Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[leecs]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

hahaha...good to have little expectation...i think you will enjoy your trip...you will get moe than your share...remember sin man are hot commodities...

Haha! Hopefully can lam tinh!! I went there 2 weeks ago with my friends & was introduced to her. Then she slept over at khack san for a night. I didn’t touch her. 忍功!!!

Originally Posted by magna27

but on the very 1st night, we already lam tinh.

Like that also can? For my case, I didn’t even touch her!!! F**k!!!

Originally Posted by jackbl

U can go to some roadside stall near to Ben Thanh Market, they selling some Vietnamese<---> English Phrase book. If you know how to bargain, you can get it at 45000vnd, else maybe 70000vnd...

Shit! I’ve bought a book at Kinokuniya for her. I’ll ask her to bring me there. Thanks

[SingViet]

Aiyoh. Lam Tinh, to the normal vietnamese, is like eating Com Tam. Nothing to shout about

[screwing]

bro leecs,

If you take the initiative and try, things might be different.

For my case, I can feel that she dun even like me at all and yet she still tried her best to accommodate to my sexual needs. No money involves.

She is horny ? I dun think so.
She is WL in VN ? I dunno. Even if she is, she wouldn't tell me.
Is their culture to be accommodate and to please their men towards sex? I dunno. (Need expert advise)
Generally, they are more open minded towards sex ? I think yes.

cheers.

[leecs]

Im still green in the world of Vietnam girls. Guess more trips there will make me understand more.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by naemlo

A question to ask all the viet ong xa.... do your ba xa likes flowers??

Yes. They like flowers on valentine day (14 Feb) and women day (8 Mar) only.

Originally Posted by SingViet

No, they like GOLD and Diamonds and i really hate GOLD and Diamonds.

Not all will go for gold and diamonds. Cold hard cash is better.

though my girlfriend needs cash... but a simple gift will do for occasions like Vday, Bday... as long as i got the heart to go visit her.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by David_Villa

Do u wear any protection? Most of the viet gal hv mutiple sex partners!!!!

Originally Posted by SingViet

Aiyoh. Lam Tinh, to the normal vietnamese, is like eating Com Tam. Nothing to shout about

multiple sex partners?
Even normal viet?


Are you stereotyping? Sorry...

I know nowadays sillypore youngster is also having sex like going MacDonald for value meal... world really change. Wish to be in their generation.
I only know how to play soccer after school during younger years

[69ASIMO69]

Originally Posted by David_Villa

How much do u pay for ur LTSVP application? If u pay $60 and above it is most likely that u wil get 1 year LTSVP. Some only get 6mths and some 3 months, all these r depending on income status and Income tax payable.

The result not out yet, I am still waiting as I just submitted.... I only pay $70 for the submmission fees and the visa extention for 2 months while waiting for the approval. I guess they will look at the working consisitency rather than how much you earn but at least an comfortable figure. I have a fren earning only 1.8k per month fix with no commission and allowance but his wife got 1 yr on 1st attempt. this fren of mine has been contributing CPF for years already and his income is not taxable.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by David_Villa

Do u wear any protection? Most of the viet gal hv mutiple sex partners!!!!

hahaha...very subjective...I oso knew some are very conservative and no nonsense...30+ virgins still have...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Yes. They like flowers on valentine day (14 Feb) and women day (8 Mar) only.

Guess have to wait till next yr.

[Kualalumpur]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

multiple sex partners?
Even normal viet?


Are you stereotyping? Sorry...

He is right unfortunately.

Nope, and not only WL Thats why I was trained to be suspicious over the years The standard structure of the couple is that the husband must bring the money to the "family", that is the wife and childrens.

After that, it really does not matter in many families what happens behind if in public the couple and children looks nice, it does not only concerns countryside people but some rich families.

Most ladies I know have another boyfriend or two somewhere, and those guys are very hard to detect, even if you stay many years in VN. The women support each other and make perfect schedule and stories to see their boyfriends whilst the stupid husband believes they went out for shopping or work. It's very common. That's why most of my foreigner friends do not let their VN wives go out at any cost. Some people are cheated daily, lifelong.

I found out the hard way that the women looks jealous and check if the husband/man has contact with any girls. They can scream if they find out in the phone a woman's phone number, no matter the age or work. But on the other side, let's say it clearly, the women are not that serious at all They cover themselves by looking very strict and conservative to the outsiders, and very jealous with their husband, only to hide THE boyfriend they choose. Complain about other's supposed faults so no one can believe you are actually doing it in real.

I refuse to touch married women, but it is very easy. A WL will use condoms, those office/traditional girls will not, and they are the most dangerous in terms of STDs.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Kualalumpur

He is right unfortunately.

Nope, and not only WL Thats why I was trained to be suspicious over the years The standard structure of the couple is that the husband must bring the money to the "family", that is the wife and childrens.

After that, it really does not matter in many families what happens behind if in public the couple and children looks nice, it does not only concerns countryside people but some rich families.

Most ladies I know have another boyfriend or two somewhere, and those guys are very hard to detect, even if you stay many years in VN. The women support each other and make perfect schedule and stories to see their boyfriends whilst the stupid husband believes they went out for shopping or work. It's very common. That's why most of my foreigner friends do not let their VN wives go out at any cost. Some people are cheated daily, lifelong.

I found out the hard way that the women looks jealous and check if the husband/man has contact with any girls. They can scream if they find out in the phone a woman's phone number, no matter the age or work. But on the other side, let's say it clearly, the women are not that serious at all They cover themselves by looking very strict and conservative to the outsiders, and very jealous with their husband, only to hide THE boyfriend they choose. Complain about other's supposed faults so no one can believe you are actually doing it in real.

I refuse to touch married women, but it is very easy. A WL will use condoms, those office/traditional girls will not, and they are the most dangerous in terms of STDs.

You are correct in more ways than one. You are speaking from the viewpoint of a foreigner who has been in Vietnam for quite sometime and has somewhat gained quite a good understanding on how the normal vietnamese lady think and act. There are much too many foreigner guys who trust their vietnamese spouse way too much and choose to think overly positive about their vietnamese spouse. No, i am not saying you shouldn't trust them, but give them some time, a long period of time to prove their sincerity and faithfulness. This bring us yet to another point of how things are different before and after marriage. It just run in their blood and culture to do those things and cheating of a foreigner is just another daily affair to brighten up their dull life. But of course, not all are bad, there are some that are good and deserves to be loved and trusted.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by 69ASIMO69

The result not out yet, I am still waiting as I just submitted.... I only pay $70 for the submmission fees and the visa extention for 2 months while waiting for the approval. I guess they will look at the working consisitency rather than how much you earn but at least an comfortable figure. I have a fren earning only 1.8k per month fix with no commission and allowance but his wife got 1 yr on 1st attempt. this fren of mine has been contributing CPF for years already and his income is not taxable.

Bro, LTSVP is easy to get la. You should be more worried about PR.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Kualalumpur

He is right unfortunately.


I found out the hard way that the women looks jealous and check if the husband/man has contact with any girls. They can scream if they find out in the phone a woman's phone number, no matter the age or work. But on the other side, let's say it clearly, the women are not that serious at all They cover themselves by looking very strict and conservative to the outsiders, and very jealous with their husband, only to hide THE boyfriend they choose. Complain about other's supposed faults so no one can believe you are actually doing it in real.

I think your comment applies to all nationalities lei...there are always those who flirt around and not just Vnese...even in Sin oso we read these in the press...well I always think if you neglect your spouse then your spouse will tend to find thrill outside...I am afraid it cut both ways...

[papillon30]

Need cash? Sign up for phone line


50-year-old schizoid man and Vietnamese wife is 22 years old(28 years gap).
Security guard previously, and now unemployed. Did he manage to secure PR or citizenship for his Vietnamese wife? If yes, how?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by papillon30

Need cash? Sign up for phone line


50-year-old schizoid man and Vietnamese wife is 22 years old(28 years gap).
Security guard previously, and now unemployed. Did he manage to secure PR or citizenship for his Vietnamese wife? If yes, how?

Lidat oso can...dun know how he can secure PR for his wife...maybe approved before he lost his job or can be on long term pass...