Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[qguy]

Originally Posted by Niceman

TS though we duno how old are you, wisdom dun go along with age, it goes with experiences. U go find out yourself. gl hf

There is indeed a cure for stupidity, the drug is "批酸" (right word)?

砒霜 is what ya's looking for..

批酸 seems to be a new type of china made yoghurt though

Hey TS, GO lah GO lah..quick quick go,quick quick share juicy FR here lah!!!

[strikeking73]

If you dare to Fuck a chick, dare to take a risk, why still scare kana kiddnap or play out in china. If you ready love her, go all the way out, why u dun believe her? It only take two things Alive or Death - Believe or not to Believe.
Everythings got the kama.

[Niceman]

Originally Posted by strikeking73

If you dare to Fuck a chick, dare to take a risk, why still scare kana kiddnap or play out in china. If you ready love her, go all the way out, why u dun believe her? It only take two things Alive or Death - Believe or not to Believe.
Everythings got the kama.

1/2 right.... alive or dead. No need bother about Karma. This world karma is meant to scare ppl only.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Yes it is true no matter what anyone say, i am still determined to go over, reason begin I need to see for myself if the things she told me are of any truth as now i fall in love with her.

You have fallen in love with a PROSTITUTE??? You must really be nuts.

What are you going to do??? Marry her??? Are you going to tell your children that mummy is a PROSTITUTE???

If your daughter wants to follow mummy's footsteps when she turns 18, what are you going to say?

When your friend told you that he fucked your wife for less than $100, will you feel a sense of pride?

When you're out with her in public and other men cast a glance in her direction, will you be wondering that they could well be one of her regular customers?

If she feels you don't give her enough money so she starts selling her cheebye again to make up the difference, won't it worry you that she might pass you HIV?

If you have to travel on business or work and the two of you are apart for a couple of weeks, how would you know whether there are men sleeping in your bed and enjoying your wife for a small sum?

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

You have fallen in love with a PROSTITUTE??? You must really be nuts.

What are you going to do??? Marry her??? Are you going to tell your children that mummy is a PROSTITUTE???

If your daughter wants to follow mummy's footsteps when she turns 18, what are you going to say?

When your friend told you that he fucked your wife for less than $100, will you feel a sense of pride?

When you're out with her in public and other men cast a glance in her direction, will you be wondering that they could well be one of her regular customers?

If she feels you don't give her enough money so she starts selling her cheebye again to make up the difference, won't it worry you that she might pass you HIV?

If you have to travel on business or work and the two of you are apart for a couple of weeks, how would you know whether there are men sleeping in your bed and enjoying your wife for a small sum?

yes it all boils down if i trust her or not she wont revert back to her old ways, it takes 2 hands to clap she also need to trust me that after i marry her i wont come out for tryst.

It really takes a lot of trust & patience to fully accept a woman who have work in this line b4. Since i willing to go down this path not endorse by a lot of ppl, i have to bear with all the shit that comes with it also.

If true happiness comes with a lot of shit attached to it,I dont mind going down on my hands & knees to clean the shit as long I can tahan the shit...

[天龙八步]

I think you will say this now, but am sure you will regret later on. Anyway, its your life, we can only say best wishes to you .... and BTW, since you love her so much, can just go to China ... no worries lah, you should be willing to sacrifice your life for her ....

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

yes it all boils down if i trust her or not she wont revert back to her old ways, it takes 2 hands to clap she also need to trust me that after i marry her i wont come out for tryst.

It really takes a lot of trust & patience to fully accept a woman who have work in this line b4. Since i willing to go down this path not endorse by a lot of ppl, i have to bear with all the shit that comes with it also.

If true happiness comes with a lot of shit attached to it,I dont mind going down on my hands & knees to clean the shit as long I can tahan the shit...

Good luck to you... My GF accepts that man will come out and play but lay down the condition that I can only do it when she is on RED or not around BUT muz have condom and play safe.

Trust and patience is secondary.. what u need most is to relocate ... She told me the same thing, she will not come SG in the next few years as she does not want people to recognise her so that is also why she use "nickname" for customer and not her real name.

Dun think (too much) about the shit that comes with it... but do know that clearing it on a daily basis will create tension in r/s

Most impt, if both of you are serious. Please dun break her heart after she opens up to you... They put on a facade in this job for a reason...

Xiao Yee was in a bad mood when i met her the last time and she told me.." Who likes to be fucked by different man each day, if they can help it"... I agree! So dun play with feelings.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

yes it all boils down if i trust her or not she wont revert back to her old ways, it takes 2 hands to clap she also need to trust me that after i marry her i wont come out for tryst.

I am thinking of banning morons in this forum. I think I'll need to come up with some sort of declaration form as part of the sign up process whereby a potential forum member declares that he has an IQ of at least 40.

However, I can assure that your wonderful wife to be will not revert to her old ways because she won't give them up in the first place. Any girl who makes a decision to become a WHORE has serious character defects that will remain for life.

I can also assure you that you won't change your ways either. You may take a break from fucking whores for a period of time but once the lovey dovey stuff wears off, you'll be back to fucking prostitutes like there is no tomorrow.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Xiao Yee was in a bad mood when i met her the last time and she told me.." Who likes to be fucked by different man each day, if they can help it"... I agree! So dun play with feelings.

"if they can help it"??? Come on you really believe this shit!

Girls don't become whores by chance or because they are forced into it. They sell their cheebyes because it is the easiest way for them to make a quick buck with minimum effort.

If they tell you they did it because they were broke and had sick children, husband, uncle, grandfather etc, it's an insult to all our ancestors who arrived in Singapore with nothing more than the clothes on their backs and survived by doing hard but honest work to put food on the table and buy books for their kids.

[MichaelWinn]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

It's not uncommon for them to have many strings...of wealth, meaning more than one man.
So you go up, come back, next better player goes up and so on.......their time management is quite impressive.....so good that many here get fooled to think their PRC chick there is faithful
who or what can be beside her....

and I'm sure you'll smell a rat sooner or later..Good luck

totally agreeed, their time management is very high skilled
i know a few china girls who have different spore boyfriends visit them at different times of the year, the girl will tell each bf which period they are free or convenient and other periods they need to look after her child,mother,etc..

[aturbo]

Hi TS,

Regarding your visit to Shenyang and your GF....

Pls note shenyang is quite far away way up in the north-east, go look up more info on this city and get to know their culture, etc....one thing for sure the character of dongbei ppl are very straight forward in nature.....so if your GF has any hint of lying to you...my advice is to trust your 6th sense and not your dick.

From what you have said, etc I have been there, experienced and done all that. Trust no one in the land of the dragon....their local ppl get conned all the time...everyday crimes are aplenty, many unreported cos it is just their way of life. Shenyang is a 2nd tier city apart from beijing, shanghai and shenzhen so it is quite a cosmopolitan city compared to other cities.

Food and cost of living still way cheaper, $1k sgd more than enough for 5 days but be advised that credit cards are not accepted at 90% of all places even hotels unless you stay in a 5 star international hotel. FYI, the gongan in these olimpic host cities has been conducting raids on hotels leading up to the opening of the games...therefore staying in a hotel with your GF is a violation of their law and both of you will be brought back to the station and fined.

to cut it short, i suggest you:

1. Get to know your GF better (3-4 weeks and u can trust someone...be more realistic lah)
2. Let her go home first then fly there to meet her
3. Whether u wanna book a hotel yourself and stay at her place up to you (check her reaction to this, you can more or less gauage her intentions and how she views your relationship to her)
4. Let friends and/or family members know of your whereabouts
5. If u can do all these then go and have fun and treat it as going for a holiday cum visiting a friend.

Best of luck bro, hope i can be of help to u!

[boysaigon]

there are good people and there are bad people....

...i have seen fren married WL and lived happily ever after and i have seen fren married teacher and kana screwed up side down...(lost hdb and more...)

having said that...4 weeks to know a person is like buying 4D...there are people who kana big big...but i always missed a number or 2....

...treat her with respect and who knows you might kana your 1st price...but there again...there are 9999/10000 chances that you dont lah...

just be very careful if your mind is set to go back with her. Dong Bei people are very direct and warm...and they drink much too...if u r not the best drink ..be very careful ...getting drunk in a foreign land is not very funny...esp you dont really know who you are with!

it is also wise to spend bit bit more to stay in a 'safe' hotel.

[colins]

Bro azzaro, you really are adventurous. Both for travelling to Shenyang and to dare love the girl.

Place-wise, Shenyang is now quite tamed unlike couple of years ago when murder is just an inconvenience to get the rmb in your wallet. Olympics helped a lot. It'll be quite safe provided you stay out of the night-spots (esp out of women's street) and out of the streets at night. The local stories is that the snatch thieves say hello with a farmer's long curve knife tied to a long pole, and slit your throat from far behind so they can check your wallet while you bleed to death. Now probably better la, but how much better, you need to see how low it was that they started from.

As for the girl, you have plenty of reasons to go all the way out for her, dude. I think you really like her. Really ready to give up everything for her. Even give her everything she wants, probably including your life.

I've been in love with a lady from Shenyang before. If I cut short from page one to end page, I'll tell you that I gave her up even though I know she loves me, and I did love her very dearly. Like you, I can give everything.

I wasn't a very trusting person, and I even trusted her. Until one night, when I call her mobile phone and overheard a conversation between her and one of her friends. She answered her phone unknowingly and at that time was chatting with a guy on QQ. She was asking that friend to come out. She said 'if you just tell me once that it is your gf that is stopping you from coming out with me, I will never bother you again.'

It may mean something, it may not. But we were in a relationship. I realised that if I can give a reason to believe, I would and can forget about the whole thing. If I want to distrust, this event is also enough to call it quits.

But one thing kept me bothered, and in the end I realised what it was. It was the fact that I can never know her enough. Our backgrounds are too different. If I am a person who finds it hard to trust another, that sort of difference will be torturous. Many a times, events are always neither here nor there so stark naked for you to say, hmmmm she's a cheat. But you must get enough sense in your mind to tell you where is your limit. So consider this, if you trust a person so much, loved a person so much, placed her as your only object of ambition, wouldnt it be logical to say you know her well? Becos if you dun, and one day she betrays you to the dogs, can you take the suffering? This is not like what you say, take the shit and clean it if you can. This is reliving the betrayal every single waking moment for at least a couple of months in your life. The worst thing is, the circumstances of uncertainty makes you so damn unsure becos you remain confused, which not only keep you guessing for months, but the bloody rest of your life, on why must she lie to you when you love her so much.

So I hope you found a good girl, that 1% amongst the WL who are good. And I hope you can trust her. Lastly, if you can, wait a while longer. You can retain more logic to think for your own self this way.

[aczeta76]

Hey bro.. nice to see your post.

Actually.. me also taking my trip to ZH as a gauge as I dun know wat we can talk about.. limited topics

Anyway, she said she will bring me around tourist areas and tour tour so I see how well we get together minus the GL influence lah.

[Konsortium]

Not very safe, they may dig away all your money, so just be careful.