The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[walabis]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

no matter what,guess it's too late for regrets.

Bro SJG, your siggy "President oF CLUB SYT aKa PrinCe oF BS" cool man

[insanity08]

Well I agree to a certain extend to this thread... the one you marry ... you love her ... but guess ... she is not the one you loved the MOST ... often it is always the case wherby .... the one you loved most is nv with you .. haiz ... thats the sad fact of life isn't it ?

[5ag1_Boar]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

I heard from the radio;

Never choose to be with someone you can live with,
but choose to be with someone you cannot live without.

...

That was my mistake. I married somone that I felt I could live with. Then after 5 years, I left her for someone I cannot live without.

My second, and biggest mistake was not loving most the one I married. If I had,I would have never met the other woman.

My friend once told me that he asked his rather young friend who was getting married the next day, "what if you meet someone better?" His friend replied, "I'll run far away from her (the 'better' one)."

In retrospect, I should have remembered that and ran when I met the one I could not live without... before I found out I can't live without her.

I think spoiling my marriage and becoming only a part time father to my son will be the biggest regrets in my life.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by Castrol

now that you mention, a few women under one roof will be quite a problem. but i think 2 wives will be ideal for me. on the sex part, i can rotate them and also tarma, so can cut down on bonking FL. one can go work to supplement income so i dont have to get 3 jobs, while one can stay home so we dont need a maid. how about that?

Then again, there will be an debate of who is staying at home and who is working, end of the day, you maybe staying at home looking after the kids, doing housework and ask to join in for a tarma when you are needed!!!

[axeman24]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Don't fret bro. I will be joining you soon. Hitting 30 in a year plus time. I dread thinking about the day when there are no friends/ pals to talk to.

Welcome to the club bro

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

Then again, there will be an debate of who is staying at home and who is working, end of the day, you maybe staying at home looking after the kids, doing housework and ask to join in for a tarma when you are needed!!!

i'll be a victim of feminism!

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Castrol

now that you mention, a few women under one roof will be quite a problem. but i think 2 wives will be ideal for me. on the sex part, i can rotate them and also tarma, so can cut down on bonking FL. one can go work to supplement income so i dont have to get 3 jobs, while one can stay home so we dont need a maid. how about that?

Hahaha .... how nice. Then i wish like wei xiaobao, 7 wives. Not only sex part can have variety, one knows kung fu can protect, one good at cooking, one good at managing the household etc.... haha if every one work part time give me $200-$300 a month, i can dun need work even

[DingDongBell]

I also want leh.... Seven wife and rich as hell

[giggz83]

Originally Posted by Cao_pi

My conclusion is : We live only once, Have no regrets!

i like this verse very much.

after my gf left me .. i felt a lot. i really did a lot of mistakes .. but all is but too late.

we live once only .. yes!!

so .. bros, if u really wanna knw this babe so much .. go! if you think changing to another job can really bring ur career to another level .. go! if you think u wanna try mlm or real estate .. go!

we only live once .. paiseh or not, to hell with it!!! .. if not, there might not be a chance anymore.

why regret? since life's so short.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by walabis

Bro SJG, your siggy "President oF CLUB SYT aKa PrinCe oF BS" cool man

not cool lar bro,i still scare ppl will say me bhb ar..kekeke..and thks for ur pts bro,will return favour asap.

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

Hahaha .... how nice. Then i wish like wei xiaobao, 7 wives. Not only sex part can have variety, one knows kung fu can protect,

my all time lust for a kungfu girl is moon lee.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

few yrs back,i choose to live my ex-gf of 3 yrs.we were on the verge of marriage,just that i am fearful i am unable to give her a comfortable life she deserved.i did regret initially after that but now that she is happily married,i am happy.in life we will have to make a few important decisions,no matter which decision and path u choose,tell urself that is wat u have choose and never regret cos it's of no signifiance.life still must and will go on.

[giggz83]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

few yrs back,i choose to live my ex-gf of 3 yrs.we were on the verge of marriage,just that i am fearful i am unable to give her a comfortable life she deserved.i did regret initially after that but now that she is happily married,i am happy.in life we will have to make a few important decisions,no matter which decision and path u choose,tell urself that is wat u have choose and never regret cos it's of no signifiance.life still must and will go on.

bro ..

i salute you for this. it is definitely not easy. and it takes a lot of courage to actually put thoughts to action.

i hope i wont ever will be in this shoe of yours.

respect!

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by giggz83

bro ..

i salute you for this. it is definitely not easy. and it takes a lot of courage to actually put thoughts to action.

i hope i wont ever will be in this shoe of yours.

respect!

lolz.thks bro,i dont deserve that,perhaps that is one of the reason y i start my ktv cheonging,looking for smth to fill up the empty space in my heart.thinking back at times do aches here and there but i told myself,hey,that is what u wanted,move and go on.

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by sagiboar

That was my mistake. I married somone that I felt I could live with. Then after 5 years, I left her for someone I cannot live without.

Guess we have more in common than I originally thought.

I married the person I thought was best for my future and someone I could live with. Big Mistake.

However, I still feel that my choice of not marrying the one I loved the most is still correct. I'm sure things would have never worked out as we had lots of complications outside of the relationship (money, country, lifestyles etc). Things would have turned very bad for us... though I still get the occasional "What if" thoughts.... maybe I'm kidding myself.

If ever given the choice again, I may choose NOT to ever get married OR make the same mistake and marry the same wife... afterall, she gave me the most important thing in my life... my son.