The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

trust me on this..there is no need to clear up any misunderstanding now...there will be a chance in future...sometimes its not tat there is a misunderstanding..both side noe the truth but juz dun wan to face it..

Sounds like a possibility too. Still, let the hands of fate decide whats best. Thx.

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

both side noe the truth but juz dun wan to face it..

Do you think for guys, this is mostly an "EGO" thing? - just wanted to hear some views

JWNY

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by JWNY

Do you think for guys, this is mostly an "EGO" thing? - just wanted to hear some views

JWNY

Mostly pride on the girl's part. Men tend to forget about Ego if there is pussy at stake.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by surfer888

Mostly pride on the girl's part. Men tend to forget about Ego if there is pussy at stake.

if its 1 thing i've noticed, and learnt from many who've survived the perilous path of relationships & marriage... just as they say "guys dont mean what we say, gals dont say what they mean"

when its only about play, some guys tend to be naughty, when its about love, some guys actually become tamed.... pride & ego eventually disintegrates.

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by JWNY

Do you think for guys, this is mostly an "EGO" thing? - just wanted to hear some views

JWNY

sometimes when things happen..u rather walk away believing tat u did the correct thing bcoz ur heart cant take another heartbreak anymore

for my case..i walk away without ever knowing the truth from her mouth..i noe tat i shld have ask everythin straight but inside me..there is a part tat doesnt wan to find out the truth bcoz ultimately mayb things are beta tis way..i rather walk away with a beautiful memory of her than to find out the ugly truth

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by surfer888

Mostly pride on the girl's part. Men tend to forget about Ego if there is pussy at stake.

I have to agree on that

JWNY

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

for my case..i walk away without ever knowing the truth from her mouth..i noe tat i shld have ask everythin straight but inside me..there is a part tat doesnt wan to find out the truth bcoz ultimately mayb things are beta tis way..i rather walk away with a beautiful memory of her than to find out the ugly truth

I guess you're right...some things are better left unsaid...

So what if we knew...things wouldn't be different

JWNY

[asdfghjkl]

why is this thread such a hot topic here.. can it be generally true?

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

why is this thread such a hot topic here.. can it be generally true?

Why? you don't like my thread ?

Seriously, because it captures the moments of "what if's" and questioning the question if there is any truth in it, ie - The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

JWNY

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

for my case..i walk away without ever knowing the truth from her mouth..i noe tat i shld have ask everythin straight but inside me..there is a part tat doesnt wan to find out the truth bcoz ultimately mayb things are beta tis way..i rather walk away with a beautiful memory of her than to find out the ugly truth

Moving on when things are intact may be the best solution when too much matters entangle and intertwined each other, fruitless effort to explain will only further complicate matter. Might as well leave it as it is and move on, looking back, sometimes you’ll realize that you had just avoided an ugly scuffle. Many a times it is not about the right or wrong but rather then the diminishing feelings that tug the hearts so strongly and yet yields unbearable pain and grief when revisited.

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

when its only about play, some guys tend to be naughty, when its about love, some guys actually become tamed.... pride & ego eventually disintegrates.

Way back then, Eddie Murphy called it "The Pussy Trap".

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Moving on when things are intact may be the best solution when too much matters entangle and intertwined each other, fruitless effort to explain will only further complicate matter. Might as well leave it as it is and move on, looking back, sometimes you’ll realize that you had just avoided an ugly scuffle. Many a times it is not about the right or wrong but rather then the diminishing feelings that tug the hearts so strongly and yet yields unbearable pain and grief when revisited.

Unfortunately, it is normally the guy that has to leave matters as they are and move on. Women tend to be more petty and calculative when it comes to relationships... sorry... on everything.

[Know_yr_role]

i think its generally true... cos as i mentioned somewhere in the thread before also..for me i dun think everyone can be so fortunate and get attached to the one person who u love most...

there are always complications in between them...the one u love most married someone else first, beat u to the gold......you missed the opportunity to express yr feelings......money issues which swerve your decisions to other women or vice versa......cant have a serious r/s for long......dun wan to get commited to one person too fast,by time u ready, end up losing yr chance.......alot more dumb reasons i heard before.....

so end of the day..i think...if u really think tat you love ther person who u are seeing now...dun wait....go for it....take the plunge....

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Many a times it is not about the right or wrong but rather then the diminishing feelings that tug the hearts so strongly and yet yields unbearable pain and grief when revisited.

raising my feet n hand to agree

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by Know_yr_role

so end of the day..i think...if u really think tat you love ther person who u are seeing now...dun wait....go for it....take the plunge....

wat if its all cement ground below and u take the plunge?