Stephen Leather's Private Dancer

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by Darkstorm

Thanks for your posting.
You are one lucky guy to have found such a girl.......I sincerely wish you all the best in living your lives together...

I got a reputation point deducted for this post????? I wasn't being sarcastic you know.

"boobyTrap", I hope it wasn't you who deducted my reputation point. Whether it is you or not, I wasn't being sarcastic when I made that post.

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by free

Darkstorm, why do u say "If I ever get out of this alive - But I doubt I will get out of this alive"? Surely no one can force you to stay in something u know is not good for u, let alone destroy u? Met BahNoo yesterday and it is good to see him getting out, older but wiser.We shared a lot of our stories with each other, and I am glad he is OK. I hope u can be OK too. If u are in SG, maybe we can also meet for kopi?

Even though I myself am on the path towards a permanent bondwith my tirak (if there is such a thing, and not just a dream target), I dun see how she can hold on to me such that I cannot let go, if there are good reasons to. Not that she is giving nor has she ever given me any reasons to let go oo give up. On the contrary, she has given me the confidence to go forward, with a consistent, no-nonsense, no "play KC" approach to our walk.

Hi "free",

it's hard to answer your question in this forum.....sorry.....i'll have to skip giving you an answer here......

You met BahNoo? Can call me along for kopi next time you all meet......sure we could meet for a drink sometime......

I want to wish you all the best in your tirak relationship, but since I just got a reputation point deducted for that, maybe I better not

[Mr.romance]

Originally Posted by Darkstorm

I got a reputation point deducted for this post????? I wasn't being sarcastic you know.

"boobyTrap", I hope it wasn't you who deducted my reputation point. Whether it is you or not, I wasn't being sarcastic when I made that post.

Hey Bro...No need to worry about the reputation level la...
If you wan..I can ask all the bros tat i knoe here to give you 1 pt including myself..
haha

[free]

Originally Posted by Darkstorm

Hi "free",

it's hard to answer your question in this forum.....sorry.....i'll have to skip giving you an answer here......

You met BahNoo? Can call me along for kopi next time you all meet......sure we could meet for a drink sometime......

I want to wish you all the best in your tirak relationship, but since I just got a reputation point deducted for that, maybe I better not

No worries, I understand & definitely won't be deducting anything (never done that to anyone anyway). Yep, met Bahnoo last night. Also met Delifrance recently. Should be meeting 88max (maybe at his house) in Samut Prakan next week when I am there, since that is where my tirak & I stay. Actually it is slightly nearer from her parent's house, so maybe I may get her father to give us a lift there, if it makes sense. It's incredible that I am interested in the location he just moved out from! And his new house is but a few minutes away. The world is real small.

Think it is good to get together for TCSS. I am also trying to study the patterns/approaches diff bros used in their attempt to build a r/s with TGs. Maybe nothing will come out of it, maybe something will. I know my approach is somewhat similar to some of my friends who have been successful and there is a sort of a pattern. However I want to be careful not to generalise

[free]

Originally Posted by Mr.romance

Hey Bro...No need to worry about the reputation level la...
If you wan..I can ask all the bros tat i knoe here to give you 1 pt including myself..
haha

Haha, just did that - added points cos I think he is being honest & sincere.

[cyrus]

Originally Posted by Mr.romance

Hey Bro...No need to worry about the reputation level la...
If you wan..I can ask all the bros tat i knoe here to give you 1 pt including myself..
haha

No Prob man. Always there to give fellow bros a helping hand.

[cyrus]

Originally Posted by free

No worries, I understand & definitely won't be deducting anything (never done that to anyone anyway). Yep, met Bahnoo last night. Also met Delifrance recently. Should be meeting 88max (maybe at his house) in Samut Prakan next week when I am there, since that is where my tirak & I stay. Actually it is slightly nearer from her parent's house, so maybe I may get her father to give us a lift there, if it makes sense. It's incredible that I am interested in the location he just moved out from! And his new house is but a few minutes away. The world is real small.

Think it is good to get together for TCSS. I am also trying to study the patterns/approaches diff bros used in their attempt to build a r/s with TGs. Maybe nothing will come out of it, maybe something will. I know my approach is somewhat similar to some of my friends who have been successful and there is a sort of a pattern. However I want to be careful not to generalise

A get together .. that would be interesting ... likely ... BKK .. when ?

Originally Posted by Darkstorm

I got a reputation point deducted for this post????? I wasn't being sarcastic you know.

"boobyTrap", I hope it wasn't you who deducted my reputation point. Whether it is you or not, I wasn't being sarcastic when I made that post.

Hey Hey cool it man Darkstorm, if I was the one whom u thought had so-called "deducted" ur reputation pt, then i guess i must be one helluva influential and powerful icon in this forum(be my mediator Sam!! ) I'm sure i didn't "sabo" u in any way for the matter.... P.E.A.C.E.

Whoever mention having a get-together in BKK? ...THat's not a bad idea..and do u mean bringing along our teeraks as well???

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by Mr.romance

Hey Bro...No need to worry about the reputation level la...
If you wan..I can ask all the bros tat i knoe here to give you 1 pt including myself..
haha

Haha......thanks Mr.romance

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac

I dun think its booby trap lah. dun let this get to you like I did. for all I know, it could be Sam himself trying to stir things up cos its getting boring around here with SE.

No problem.....thanks......I'm keeping my cool

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by free

No worries, I understand & definitely won't be deducting anything (never done that to anyone anyway). Yep, met Bahnoo last night. Also met Delifrance recently. Should be meeting 88max (maybe at his house) in Samut Prakan next week when I am there, since that is where my tirak & I stay. Actually it is slightly nearer from her parent's house, so maybe I may get her father to give us a lift there, if it makes sense. It's incredible that I am interested in the location he just moved out from! And his new house is but a few minutes away. The world is real small.

Think it is good to get together for TCSS. I am also trying to study the patterns/approaches diff bros used in their attempt to build a r/s with TGs. Maybe nothing will come out of it, maybe something will. I know my approach is somewhat similar to some of my friends who have been successful and there is a sort of a pattern. However I want to be careful not to generalise

Let me know if there's any get together......can private message me......I'm sure there's a lot I can learn from you guys

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by b00byTraP

Hey Hey cool it man Darkstorm, if I was the one whom u thought had so-called "deducted" ur reputation pt, then i guess i must be one helluva influential and powerful icon in this forum(be my mediator Sam!! ) I'm sure i didn't "sabo" u in any way for the matter.... P.E.A.C.E.

No worries man........I just wanted to make sure there's no misunderstanding between us

[delifrance]

Hi

A get together? BiG Party 2004 Bkk, during the private party? Or a informal meet up in Bkk? hiaks hiaks.

falling in love with a WL is not wrong if you have you know why you did it. It's always a gamble of two dices: you and the girl. Don't blame yourself if you did it right, don't blame the girl if she did wrong either. The best is to be philosphical about it and accept the fact that dead horses cannot be whipped to life, neither should all horses that are led by you to water tend to drink the water you want to give.

mutual respect, maturity and long term commitment in terms of stamina wins the long war of odds. Few do because so few bet too wildly in the long initial period. Few also do because many never understood human relationships from multi-faceted viewpoints. Many just wanted things their way because of the easy sex, soft demure behaviour, think that their own sacrifices makes them top of the pecking order.....

missing your girl IS NOT a perogative for the girl to appreciate you because it's like a cry baby syndrome and nothing more. also never deem what you deem is best for both partners.

you may love someone but that person may not love you and is not willing to do so...what's love then? to love and to do the best for that person that you receive no reward? sounds good. the reality is: do the best for that person and that person does something good for anyone good and this does not mean to you....can you do it. Humans are selfish creatures, we have risen above animals because of our will, love demands the rising of above human level....can we do it? it's all up to you and your capacity but never give excuses nor fake justifications for your own personal excuses....best not to lie to one's ownself....

love also means rising above creature comforts. there are WLs and non-WLs who have sufficient funds to manage....one example was given by one of the contributors: she starts this and manages the home. Let me give you another example - she settles her parents and grandmother with land, a taxi that they can rent out and receive monthly income, a reserve of B$2m. starts a boutique, gets it running with all the supplies and customers operating, buys a pickup truck and gives all these to her second sister to live on. Youngest sister is still in King Mongkut Technological University, funded by a special savings of B$1m to see her through.

Herself? Toyota Altis fully paid, a full air-conditioned apartment behind Robinson Ratchada fully paid. a safe box containing 40+ watches each minimum worth of S$40k, B$2m in cash, and she's moving on, she wants to get married, she's a jewel, a great cook, a dedicated woman to her man, insanely jealous, highly sexed, fair like the moon, looks to 'wow' people as she steps into the room, speaks about 4 different languages apart from thai.

she's not a WL. She has WL friends. She's game, but are you game to know her and fall in love with her and start a new life? Love is not that simple.

most of the stuff about WL is the first burst of love of getting out of the economic shit hole....after that is the REAL challenge for her and for you.....

once you have tasted a thai woman, you want to love her, once she has tasted a better way of life (in her perspective), she wants to return to it someday.......and please dont think that sex with a foreign man is a better thing for any lady in the context of long term.

just my thoughts.

[free]

Originally Posted by delifrance

Hi
Most of the stuff about WL is the first burst of love of getting out of the economic shit hole....after that is the REAL challenge for her and for you.....

once you have tasted a thai woman, you want to love her, once she has tasted a better way of life (in her perspective), she wants to return to it someday.......and please dont think that sex with a foreign man is a better thing for any lady in the context of long term.

just my thoughts.

Perhaps another perspective: Maybe we can also ask ourselves, "Take away the great sex with one's gal/tirak". Is there anything more to the r/s? Can it still go on? For you, for her? If not, one never had a Love Relationship in the first place. It was just plain lust, period.

Tested it on myself. Think we can still go on, at least for quite a long while.