Maybe the first day when they start working as WL, they feel customer cannot be trusted and naturally build a defence wall... whatever we say... they dun really take our words
Very true. They are scared just as we do. When they become your tirak in Singapore, they are already prepared for breakup, therefore usually they aren't as emotionally involved as we are.
I did ask my ex-tirak of whom I have acknowledged as a potential wife / girlfriend. Already bought a condo 100km away from her hometown and yet she left. Reason: she doesn't want to think and scare I leave her, thus before I can just do that, she disappeared.
They are afraid of getting hurt and guys with financial stability like us tend to sway, don't lie to yourself, they know exactly what kind of men we are, otherwise we would have never meet in the first place. I wanted sex and I paid for it, isn't that what we all do and that's why we are here.
Good, successful stories are few and I was this close. If she just don't think so much and married me ... life is never going to be the same anymore. It's around 6 weeks since I lost her. Memories still haunt me at work and at night. I missed her ...
Very true. They are scared just as we do. When they become your tirak in Singapore, they are already prepared for breakup, therefore usually they aren't as emotionally involved as we are.
I did ask my ex-tirak of whom I have acknowledged as a potential wife / girlfriend. Already bought a condo 100km away from her hometown and yet she left. Reason: she doesn't want to think and scare I leave her, thus before I can just do that, she disappeared.
They are afraid of getting hurt and guys with financial stability like us tend to sway, don't lie to yourself, they know exactly what kind of men we are, otherwise we would have never meet in the first place. I wanted sex and I paid for it, isn't that what we all do and that's why we are here.
Good, successful stories are few and I was this close. If she just don't think so much and married me ... life is never going to be the same anymore. It's around 6 weeks since I lost her. Memories still haunt me at work and at night. I missed her ...
Thanks for sharing your story.....
__________________
Those who have added or deducted my points, please leave a name? Up list queue: PS3SG,MelbSJ, etc
Note to those who increased my points: I'll increase your points in return if you have any latest posts but you need to msg me your latest post, but that would take time as I may not log on everyday.
Very true. They are scared just as we do. When they become your tirak in Singapore, they are already prepared for breakup, therefore usually they aren't as emotionally involved as we are.
I did ask my ex-tirak of whom I have acknowledged as a potential wife / girlfriend. Already bought a condo 100km away from her hometown and yet she left. Reason: she doesn't want to think and scare I leave her, thus before I can just do that, she disappeared.
They are afraid of getting hurt and guys with financial stability like us tend to sway, don't lie to yourself, they know exactly what kind of men we are, otherwise we would have never meet in the first place. I wanted sex and I paid for it, isn't that what we all do and that's why we are here.
Good, successful stories are few and I was this close. If she just don't think so much and married me ... life is never going to be the same anymore. It's around 6 weeks since I lost her. Memories still haunt me at work and at night. I missed her ...
talking about disappearing act, I did it to my ex reg before she does it to me hahahahah....
__________________ Stephen Leather's "Private Dancer" : An insight to Thai WL .
Pretty woman do occur in real life but the number 1 factor is money and trust.
There r more people in life that needs our support and guidance. Got time go to old folks home and the various charities look around and u will know.
As long as happy even 1 day is enough for me. One can live for many yrs but what meaning has it that if u r not happy at all. Her time here may be over but I know that she is going to lead a happy life at another place, another time. Whatever it is, I am happy for her.
Reason y she left is bacause she loves u and wants u to be happy as in find another normal girl in life. It takes alot of courage and love to do that. Do not worry too much. If got chance u will see her again, in another place or at another time. The other way is to stay at where u lost her and carry on to wait for her there.
ps: Throw away your hp or change it. Keep all the things which r sentimental and lock it away. Tell yourself that as long as she is happy u r happy. Never indulge in alcohol or unprotected sex. U r only harming yourself.
' Tian xian wu bu shan zi yen si,
ren wu dan xi zhi huo fu.'
Translated: People come and go. Let live and let go. Born and be free.
Very true. They are scared just as we do. When they become your tirak in Singapore, they are already prepared for breakup, therefore usually they aren't as emotionally involved as we are.
I did ask my ex-tirak of whom I have acknowledged as a potential wife / girlfriend. Already bought a condo 100km away from her hometown and yet she left. Reason: she doesn't want to think and scare I leave her, thus before I can just do that, she disappeared.
They are afraid of getting hurt and guys with financial stability like us tend to sway, don't lie to yourself, they know exactly what kind of men we are, otherwise we would have never meet in the first place. I wanted sex and I paid for it, isn't that what we all do and that's why we are here.
Good, successful stories are few and I was this close. If she just don't think so much and married me ... life is never going to be the same anymore. It's around 6 weeks since I lost her. Memories still haunt me at work and at night. I missed her ...
therefore it really take alot of effort and time to convince them.. esp with their "good" friends around to give them advise.... just like what this forum, the only different is we are in the virtual world.... Last time i was wondering how come my ex tirak "mood swing" so much... whenever she is with me (for a few weeks ) i can feel she let her defense down and open up.... whenever she is back with her friends she somehow change her tone when i was chatting on the phone with her... i feel she dun trust me and was with other puying...........
As my ex workplace is far from bangkok.. it take me 2 hour plus everyday to travel to her place... i cannot afford to be with her every moment.....
Good, successful stories are few and I was this close. If she just don't think so much and married me ... life is never going to be the same anymore. It's around 6 weeks since I lost her. Memories still haunt me at work and at night. I missed her ...
i have personally seen a happy and successful real life scenerio.... it just that most success bro seldom post in the forum
Most Thai are brought up that way. To Serve. I am sure all bros have the same experience.
What there is another school of thoughts.... these girls know our soft spot so well that they can press buttom and our knees goes weak and then ... ah arai kor dai na!
my belief is that its stems from their culture. from normal thai gers to WL, they are always very hospitable. i am sure other seasoned chiongsters will agree.
__________________ เวลาช่วยรักษาแผลใจ Time heals Love's wounds
i must say this was exactly what happened to me. However, when we pay, i am quite sure they are definitely acting
it could be acting initially but after a while there will also be some feelings involved. thats when the stakes get higher. we are all humans... unless you are a super "kaeng jai" chiongster who is already numbed beyond reproach. pay will delay the feeling part but if RTF too often something will happen sooner or later... unless she totally feels nothing... in which case you will get certain hints and its time to move on. else both parties end up developing feelings for each other. how not to if you are eating and sharing the same bed, for example a week every month?
__________________ เวลาช่วยรักษาแผลใจ Time heals Love's wounds
For girls to treat u so well, u must be better than other guys in one way or another..........u ought to feel fortunate
it cuts both ways... they treat u so well because you are paying for a service or she has some liking for you. for the latter, whether she is milking you for long term is another matter all together.
__________________ เวลาช่วยรักษาแผลใจ Time heals Love's wounds
it could be acting initially but after a while there will also be some feelings involved. thats when the stakes get higher. we are all humans... unless you are a super "kaeng jai" chiongster who is already numbed beyond reproach. pay will delay the feeling part but if RTF too often something will happen sooner or later... unless she totally feels nothing... in which case you will get certain hints and its time to move on. else both parties end up developing feelings for each other. how not to if you are eating and sharing the same bed, for example a week every month?
Feelings actually do develop when u rtf, either on the girl side or on the man side. One thing everyone must remember is, they are service providers. If they know u like them, they will take advantage of the situation and put on more act so that we will go back again and again. I do apply this tactic myself in my work .
If the service rendered is fucked up, no matter how much KC is used on me, I will not rtf. Reason is simple, I paid to be served. some girls will think that because there is some KC when we rtf, they can provide bad service.
__________________ Stephen Leather's "Private Dancer" : An insight to Thai WL .
it could be acting initially but after a while there will also be some feelings involved. thats when the stakes get higher. we are all humans... unless you are a super "kaeng jai" chiongster who is already numbed beyond reproach. pay will delay the feeling part but if RTF too often something will happen sooner or later... unless she totally feels nothing... in which case you will get certain hints and its time to move on. else both parties end up developing feelings for each other. how not to if you are eating and sharing the same bed, for example a week every month?
every situation is different thus it would not be right to comment. it all depends on the relationship that has developed between the 2 of you. usually guys fall into 2 category - sponsor or tirak. time will tell which category you are and where you stand in her heart.
__________________ เวลาช่วยรักษาแผลใจ Time heals Love's wounds
one latest story i heard from FL on her reason for working...
her room was robbed and valuables plus cash amounting to 100k THB was lost. she dare not ask her bf as he always gambles and does not have much $$ and also afraid of asking lest he thinks she is out to grab his $$. thus she rather work for a period of time to solve her problem as also has bills to pay.
a bit far fetched? believe it or not up to you.
__________________ เวลาช่วยรักษาแผลใจ Time heals Love's wounds
ermm...abit the dramatic but because I don't know her, give her benefit of the doubt lor. Can always take up other jobs though.
Cheers
Quote:
Originally Posted by tirak69
one latest story i heard from FL on her reason for working...
her room was robbed and valuables plus cash amounting to 100k THB was lost. she dare not ask her bf as he always gambles and does not have much $$ and also afraid of asking lest he thinks she is out to grab his $$. thus she rather work for a period of time to solve her problem as also has bills to pay.
21-05-2004, 06:48 PM
Stephen Leather's Private Dancer
.
--
