devils and vice-versa. No good women is willing to be BY and be a kept women for the purpose of the flesh. I'd still grade them as the softcore FL.

Most women want their men to prove SOMETHING first before committing, cash, home, security, time, affection, good qualities/habits etc etc and the list goes on. Why can't we men put the same out to the gals? Be alpha and we choose the best, why must women have all the choices? Why must they be the ones playing hard to get? These are issues for you to ponder... get them right, and the gals will come flocking WITHOUT the need to invest too much.



Cheers,
LDH

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[lge8]

learned something new . . .(:

[marc5]

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

Bro DYBJ is the guru ...

... get them right, and the gals will come flocking WITHOUT the need to invest too much.

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Wise words, wise words. Now the new guru speaks. I can surely learn a thing or two from the gurus.