How To Approach?

[asdfghjkl]

today from boon lay to jurong east, i was sitting at the end of a mrt bench.. then a tall girl wearing low cut black spaghetti straps sat down next to me.. quite pleasant looking with some pimples.. wearing jeans.. i was actually trying to talk to her when she was busy sms on her hp.. but in the end.. haiz.. the train was quite full.. no ball.. next time if got chance must cherish ah!

[Bittersweet Guy]

Is my eye playing tricks on me? When did Bro asdfgjk transform from Zhugeliang to modern guy... Yet still so "smart" looking!

[Rexell]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

today from boon lay to jurong east, i was sitting at the end of a mrt bench.. then a tall girl wearing low cut black spaghetti straps sat down next to me.. quite pleasant looking with some pimples.. wearing jeans.. i was actually trying to talk to her when she was busy sms on her hp.. but in the end.. haiz.. the train was quite full.. no ball.. next time if got chance must cherish ah!

Wahlau like that also good chance to approach mah... You can kaysiao see her hp when she sms. Then ask her "Ni sms gei shui?". Or "Ni zai sms she mo?" Then see got positive response anot. If got then can say "Wo yae xiang sms gei ni, ke yi ma?"

[lacoruna69]

Originally Posted by Bittersweet Guy

Is my eye playing tricks on me? When did Bro asdfgjk transform from Zhugeliang to modern guy... Yet still so "smart" looking!

Zhuge Liang -> Zhou Yu -> Chee Soon Juan (Political activist)

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by lacoruna69

Zhuge Liang -> Zhou Yu -> Chee Soon Juan (Political activist)

sometimes i feel that members of the ISD also here ler..

[asdfghjkl]

got more ideas to use?

Originally Posted by GLer

talking about borrowing HP, i got this werid incident too.
I was at Orchard mrt waiting for my friend, then this gal (quite sweet) came up to me claiming that her HP was stuck. SHe offered me 50cent to borrow my Hp for a call.
At that moment of time i thought she might took my HP and just run away so i rejected her offer. She just look at me as if i'm an alien and walk away. She didnt ask people around me to borrow Hp.

I was wondering wat u bros will do if u were me.

You so weak one meh? Cant run after a girl\?

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

got more ideas to use?

Tell the girl you are a "financial consultant" and would like to do a short survey with her. then just ask her a few questions like " u got any savings" etc.... then ask for her number and ask if you can call her sometime to do a financial review for her.

[lacoruna69]

Sorry to dig up this thread. I don't want to start a new thread wasting space.
This happened last Fri when I was walking home. I saw this nicely dressed OL in front of me. She was in high heels carrying a shopping bag. She seemed to find the bag a little bit heavy n tiring for her. She kept shifting the bag from one hand to another. It was a bit awkward becoz she is also carrying a small bag.
My first instinct was to run up and offer help. But, then my big head stopped me. What if she thinks I'm a pervert???
As I was thinking this over in my head, she had taken another direction. I walked for another 5 mins and finally decided I should offer help. But, too bad she had already disappear.....
I have to be frank and admit I do find her a bit attractive. I was hoping I can get to know her if I offer help. Even if I get nothing more than a word of 'Thank You' in the end, I'll still be happy.
But, I'm kicking myself now that I let slip a golden chance.
My question is - Should I offer to help her? What will be her reaction? It is my neighbourhood and I dun wish to be branded a sex maniac.....
Please advise.

[qw2op]

Originally Posted by lacoruna69

... My question is - Should I offer to help her? What will be her reaction? It is my neighbourhood and I dun wish to be branded a sex maniac.....
Please advise.

can try lah ... but dun hv 2 high hopes hor ... things r definitely nt wat u saw in movies or as u imagined ...

watever may turn out ... u won't b able 2 tell n can't stop her fr wat she thinks n says about u ... so, mentally prepare 4 ze worst ...

dun give a wolf impression at ze outset ... eg. wen u ask, stand a metre away fr her ... dun wok 2 close 2 her hor ... choose ur words carefully ... remember, she will be assessing u ...

oso, make sure u assess ze load nt 2 heavy hor ... otherwise, u suffer 4 nothing ...

gd luck!


my 2.14 cents worth ... (gst 7% included)

[tunkudon]

i think can still try.. remember young i always have the guts to do tat..but nw no ball to do . but in singapore pp not as friendly..u offer real help pp still u got evil motive...sigh..

[onion_rings]

Originally Posted by qw2op

my 2.14 cents worth ... (gst 7% included)

Damn it bro, today 1st day of 2007 can dun mention anything associated with gst...I'm trying hard not to remember the introduce gst to sillypore

[lacoruna69]

Originally Posted by qw2op

dun give a wolf impression at ze outset ... eg. wen u ask, stand a metre away fr her ... dun wok 2 close 2 her hor ... choose ur words carefully ... remember, she will be assessing u ...

Thanks Bro!
I think keeping a distance is important. I'll remember that.

[lacoruna69]

Originally Posted by tunkudon

i think can still try.. remember young i always have the guts to do tat..but now no balls to do

Same here, Bro. I remember going up asking girls to be my friend when I was in National Service days. Damn daring. Sexy lians, OLs,....etc.
Didn't have any luck and have been met with strange stares. Some got scared. Rejected countless of times yet I still try.
Now, I got career and more wary of molest/harassment cases on newspaper. No BALLS liao.............

[deathsyct]

wah.
after reading so many suggestion i really didnt know got so many bros here so daring.
for me i very hum 1.
if got pretty gal on mrt i'll juz look @ her when she doesnt know
but i got caught a few times & e gal juz smile back @ me.
thus making me blush like mad den u can c e gal really start to lauf alr.
& in e end its e gal who start lookin @ me & i juz keep looking else where other den her. haizz