Feeling hopeless over physical appearance

[discordpiggy]

Originally Posted by subidowa

What kao...... So short and old plus the wife so fat who wanna swing with them. Nabei.... erxin. I rather go club drink with my promoters get them high and gang bang with my bros....Some more they are local young and hot......

One thing I always learn in life. A person can be really lousy or ugly but never insult or shame them. U can beat them but not beat the face. Physical pain can be forgotten but feeling of hurt will be remembered for life.

got! still have people wanna swing with them i guess! but i ain't going to even IF ONE day I will swing. cos to me they are uber uncouth and low class! their engrish is sibei lousy nvm, but they openly defame me and my bros who stood up to me. so that shows everyone what their character is. I also understand many couples have avoided them, hence that 48yo HOG is constantly looking out for girls for his swinging...

the bros that stood up for me never think lowly of me despite my looks. they know what I am capable of and I also have full respect for these 2 bros because they have great personalities and capabilities!

that's thinking back I need to thank that imbecile 48yo HOG siao chong nao man! if it is not for his imbecile behaviour and utter brainless attitudes, I won't have known 2 great bros who will side me no matter what.

strangely, people say sex forum cannot make friends. wakkakaka!!! i guess my bros and I have prove many wrong!

[discordpiggy]

Originally Posted by Intltuk

Sis, such pple are superficial and not worth ur time or friendship; even if u look like Miss Universe...they're still superficial as they are still not ur friends.

Hving said tat, weight can be resolve by exercise and sensible eating....note tat I did not say diet . Acne scars can be reduce/eliminate thru exfoliation treatment....but end at the end of the day...it's the inner u tat matters. Outer beauty is transient....inner beauty is lifetime .

Bros/sis, don't let shallow/insecure pple put u down; they only do so as tat is the only way that can make themselves feel good.

Bro Intltuk, yah too many of these superficial people around, its really not worth my time, hence i have avoided even any conversation with them. unless they publicly apologised to me and my 2 bros who stood up for me in the forum. I believe that by loosing them as friends, I gain better ones.

On the weight issue, I did exercised but stopped quite few months back due to some work problems but once all settle will go back to exercising. i have lost a good 14kg. But I still want to loose another 6kg, in order to have a smaller waist. however, on the eating part will be a problem because I can never eat a lot any more.

i have tried many things for the acne scars/orange peel enormous large pores issue and going for treatment is costly. Having said that, I have become more obsessive and diligent in taking of my face by constantly putting mask on my face. Not much improvement but I still work hard at it. I won't give up without trying diligent to take care of my face. Hopefully it will get better.

hahah!! I know how to make myself feel good, bought myself an expensive bag and whenever I carry it, heads turn... to look at my bag... it is happening now...

[Intltuk]

Originally Posted by discordpiggy

Bro Intltuk, yah too many of these superficial people around, its really not worth my time, hence i have avoided even any conversation with them. unless they publicly apologised to me and my 2 bros who stood up for me in the forum. I believe that by loosing them as friends, I gain better ones.

On the weight issue, I did exercised but stopped quite few months back due to some work problems but once all settle will go back to exercising. i have lost a good 14kg. But I still want to loose another 6kg, in order to have a smaller waist. however, on the eating part will be a problem because I can never eat a lot any more.

i have tried many things for the acne scars/orange peel enormous large pores issue and going for treatment is costly. Having said that, I have become more obsessive and diligent in taking of my face by constantly putting mask on my face. Not much improvement but I still work hard at it. I won't give up without trying diligent to take care of my face. Hopefully it will get better.

hahah!! I know how to make myself feel good, bought myself an expensive bag and whenever I carry it, heads turn... to look at my bag... it is happening now...

Self-assured and confident pple make others feel good.

Ah yes......shopping therapy....always works.

Anyway....wanna say.....WOW...u lost 14kg....geez....I exercise for 1mth plus and lose only 2kg only. Keep it up

My only advice is....don't get obsessive....be diligent. On orange peel skin...seems like ur skin was damaged somehow but fixable...here's a read(not advocating it.....just info)
http://www.realself.com/review/world...lp-please-read

Life is too short to get emo over insecure pple.....just add them to ur ignore list. And yes...shopping therapy always works.

[Wintermelontea]

Overdo anything and it may become problematic (shopping). Take care.

[discordpiggy]

Originally Posted by Intltuk

Self-assured and confident pple make others feel good.

Ah yes......shopping therapy....always works.

Anyway....wanna say.....WOW...u lost 14kg....geez....I exercise for 1mth plus and lose only 2kg only. Keep it up

My only advice is....don't get obsessive....be diligent. On orange peel skin...seems like ur skin was damaged somehow but fixable...here's a read(not advocating it.....just info)
http://www.realself.com/review/world...lp-please-read

Life is too short to get emo over insecure pple.....just add them to ur ignore list. And yes...shopping therapy always works.

i lost weight when i diet and exercise initially like 6-8kg then it just stop, thats during the 1-3months. and I couldnt loose any more. so stop exercising and dieting, then recently i lost a bit more weight when i start to club. and eventually end up loosing a total of 14kg.

yes i have those large pores... i did try using oils in fact it did help despite me having oily skin. but thanks for the tip. I will try to see if it works. no harm.

Originally Posted by Wintermelontea

Overdo anything and it may become problematic (shopping). Take care.

yes i did extreme shopping just recently... because i lost a lot of weight so need new clothes.

[Intltuk]

Originally Posted by discordpiggy

i lost weight when i diet and exercise initially like 6-8kg then it just stop, thats during the 1-3months. and I couldnt loose any more. so stop exercising and dieting, then recently i lost a bit more weight when i start to club. and eventually end up loosing a total of 14kg.

yes i have those large pores... i did try using oils in fact it did help despite me having oily skin. but thanks for the tip. I will try to see if it works. no harm.

Pls proceed with care. Ur condition intrigue me and did some reading. Here's a grp of pple discussing it Hope this helps. https://www.essentialdayspa.com/foru....php?tid=48024
http://www.acne.org/messageboard/top...look-horrible/

[Intltuk]

Good Afternoon all,

Inspirational quotes fm the net for the day:

1. You wouldn't worry so much about what other people thought if you realised how seldom they do.
2. Confidence is feeling satisfied with who and what we are.
3. Failure is only a fact when you give up. Everyone gets knocked down, the question is: Will you get back up?
4. Things change for the better when we take responsibility for our own thoughts, decisions and actions.
5. When you discover it's your choice and your attitude, things start to happen!
6. The secret of success is having the courage to begin in the first place.
7. If you keep on going the way you're going you'll end up where you're heading - which direction are you aiming for?
8. It's your choice - will you choose to be a victim or the victor?
9. Get rid of the negative people in your life - surround yourself with positive people who believe in you and inspire you.
10 Winners feel like winners; Losers feel like losers; How do you feel?

[Intltuk]

Bros who have supported me, do leave ur nick so that I can return the favour if the opportunity arrive.

To those pathetic little zappy creatures, sorry excuse of a human being, living under the illusion of grandeur tat little virtual powers holds sway and think they are keyboard warriors; sad to say, it's points only and u're not keyboard warriors, just wannabes hiding under the anonymity of the monitor. I'm am sad tat ur greatest joy is derived from something tat is actually....nothing. I am, at the same time, thankful to u for showing me that my life is not so bad after all .

I salute the bros/sis real keyboard warriors who only under extreme circumstances, with good reasons, zap and state their reasons and most importantly, declare in the forum they did so.

[Intltuk]

munus implere

[emogirl]

Hi StoolPigeon,

it's important to take ownership of your life. If you think you're not attractive, it's hard for others to as well. Girls like a confident man. Looks are really secondary. Sure you want to look at someone nice but I've dated guys who don't have the six pack abs. A sense of humor and the ability to hold an intellectual conversation goes a long way. Guys really care more about looks than gals.

My humble advice is to do things that make you happy. Work out more if you think you're pudgy. If your hair is receding, cut it short or shave it off. How sexy is the Rock or Bruce Willis? Don't worry about your height. There are many girls who are petite in SG. Be more social. Get happy and you'll meet someone you like. Girls like boys who smile a lot and are confident.

Just my two cents.

[discordpiggy]

Originally Posted by Intltuk

Pls proceed with care. Ur condition intrigue me and did some reading. Here's a grp of pple discussing it Hope this helps. https://www.essentialdayspa.com/foru....php?tid=48024
http://www.acne.org/messageboard/top...look-horrible/

MANY THANKS! for the tip and greatly appreciated!

i am looking to purchase that and also found something great and cheap to close up my pores and it is working very well! i currently wash my face 3 times a day and apply the gel 3times for 1 week and I am into my 2nd week and more improvement.

quite happy with it!

[KaniNababe]

Originally Posted by PPGirl

Stop complaining. U are much more fortunate than pple who are diagnosed with cancer. They have to go through chemo.. see their hair dropped day by day even though they dun wish to. And undergoin alot of pain too.

For ur info, if u are stressed or worried too much, hair will dropped too.

I think 1 thing u lack is self confidence. Anyway u mentioned took mc to stay at hm, lost interest in things ..these are some symptoms of depression. But then since u join this forum, i think u are not that depressed at all LoLz. So after getting all the kind advices, what is ur next step?

Most women dont look for handsome guys as bf or hb ( except as dessert)
I guess is ur personality n lack of confidence that are causing the rejection. Nobody likes the company of a sour face, life is stressful enough so we prefer to be surrounded by positive ppl.
If u cant even love urself then who can love u?
Seriously if u r so stubborn nobody can help u here.. Socrates said " i cannot teach u anything, i can only make u think"!

[lotsfits80]

Not the best of advices, but if I were you here's what I'd consider going to plastic surgeon (I don't mind going under knife if it improves my life) to help reduce the size of my head, even just a little. Then have the surgeon build me a damn good look to match a bald head (like Pit Bull). I won't be so much bothered about being bald so if I have a receding hairline I'd just shave it clean and polish it. Singaporean girls may not be attracted to bald men but there are girls from other countries that will. Filipinas, Malays, latinas and caucasians or even western-born Asians are more receptive to bald men. If possible I'd grow some nice goatee/sideburn/beard for the manly look as well. I will go find those foreign ladies and forget about Chinese women. I will get a personal trainer and bulk up my body, get a damn good physique so that my body looks proportional to my head. I'd tailor some nice suit to fit myself and pick up foreign languages to get the foreign girls.

My two cents.

[Wintermelontea]

Originally Posted by discordpiggy

yes i did extreme shopping just recently... because i lost a lot of weight so need new clothes.

hahahahahahaa...please update with your new pictures?

[real_king]

i know. go and zhng your boobies to F-cup.

or if TS is guy, go and zhng ur wallet la,