Long Distance Tirak Relationship - Myth or Reality

[sg69]

thanks brudders for your advice. will take heed to all your suggestions. so no brothers here know anyone in bkk name IVAN with thai hp..ending 9933? anyway, have been talking to her & sending email to her everyday. seems like we kinda settling down to a stronger relationship. i shld be going to LOS this year end to see her again. maybe can meet up with brudders there. maybe can have a better assessment.

[Sohni]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

*Road Accidents, Jail Term, Police Arrest, Hospitalisation are a few of the most common reasons to con money.

Moo Bahn (Family home) got burned down is also one of the reasons.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by sg69

thank brudders for your straightforwardness. As much as I hope everything is true about her, I do have some reservations. I dropped hints for her to tell me everything but she is smart to say that time will reveal all. I tght dat will be a line a guy wil say....hahaha....used it quite a few times....

if this is some kinda of scam, i dun think she will benefit much coz i m no big fish. juz ur average guy earning a living and trying to make ends meet every end of the month and she knows that. she kept asking me to save $ n dun spend much, even on her. save for the future, she said. so my heart in sixes and sevens. i hate myself for having any doubt in her and worrying myself crazy wat she doing in LOS...sigh.....

bros, frankly i know 8k is too little. juz a test....i mentioned that juz to supplement her watever alllowances she gets from other source(s). i did say i know its too little but i dun know how much is enough for her....i was waiting for an amount but i was reprimanded. $ shld not be an issue btwn us...she juz wan to be with me and nt becoz of $....

bros, if she is really sponsored by someone & she doesn't love that person, instead she loves me, I will accept her as what she may be & I will try my best to get her out of this situation. i m juz too in love with her. i dun think i can pull myself out....probably if I see it with my own eyes then maybe my heart will die....now there are too much unknowns & i dun wan to risk losing her juz based on doubts.

btw, all i know there is a sg guy name IVAN in bkk with thai hp no. ending 9933 is kinda going after her. when i 1st met her, she was with him and her frds...she did tell me a little abt him...& my frd whom went with me saw this guy bt i did nt as i went to the loo when they were introduced. so any brudders here is tis IVAN or know tis IVAN....maybe we shld juz sit down n +++ abt her.....

thanks again brudders for your advice...i really appreciate it.

Post Ivan's number for what?

Do u know I seen 1 thai girl collaborate with her HK boyfriend to con sgporean men of their money?
Ivan maybe one of them. Maybe her dad is the so-called Ivan?

U don;t have a clue at all and already head over heels.

She reprimand u because u only say 8K lah. If today someone say that to you, though u want more, u also don't want to act cheapskate.

LOVE IS BLIND

SC

[Cat Man]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

I just called Miss Aom to tcss with her...
Now she says she's from Hatyai... and she has Thai ID.... and her "brother" is actually a friend.....
But i can clearly remember she dissed Thai women...... saying Thai women are cheap......
Later will call her again to ask about her S'pore "bf", DerXXk... hehehe
Poor DerXXk....

where u normally park yr car in Thong Lor? the whole road always very packed, no place to park. I usually go to Thong Lor Pet Hospital at Soi 11 to bring my cats see vet (that's why I'm Cat Man ). I park at hospital car park.

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Do u know I seen 1 thai girl collaborate with her HK boyfriend to con sgporean men of their money?

LOVE IS BLIND
SC

hehehe
I know one lady who has a HK "bf" who'll send her money once a while whenever she ask for..... She don't has to use lies.. she just tell frankly she needs $ to build house and within the month he'll send her $. Sometimes even fly over to spend time and give $ to her. At the same time, she also has S'porean and Jap "bf"s.... every international hor?
Alot of times, these "bf"s send the ladies $ willingly.... so i don't know whether is that call "con" or not..... maybe it is "truelove"... sutreerak style... hehehe.. no right, no wrong... "gan wan tio ho" as he always say .....

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

hehehe
.. maybe it is "truelove"... sutreerak style... hehehe.. no right, no wrong... "gan wan tio ho" as he always say .....

true love? I thought it was AyMy who claimed that we duno how to embrace 'true love' ...

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by DNAT

true love? I thought it was AyMy who claimed that we duno how to embrace 'true love' ...

Don't know who is aymy leh.. so far only free, sutreerak and junichi seen pissed with me ... got another 1 guy zapped me but didn't put name....

[sg69]

bro sc....i m enlighten by you. maybe what u mentioned is true but as u said, i dunno know anything but i m head over heels over her. i cant help it. cant control my emotions so i m here to find out more. as to ivan, he is frm sg posted there for work. my guy frd whom was with me talked to him. juz wan to share info, that's all. as always, thank all brudders for sharing their knowledge and their advice. as i m the willing party, if ever i get hurt, that's my own bloody fault. i juz gotta accept it. as u said bro sc LOVE IS BLIND.

[Musashi]

Thats so sad to hear about the cheatings... Honestly Over long distance, its rather hard to maintain relationships... There is no way to monitor and you won't know what shes doing over there.. And for those conny girls, they can give so many excuses as if the situation is in your control.. But in fact, its just the other way round..

[ryanlim]

anybody was invited to Free's wedding which was suppose to take place before/during/after Songkran 2006?????????

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

anybody was invited to Free's wedding which was suppose to take place before/during/after Songkran 2006?????????

I think he's busy relocating.

[free]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

anybody was invited to Free's wedding which was suppose to take place before/during/after Songkran 2006?????????

Wah after so long I no logged in, so my private investigator still concerened about me huh? Tsk tsk, although u seemed like a nice guy a on-the-surface, inside u are really a big scheming kaypo indeed. Go and spend time with your thai wife better lah, oh I forgot she joins u in kaypoing too, unless u are the one who took her comments out of context. If so, shame on u.

555, singrakthai, I am not pissed with u - just dun agree with somethings u said. I have made mistakes its true, but rewards do come to those who are courageous and stay the course too. Finally still can end up with someone who is too good to be true, leh. 555 prettier & more loving/romantic too. If anything, I have been rejecting her love for a long long time, Silly me, cos she had been there waiting all these while.

Yes indeed I was busy re-locating - actually I have already relocated. And my lovely is joining me real soon. As soon as official documents-in-process are completed, hopefully in a month or less. Just need to clear the paperwork with the counterpart embassy in BKK. Anyway the thai embassy here told me should be no problem. But it will be a challenge for her really, cos there is such a small thai community here (< 300 in such a large city) and its hard to locate them.

Hey for the small minded - the world is our oyster and LOS is not the only place in the world to live with one's tirak, u know? And live pretty well too. Sometimes opportunities come when one least expects it. For those who

555, where I am and with all the chio bus around, other ppl tell me its crazy to "import" my thai tirak. And the ladies here are just as gentle, romantic and yes, shy! And u are the type who is "touchy and kissy" they may be better, 555. Like I was telling my friends, take away their language and look at their behaviour - one would think they are thai ladies. In fact I feel right at home, 555 being reminded of the thai ladies I know- on a daily basis. But heck, my beloved is still the one I want. Glad she proved herself by deciding (w/o any pressure from me) to leave all behind in LOS to come to a strange land just to be with me on a long term basis, despite the natural fears that should I dump her while she is here as she will be in deep trouble, being all alone in a foreign land. If that is not love and trust, I dunno what that is. And this latest is but a continuation of a series of actions by her to proof her love is sincere. And her parents kept their word to me that she can come visit me, but now its even better. Its for long term maybe she scared of the ladies here, so better not let me be alone.

I probably need to send her to Angrit school here. She should have a goood time, with probably group of classmates who can't speak Angrit and also can;t speak Thai, 555. As the thai guy at the emsbassy said, she will be forced to learn fast - best way to learn.

My LDTR journey is ending liao. Can't wait to hold her in my arms again - everyday & night this time.

P.S, I have Job lobang in LOS for a C++/Java programmer. Will pay better than a thai but dun expect SG or expat pay. Preferably some industry experience, and this post will report to an Ameican guy - my nong chai who married my nong sao. Interested? Please pm me.

Meanwhile have fun. Life is short lah. And for those to whom I owe favors to, I will do my part, Never forgotten what u had done for me.

[ryanlim]

Originally Posted by free

......

nbz..............just would like to send my congrats to you via those who're being ivited cos i presume you don't have the time to log in here...........*sigh*

anyway FRIEND.........you want to send your regards to my wife, please do it in a better manner or if you dare, please do it face to face if you're in Singapore

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by free

My LDTR journey is ending liao. Can't wait to hold her in my arms again - everyday & night this time.

I'm just wondering, ppl like to boast his success in the net... but yrs later something happen to the relationship, will he posts he has made a mistake openly???

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

nbz..............just would like to send my congrats to you via those who're being ivited cos i presume you don't have the time to log in here...........*sigh*

U super kpo leh...