Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Was almost 10pm already if i remember correctly, he waited at the lobby for us....threw me on a wheelchair....me started crying & wanted to talk...& he just said in a stern & serious tone "SHUT UP!" ok so me just continued being a leaking tap
Went up, put me on the bed & he started to do an ECG on me.....he says i look like shit....if you're not gonna snap outta of this fairytale, you're gonna DIE soon............
I was blank
Later, drove me home & off to bed i went.........woke up in less than 2 hours.......
Couldn't sleep anymore.......
Saw a sms on my phone...was my doc bro saying..go see your GP, she knows you inside out best....
Next morning i went alone, went in, the last one before lunchtime.......she looked at me eye wide open, WOW what happened to you.......doc, i need help......your wife??? she asked...i said no......then i told her the story......
She took a deep breath after and said, well i posted that earlier so no need to say liao.........
She prescribed me 2 weeks of domican sleeping pills and also 2 weeks of relaxants.............says take relaxant in the day & sleeping pill at nite, do not take both together or u may never wake up........hmmmmmmm honestly, during then, it was a tot of the best way to end all my sufferings liao..........

This period, all wives were on leave to look after me......taking turns etc.....felt so lucky, so loved by so many women......nabei still can heatpain becos of a CCB......but then heart soft again...miss her smell, miss the Good wild sex........cold chills and heart attacks again.........
During all these time, i tried very hard to forget her but i couldn't because of the many little thing that i experienced when she's there & me here....just doesn't add up and making me more eager to find out the truth............
This was when number 3 stepped in & told me to tell her everything, so she as a PRC and also someone who used to be from the otherside of midnite can help me fix this puzzle.........

[otur]

to TS, i have posted some remarks in the earlier pages, not sure if u read it? but anyway ask yourself this, are u willing wo accept whole heartedly one WL as your wife for good? the way i look at it, u r not game enough. u keep thinking of a lot of things. even she is 100% truthful to u, i tell u someday its gonna be game over because of yr wild thinikngs.

and to bro do u bj, ur case is really unique. take every a/c to be truth. u have $$, u hv few woman whom know each other and willing to stand by your side when things happen, you have nice family. so wat the hell are u doing to f around sia. i do understand as a man we always need something fresh, but u have enough nice kc around you already. for human seek, do not invlove in any kc anymore. u noe u are one fortunate asshole whom many of us wish we can be.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Number 3 was a pro, like wat i loved about her, sexy, high end type and one sharp brain.........
Started to tell her from singapore before she left to the abortion till she came back.........wow, cannot even find reason to argue wif her....makes so much sense.........
Now the puzzle is complete..........but she did comment on one thing that made me feel a bitter victory..........
Lao Gong, you got wat you wanted...her......for her to be wif you all these time and move her family into the house you bot, you definately have a place in her heart......but her mind and heart do not sing the same song........it's greed that drives her.........so she has to live 2 lives.......honestly, many PRCs do that...but trust me on one thing, her family & friends prolly know about it and is in cahoots wif her.......but she would never bring any other man into the house you bot....cos to us PRCs, our house is sacred......we dun just suka suka ever so often bring men home.......prolly went hotel to meet them.......
Remember what she said when she walked out the door........can see she's totally defeated...........she's good...actually even got me fooled.....but one cant keep lying forever...especially to our lao gong who has an elephant memory............that's why you occassionally ask her things she said before to see if her new reply is consistent.........remember she said very tired of lying already.......she also found her match
Now you must not forget, she goes back, have to move house cos she knows you well & knows you will sure take revenge......she went home broke......think of the complications on her end.........she prolly spent the most time wif you day & nite & even if i was another lover, i wud smell a rat too.......have you ever wondered if she herself crossed the sacred line too? From a woman's standpoint and from what i witnessed, lao gong, she crossed..........
Your nightmare has ended & her's just began.......
She knows you're the only 1 in her life that's real, where she gonna find $$$$$$$ now????? In China, she's considered old liao, macau is out so is hong kong...guess only japan left.......
Or any tom dick or harry come along, she'll board shit as a survival gesture......she got no choice......if ever she's gonna feel like a slut & whore, this will be the time............
She'll suffer psychically and mentally...prolly cry in the dark or in the corners so as not to let her family see............dun forget, she feeds the family & she went back empty handed....think how the family will treat her now!

If your sifu is right, she may actually wake up from everything and that's Y he predicted she'll come back & seek you out......but you must be strong, shud that day come, we'll all go wif you to confront her.........it was this session that pulled me up once and for all.......the love i've received these 3weeks.....i dunno wat to say......I am the man of this house & it will not fall.....I am the king of my business empire & i wont let if dwindle.........
I will face her alone & insult her in such a way she'll never forget................

I am ok already.........from that day on, everything went back to normal......though even today, i still occasionally have flashes of her but i take it with a smile.............no need to cry over spilt milk.......take that as a lesson from god.............

To why i share this, well, too many guys have gone thru, is going thru or will go thru this sooner of later.........I guess its my way of giving back what i took and hope this giving back will be put to good and wise usage..........

Yes, i still cheong, screw around, have MMs here and there but now i know what is family, what is real, what is lala land!

[otur]

actually i do not really wanna say too much abt myself. many bros in this forum know me in person. 1 thing i can say is, not all PRCs are bad, not all SG womans are good. no one can guarantee u married sg woman nothing will happen. i had a marriage for 12 years n now going to end soon. since 2005 when things get sour, i started chionging. thats when i meet up with bros fr the forum n i started using a chat software very popular in china. from there i know lot of PRC. majority never been here b4, non-WL. of cos i use it to keep intouch with the WLs i noe here. kc game i too played many. n i do hv 1 gal that i hv intend to bring here stay with me for good. but well, things didnt really work out so i was still on the hunt.

i just like to say that do not label PRCs as no good or what so ever. take everyone as an individual and judge them accordingly. but 1 thing to note, for WLs over here. 飘洋过海，不是为谈情说爱。夜夜笙歌，只为那黄金万两。
this is the rule of thumb. of cos there are also exceptions, but again, ask yourself, can you really forget her pass as a WL? if u think u can , wish u all the best.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by otur

and to bro do u bj, ur case is really unique. take every a/c to be truth. u have $$, u hv few woman whom know each other and willing to stand by your side when things happen, you have nice family. so wat the hell are u doing to f around sia. i do understand as a man we always need something fresh, but u have enough nice kc around you already. for human seek, do not invlove in any kc anymore. u noe u are one fortunate asshole whom many of us wish we can be.

Bro Otur, I swear by my father's grave everything here is the whole truth and nothing but the truth....If i mentioned the names, many will know its true cos it also created a big hoohah in the KTV involved! The owner, the mummy the manager and so on...............

Actually, you're not the 1st & i am sure u wont be the last one to tell me this, no offence taken bro...
I have had many jealous male friends who hated my guts, talked bad behind my back and so on......some of them have their GFs even compare them to me when they argue, damn, not involved wif their woman also tio 4D
Well, like what my sifu told me, all my deeds came to me with once solid blow from this woman, she my retribution.......lucky he said, better now then your next life to pay back.........
It's an illness bro, i like the hunt...the kill.......the satisfaction.....that keeps me going...also, people in my industry entertain almost nightly at KTVs so quite hard lah.............
See, they're smart, the PRCs....thats what i like about them, the smarter you are, the more i wanna break you, over powering another's mind...it's like Ganja to me.......
I also get bored VERY easily, so that's another reason but doubt i'll fall in luv again in this kinda place...........PRAY PRAY hahahaha

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by otur

actually i do not really wanna say too much abt myself. many bros in this forum know me in person. 1 thing i can say is, not all PRCs are bad, not all SG womans are good. no one can guarantee u married sg woman nothing will happen. i had a marriage for 12 years n now going to end soon. since 2005 when things get sour, i started chionging. thats when i meet up with bros fr the forum n i started using a chat software very popular in china. from there i know lot of PRC. majority never been here b4, non-WL. of cos i use it to keep intouch with the WLs i noe here. kc game i too played many. n i do hv 1 gal that i hv intend to bring here stay with me for good. but well, things didnt really work out so i was still on the hunt.

i just like to say that do not label PRCs as no good or what so ever. take everyone as an individual and judge them accordingly. but 1 thing to note, for WLs over here. 飘洋过海，不是为谈情说爱。夜夜笙歌，只为那黄金万两。
this is the rule of thumb. of cos there are also exceptions, but again, ask yourself, can you really forget her pass as a WL? if u think u can , wish u all the best.

Well said bro, like my 3rd, she's also from the nitescene....totally transformed into a normal business woman...not all are bad......but i dare say more bad than good.......this of cos is referring to those in the night scene

[EtherC]

有谋者决战于千里之外. Nice account illustrating the battle of wits between you and the hooker. Thank goodness you survived. Hope you carry your battle scars and remind yourself that no one is infallible. 知己知彼 is the only way to ensure your position remains intact. Why is 知己 placed in front of 知彼? Because the good opponents always use our weaknesses against us. 食色性也 so assess yourself constantly. I do not believe in 百战百胜 because it just breeds our arrogance and that in turns becomes a weak point. Cherish your successes 见好就收.

Unfortunately many brothers here neglect these bits of fundamental wisdom and underestimate the WL ability to swoon and bait us. A bit of feeling, mix in loads of lies makes for a very good love story. Thats how these girls work. You gave a nice example of how a clever person with good people skills can be dragged in the dirt. Up your points bro D_Y_B.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Bro Otur, I swear by my father's grave everything here is the whole truth and nothing but the truth....If i mentioned the names, many will know its true cos it also created a big hoohah in the KTV involved! The owner, the mummy the manager and so on...............

Actually, you're not the 1st & i am sure u wont be the last one to tell me this, no offence taken bro...
I have had many jealous male friends who hated my guts, talked bad behind my back and so on......some of them have their GFs even compare them to me when they argue, damn, not involved wif their woman also tio 4D
Well, like what my sifu told me, all my deeds came to me with once solid blow from this woman, she my retribution.......lucky he said, better now then your next life to pay back.........
It's an illness bro, i like the hunt...the kill.......the satisfaction.....that keeps me going...also, people in my industry entertain almost nightly at KTVs so quite hard lah.............
See, they're smart, the PRCs....thats what i like about them, the smarter you are, the more i wanna break you, over powering another's mind...it's like Ganja to me.......
I also get bored VERY easily, so that's another reason but doubt i'll fall in luv again in this kinda place...........PRAY PRAY hahahaha

[EtherC]

Do you understand what it means by the phrase 瓮中之鳖? That's your situation now.

Originally Posted by azzaro23

My lack of trust for her is playing havoc with me again.

Call her just now didn't get through a few times, got worry try call her another number.

Finally got through she pick up background is noisy sound like karaoke room she say she is singing karaoke with her sis.

During the week I am there with her & her sis, her sis and her told me she doesn't like to sing nor go to karaoke.

Am i right to be suspect that is she telling the truth? Should I send a sms to question her how come she never sms to tell me that she going to such places?

Am I too control over her? Why I am paranoid again?

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Any idea how much it would cost me to hire one? If so where can I look for one?

If u can't even trust her then all is gone.

Without trust, there can be no love and no r/s.

If u are so weak, then u will never make it in life,here or there.

I empathize and sympathize with you when u started this thread. Now I think u should juz quit cheonging and stay away from PRC 4ever.

You are too weak and even if you marry her, life with no trust = quarrels and god forbid, I do not want to see you splashed over Wan Bao's front page for you know wat

[Daniel133]

I used to find excuses on my GF behalf when I cant contact her and things like that ... then one day I found out that those suspicions I had were all true and I was just bluffing myself that she not seeing other men .... from then onwards sad to say, I am ultra suspicious .... so difficult to get into reltionship with them as I do not and cannot afford such setbacks anymore ...

[azzaro23]

Woken up by a sms from my phone, it is from my GF, so I return the call to her.

Regret returning the call to her as had a very big argument with her over the phone.

Here how it goes...

She call me up saying that she feeling down, I ask her why she say she worried about her sickly dad, this is seen and verified in person it is true as i went with her to visit her dad.

Say she want to send her dad to the hospital for checkup but she a bit tight on the money, so I say ok how much you need? you tell me the amount I calcaute if I can i give u monthly a bit by a bit as bros you all know I don't earn that much and I can't really give her big amt unless I strike TOTO or take up loan again.

So she say no need lar tell you also no use you cannot help me also. Clamis also when I do things didn't think of her well begin.

She say she is angry with herself for not able to help her dad but I think she is also piss with me for not able to help her with her dad.

Can't really understand what the outburst for... She say also that day when I leave her to return to spore she is so upset that she got drunk...

keep saying that singapore men cannot be trusted afraid that she will suffer if she come voetr to singapore with me, then when I want to discuss things with her , keep saying y I keep asking why and how come and not doing any actions?

Managed to calm my feelings down after sleeping only to wake up to a new load of shit...

[asean]

Bro, maybe she trying to make you feel bad and go get more loans or use whatever method you can to raise the money .... obvious her call is to inform you just this ,...

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by asean

Bro, maybe she trying to make you feel bad and go get more loans or use whatever method you can to raise the money .... obvious her call is to inform you just this ,...

For sure I can't raise the money for her she jolly well know my money stutiaion, even I have the money I also would save it up for her life she is going to lead with me.

I don't see the point in her having her keep asking even she know what the answer I am going to give.

Sometimes I also dont understand what does she mean I do things without thinking about her well-being...

Whatever I am doing now is planning for our future, how come she doesn't see it that way?

[lacoruna69]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Can't really understand what the outburst for... She say also that day when I leave her to return to spore she is so upset that she got drunk...

keep saying that singapore men cannot be trusted afraid that she will suffer if she come over to singapore with me

I just came back from ZH and you are still lost in your own fantasy world!

She upset and got herself drunk when you leave? It is a common script line from them.

SG men cannot be trusted? Yes, I totally agree. And I have to tell you that PRC gals also cannot be trusted!

Snap out of this shit. If you cannot help her with her expenses, just let her go. If you like her because she is from PRC, PM me and I will bring you to ZH to play.

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by lacoruna69

I just came back from ZH and you are still lost in your own fantasy world!

She upset and got herself drunk when you leave? It is a common script line from them.

SG men cannot be trusted? Yes, I totally agree. And I have to tell you that PRC gals also cannot be trusted!

Snap out of this shit. If you cannot help her with her expenses, just let her go. If you like her because she is from PRC, PM me and I will bring you to ZH to play.

Thanks bro for your offer..

Maybe I am selfish to think this way, but her dad is like 1 foot in grave for what I give her the money which I don't have I would rather save up the money to provide her with a good life when she come over with me to Singapore.

Guess I am just begin practical for thinking that.