Wife having Affairs

[Big Sexy]

dump her into the nearest dustbin available

Originally Posted by eugene8tan

Hi bros, just wanna know what will you do and feel if you found out that your wife is having affairs. Worst, is that the other party happens to be your friends. Even worst when you found out that all the sexual activity was done raw...

[Tai_zi21]

My sequence would be the Husband,Hunter,Monk,Boatman and the Wife...

[hoho99]

Originally Posted by Bayleaf

Bros, among the 5 characters in the story, "husband", "wife", "boatman", "hunter", "monk", who do you think commit the greatest crime (pls rank in sequence).

(There is no right or wrong answer, but any sequence of your answers will reveal meanings to our discussion of this thread (i still have not side-track). I will post the meanings after you rank the sequence from the greatest criminals to the most innocent victim.

bro, i think u have a cute way of trying to put ur msg across, however guess the thread starter miss it.

Morally in this story, most likely i will rank (reatest criminals first), Husband, hunter, monk, boatman, wife.

However, if u have been to countries/places where life is much tougher, u will realise that the husband often have no choice but to travel into faraway land to provide for a better life for the family.

Heard from someone before that bolster are not found in hotels and are also not found in most races. It could be that our ancestors who came from china used them as a reminder of their wife at home.

[genrev]

monks - coz no sex life...:P

[yanki1]

a sex hungry guy becoming a monk

[Kongsamiya]

Originally Posted by hoho99

bro, i think u have a cute way of trying to put ur msg across, however guess the thread starter miss it.


Heard from someone before that bolster are not found in hotels and are also not found in most races. It could be that our ancestors who came from china used them as a reminder of their wife at home.

hahaha. u are right about the bolster not available and u know what, my OC bought one and stuff it nicely into my lauguage for me to bring to dubailand

[Bayleaf]

Every charatcers represents a priority in our life. If you feel that particular charater is the greatest criminal, this means that you treasure that as the most important priority in your life. The Priority goes as follow:

Husband - Career
Wife - Your Marriage
Boatman - Misc things in life
Hunter - Sex
Monk - Moral

This is the reverse psycological way of a appitude test. if you think the husband is the main culprit of the whole story, this means that you are treating your career more than anything else, in our case here, the decision is not tough, as your wife is not your main focus here. Forgive or divorce?

Many people think no matter how hard the situation is, a woman should still never be unfaithful to her husband. They find the wife the greatest culprit here. In this case, you are putting your wife as the most important factor in your life. This is tough, though it may be very hurtful, learn to forgive and forget.

If soemone think the hunter is the greatest criminal here, this person must be also sexually quite high. Just sort out with your wife not to do that ever again, and improve both of your sex life together.

The monk represent. Morally in the Chinese context, when a husband sleep with another woman, this is "feng liu"; Vice Versa, the wife is "Xia Liu". Thus, if you are a morally high-class human being, don't think you can ever accept what the your wife had done. there is only once solution. Accept it!

[eugene8tan]

What you bros said is true. I have been keeping quiet all this while and she is taking me for a ride. Think its time for some action. Will be going to solve this problem once and for all.

In the meantime, below is the 2nd meeting my wife had with Eddy.

Had coffee with hubby and Eddy. Hubby and Eddy talked about doing some side biz while I listened but staring at this cool Eddy. When hubby went to buy some snacks, Eddy asked if Im free tonight. Told him to pick me up at around 9.30pm

Eddy is really on the dot. At 9.30pm, he is already waiting for me. Proceed to Hotel 81 and had a wonderful sex. After, we chatted about his son and wife and how his life had been, etc.

Half hour before checking out, we go for another round of wonderful sex. He asked me who is better on bed. Told him he is the best!!! This word must had given him a boost as all of a sudden, he was damn good and when he cum in me, its like the semen is more than the first round. Fantastic!!!!

Reached home around 1am and hubby still up watching tv. When changed, hubby want sex. Told him not tonight as Im really exhausted. First time saying NO to hubby and lucky hubby understand.

[Bayleaf]

Originally Posted by eugene8tan

What you bros said is true. I have been keeping quiet all this while and she is taking me for a ride. Think its time for some action. Will be going to solve this problem once and for all.

In the meantime, below is the 2nd meeting my wife had with Eddy.

Had coffee with hubby and Eddy. Hubby and Eddy talked about doing some side biz while I listened but staring at this cool Eddy. When hubby went to buy some snacks, Eddy asked if Im free tonight. Told him to pick me up at around 9.30pm

Eddy is really on the dot. At 9.30pm, he is already waiting for me. Proceed to Hotel 81 and had a wonderful sex. After, we chatted about his son and wife and how his life had been, etc.

Half hour before checking out, we go for another round of wonderful sex. He asked me who is better on bed. Told him he is the best!!! This word must had given him a boost as all of a sudden, he was damn good and when he cum in me, its like the semen is more than the first round. Fantastic!!!!

Reached home around 1am and hubby still up watching tv. When changed, hubby want sex. Told him not tonight as Im really exhausted. First time saying NO to hubby and lucky hubby understand.

Bro, based on your character, i feel that this will only leads you more agony if you keep this thing hanging. The army always say if you want to do anything, just go ahead, but don't get caught. Why is your wife still putting down that ugly moment in her diary? Hope not purposely for you to see. If so, the more you should make your decision now to kick her out of your life forever. I watch the movie called "Along cam Polly" by Ben Stiller, if you never let go the old ones, new ones will never come by, and remember after you fled her, "Hao ma bu chi hui tou chao".

[blackeagle10]

Bro Eugene,

After reading your post, I am not sure whether to be sympathetic for you or give you a serious scolding for your attitude towards your marriage.

Seriously there are so many things that could go wrong for you.
1. She could get pregnant and who is the father??.
2.She could contract an STD or worse AIDS and pass on to you.
3. She could fall into a trap; given drugs and gang bang with blackmailing as a result.
4. Since she is not very discerning, she could be involved with a stalker. The stalker can be a nuisanse in your life She may also get herself injured or killed.

As this is now status quo, you are still her legal husband and responsible for her welfare. Sooner or later she is going to make a mistake ie going out with the wrong type of men who will take advantage of your situation.

The faster you nip the problem in the bud, the more peace you will have and hopefully start anew with someone more deserving than this conniving bitch.


It is up to you whether you want to listen or ignore many good advice given to you by so many concerned brothers here.

[Armstrong]

Bro Eugene,

I guess you may not have much options, why not go for marital councelling.

[JAXXX]

So this Eddy is married and has a kid.... then still go screw other ppl's wife and make other ppl miserable. I think u should know how to pay him back... let him know that his fooling around has a price. I think before u confront ur wife, let this Eddy's wife know that he is screwing around other ppl's wife... he shouldn't walk away from this unscathed.

[eugene8tan]

To all the bros, I had done what Im suppose to do all this while. Confront my wife and demand for an explanation on her affairs. She initially denied vehemently saying that she had never betrayed me. I was so pissed off that I summarised her affairs. She was stunned, and I took her diary which I was holding behind my back, and threw at her face. Thats where she knew her games were up as she started to shiver with fear. She started crying and asked for forgiveness. I was very pissed off that I scolded her like a hooligan with all the four letter words coming out from my mouth which I had refrained from using all these years.

Seeing her crying like a baby actually melts my heart. But I strenghten myself and continue telling her off. She kept apologising to me and said how sorry she was. She said she was guilty of her affairs all this while and do not know how to say sorry to me. Told her off that there are not a word of guilt in her diary. The person that she felt sorry is to one of her girfriend's as she had sex with her boyfriend. Took her diary and threw at her face again.

Got so angry that I took her diary and stormed in my bedroom while she was still crying at the living room. Unable to sleep the whole night.

Bros, give me an advice. Im in dilemma now. I know that I still love her but her affairs really ruin my life. Should I forgive her or let her go. Please give me your full advice as I think I really need some.

[Michael Chong]

Bro, end your misery immediately. Dun be a tortise for the rest of your life. When you can't get over it, climb over it; After climbing over it, forget it and move on with your life.

[BANANASKIN]

a leopard will nv change its spots...
i once had a ex gf which fuck behind my back, i forgive her once. yet she did it again. Then game over for her.