How many is here because you are sexually frustrated?

[corsiar74]

well.....I will say if we everyday eating fish we will get bored also...so sometimes have to try out different meal....

[analog539]

Originally Posted by shaunting77

well bros...allow my 0.1 cents of inputs...

jus got engaged...wife is not reali into sex and such...n i hav strong urge...so no choice but to b a samster and seek my satisfaction...to me, love n sex is two diff thing...i mean i love her and wld nvr abandon her...the few years we've been together till now, sex is there...bout once a week, but its purely mechanical sex...she dun give bj, no painting (say dirty), doggie style (say pain) wtf!!!...but having said tat, i've communicated to her in a nice way bout my needs but it seems that its falling into deaf ears...its still once a week, but mechanical sex...till i find tat its no longer exciting to do with her cos no variety and drive...n we are not even 30 yet...how sad can tat be...

n yes, she did tell me that her female frds oso dont do tat often n oso nt much variety...damn those women peeps around her, tats their prob...n tats y sg is always at the bottom rung of the sex freq survey round the world...tats someting i tought is not fitting for elitist sg...where we always chiong to b the best in everyting in this planet...

but to me, tat is a separate issue...to satisfy my own needs, i have to chiong outside...as long as its no strings attached, commercial with no feelings, y not...n i still come home to my loving wife...i would like to be a ONE-GINA man...but its NOT my fault tat she doesnt match my expectations in this aspect...better if can find a FB...best if she's a married woman facing the same prob like me...how nice...sometimes, i do feel guilty of my escapades, but wat to do, i just can't control my urges...

so u see, there's many guys out there facing the prob...young or old, BGR or married...when can we eva compare ourselves with the french and italians who are so passionate about sex (or making love as it is more appropriate)???

Hmmm...tell you what Bro shaunting77.....
If I were you and I know I'm not, but if I were....
I'd walk away from your engagment...do it now. No lawyers, no kids, no complications. You're getting engaged to a chick who thinks is normal to have sex once a week when you're in your twenties? Bro, are you out of your mind? Before my wife and I got married we fucked like rabbits, contiually...every position, every style, every hole...you name it, we did it. It was WONDERFUL! Till the first baby was born, that is how life was. My sack was ALWAYS empty..in fact, she would bug me she wasn't getting enough!!! Sure, its gone down a bit, kids lah....but going down from 10 times a week to a couple of times a month is one thing, going down from once a week to what, once every 10 years?

From Start Wars, "Run Bro, Run!". Bolt while you can. I have a secret for you....all women fuck, and all love it. If your soon to be wifey doesn't love it from you...that is a warning sign.

Run while you can.

No offence intended.
Jim

[dna_gene]

Originally Posted by shaunting77

but to me, tat is a separate issue...to satisfy my own needs, i have to chiong outside...as long as its no strings attached, commercial with no feelings, y not...n i still come home to my loving wife...

Trust me, I've been there and done that! The forbidden fruit was nice and thrilling. However once you are caught, it's as good as game over. She will most probably want a divorce, alimony fee asides. Even if she's willing to forgive you, she will still haunt you forever with it and her attitude towards the marriage will take a big turn! When I say big turn, it's really a real great different.

I agree with Bro Analog, leave while you still have the chance. Sex really plays an important role in marriage, once it's gone, everything else will seem to have come to a halt too! It's just responsibility and the little love that's left lingering around the house.

[whitegals]

Originally Posted by =WK=

omg, does she have any friends or sisters like her in singapore?

Oh dear bro,

I'll have to ask her, she plays for one of the gals' teams here in england. Although she was born in SG, I dun think she's got any that distant relatives still living in SG.

[Herich]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Married men with wives and children are banned from this site.

This forum is for unmarried/unattached cheongsters only.

just my personal take. I agree that chionging should only be for unmarried/unattached men. We should put ourselves in the shoes of the wives/gfs, how you feel if you know your man is eating outside. if you truly love her, you would not want to hurt your wife/gf emotionally in this manner (irregardless whether she know about your eat-outs or not)

i feel that if you have tried all means to improve your sex with your wife/gf and it is still not up to your expectation (pls do not benchmark against comm'l sex experience or what you see in AV), you EITHER have to live with it (i.e without comm'l sex) if you still love your wife/gf
OR
pls leave your wife/gf before you engage in comm'l sex.

thought this is only being fair to your wife. 'Not being able to have commerical sex' is the price married man pay for a blissful marriage/family. sometimes we just cannot have the best of everything.

[primalhunter]

Originally Posted by whitegals

Oh dear bro,

I'll have to ask her, she plays for one of the gals' teams here in england. Although she was born in SG, I dun think she's got any that distant relatives still living in SG.

I think the idea here is for all here to be your bestest buddy so that our gfs and wifes can hang out more with your gf thus get the required 'training' from your gf about the finer points of bj, hj, fj and watever j she knows of. Hopefully can brainwash them to submission

Still hoping to cum with a Man U goal!!!!

So how bro whitegals... when u gonna organize a gathering... cheers bro.

[shaunting77]

wat can be bad?

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by shaunting77

i guess i love her too much till i reali can't bear to leave her...i'll just hav to continue to chiong for god knows how long...jus pray can find a discreet FB...tat wld b best

Bro Shaunting77, you are not alone, definitely...!!! Whenever we hear those "happenings" stories/encounters in sillypore, we thought how lucky those lads are, or rather, how supressed we are. Fret not, bro... sex is just part of the package for a blissful marriage.

If u see sex and love are two distinguish entities, I do not see anything ethically wrong to engage in commercial and no-string attached sex. However, speaking from experience, the real danger isnt in the sex encounters with FB or ONS, but the emotional attachment from the female counterparts. It's emotionally drained, not forgetting the financially lost either.

Been there, Done that... Still doing it *LOL*
jimbo

[whitegals]

Originally Posted by primalhunter

So how bro whitegals... when u gonna organize a gathering... cheers bro.

I can organise the gathering, but you'll have to pay for your own airfare and transport expenses from Heathrow.

[saberman]

Originally Posted by shaunting77

well bros...allow my 0.1 cents of inputs...

jus got engaged...wife is not reali into sex and such...n i hav strong urge...so no choice but to b a samster and seek my satisfaction...to me, love n sex is two diff thing...i mean i love her and wld nvr abandon her

Yo bro shaunting77, allow me share my two cents worth of experience.

I still remember that when i was younger and unattached, i look at bros who are attached or married with envy. I just couldn't understand why "those lucky bastards (pardon my language)" would still want to fool around outside.

Well, i have been married for seven years now, and at this pt of my life, i totally agree with u that love and sex is two difference thing. For me, sex with my wife is such an agony, that i would rather pcc myself. Can any bros imagine how it is like to have "stroke" your wife until she cum first before your little brother can enter her. And you will be lucky if her little sister open her "door" for you afterwards. When you finally got in, there is only one position permitted - missionary, and the feeling is like doing it to a dead log. Dun ever talk abt sound effect, much less multi orgasm experience. She dun bj for you, and the only hj she does (rating 2.5 out of 10) is to get your little brother to wake up to do the job.

And thats the reason why i am here - to look for some good sex. I still love my wife and will not leave her, but i need to release some pressure too right. So far, thks to the recommendation of several of our bros here, i have gone on a couple of these "paid" expeditions. I also almost ended up having an affair with a colleague of my, but lucky, i managed to pull out in time. I agreed with bro jng1103 abt the risk of emotional attachment involved. My advice is this - dun ever belief one bit if the woman tell u she knows where she stands, becos women are emotional creatures, not logical.

Recently got an angmoh expat neighbour. Wow, his girlfriend (local) really steam siah. Tall and slim, at least 1.7 something, look at least a 7.5 or 8. Definitely qualified to be a model. After reading the adventure of a couple of our bros (peterpan and cubeslover, both my heros) hotwifing adventure, start to fantasied me bonking his girlfriend while he teach my wife a trick or two, heehee. Well, just fantasysing only.

Anyway, good luck and pray that we wouldn't be caught

[primalhunter]

Originally Posted by whitegals

I can organise the gathering, but you'll have to pay for your own airfare and transport expenses from Heathrow.

GEEZ... just realise u are writing from England... damn. I knew there couldn't be a chick that watches EPL and love to suck dicks a the same time in sillipore!

[steamystreamsg]

Bro saberman,
We share almost the same sentiments.

[Herich]

Originally Posted by saberman

Yo bro shaunting77, allow me share my two cents worth of experience.

I still remember that when i was younger and unattached, i look at bros who are attached or married with envy. I just couldn't understand why "those lucky bastards (pardon my language)" would still want to fool around outside.

D

That is how i feel about 'those lucky bastards' now. Maybe, I will end up being one of those 'lucky bastards' one day. But for now, I still believe in being 'faithful' to one's wife though it is easier said than done.

[Mr Canon]

Originally Posted by Herich

That is how i feel about 'those lucky bastards' now. Maybe, I will end up being one of those 'lucky bastards' one day. But for now, I still believe in being 'faithful' to one's wife though it is easier said than done.

How I wish I can be like you, being so faithful.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by primalhunter

This is bordering on paranoia, I know, but is my flabby appearance now, the reason for her to be so put off by sex with me???

This happens to both guys and gals. Gals may find it hard to return to their size XS clothing after a baby or two. Do you think your hubby is put off by your appearance?

Bro I understand where you are coming from, when i first met my wife, i was a fitness freak pounding 5 clicks every other day and doing the gym on alternate days but then when i was diagnosed with a back injury that made it pratically impossible for me to do what i love most, i have been piling on the kilos...well nowadays she kept referring back to those days and how I look like a pig etc etc...to us guys we got our egos too..of cos likewise such comments really turns me off especially when we are in the midst of trying to make love, correction have sex, yup there is a difference, we don;t make love anymore, just fuck and forget type....honestly i get a better deal fucking a pros then my wife....