The Story, The Revelation

[colins]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Perhaps we shud all meet up for kopi again & brainstorm on more "PERHAPS!"

hahahahah....

Bro DYBJ, look closer at bro xyz's perhaps. On my twelveth time in reading it, actually found it quite possible. Its not written as randomly as you might have thought.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by colins

hahahahah....

Bro DYBJ, look closer at bro xyz's perhaps. On my twelveth time in reading it, actually found it quite possible. Its not written as randomly as you might have thought.

i noes i saw it the 1st time.
Just hinting that too long no meet for kopi liao

[colins]

Now I know the difference between us is that I need to do 12 times more. Perhaps 13 has to be the magic number for me from now on. hahahaha....

Kopi turn cold liao....

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by colins

Now I know the difference between us is that I need to do 12 times more. Perhaps 13 has to be the magic number for me from now on. hahahaha....

Kopi turn cold liao....

U mean evaporated laio

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Wat i dun understand is, why come back to me, bull shit lie, knowing i'll see through her, freak and then all schemes fail & have to run for dear life.
Silly lor...really silly...damn boliao leh

Becoz it takes time for her to figure out that the best scheme against you is not to have any scheme.

She will come back coz u mean something to her. One day, the storm will pass and the demon may sleep... for extended period...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Just remembered some little stuff so will pen them down.
Only on the second nite we met, she brought her handbag along, that nite, she 买场on the last set.
While we were in the car leaving west coast, at 5+, her phone rang. She acted like she never hear till i told her, ooi, your phone ringing. She picked up, said her room mates call her...so she returned call n i could hear her talking in sichuan to another gal.

From that day on, she never brought her bag liao, nor phone nor purse.
Even when i was in her place, i'd always notice that the phone is on silent.
Asked her why, she said she didnt want to disturb our time together.
I said no ah, my phones are not on silent n i dun tink that will mean disturbing more like concealing.

She stays in a 2 bedroom apt with a total of 5 occupants.
The other room is shared by 2 singers also from Macau.
Her room is shared by 3, her bedmate also a singer at 神话 and a mattress on the floor by her step sis a singer at Kai Xue Men

On the very last nite, when my number 2 n i entered her place, her 2 other housemates from the other room was there too.
We actually had a very short and quick argument before we laughed and walked off.

It started like, what the fuck r u doing, i asked. She replied, i like to be myself, do wat i want and not have to see your face and do things as you please......i replied, ya like getting fucked by customers and being the whore that you are and by screwing yourself so bad you have to come back this round to this kinda lower end KTV that even if anyone begged me, i wouldnt go!
Then one of the other housemates came to her defense, saying how can you call 娜娜姐a whore....she's not like that one.
I replied, wah, you even got your own countryfolk fooled that you're such a pure and righteous person.....i looked at that singer and said, 小妹妹how well do you know her & her history here in SG?????? Did you know i fucked her, kenna STD and passed it to all my wives? Did you know i had to bring her for treatment too!!!!!!!! That housemate was shocked clearly by her facial expression, put her head down and walked a step back.

Then the other housemate came and said, but this is our house, how can you just come in here like that? My number 2 then rebutted her, you know who i am? You know who she is to him? She just said, i know she is his wife.....so my number 2 told her, I am his number 2, she is his number 4, now you know????? The other housemate was shocked too. Then I said, told her to come down all prob solved, dun wan, wanna hide, why wanna hide, cos all revealed liao, dare not face me. My number 2 then asked that other housemate, hey who did she tell you our hubby was? She told me husband lor. Ok then where on earth got people suddenly for no reason just swtich mindset, ideals etc in less than half a day one......with this statement from number 2, the other housemate just kept quiet, did as the other housemate did, lowered her head and took a step back.
I then added, i am a 光明镇大person, very happy i got 2 witnesses here today. Now you all also know the lies and filth that you've lived with whilst calling her big sisters.
This was when i laughed and left the apartment.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

From the Heart

I am a man wif a heart of steel.
I can play any women till damn jialat and can still smile and sleep peacefully at nite and face her everyday.
But fate has it, this is my wife, for better or for worse.
Since we were together in Chengdu, I've been trying to change her to be HUMAN again...this to me, was not lying to myself, but my duty and responsibility.
I have seen her both sides, the devil, the human and i can tell you, they are really very extreme opposites.
Because of this, i wanna remove the demon in her.
Like a bro said, you can bring a horse to the river but if it doesnt want to drink, you cant force it.
Thus everytime when she appears, i'll try to slowly get into her and make her change, like this time, she finally confessed after 1yr 2 months. Its a start.

People who knows me, will know i'm a very proud, arrogant SOB, but to my wives, I treat them like angels, basically, this face is only for family to see. And also, this is where i will have a heart.

My number 2 called me a couple of minutes ago to tell me that her phone line has been terminated. Meaning that she has really left for Chengdu this morning on Air China.
Dunno why, my gut tells me she didnt leave but switch joints and moved house cos she got no face to face the other housemates liao & the incident at her place would have been world news at her work place by now thus very no face to stay on there for she's a very FACE important person....no reason to bail our island cos she not in any form of danger.

I met another Chengdu singer the other day from 神话just 2 weeks here, 28yr old milf looking woman. Not my type but was nice chit chatting wif her. I learnt something that is so obvious but never really crossed my mind.
At the end of everything, everyone, no matter how good, bad, evil or greedy, will call it a day & head home.
This is like what bro XYZ1001 posted.

Finally, i am patient and till now, not hurt, slightly disappointed by her 逃避style again but all was mentally prepared for it.
Like my number 2 mentioned, this time, you were in total control of the situation, thus you knew what was coming. Unlike the last time when you went to hell and back, you were totally helpless to the circumstances that appeared nor were u prepared.

That's why i put in my siggy, 是你的就是你的，不是你的不要抢！

Meaning, even if you dun recognise this as yours, it'll still come back to haunt you! Like what i have to go thru till my deathbed....sigh

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by xyz1001

Becoz it takes time for her to figure out that the best scheme against you is not to have any scheme.

She will come back coz u mean something to her. One day, the storm will pass and the demon may sleep... for extended period...

Bro, this is what sifu said about her on his 1st and second reading and till then, as mentioned, she will go thru all pains to siam him!

你的命会一直很苦的
你赚的钱左手进右手出也不久的
你最后的一天，也没有人会在你生边

Same also on the second reading when she just came back this Jan.
So, if you were me, you know what's in store, wouldnt you wanna go all out to prevent that day from coming??????
That's Y i also 希望她能过得好
Dun have to be my wife, like that, at least i can have my peace of mind....hope you know wat i mean.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Shiok rite, damn ego booster hor...hehehehe glad you understand the power of that now...heheheh you damn MCP le

Hehee, after you sifu


Btw bro, do u think u're "washing clothes" in public? good read though

[wodemama]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Btw, I tried yr tactics on my gal. eg. asking who she belonged to while making out, sounds damn satisfying.
Shiok rite, damn ego booster hor...hehehehe glad you understand the power of that now...heheheh you damn MCP le

bro, any more tips on how we should run our stable. How to lead them into voluntary submission?

[Wooden_Handle]

Bro DYBJ, your sifu prediction really a big blow to the head, and if she doesnt want to change her mindset to keep scheming others, that will be her terrible outcome.

This reminded me of a real story in another country, there was a crazy woman wondering around on streets, wearing anything being discarded and eat anything that she could found in rubbish bins. She was certified crazy as some people pitied her tried gave her some food but she threw it away. Heard from some older people that she was very pretty during her young, with lots of bfs, hooked up with rich guys one after another, after finally settled down with someone but later may be the guy die or else, she left with no $$$ and a mental breakdown, in the end wondering around on streets.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

你的命会一直很苦的
你赚的钱左手进右手出也不久的
你最后的一天，也没有人会在你生边

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

Hehee, after you sifu
Btw bro, do u think u're "washing clothes" in public? good read though

No bro porche, i dun feel that it's washing dirty linen in public.
To me, sharing this will also help see and also, maybe understand what goes on in a life or mentality or way of thinking of a WL, thus, if it can or might help someone in his current ordeal or future ordeal, he can recap on this and maybe find an answer or way out from what he read and maybe, learnt from my plight.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by wodemama

bro, any more tips on how we should run our stable. How to lead them into voluntary submission?

It all depends on several factors how you can allow this to be a successful union of having all under one roof.

1) You must and have to be always in control..aka, emperor like that
2) Your women must be smart....no matter how much they love you, they must have brains. Simpleton women will not be able to cope with this at all.
3) Imagine this as you've seen in many movies, if my man has another woman in her life, i can
a) bitch about it everyday & nite till my husband so scared of my nagging that he'll prolly go and end up with the new love he found
b) sad, yes, but accept her gracefully & by doing this, not only prevent yourself loosing your man, in his heart, you actually gain more power & status for being so big hearted
4) Prepare to see some form of politics between the women but do not allow it to affect you in any way, their fight is expected but make it a general consensus that you will not tolerate this within your family
5) Do not show any signs of favouritism to anyone anytime. Treat all equally as much as possible. That includes going out for dinners, movies, shopping etc, always move as a unit unless they themselves do not wish to go there and then
6) Most importantly, the fine tuning never ends, I'm still learning by the way.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Wooden_Handle

Bro DYBJ, your sifu prediction really a big blow to the head, and if she doesnt want to change her mindset to keep scheming others, that will be her terrible outcome.

This reminded me of a real story in another country, there was a crazy woman wondering around on streets, wearing anything being discarded and eat anything that she could found in rubbish bins. She was certified crazy as some people pitied her tried gave her some food but she threw it away. Heard from some older people that she was very pretty during her young, with lots of bfs, hooked up with rich guys one after another, after finally settled down with someone but later may be the guy die or else, she left with no $$$ and a mental breakdown, in the end wondering around on streets.

I know what you mean.
I saw a clip of somewat the same but a little twist in the story on liveleak.com

A farmer was so in love wif one gal who refused to marry him cos of his povery that he went mad.
Since then till now, 40yrs later, he will be CHAINED to the tree by his only family member left, his mother everytime she need to go out of the house to tend to the farm etc
Love is beautiful & it can also destroy one.
It's a cure to many things and it can also be a curse it you allow it to run your life.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Dunno why, my gut tells me she didnt leave but switch joints and moved house cos she got no face to face the other housemates liao & the incident at her place would have been world news at her work place by now thus very no face to stay on there for she's a very FACE important person....no reason to bail our island cos she not in any form of danger.

And here we go, i was wif sifu again yesterday. His calculation is as per my gut feeling.
She is still on the island. So all these go back to PRC thing and termination of phone numbers was just a smoke bomb.
So, since she decided to do this, i decided to do something a little extra to mentally stress her without even telling her.
I passed a msg to a singer to pass to the singer who's her bedmate and it is:

"I know you're still here, calculated by sifu & me!"
That was it.
This shud freak her out for a while hehehehehe

Anyways, i was thinking how i can help her never come back to this line and so was in discussion wif sifu yest.
I suggested things like buying a louse in her sole name or like giving her a very tok kong mthly allowance. As mentioned earlier, the sight or news that 她过得好is enuff to bring peace to my heart.
Sifu's reply was, as usual, a thorn to my heart.
Yes this you can do & very gracious of you but if you do it, do not expect anything in return. I replied, of cos not, she dun even have to be wif me. She can marry someone, have a kid, like this at least i know she's clipped her wings. Sifu said, if she ever does appear again, just dun be disappointed. DAMN! Means no point liao....That's just her. Have you ever wondered that we, as in normal people think that what she's goin through is very 苦but have you ever tot she doesnt feel that way? She kinda feels good, always very wanted by men, always being treated like a goddess by men, men always drooling at her....to her it's 幸福. But one day, when the home run comes, the impact will be so big on her that she'll got no choice but to learn and accept everything thus live a life of seclusion till her end. Hear this again, heart sour sour

Sifu also said, she never wants to hurt you one, but she never thinks or understands that her actions will somewhat have an impact on your emotions, big or small, thus her selfish self.
She has a spirit in her, other than herself, literally hor..which always can be seen when the 180degs transformation takes place occasionally. Women in lives of vice, as magnets to negative energy and once one finds that their victims is like that, they'll cling to her and will not let go no matter what till it finally controls the soul one day. That's why, when it was scheduled for us to meet last week, sifu already predicted that she wont appear but still, prepared the necessary tools to dispel this thing from her, but since her own mortal free will not to do anything about it, nothing can be helped.

So for now, this chapter is closed, awaiting the beginning of the next chapter.