How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[besafe]

Dear Brother,
I am so very sorry. I wrote out of my ignorance.
Hope you find your true love someday soon.
My sincere best wishes to you.
Cheers and take care.

[Loving_Dickhead]

Originally Posted by besafe

Hope you find your true love someday soon.

No worries at all. We all have our demons as well as baggages.
Its how we choose to leave behind and what to take away as lessons learnt.


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[davo]

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

No worries at all. We all have our demons as well as baggages.
Its how we choose to leave behind and what to take away as lessons learnt.


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Take it easy bro. Let's have some fun when I get back/

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

Bros,

I have not been to DC since Tuesday.............## has been SMSing me for the last 2 days. We exchanged sweet nothingnesses.............................

I have noticed ## for some time back as a few of my friends took an interest in her. I also knew that she has rejected their advances as well as BY offers. Her character is cold as fish but somehow why such affections on me. I am not as rich as the rest of my friends and I am always very hard in my language spoken to the ladies............................................ .............
For ##, I have spent almost next to nothing for her - simply mere tokens of appreciations.

As for my previous target **, I have to detach myself as I found myself to have some feelings for that lass.............................................. ...

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

Thanks bro for you concern.................
To be honest, both my GF and I have seperated since 2 weeks............ Currently in the midst of divorce (seperation stage), thus when the woman starts to get prosessive I will run. Or when I find myself falling in affection, I will retreat.
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Those gals whom I cherished will never be my GFs, BYs or having slept with - no way. Cross the line, the relationship will not be the same anymore.

Hi bro LDH,

Ths for ur very interesting n intriguing FR on the 2 singers.

## cold n aloof? Kinesthetic too? She is my type of gal, hahaha. She has many suitors n yet she is enamored w/ u for many possible reasons. Using "hard language" is a very attractive n dominant trait (I hv recently learned). You may be perceived by her to be very alpha, cold, detached n u hv hung only tokens, unlike the other men who try to buy her affection n pussy. You're kinesthetic n romantic too. Perhaps she is attracted by ur youthful good looks and/or body pheromones...

Having some feelings for a gal shouldn't prevent a man from fxxking (pardon my vulgar lingo) her or better yet, BY-ing her, as long as he can control his KC. Feelings make the fxxking much more enjoyable n sextisfying for both parties. But that is ur call as u know urself better than anyone else. Just my 2 cents.

Live life to the fullest, my young lion, n make busloads of moolah, hehehe.

Good day!!

Originally Posted by besafe

Dear Brother,
I am so very sorry.................................

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

No worries at all. We all have our demons as well as baggages.
Its how we choose to leave behind and what to take away as lessons learnt.

Originally Posted by davo

Take it easy bro. Let's have some fun when I get back/

To my esteemed bros,

I like to thank all of you for sharing ur thoughts n FRs here. Keep them coming pls. I hv learned a lot from everyone of you.

Recently, I hv come upon some revelations, ths to an elderly Chinese-American fren who is an incredible predator, which hv changed my mindset towards male-female RS n sex completely...I'm still trying to digest all the info n lessons n will post them later. BTW, he has fxxked many many chio gals/women aged 18-35, all non-WLs of all races, mostly FOC!!

BTW, bro besafe, hv u also received sms from G re her most recent development n business venture?

Have a great day!!

[justime]

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

As for my previous target **, I have to detach myself as I found myself to have some feelings for that lass. When you are out to play and feelings develop, you gotta hell get out of the way. That's my philosophy.

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

....To be honest, both my GF and I have seperated since 2 weeks. Maybe I no longer believe in relationships after having issues with my wife. Currently in the midst of divorce (seperation stage), thus when the woman starts to get prosessive I will run. Or when I find myself falling in affection, I will retreat.

Nowadays; most who end up loving me, end up hating me.

Those gals whom I cherished will never be my GFs, BYs or having slept with - no way. Cross the line, the relationship will not be the same anymore.

Hi Bro LDH, reading your post I sense the hurt you must have felt every time a relationship 'fails'.

In fact, I see many shades of myself in your circumstances (from Business challenges to relationship failures). Therefore I can absolutely relate (and empathise) with your decision to move away every time you sense affection percolating.

Through a series of life's hard knocks, I have now adopted a sanguine and serene attitude toward business and relationships i.e. life in general. I "trained" myself to get into the flow and enjoy present moment as I experience it.

In business, I don't fret over outcomes and have also managed my emotions so much that I will not be overly affected if a relationship sours.

My only ‘advice’ to you is to take it easy. Live for the moment. Time really heals. Don't even let the fact that you put emotional distance whenever you feel affectionate toward someone fret you. In time, this 'baggage' too will pass. Continue to do what you do, including chasing away those that get close to you if need be (it is your own unique healing process).

However, do make it a point to enjoy the physical sensations of any sexual encounters. Bathe in the sweet love wayangs of your gal as part of the package. Don't fear the KC trap ... the fact that you know of this potentially harmful psychological threat largely inures you against it.

As an example of letting nature takes its course:

I started out with Paeng (my Thai gf) as only an object to satisfiy my lust. I took her to be BY so that I could indulge my carnal desires. I had no intention of taking her as my gf whatsoever. Besides the sex, I soon begin to feel good whenever she dispenses her Love Wayang. I realised that I have evolved some feeling toward her. Now I wanted to push her away because there is a realisation of KC trap looming.

(This is exacerbated during the initial stage of my BYing her, I invested a sum of money so that she can start her own business. At the teething stage of opening up shop, she constantly asked for more and more money. And here I am already 'fretting' about being KC by her and taken for a ride! I seriously questioned her motives and whether she is sincere)

The insecurity however did not last long. Seeds of being sanguine have already been planted in me, so I simply let it be. I did however take the necessary precaution of budgeting and putting a definite sum of money to indulge her - nothing beyond it. I mentally braced myself for the worst case scenario. If I lose this money and her love - so be it. I released the fretting and worry about outcome and just go with flow and embraced the present sweet wayangs.

In time, Paeng stopped asking me money for the business. The business is self sustaining and making profit. (I did not take my share of the profit – leaving it for her to reinvest and grow the business). So now I am of no use to Paeng financially as I don’t contribute a cent. And the gratitude to me for giving me the business start is long gone. (I cannot use this as leverage to get her do my whims).

However to my surprise, the sweet wayang continues and in fact intensifies. From a mistress she had evolved to become my gf.

Now here is the crux:, at present it may seem like a fairy tale (almost like 'Pretty Woman' the movie). I had now invested emotion in Paeng to the point that I will be hurt if the relationship does not pan out. And I certainly don't know of the future / outcome. I however don't worry about it. I am enjoying the relationship very much in the present. I also have an internal confidence that should our relationship end, I would have the emotional wherewithal to handle it. Why is that? It is because I have built my resilience during the hard knocks (I too have a failed marriage). And you my dear bro LDH, is in the process of building up this resilience.

Cheers!

[besafe]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro LDH,
BTW, bro besafe, hv u also received sms from G re her most recent development n business venture?

Have a great day!!

Nope. I have not seen her for a while. Actually quite scared to see her too often. Maybe you can fill me in through a PM and I follow up with a social call to her. Thanks and take care.

[Loving_Dickhead]

Thanks to all bros concerned replies as well as PM'ing me. I am fine really.
Am enjoying all the freedom I have missed. Hooyay!!!

Tonight is the night! I am bringing ## out for a nice romantic dinner - venue a secret (Will update later). She was SMS'ing me the whole afternoon since she has gotten up - asking me what to wear/dress etc etc. I told her just to be herself. I like simple gals who dressed simply.

Side track a little: after my work last night I went back to DC to enjoy some liquor with bro LKY, who was a little lonely. I wanted a quiet night as I reached there at 945pm, took a quiet seat in the corner. That proven to be my unforced error, very soon our table was surround by several singers. Bro LKY already has his favorite gal, KNN leaving me to fend off 6 singers and/or dancers. My attention was on ## and pretty soon, both of us decided to move to the back for some pools game.

Overall a good night and I hanged $200/- mini token for her. Also took in quick warm hug and kiss from ## when we were walking back to our seats.



Best,
LDH


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[Loving_Dickhead]

Good morning to all bros, truely a very happy morning!

I brought ## to a beautiful restaurant at the top of a certain building in the CBD area. The night scenery was a sight to behold. There was a slight drizzle and that added on to the romantic feel.

After the dinner, we both decided to proceed to another place for some personal time together and decided that tonight she need not go back to DC to sing.

[My good bros (at the CI venue) knew what happened last night prior to our meetup in CI.]

At 11pm, both ## and I walked hand-in-hand into CI and met with Marc5 and LKY, subsequently OceanLee and his 2 bros. We were so comfortable that we didn't realise that we were holding hands until I caught a glimpse of bro LKY's gleeful look on entry into the room. I quickly dropped her hands and went over to bro Marc5 for our usual brotherhood greetings, followed by bro LKY.

At that time, bro OceanLee has not arrive yet.

Both Marc5 and LKY have beautiful lasses beside them, looks like bro Marc5 is back in business. Kekeke. Way to go, my manz!

Bro OceanLee came by with another 2 more pals at around 1am. All of them picked syt too... so yar, CI has the quality but I was more engaged with my ## who is now my GF. The whole night I was observing ##'s behavior, she was that type of gal you can bring home to see your mum, gentle (dresses simply, is also a plus) and a very attentive gal, at least to my wants/needs. Hahaha.

I left CI with ## and bro LKY (with his gal) at around 135am. Sorry bro Oceanlee, I wanted to stay longer but ## was feeling a little tired and also sick of the place (being similar setting as her workplace).

It was drizzling again outside and I dropped bro LKY and his gal to Tan Boon Liat building to pick up his car. Afterwhich, I sent ## home ... ... ...and for me home sweet home.


Best,
LDH


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[besafe]

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

Afterwhich, I sent ## home ... ... ...and for me home sweet home.
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Wah.. you good boy hoh !

[warbird]

Originally Posted by justime

Hi Bro LDH............................................... .................................................. .........Through a series of life's hard knocks, I have now adopted a sanguine and serene attitude toward business and relationships i.e. life in general. I "trained" myself to get into the flow and enjoy present moment as I experience it.
.................................................. .................................................. .........................Live for the moment.................Don't fear the KC trap ..............
Now here is the crux:, at present it may seem like a fairy tale .................................................. ......................................

Hi bro Justime,

Good philosophy. I live in the eternal present moment n I welcome any n all challenges including KC trap, hehehe.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by besafe

Nope. I have not seen her for a while. Actually quite scared to see her too often. Maybe you can fill me in through a PM and I follow up with a social call.............................................. .........

Hi bro besafe,

You got PM. Scared to see her too often? She is very affordable...dun tell me u r afraid to fall for her, hehehe. She knows I'm a fren who will help her...

Cheers!

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

Thanks to all bros concerned replies as well as PM'ing me. I am fine really...........................Tonight is the night! I am bringing ## out for a nice romantic dinner...................... She was SMS'ing me the whole afternoon since she has gotten up................................................ ..........................

Side track a little: after my work last night I went back to DC to enjoy some liquor with bro LKY, who was a little lonely.......................

Overall a good night and I hanged $200/- mini token for her. Also took in quick warm hug and kiss from ## when we were walking back to our seats............................................. ........................................

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

Good morning to all bros, truely a very happy morning!

I brought ## to a beautiful restaurant at the top of a certain building in the CBD area.............................................. ..............At 11pm, both ## and I walked hand-in-hand into CI and met with Marc5 and LKY, subsequently OceanLee and his 2 bros.............................................. ..........................At that time, bro OceanLee has not arrive yet.

Both Marc5 and LKY have beautiful lasses beside them, looks like bro Marc5 is back in business. Kekeke. Way to go, my manz!

................................CI has the quality but I was more engaged with my ## who is now my GF......................she was that type of gal you can bring home to see your mum..........................
Afterwhich, I sent ## home ... ... ...and for me home sweet home..............

Hi bro LDH,

Ths for updating n blow-by-blow acct of ur exploits. Very interesting n informative.

Be prepared for ## to fall for u. It will be a good experience. Pls reveal ur strategies n plan to "conquer" her body n heart. It would be intructive for me n all bros here.

Talking abt mum, the last time I brought a gal home to meet mine was many decades ago!

Is CI Club Infinitude on the 3rd FL of TAM building? It's still the Mecca of chio SYTs in SGP...

Cheers!!
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I'm not idle in Gotham City...

I'm now taking "lessons" from an elderly fren whom I call "senior mentor" whose mantra is "TOTAL DOMINATION/POSSESSION" of a female's body n heart, outside n inside bedroom. He is a natural n has been this way for over 50 yrs! Recently he showed me a secret treatise (available only a few yrs ago) whose strategies dovetail w/ his, abt 80-90% of the time. BTW, he is still happily married w/ grandchildren.

Only now do I fully appreciate Mr. Austin's guidelines n his emphasis on domination. Great minds do think alike, hehehe.

Ths for reading n hv a great day!!

[marc5]

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

Good morning to all bros, truely a very happy morning!

Both Marc5 and LKY have beautiful lasses beside them, looks like bro Marc5 is back in business. Kekeke. Way to go, my manz!

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I am very sure you had a happy morning because you had a happy evening before...

Hehehe..I had a sexy Yunan gal for HH (ordered from LP to DC) and a hot, pretty Chonqing babe for SH at CI. Now I have to follow up a little bit to see if they are on or not (in a short run).

Mid next week I am going to Zuhai... see you bros.

[besafe]

Hi, Brother Warbird,
Back to your original purpose of this post.
I recently discovered a great way to pick up girls outside KTVs.
(I am sure many brothers here are already aware and are doing it)
Be a landlord and rent out rooms to KTV girls, especially those here for short term.
If they can't pay rent... they can always pay in kind.. right?
Something to consider?

[Loving_Dickhead]

Originally Posted by marc5

I am very sure you had a happy morning because you had a happy evening before...

Mid next week I am going to Zuhai... see you bros.

Hi bro Marc5, indeed I was a very happy man.

I was down at DC on Saturday during SH with a 2 business partners and 2 former NS friends.

Once again, ## was with me the whole night long and I have had to refrain myself from hugging her or kissing her as it was in her workplace. Hahaha. I also hanged a small 皇冠 token for her last night.

After work, we went over the Orchard Cathay for a 4am show. I was totally smashed when I reached home.

Bro, since you are going over to Zhuhai mid of this week - wanna do a SH tomorrow (Monday) at DC? I am pretty free for Monday, thus will be meeting ## for dinner and some loving before sending her back to work. The rest of the week will be tough week for me. heh heh.

Best,
LDH


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[Loving_Dickhead]

Originally Posted by besafe

Wah.. you good boy hoh !

Hi bro! I was a very good boy indeed. After the bad, I turned good.

Originally Posted by justime

Hi Bro LDH, reading your post I sense the hurt you must have felt every time a relationship 'fails'.

Not really, just that I have learned to be cautious when giving out my love and attachment. Maybe I have hardened myself to the steel... maybe the right woman hasn't cast her magic on me. Right now, even as I do like ## a lot (as with **), I am still on the defensive.


Best,
LDH



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[Oceanlee]

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

At that time, bro OceanLee has not arrive yet.

Both Marc5 and LKY have beautiful lasses beside them, looks like bro Marc5 is back in business. Kekeke. Way to go, my manz!

Bro OceanLee came by with another 2 more pals at around 1am. All of them picked syt too... so yar, CI has the quality but I was more engaged with my ## who is now my GF. The whole night I was observing ##'s behavior, she was that type of gal you can bring home to see your mum, gentle (dresses simply, is also a plus) and a very attentive gal, at least to my wants/needs. Hahaha.

I left CI with ## and bro LKY (with his gal) at around 135am. Sorry bro Oceanlee, I wanted to stay longer but ## was feeling a little tired and also sick of the place (being similar setting as her workplace).

It was drizzling again outside and I dropped bro LKY and his gal to Tan Boon Liat building to pick up his car. Afterwhich, I sent ## home ... ... ...and for me home sweet home.


Best,
LDH

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Juz a update anyway .... Its was indeed a fruitful and enjoyable time with you all (esteem brudders) after you all left ...we stay until about near 4am after which me and my gal (the one at CI) we decided to go for ST, as she mentioned that she had a crush on me ... I was like WTH .... fast hand fast legz walk her to nearby lovenest for action de romance. To my amaze she is 36C cuppers (My kind of Meat) and her nips proturder and sensitive ... downside is abit saggy, probably with the room dimmers light and liquor effect she looks stunning and gorgeous to me that MOMENT.

Well we had some light kissers as a foreplay,and she can really rock's ..hehez.
We slowly caressing each other like lover's and striping down to our BD suite while I continue to autoroam her for a good 10min and proceed to bath and rest shall be history and nice memory for me.
(I do have her ctc, and mind recall her if needed) hehez.

I will cut the story short and of coz after the sexssion I reach home at abt 0630am then take a quick sleep...coz I had a late morning mtg, follow by this New Singer whom just reach on friday and shall continue later part ...
OC ard ...have to logoff ....