Long Distance Tirak Relationship - Myth or Reality

[Cat Man]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

And I do know some girls will say they have sugar daddy cos they are poor and then once u song sarn them, you start to tell them to leave the sugar daddy and u sponsor her. But then the girl start to have 2 SUGAR DADDIES NOW. So even if you want to pay, also must pay wisely and not pay to a girl who is smarter than you

SC

More than 2 sugar daddies also got. All depends on the girl's time management skills. If sg69 take solution 1, then must have 24/7 supervision on the girl.

If sg69 take solution 2, then both of them must work together to time manage the sugar daddy The girl must also have separate h/p for sg69 so that the sugar daddy cannot check the number. But to do this, sg69 must go for your 101% Thai course

[sg69]

must thank brudders here for their advice & suggestions. Frankly, I am paying for her ticket to sg. She will be staying at my place as i live alone. we had our daily & nightly conversations and the money issue did creep up and that was how I found out about her dad giving her $, paying for apt & school fees. I do not know if that is true but i just have to trust her for the time being.

she made me promised not to do anything to her unless she is ready & willing when she is in sg and brudders i will keep to that promise. i am hopeless. secondly, we did talk abt $ and she did say $ is drying up and need to find a job even before she graduate. she says working in a karaoke pays well but i was reluctant for her to do that. i tested the water by saying i will give her THB10k a month but she refused. she say that she will get a job, a decent job if the karaoke job worries me.

abt taking thai full-time, i am really interested and looking for a good school. any recommendations brothers. in the meantime, i have my cds and dictionary.

if what brudders think is true abt sugar daddy or any other sidelines, i will probably be very sad as i m putting my heart into this. never felt this way for a very long time. i don't know what will i do then. nothing stupid, dun worry. anyway, i am taking things as it comes 1st and proceed from there.

thanks again bruders. your advice is very much appreciated.

[Cat Man]

Originally Posted by sg69

if what brudders think is true abt sugar daddy or any other sidelines, i will probably be very sad as i m putting my heart into this. never felt this way for a very long time. i don't know what will i do then. nothing stupid, dun worry. anyway, i am taking things as it comes 1st and proceed from there.

thanks again bruders. your advice is very much appreciated.

okay, since u made yr decision to go ahead, good luck. if u dun risk, u dun get.

u have already seen the analysis from various bros. keep us posted of yr developments. the strong dose of cynicism that u will get here will hopefully keep yr head on yr shoulders when the going gets rough.

[Hasa Sas]

Originally Posted by sg69

. i tested the water by saying i will give her THB10k a month but she refused. she say that she will get a job, a decent job if the karaoke job worries me.

brudder 10kbaht per month might be not enough to maintain her lifestyles.

Falling in love with a thai lady is not an easy task.

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by sg69

secondly, we did talk abt $ and she did say $ is drying up and need to find a job even before she graduate. she says working in a karaoke pays well but i was reluctant for her to do that. i tested the water by saying i will give her THB10k a month but she refused. she say that she will get a job, a decent job if the karaoke job worries me.

The claws are showing....

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

The claws are showing....

you are rite. things can't be so simple and there should be more than eye to meet. bro sg69 must give her at least 50k per month but is it enough for her.
otherwise she will need to work in karaoke for supplement. thai lady very smart will try to dig if they can.

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by LengKia

you are rite. things can't be so simple and there should be more than eye to meet. bro sg69 must give her at least 50k per month but is it enough for her.
otherwise she will need to work in karaoke for supplement. thai lady very smart will try to dig if they can.

"Dan ju zhe mee, pang guan zhe qing"... I let the mandarin expert to translate!
1)Has a dad who can give her 1 million baht for studies...
2)Study so hard and after graduation, suggested she'll go work in Karaoke?

She don't want the 10,000THB because its not enough! How can it be enough? She's already staying in a 8,000THB apartment....

Having said all these, dosen't mean u cannot be with her... why not? As long as u happy.... jus be prepared to spend alot of $ on her.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

"Dan ju zhe mee, pang guan zhe qing"... I let the mandarin expert to translate!

Wa lai liao lah ...

当 局 者 迷
旁 观 者 清

Hoi, I teach you chinese/mandarin then you pay me a small fee, ai mai?
I wanna be a professor also leh .... hehe

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

Having said all these, dosen't mean u cannot be with her... why not? As long as u happy.... jus be prepared to spend alot of $ on her.

you lidat encourage ppl to go 'long-piak' goot meh?

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by DNAT

you lidat encourage ppl to go 'long-piak' goot meh?

I think from start untill now, alot of ppl already give him enough doubts to carry on... but u see? He'll never listen one.... Must "long-piak" then he happy. People is like that lah. Maybe if i'm sg69, i'll also come here seek comfort... listen to people's advises then in the end still do what I feel I wanna do..... or maybe not... hehehe

BTW, i don't think I encourage.... leh.... hehe... wow, but actually very difficult to cho lan hor? I discourage, people will also say "why u look down on WL/FL?? They also human, they also need love! WL/FL cannot fall in love meh? U son of a BXXXX!" *LOL*

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

U better think carefully. With a kid by her side and a housing loan of 500K, I guessed you are the best person to decide whether to go on or not.

SC

i doubt anyone with a clear state of mind will choose this route.
will stay put for a year at least. Most WL want their partner to reside in LOS for retirement. Am i right about this? please advise

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by LengKia

i doubt anyone with a clear state of mind will choose this route.
will stay put for a year at least. Most WL want their partner to reside in LOS for retirement. Am i right about this? please advise

clarified...what i meant is will anyone choose a WL who need to service housing loan of 500kbaht and a daughter born out of wedlock . will any man do this

[Cat Man]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

I think from start untill now, alot of ppl already give him enough doubts to carry on... but u see? He'll never listen one.... Must "long-piak" then he happy. People is like that lah. Maybe if i'm sg69, i'll also come here seek comfort... listen to people's advises then in the end still do what I feel I wanna do..... or maybe not... hehehe

BTW, i don't think I encourage.... leh.... hehe... wow, but actually very difficult to cho lan hor? I discourage, people will also say "why u look down on WL/FL?? They also human, they also need love! WL/FL cannot fall in love meh? U son of a BXXXX!" *LOL*

when this type of thing happen, even your blood brudder tell you to quit you also won't listen. bro sg69 must learn for himself, whether the lesson will be a good or bad one I don't know. but at least he got a team of CSI expert/Senior Counsel here if he needs some backup

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by LengKia

clarified...what i meant is will anyone choose a WL who need to service housing loan of 500kbaht and a daughter born out of wedlock . will any man do this

Sure, why not? If u love her enough... u "buy 1, get 1 free"... and after helping pay 500kbaht (S$20k), u get to stay in a big house with her... with her ok? Not her with u... if u know what i mean.

Most Thai will wanna stay in Thailand for retirement... why? well, S'pore dollar S$1= 24 THB... S$100k = 2.4million THB.... Stay in Thailand good wat.. she gets to stay close of her family and friends... no need waste brain cells speaking other languages other than Thai except some broken english with u.... stay big house rather than HDB... everyday sabai sabai can hire house maid to do her housework for only 200THB a day....

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

I think from start untill now, alot of ppl already give him enough doubts to carry on... but u see? He'll never listen one.... Must "long-piak" then he happy. People is like that lah. Maybe if i'm sg69, i'll also come here seek comfort... listen to people's advises then in the end still do what I feel I wanna do..... or maybe not... hehehe

BTW, i don't think I encourage.... leh.... hehe... wow, but actually very difficult to cho lan hor? I discourage, people will also say "why u look down on WL/FL?? They also human, they also need love! WL/FL cannot fall in love meh? U son of a BXXXX!" *LOL*

That was exactly my stnace when Jun began to seek advice 8 months ago ...