Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

she dun believe you. think you are a braggart.

Either

they love you because you are a GooD LoVer who takes care them Physically and Psychologically .....

or

they Like you because you are a CaRRoT for a start

or

they DisLiKe you because you Talk alot and Nothing Comes Out of your Talk

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

I don't know what ppl think about my proposal but it seems that the main points I try to deliver is being focused.

It your choice to do do what you like .... there are already many advice and suggestions that already given to you .... I strongly believe you should be able to make a very good judgement call ...

Back to your Main points of liabilities ....

As long as you are NOT the official SPONSOR, you should be Alright unless you misjudge your VB and she do something illegal adn you are required to assist in investigation .. else seriously I see no reason how affected can you be ...

What I need to telll you already told you ... I don't think there is a need to repeat it .... I guess even you ask another couple of times, you should be getting the same if not similar answers.

SO judgement is urs to decide what you want ...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

she spoke flawless english similar to us sinkies...i couldn't hear her difference in terms of accents...she was a graduate from local univ and now working in sinkie company...

I often buy Pet stuff for my sister to sell ...

So far I have Met 3 shop owners who speak real good English ...

1 use to work in Singapore but then decide to open a Pet shop and now have moved on to open a second Petshop ... She and her Partner are quite Pretty

Used to patron this 1 Pet shop at Lai Thieu ... Out of the Blue Her Daughter return from HCMC for Holiday ... Quite CUte ... Study Degree in INterior Design in Raffles HCMC and speak very good English ... Will be coming here to study MASTERS in Designing ...

THere are many many in Vietnam ... Like Bro Hurricane said .. we should travel more ... AS for me .. I should say we should get out of the well to discover more ...

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Finally CAN chip in something ....

Bro ... I FULLY AGREED what you said ...

Got Baby Not to BaD But Got Other things it could be much MORE worse ...

I don't want to Regret what is Install for me in the Future ...

yeah bro i agreed with you FULLY too. but what has happened had already happened. there's no return for me anymore should i got other things... for now what i can do is never ever let it repeat ever again and go for check up soon according to the window period of each "thing". that's all i can do. hope no bros here will do the stupid things i have done.

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by shysaint

It your choice to do do what you like .... there are already many advice and suggestions that already given to you .... I strongly believe you should be able to make a very good judgement call ...

Back to your Main points of liabilities ....

As long as you are NOT the official SPONSOR, you should be Alright unless you misjudge your VB and she do something illegal adn you are required to assist in investigation .. else seriously I see no reason how affected can you be ...

What I need to telll you already told you ... I don't think there is a need to repeat it .... I guess even you ask another couple of times, you should be getting the same if not similar answers.

SO judgement is urs to decide what you want ...

as a matter of fact, she's coming to work as a ktv WL. this is what makes me worried. if she come in and work as WL at ktv and she got caught, i only scared i will be held for liabilities or get implicated. i can say that's the only issue i have. but since u say there's no liability... so i am considering to go ahead. i will make sure i don't get KC furthermore and don't get implicated over her working illegally here.

I thought i have made my stand very clear in one of my previous post?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

as a matter of fact, she's coming to work as a ktv WL. this is what makes me worried. if she come in and work as WL at ktv and she got caught, i only scared i will be held for liabilities or get implicated. i can say that's the only issue i have. but since u say there's no liability... so i am considering to go ahead. i will make sure i don't get KC furthermore and don't get implicated over her working illegally here.

I thought i have made my stand very clear in one of my previous post?

if she is caught doing illegal jobs such as drugs courier or other criminal crimes and you are the sponsor then you maybe prosecuted in court for being an accomplice...or the master mind...

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Either

they love you because you are a GooD LoVer who takes care them Physically and Psychologically .....

or

they Like you because you are a CaRRoT for a start

or

they DisLiKe you because you Talk alot and Nothing Comes Out of your Talk

in fact she already think i am dua khang when i anyhow say wan to buy her house. from her perspective, she knows i cannot afford. so i dun think she like me becuz i am a carrot. and i dont think she dislike me because i talk a lot and nothing comes out of my talk. bcuz i nvr really promise her anything yet so far. i already made known to her i am not rich and i am just a fresh white collar worker. she also know i dont own a car!

as for the first statement, i dont dare to comment yet until i can go to vn again and find out. will let u guys know more updates... but that wil be next month...

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

if she is caught doing illegal jobs such as drugs courier or other criminal crimes and you are the sponsor then you maybe prosecuted in court for being an accomplice...or the master mind...

she's coming in to work as WL at ktv. as bro shysaint said, if i go there and bring her in, i am her reference as stated on the DE card and if being her mere reference doesn't implicate me and make me held for liabilities, then i consider going... the risk is if she get caught and the authority invite me for a coffee session to aid in investigation.

again, i will never ever be her gurantor/sponsor, which requires me to write in and apply to ICA. that i will never ever do it. NEVER!

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

she's coming in to work as WL at ktv. as bro shysaint said, if i go there and bring her in, i am her reference as stated on the DE card and if being her mere reference doesn't implicate me and make me held for liabilities, then i consider going... the risk is if she get caught and the authority invite me for a coffee session to aid in investigation.

again, i will never ever be her gurantor/sponsor, which requires me to write in and apply to ICA. that i will never ever do it. NEVER!

so why bother...just because she allow you RAW...isn't that very foolish...to get yourself implicated...you meant there is no other VB around in JC, GL or Wetnam who can steal your heart???...

[ilovedoggie]

Yea bro. I understand it's a risk to take.so I hv to make I know what I am going to do and let the bros here know and get opinions bcuz u guys r basically kings in such matter w vb. I shall consider it seriously and think about it.

Btw anyone has a copy of DE card?

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

Btw anyone has a copy of DE card?

I only got the other half ....

WHat you want to find out

We can share with you what is inside ....

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

as for the first statement, i dont dare to comment yet until i can go to vn again and find out.

Nothing to do with going or not going to Vietnam .... I saying whether you manage to get a Good Lover or Genuine Love out of them ...

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

again, i will never ever be her gurantor/sponsor, which requires me to write in and apply to ICA. that i will never ever do it. NEVER!

Good Choice ... Whether is friends, GF, Wife, Relatives of Wife, Friends of Wife ... It is never WiSe to do so ....

Coz the liabilities and limitations that you are interested in will kicks in when things gone bad ...

[Golden question]

so bro ilovedoggie,is your case close after a 24 hour heated debate or discussion

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by shysaint

I only got the other half ....

WHat you want to find out

We can share with you what is inside ....

what kind of details of mine do they require? thanks bro...

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Nothing to do with going or not going to Vietnam .... I saying whether you manage to get a Good Lover or Genuine Love out of them ...



Good Choice ... Whether is friends, GF, Wife, Relatives of Wife, Friends of Wife ... It is never WiSe to do so ....

Coz the liabilities and limitations that you are interested in will kicks in when things gone bad ...

yea bro... for now what can i do to find out whether she can be a good love or i can get genuine love out of her? i have tried to use the tactics the bros here recommend. it seems to have positive result so far... although i can't come out with a verdict yet...

even we are married and she got her ban be/so-called chi/em or whetever... promising her that i will be their sponsor is totally NO-NO. u know how their culture is... only think of the present and disregard the future...