My Real Life Story

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

family money ba ba then no debt ma...parents paid the debts...why got debt leh...

Since the story No elaborate just guessing

[sharonlee]

hi bros,to clear all your doubts,my family is in business trade and indeed they help me pay off at least 700k of debts,and why do I have the money to buy him cars is all loans from banks and families
As for kids custody,the court already gave me,as he did not have a better income than I have,i work two jobs per day
I was sad,as i put in a lot effort and trust,u all can choose to believe or not to believe,as a lot of friends know that this story is true,and this ex-hubby of mine till now is still enjoying his life with his two girlfriend
but his working partners did tell me a lot stories too,saying that he go oversea with his girlfriend which he never bring me and my daughter before,even when i said that i will pay
life wasn't good,if this happen to your siblings u all will know and understanding how i feel,even when my family don't allow me to marry him,i still insist and nearly fall out with my family at that time,now then i realise that family are the ones around me supporting me always even when i was in debts
All bros,dont quarrel because of my story,i just wan to share my life story with you all,hoping that all will cherish your other half
i put in effort money and trust in this family because i once love him and i did not want my daughter to have a broken family

[sharonlee]

i did post two threads because i don't know which section to post for this topic
sorry bro
anyway its ok if u all think that its a fake story,my monthly income add to 8k plus per month,thats y i can afford the car instalment
the money for my ex-hubby to start business is loan from my mum

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

Same thought too should be bankrupt by now unless TS family actually money money baba!

think got to give some discount to stories online bro. alot of them will edit details so as not to expose their real life identities to ppl who might know them online.

[seabass]

JB pointed a flaw with her maths and here is another glaring one:

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hi all people here,my name is Sharon,i am 39years old this year,i wan to share a story that happen to me and hope that all people can comment ,give me some solution.thanks a lot
when I was grad from high school........

Where we got use high school one. The ang moh high school is equivalent to our secondary school.

TS's cut n paste skill very tok-gong.

[sharonlee]

my parents help me pay off huge amount already that's why after that i impossible to seek help from them again.i don't want my parents to worry that my debts are so huge and not cleared yet

[sharonlee]

if you all think its cut and paste then i got nothing to say,last time high school wasn't like now ok!!!!
its ok for u all to don't believe and laugh,nobody want all this to happen to their family members,if one day it happen to your siblings or best friend then u wont be feeling that its a joke,u simply don't know the hurt and how it feels getting cheated n betrayed when u put in so much in this family

[sharonlee]

you are clever but i am not,at least i told my true life story,nobody want all this to happen and it hurts so much,u simply don't understand how it feels ,when it really happen to your fren or siblings then u will know that all wasn't a joke

Originally Posted by seabass

JB pointed a flaw with her maths and here is another glaring one:

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hi all people here,my name is Sharon,i am 39years old this year,i wan to share a story that happen to me and hope that all people can comment ,give me some solution.thanks a lot
when I was grad from high school........

Where we got use high school one. The ang moh high school is equivalent to our secondary school.

TS's cut n paste skill very tok-gong.

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by HCKing

think got to give some discount to stories online bro. alot of them will edit details so as not to expose their real life identities to ppl who might know them online.

Bro this one need to discount alot lo the whole story machaim writing taiwanese or korean scripts

Like pastor john and seabass pointed...

Oh bro seabass pinoy do use the term Highschool.

[sharonlee]

its ok to give u all laugh about my poor English,and i am local Singaporean
honestly laugh all u can,make sure all this don't happen to girls around you,if not i bet that u will never laugh again

Originally Posted by acidicavex

Bro this one need to discount alot lo the whole story machaim writing taiwanese or korean scripts

Like pastor john and seabass pointed...

Oh bro seabass pinoy do use the term Highschool.

[seabass]

the Philippines is pro US so most things follow US after WWII.

but in sg we use term secondary.

This is called contextual agreement or integrity.

[sharonlee]

i got nothing to say,carry on your so call parise or rather insult in people english

[prettymannequin]

#justsaying in response to the replies here in general.

1. We don't have to nitpick on details like high school vs sec school, I use the term high school myself. But I do agree that the double posting is super fishy so bros might wanna watch out on this point.

2. Why insinuate that TS is refusing sex? Sex wasn't what the husband was looking from her anyway. Did nobody pick up the fact that she said her husband simply wanted to use her as an ATM and use her money to have fun with other women?

3. It's still fishy lol. TS you might wanna clarify some of the doubts presented here?

[seabass]

sorry to fault details that are trivia and not important - but please don't use the term fishy; i prefer the synonym, suspicious. lol

pretty please...

[ColdBlood99]

Originally Posted by sharonlee

hi all people here,my name is Sharon,i am 39years old this year,i wan to share a story that happen to me and hope that all people can comment ,give me some solution.thanks a lot
when I was grad from high school,i found a retail sales job as I was those that don't want to enjoy using parent's money,i work hard and sometime after my school end then I would go to work too,almost is work 7days per week,in my workplace I know this guy called M ,he woo me for months and I slowly fell for him,even though a lot of people around me encourage me not to be with him,i still insist,alot of colleagues and friends say he was just after my money as my family background was not bad,around 2years later,we got married,i paid for all wedding dinner and gowns,but I don't mind at all.i just want a happy family.After we married then friends have been telling me that he had a few girlfriend outside,i approached him and asked him few times but he deny.And I trusted him,after few months I saw his handphone with mushy message and he told me that was wrong number,i believed him again.Around age of 30 I gave him money to start a business and bought him a EVO,but he always say he want change car as he love sports car,i changed EVO to GTI to GTR to LEXUS to MERCS.Whenever he say that he have money issue then I would always give him money to tide over,my daughter was the most pity one,she was the one who saw me goin through all this agony,my husband was screaming at me and pulling a long face whenever he is in bad mood.And something I wan tell all people is,he told me he needs to entertain clients ,every since he start his business,he will only be home around 6-7am,and almost everyday he was not home,i told myself again and again to trust him.After 15yrs later,i cant bear anymore as I was heavily in debts because of him,i was chased by banks and friends.i was so depressed,in the end my best friend told me something,dont believe him anymore,he have two girlfriends outside,so I decided to employ a PI to check

Originally Posted by sharonlee

Finally after 5days of PI check,they found out that he got two girlfriends and he spend almost every night with either one till the next morning,i was so sad,all along I trusted him but he betrayed again and again,i don't want my kids to grow in a broken family that's why I told myself to trust and believe,
finally after a few friends of mine accompany me and ask me to file for a divorce,and I did it after consideration.
I moved to my parents house for few days and told my parent about this incident,and my paremt say that they wanted to go his hse and find him talk .and we go up to his house together,my parent showed his parent all the PI reports and they was shocked too,they called M home ,he saw the report and beg me for forgiveness,but I feel that its too late ,he was too scary,my mind flash by all the images of the past,he asked for money and called me repeatedly continuously as if I was a atm,its time I be awake,and I told him on the spot that I will divorce with him
he came to my parent house and shedding crocodile tears and say that he know his mistake all that,but my heart is dead,i told him that do u remember once I told you that I am not feeling well and I went to doctor and the doctor say I have some sex infection,and he still scare I pass to him..The doctor say it was a man sex disease.He was such a selfish man,he was the one fooling around and yet he can deny and worry.
After month,we divorced and he told me that he left the girlfriend and say that he was true to me,but never would he know that his friend told me that he is still with the girls,and something more shocking was,it was a plot by him to marry with me and con and cheat my money.
at first I wouldn't believe much what his friend say but his friend told me that when I and my husband attended his friend wedding,his girlfriend was the one sitting on the same table as us and was just sitting next to him,i cried.
I was a fool for so many years ,he cheated me and make me full of debts of up to 7digit,i told myself to be strong as my daughter was still young,but he just wouldn't give me a peace of mind,the court asked him to give kids maintence fee of $500 and he skipped for months,at first I thought he was jobless but in the end I heard that he go with girlfriend to enjoy also don't want to give out daughter the money
I feel so sad,why this world have such a guy,a selfish one
this is my real life story,sorry if my English wasn't good
just want to share and hope u all can share this story around

what a sad story, do not forgive that bastard. men shouldn't be doing this way to his wife even if wife did not give him sex at all.


during solemnisation both have pledge as per below.

I, (Bride/Groom), take you (Groom/Bride), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.

but some time I really don't understand why marriage men / woman cheats.

that really puzzle me...


well TS take good care of your kid and yourself. its not late to start all over again. good luck