Long Distance Tirak Relationship - Myth or Reality - Page 31

DNAT · #**451** 08-11-2005, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by LengKia

clarified...what i meant is will anyone choose a WL who need to service housing loan of 500kbaht and a daughter born out of wedlock . will any man do this

Why not? if the man really loves her

LengKia · #**452** 08-11-2005, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by singrakthai

Sure, why not? If u love her enough... u "buy 1, get 1 free"... and after helping pay 500kbaht (S$20k), u get to stay in a big house with her... with her ok? Not her with u... if u know what i mean.

Most Thai will wanna stay in Thailand for retirement... why? well, S'pore dollar S$1= 24 THB... S$100k = 2.4million THB....

Stay in Thailand good wat.. she gets to stay close of her family and friends... no need waste brain cells speaking other languages other than Thai except some broken english with u.... stay big house rather than HDB... everyday sabai sabai can hire house maid to do her housework for only 200THB a day....

yes,understand what you mean by staying "with her". actually she is concern whether will my family members accept her and she also wouldn't want to invite gossip from other people... especially her past trade.
she also worry what happened if i dump her one of these days...we will never know what will happened. actually i also feel a little embarassed if someone ask me about the small toddler..haha
anyway, i won't be so stupid to settle her loan at one shot.Must be crazy.

LengKia · #**453** 08-11-2005, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by DNAT

Why not? if the man really loves her

boss i also not sure will i do this for her. How can i be the saint.

DNAT · #**454** 08-11-2005, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by singrakthai

Most Thai will wanna stay in Thailand for retirement... why? well, S'pore dollar S$1= 24 THB... S$100k = 2.4million THB....

Stay in Thailand good wat.. she gets to stay close of her family and friends... no need waste brain cells speaking other languages other than Thai except some broken english with u.... stay big house rather than HDB... everyday sabai sabai can hire house maid to do her housework for only 200THB a day....

SRT, check for my leh, I also wanna retire in Thailand.

If I sell off everything, I think I got 1/2 million SGD .. can eat how many years huh?

LengKia · #**455** 08-11-2005, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by DNAT

SRT, check for my leh, I also wanna retire in Thailand.

If I sell off everything, I think I got 1/2 million SGD .. can eat how many years huh?

wow 0.5millionare

should be more than enough unless u stay in bkk

singrakthai · #**456** 08-11-2005, 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by DNAT

SRT, check for my leh, I also wanna retire in Thailand.

If I sell off everything, I think I got 1/2 million SGD .. can eat how many years huh?

wrong thread! U post in Emigrating to LOS then i'll help u answer.

DNAT · #**457** 08-11-2005, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by LengKia

boss i also not sure will i do this for her. How can i be the saint.

you in this kind of 'ship' too?

First and fore most, you must really really love her.
Besides, 2nd marriage with kids from previous marriage is quite common in Asian countries.
Third, as what SRT said - if you look at the bright side, S$21K to buy a house is not a bad deal afterall.

DNAT · #**458** 08-11-2005, 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by LengKia

wow 0.5millionare

got lah .. but must give up Sg citizenship / sell flat / withdraw CPF etc ... + my queen chip in her share too

LengKia · #**459** 08-11-2005, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by DNAT

you in this kind of 'ship' too?

First and fore most, you must really really love her.
Besides, 2nd marriage with kids from previous marriage is quite common in Asian countries.
Third, as what SRT said - if you look at the bright side, S$21K to buy a house is not a bad deal afterall.

haha recently too free so nothing to do get involved with WL ..think my kakis will surprised if they know about this. they always see me as a 3F guy.

think my love for this WL is not so strong yet because i have always restrain myself especially with a thai girl in term of giving out my heart. I'm still floating along the shore..not yet deep into the ocean.

i dun mind about her past..actually she refused to abort after the guy dumped her. She is still single in legally. actually my friend was once a customers before i know her...so do u think i have a big heart...kekeke

you are rite . $21k-30k is not expensive

LengKia · #**460** 08-11-2005, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by DNAT

got lah .. but must give up Sg citizenship / sell flat / withdraw CPF etc ... + my queen chip in her share too

dun forger to cash out insurance after 40s-50s

DNAT · #**461** 08-11-2005, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by LengKia

haha recently too free so nothing to do get involved with WL ..think my kakis will surprised if they know about this. they always see me as a 3F guy.

think my love for this WL is not so strong yet because i have always restrain myself especially with a thai girl in term of giving out my heart. I'm still floating along the shore..not yet deep into the ocean.

i dun mind about her past..actually she refused to abort after the guy dumped her. She is still single in legally. actually my friend was once a customers before i know her...so do u think i have a big heart...kekeke

Yes, ineed. As long as you have the heart to take her as your life companion and carry out the down-to-earth (meaning not just talk only) plans to materialise your plans, should be alrite. I have friends in such same ship too ...

No one should look down on such person if he really do good for his family, except those who just come to here to talk about their big plans over a long period of time (2 years).

LengKia · #**462** 08-11-2005, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by DNAT

Yes, ineed. As long as you have the heart to take her as your life companion and carry out the down-to-earth (meaning not just talk only) plans to materialise your plans, should be alrite. I have friends in such same ship too ...

No one should look down on such person if he really do good for his family, except those who just come to here to talk about their big plans over a long period of time (2 years).

keke i have no plan yet. will just see how as the day goes by.
still early for me to commit into this relationship.

DNAT · #**463** 08-11-2005, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by LengKia

keke i have no plan yet. will just see how as the day goes by.
still early for me to commit into this relationship.

ya ... just see how things go first

sg69 · #**464** 09-11-2005, 09:11 AM

thank you brudders for your advice. i will heed all advices and try to keep my head above the water. with regards to she working in a karaoke lounge, maybe i didnt put it probably, she said she might go work in the karaoke lounge whilst waiting for her results not after she graduate. she intend to find an office job after she graduate. sorry brudders for the miscommuncications. anyway, she gave up the idea of working in a karaoke lounge. me suggesting giving her thb10k is becoz she say graduates earn ard thb8 - 12k so i gave my suggestion of her coming sg for a wk to teach me thai and i pay her 10k. (juz to test water) she turned me down saying she dun wan my $ and she will go find a job and gain experience. till now, i still cannot confirm whether she is on any sideline or any sugar daddy around. btw, brudders, are we stereotyping thai girls? are they just going after our $ or confirm gt sideline? i try not to be like that but reading the threads in this forum, i tend to worry.

she is coming over to sg on thurs, and she is changing thb10k. i told her no need but she say she can pay for food, movie or shopping, she dun wan me to spend so much since i paid for her air ticket. brudders, i am getting into a fix now. i hate myself for doubting her genuineness. till now she has proven brudders here wrong. i just need to cross my fingers & hope for the best.

as brudders here say, till i bang wall then i will wake up. hopefully, if really bang wall, i hope is just a bump....not bleed or suffer from concussion... hahaha....

i will keep in mind the advices i get from here and take each step carefully.

singrakthai · #**465** 09-11-2005, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by sg69

till now she has proven brudders here wrong. i just need to cross my fingers & hope for the best.

good morning!

huh? Which part did she proved us wrong?

1) U're the one paying for the air ticket...
2) U'll still be the one paying for her EVERYTHING eventually when she is over in S'pore...
3) She still stays in a 8k THB per month apartment. Which is way expensive for a University student living alone.
4) She told u she'll work in a karaoke while waiting for results and then find a decent job after she gets her results? If she get used to working in Karaoke for more money, why'll she go back get a fresh grad pay? Why did she suggest she wants to work in a Karaoke in the first place? To make u worry and make ur first offer... she also "test water" u...
5) Her dad is jus a civil Engineer? My friend's Senior Engineer who's around 35yrs old is only getting 25,000THB... the 1 million THB for her studies story still not very convincing.... I don't think she needs 1 million THB for studies unless she studies in a International School anyway.

Sorry for being kay poh.. hehe
Take it easy.