Why are you hooked to your girl (WL)?

[lament]

Bane of A Cheongster's:Our Nemesis

sorry i wait for u but no action so i start this ...maybe can ask sammy to link both our threads together....

Originally Posted by japboy

2 perspectives frm 2 different camp...
a) a sensual perspective...
b) a lustful perspective...

this 2 views are very interesting .....

for most of us, great sex is sometimes wrongly interpreted as great love but then this are WL so its the same with other guys u never know.......

love from sensual perspective is tougher, but can be great if approached from the non-lustful point of view. In a view this is not easy cos our big bro are the one controlling us .....

so 1 must segreagate our the feelings to be sure of wat 1 wans ...

[japboy]

Originally Posted by TooFast

There's just no way to tell if they are true to you, is there?

gut feelings loh.... unless u hire a PI to monitor her movements while u r not ard to check who is she going out w....

well, ur WL may b smart n lie low 4 a while as she either genuinely love u o dat she jz wanna avoid detection first... maybe she'll go back 2 d trade on FL basis due 2 a few reasons:
a) family got problems but dun wanna tell u as u may not be able 2 handle it.
b) got another giggolo outside she fancied (another lau gong)...
c) getting lonely as u work all d time (not enuff sex)... etc...

i've seen cases of pple WL got settled down for goot.. n oso sum dat dun turn out dat well.... how d fella suspected it? well, same as how gals suspect us... new hobbies lah, new group of frenz lah, etc...

[sdol v2]

Let me try to relate my own personal experience with WLs.. I, for one, don't really go for different WLs.. usually stick to one when there is chemistry and we both feel comfortable with each other.. the first one i got stuck with, was like 3 years back.. at that time it was more the lust than the love.. more the various sexual positions and her willingness than anything else that made her come back to her.. and of course the free bonks after a few paid sessions.. but after a while.. it became obvious that she was sticking with me more for the money than anything else.. but i understood her situation - twice divorced, three schooling kids and a mother to look after.. tried to support her for some time, even helped her pay off some loans without her knowledge but had to "pull handbrake" after my wife gave birth and spent less time with her.. so it died a natural death..

Recently in the midst of some marital problems.. went back to the HC where she worked and tried out another girl.. the former's good friend in fact.. this girl was of course surprised that i requested for her instead of her friend.. and asked if i wanted to switch.. anyway there was chemistry between me and her too.. but having kena bitten once, i didn't want to spend too much of my resources with her.. the bonk is better though.. but so is the bond.. she is married with 4 kids.. but having some marital problems.. we became quite close partially because i was on reservist and had the opportunity to visit her everynight.. not for the bonk but more for the companionship.. confide in each other on our problems .. have to say with her advice my married life is better than ever now.. but we are still close, picking her up and sending her to her workplace or having lunch whenever i could.. especially since my nature of work is such that i have to be mobile most of the time.. i dare say there's less lust but more love now with this one.. we seldom bonk but when we do it's like the national day fireworks..

Didn't stop her from working at the HC or bonking her customers.. i know the nature of her work but can't stop her.. no right to stop her from doing it.. but she told me all about her customers.. never hide from me... she confessed it's for the money to support her kids and utilities (abusive good for nothing husband never gives her a single cent from his pay).. but unlike the other girl, she never asked me for money..

The previous girl of course was aware of my relationship with this one.. we maintained diplomacy with each other.. no hard feelings..

Why am i hooked to her? It's the comfort.. the closeness.. the bond that we share.. even though we know that we can't be together unless our marriages break up, something which we both do not want.. it's been exactly a month.. so i guess it's still the honeymoon period..

sorry if i bore u guys with my story

[lament]

Originally Posted by sdol v2

The previous girl of course was aware of my relationship with this one.. we maintained diplomacy with each other.. no hard feelings..

Why am i hooked to her? It's the comfort.. the closeness.. the bond that we share.. even though we know that we can't be together unless our marriages break up, something which we both do not want.. it's been exactly a month.. so i guess it's still the honeymoon period..

interesting ....its the bond that was build up when our "elder bro" is in control but then our "small bro" takes over ....

i do agree with wat u say "the comfort & closeness" ......

[basejumper]

Originally Posted by sdol v2

Let me try to relate my own personal experience with WLs.. I, for one, don' while.. it became obvious that she was sticking with me more for the money than anything else.. but i understood her situation - twice divorced, three schooling kids and a mother to look after.. tried to support her for some time, even helped her pay off some loans without her knowledge but had to "pull handbrake" after my wife gave birth and spent less time with her.. so it died a natural death..

Recently in the midst of some marital problems.. went back to the HC where she worked and tried out another girl.. the former's good friend in fact.. this girl was of course surprised that i requested for her instead of her friend.. and asked if i wanted to switch.. anyway there was chemistry between me and her too.. but having kena bitten once, i didn't want to spend too much of my resources with her.. the bonk is better though.. but so is the bond.. she is married with 4 kids.. but having some marital problems.. we became quite close partially because i was on reservist and had the opportunity to visit her eve
of work is such that i have to be mobile most of the time.. i dare say there's less lust but more love now with this one.. we seldom bonk but when we do it's like the national day fireworks..

sorry if i bore u guys with my story

sounds like wl i know....hmm...brown sugars?

[japboy]

Originally Posted by basejumper

sounds like wl i know....hmm...brown sugars?

hahahah .... sentiments alike... i do keep a few such companys ard... useful esp. when mi reservist turns up... almost like once in a blue moon den we meet... but circumstances always force pple 2 do things they dun like... haiz..

[sdol v2]

Originally Posted by basejumper

sounds like wl i know....hmm...brown sugars?

Yeah the same brown sugars.. confirmed u know them.. i wonder how many more brudders know them..

Originally Posted by japboy

hahahah .... sentiments alike... i do keep a few such companys ard... useful esp. when mi reservist turns up... almost like once in a blue moon den we meet... but circumstances always force pple 2 do things they dun like... haiz..

ur guess may be as accurate as basejumper's too.. but i won't divulge her identity here..

anyways.. was wondering.. if brown sugar refers to minahs.. what would be an appropriate term to refer to the guys? brown rods? heheh

[snipeshot08]

Sometimes we wana just get pampered by somebody different, other than our wives or gfs, especially if it is those SYTs types, sure kena hooked for a couple of months, before moving to the next target...

Cheers...

[lament]

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

Sometimes we wana just get pampered by somebody different, other than our wives or gfs, especially if it is those SYTs types, sure kena hooked for a couple of months, before moving to the next target...

Cheers...

i think wat we crave for is just TLC and the feeling of being in love again ....

[wahpiang]

Originally Posted by sexlover

Hello hello wahpiang,,, u hijack my Jit Poon Kia to go sian Viet gir,,, how is the going??? Got result?

paiseh for late reply. bz CNY. i got hijack him meh???

well, there is no result cos i dun go and sian viet gers... i just have my drink and appreciate the eye candy.. hehe!!!

[wahpiang]

comfort, closeness, bonding, different treatment from gf/wife ... all seem to be the key words. knowing that it is most likely (cannot say never right?) not going to end up a stable relationship, yet we stll fall headlong into it. guess bro lament is right. small bro is the starting factor in most cases.

If the girl is horny, calls you up for a quickie (paid or free), would you resist? guess not. hehe! anyway, thanks for sharing your experiences. there must be many other bros who have similar experiences. To all, good luck and Happy CNY!

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by wahpiang

If the girl is horny, calls you up for a quickie (paid or free), would you resist? guess not.

well said.. lol

[lament]

Originally Posted by wahpiang

comfort, closeness, bonding, different treatment from gf/wife ... all seem to be the key words. knowing that it is most likely (cannot say never right?

this is the feeling we all craves for which well though we may have our own lives with our loved ones, real gf & wifes but the years of togetherness have eroded its importance and sorta degrade the feeling to something we take for granted ......

when something new comes around, it rekindles that feelings in us once more and thats wat some craves for whether its real or surreal

Originally Posted by wahpiang

not going to end up a stable relationship, yet we stll fall headlong into it. guess bro lament is right. small bro is the starting factor in most cases.

bro ..to me small brother is the 1 on the neck when it comes to gals, the big brother is the one between our legs ....

people often mistook great sex for great love .... but years of bonking have brought me to realise that it is not the case ...

Originally Posted by wahpiang

If the girl is horny, calls you up for a quickie (paid or free), would you resist? guess not.

well if its free, i will never resist and if she pays me, i m delighted .....

[wahpiang]

Originally Posted by lament

but years of bonking.....

wah! non-stop huh? your stamina damn good leh!! hehe!

think most brothers cannot resist free bonks. keke! wait till one offers you free or even pay but look like kena lorry run over then you will know.

[lament]

Originally Posted by wahpiang

wah! non-stop huh? your stamina damn good leh!! hehe

thats y tired of sex liao mah ....old & no stamina liao mah ..... ha ha ha

Originally Posted by wahpiang

think most brothers cannot resist free bonks. keke! wait till one offers you free or even pay but look like kena lorry run over then you will know.

why cannot resist ....learn to do so .... look at me .... i still maintain my below 21 guidelines no matter how bad it is